Nichole,
I'm going to suggest counseling if the two of you cannot work this out
between you. But since it sounds as if you two have talked about it and are
obviously getting no where then counseling seems to be appropriate. As for
things you might be able to do and ways to compromise, well, I'd rather take
it off the group as I feel it would be too explicit for this newsgroup. So
if you want to discuss this further please contact me directly.
Bev

Beverley
It's a problem.  February's Prevention magazine really got me thinking about
it.  The majority of the  magazine is about sex and how important it is to a
marriage.

He has no libido problems at all.  In fact, I literally beat him off of me.

I have NO idea what to do.  There are a lot of issues, many he refuses to
accept (he never does anything wrong)  I know that's a huge part... I'm
getting angry even thinking about it right now.
Nicole

This is a serious subject. Sex is very much a part of our life and when the
drive/desire is gone for any number of reasons it can effect the
marriage/union if both partners are not willing to talk and work on the
problem.

How does your husband feel about you lack of desire? Is this a problem?
Bev

How often do you have sex?
I'm serious.  I have NO sex drive (granted, my husband hasn't figured out
that the biggest sex organ is my brain), no desire, nothing.

I know it's a combo of body image issues, meds, pain, etc.

It's been over a month.  Sigh
Nicole