guess I was speechless...my drive is down but I blame it on
Zoloft....hope
you find some balance in this

                                 wish u bliss,
                                            Jenn

read Lady Chatterley's Lover (or something similar that turns you on, in bed each
night, be a little aloof and engrossed in the book, make ooh and ahs sounds.
make orgasmic sounds while eating
make a tape of songs that turn you each on. (that way, you'll be off when he's on
and vice versa..just kidding)
if you go out to dinner, somewhere, don't wear underwear and if you feel well
enough, invite him for a quickie in the bathroom or the back of a van, if you have
one (make sure there's a clean mattress there).
tell him you expect him to call you every day with a sexy message/voice.
J

Oy, yes, it is touchy. Mary answered so I'll jump on the bandwagon. If
anyone responds, please try to remember to delete this in case my hubby is
reading over my shoulder. He's very nosy.

My friends crack up about my sex life. They buy me batteries for my
birthday. NOT kidding.

OK, you asked how often we have sex. Twice last year. TWICE. Again, NOT
kidding. And also not my fault. And I've never cheated & never will.
Evidently, my hubby has a very low sex drive, even tho he's a big macho
kinda guy. He even used to be a bouncer that no one could beat. I've tried
everything from leaving a trail of clothes from the front door to the
bedroom, greeting him in a french apron, to nasty movies. Anyway, maybe my
drive is off now too, because it doesn't bother me much any more. So no,
you're not weird. But I can make a suggestion.

Get a shower massage!

Candi

How often do you have sex?
I'm serious.  I have NO sex drive (granted, my husband hasn't figured out
that the biggest sex organ is my brain), no desire, nothing.

I know it's a combo of body image issues, meds, pain, etc.

It's been over a month.  Sigh
Nicole