some coated lenses (eg crizal alize and other similar products) have
anti-static anti-smudge qualities - should help a lot.

There isn't.

Some patients do better with uncoated lenses and others do better with
the highest quality A/R coatings with hydrophobic coatings such as
Hoya's Super HiVision or Essilor's Crizal Alize.

However, the glasses are only one part of the problem.  You need to
address the other parts if you desire an optimal solution:

1.  Quit touching your lenses.
2.  Take a shower at least daily using a soap that breaks down the oil
on your skin (e.g., white DIAL bar soap).
3.  Shampoo your hair at least daily using an anti-dandruff shampoo.

In other words, NO LENS ONLY solution is likely to solve your problem.

I have several patients like you and, with almost no exception, they
do not do 2 and 3 for some reason.

Contact lenses or try seeing a dermatologist.  The problem is the oil
and dandruff on your skin, not the lenses.

Judy

There is no such thing as smudge proof lenses. Don't touch lenses.