I sympathise entirely, I know exactly what you are going through, I have the
same problem.  Mine is pain and worry about getting more pain over wanting
to make my wonderful husband happy.  We have only been married six years and
my husband is 14 years younger than me, so the problem seems somehow
greater.  He says he is prepared to wait for me to be ready, but for how
long?  As has been said, I know about the use it or lose it problem,
sometimes we have to do things for others that may be a problem for us, to
keep things "normal" whatever that is.  ;>)  Good luck

Janet AKA SnakeLady

Beverley
It's a problem.  February's Prevention magazine really got me thinking about
it.  The majority of the  magazine is about sex and how important it is to a
marriage.

He has no libido problems at all.  In fact, I literally beat him off of me.

I have NO idea what to do.  There are a lot of issues, many he refuses to
accept (he never does anything wrong)  I know that's a huge part... I'm
getting angry even thinking about it right now.
Nicole

This is a serious subject. Sex is very much a part of our life and when the
drive/desire is gone for any number of reasons it can effect the
marriage/union if both partners are not willing to talk and work on the
problem.

How does your husband feel about you lack of desire? Is this a problem?
Bev

How often do you have sex?
I'm serious.  I have NO sex drive (granted, my husband hasn't figured out
that the biggest sex organ is my brain), no desire, nothing.

I know it's a combo of body image issues, meds, pain, etc.

It's been over a month.  Sigh
Nicole