Candi,

Have your husband tested for testosterone with his next PSA test. It sounds
like his might be a little low. It's normal for it to fall as men age but
some men drop it sooner than others. Also medications can effect libido such
as beta blockers and diabetic meds.
Bev

Oy, yes, it is touchy. Mary answered so I'll jump on the bandwagon. If
anyone responds, please try to remember to delete this in case my hubby is
reading over my shoulder. He's very nosy.

My friends crack up about my sex life. They buy me batteries for my
birthday. NOT kidding.

OK, you asked how often we have sex. Twice last year. TWICE. Again, NOT
kidding. And also not my fault. And I've never cheated & never will.
Evidently, my hubby has a very low sex drive, even tho he's a big macho
kinda guy. He even used to be a bouncer that no one could beat. I've tried
everything from leaving a trail of clothes from the front door to the
bedroom, greeting him in a french apron, to nasty movies. Anyway, maybe my
drive is off now too, because it doesn't bother me much any more. So no,
you're not weird. But I can make a suggestion.

Get a shower massage!

Candi

How often do you have sex?
I'm serious.  I have NO sex drive (granted, my husband hasn't figured out
that the biggest sex organ is my brain), no desire, nothing.

I know it's a combo of body image issues, meds, pain, etc.

It's been over a month.  Sigh
Nicole