Everyone here knows who I am, I went by youidiota and now I go by
Chinesemale or Asianmale or something of the like.  I have not seen my
little cousin but would guess that he is around the age of seven.  I
have heard that he is squinting a lot.  His mother is asian but she is
20/20.  His father is Jewish and got glasses at the age of seven, his
father also got Lasik at the age of around 35 and now plays computer
games and guitar a lot.

I have heard that in one year he has not grown at all, and that all he
wants to eat are junk foods and sweets.  I have also heard that he is
involved in martial arts.  I do not know if my family will ever let me
make contact with his family ever again because when I used to see him
I would wrestle with him.  My family also thinks I might have a temper
tantrum at a "family gathering".

I have discussed the prospect of "assisting" my cousin to my mother.
My mother promptly uttered, "But [myname], maybe they don't want your
help".  One time she told me to, "shut up".  My mom seems most cruel
when talking about the subject of myopia.  She seems most inconsiderate
of my feelings when talking about myopia, yet whenever we get in an
arguement about it I always win.

For example she stated that I got myopia from computer games, when I
got myopia before I ever got computer games, about 4 years before I got
computer games, actually.  I think I got myopia from reading Garfield
on the bed lying down on my belly, yet she thinks nothing of this.  I
also think I got myopia from having no windows, and that also does not
correlate to her; yet she herself admits that her vision rapidly
deteriorated when reading the bible incessantly.  She is obviously not
thinking logically, and is obviously talking her feelings, not talking
her logic, of which she has none.

My "mother", of which I am disgusted by, when confronted with the
"concept" that she did nothing to prevent my myopia, replied promptly,
"Well, we didn't know about [it]".  Yet she will still not accept that
it is preventable at-the-moment.  That really makes me want to barf
into a "hypocrite-bag".  With the usage of the phrase, "well, we didn't
know about it", she implies that she believes in myopia prevention.
But in the present, when I suggest that my cousin be "assisted", she
abruptly goes, for lack of a better term, "nuts".

Another hypocritical thing my parents did was to be overprotective.
They said that I should have spent more time outdoors, yet they are the
ones who would not let me.  They would scare me with things like aliens
on the TV, the dark, and bad peopel.  Nowadays I scoff at my parents.
We live in a safe area, and I do not think people molest average
looking asian males.  Now I feel cheated, cheated out of good looks
and, cheated out of my vision.

If someone were to make a collage, per se, of the things that my
parents said about myopia, they would conflict.  They, said that I
should go outside, to get some distance vision exercise, yet, they made
it so that I had no windows.  They said that I should go outside, yet,
they were highly overprotective and still to this very day ask where I
went, and say they were worried about me.  Well it is obvious that they
are not worried about my vision or my looks and simply made me so that
I would be a failure in life.  They say that computer games ruined my
eyes, when they are the ones that helped me buy them and they are the
ones that encouraged me to read at the age of four, which is the
original culprit of my development of myopia.

Obviously my parents will not take the blame, and tell me to worry
about something that can be corrected.  Obviously they will not accept
the fact that Lenscrafters lied to them, and that they were wrong, and
they were in the dark their whole lives about vision, and they never
had internet.  Obviously they are not thinking clearly, I on the other
hand am thinking very logically.  If, one day, my cousin, who might be
a migit, has to wear glasses as well, and then he figures out that his
nearsightedness was preventable, and that I, knew how to prevent it; he
would be very angry with me and the entire family.  I believe it is my
responsibility to save his sight.  But maybe he will doing fine, his
father, after all was the one who told me that people's eyesight are
not genetic, but rather based on their activities.  He talked about why
a sailor never wore glasses, as opposed to how a rabbi always wore
glasses, and had myopia, for reading books.  At first I disputed this
to be, for lack of a better explantaion, "absolute crap".  I refused to
accept responsibility for something that Lenscrafters had, outright
lied to me about.  I refused to accept that: either my uncle was right
and the whole world was wrong; as oppsoed to: the whole world was right
and my uncle was wrong.  Now I know better, that my uncle is right.  I
hope my uncle knows enough, to save his own son.  I do not think that
he does.  His statement of the dynamic eye sheds light on this
instance.

They live close by and I think I can figure out they're phone number.