Resentment can cancel libido.
He's a selfish pest who doesn' t have a clue what women (and specifically
Nicole) wants and needs.
Once he educates himself or talks with you, eye to eye, with sentences like
"when you, I feel XXX" (and you the same) and both learn from these exchanges
and make changes, things will improve.
Not before.
Hugs
J

Beverley
It's a problem.  February's Prevention magazine really got me thinking about
it.  The majority of the  magazine is about sex and how important it is to a
marriage.

He has no libido problems at all.  In fact, I literally beat him off of me.

I have NO idea what to do.  There are a lot of issues, many he refuses to
accept (he never does anything wrong)  I know that's a huge part... I'm
getting angry even thinking about it right now.
Nicole

This is a serious subject. Sex is very much a part of our life and when the
drive/desire is gone for any number of reasons it can effect the
marriage/union if both partners are not willing to talk and work on the
problem.

How does your husband feel about you lack of desire? Is this a problem?
Bev

How often do you have sex?
I'm serious.  I have NO sex drive (granted, my husband hasn't figured out
that the biggest sex organ is my brain), no desire, nothing.

I know it's a combo of body image issues, meds, pain, etc.

It's been over a month.  Sigh
Nicole