It sounds as if someone managed to nick the skin in your ear and that
is causing the blood.
Your doctor should be able to help you with the hard wax.

But several points in your post pointed to muscle tension.

I imagine that would cause you to be a very tense person. This would
cause your body to tense up.

Then the tension increased (it was already there but you were not
aware of it)

I know some people in this group will disagree violently with me.
But the dizziness and spinning here were a result of extreme muscle
tension.

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 I went to my Dr to get my ears checked yesterday.  I had noticed a
 slight elevation in what I deem as a normal db level of ringing in the
 ears (I have been checked by an ENT, and as a Panic Disorder sufferer,
 it seems I just 'picked' another item about myself that I couldn't
 control in the attempt to bother myself, but that is a whole other
 story) so I figured it was impaction, something I've had before.

 Yes, likely.

 Turns out my right ear was worse than my left when the Dr looked, so
 she first tried some scooping instrument, and I cringed when she tried
 using it in my ear, I tensed up, etc.  I felt real pain from what she
 was doing, and made her stop.  At this point, they tried to syringe,
 something I've also had done in the past.  After 3 syringings with
 water and Hydrogen Peroxide, I became too dizzy to continue and had to
 lie down, the room was spinning as the inner cochlear nerve or
 something was agitated or at least disturbed.

 This skin is very prone to bleeding even when just touched, especially in the bony deeper portion of the ear canal. If you were tensing up and possibly moving, then use of a syringe might be required. You might have become dizzy if the water was not at body temperature. If not, it causes the fluids of the inner ear to undergo convection motion which your brain will interpret as the fact that you are spinning in space. Some people are more sensitive to temperature differences than others. I think this might be the primary cause of your dizziness which was exacerbated by your tension.

 After I came to my senses, the nurse tried 2 more times, I got dizzy
 again, and it was eventually decided that I needed a PX for ear wax
 drops (Zabrox?).  I asked my Dr about the pressure in my ear from the
 water/HP mix, and she said that would subside, which it has to a
 degree.  She also said, in the event I 'gently' turn a Q-Tip in my ear
 when I get home, I might see some blood?  The nurse had also noticed
 what she thought was blood during the syringing the 2nd time, which is
 why I surmise she stopped and got the Dr.

 At any rate, last nite, I gently used some Q-Tips, and once I felt
 ANYTHING was being touched by the Q-Tip end in my ear, I stopped
 probing, and simply turned the Q-Tip in a cicrular motion to see what
 would be on it.  Low and behold, the sides of the Q-Tip's cotton had
 fresh blood on it.  I did this enough times to get about 7 blood
 samples.

 Did my Dr majorly screw up when she probed my ear with the scooper, and
 possible cut into my inner ears outer skin, ie the wall of my inner
 ear?

 Hardly a major screw up. The ear canal is far removed from the inner ear. Your inner ear wasn't touched by her instruments.

 I have to stress that I DON'T normally use Q-Tips at all, I seem to be
 the only person outside of the fine folks in this group, that actually
 believes/knows, that Q-Tips, when used too aggressively, can EASILY
 push the wax back further into the canal.  I was merely using them as a
 probe for the alleged blood I might find and I stopped entering the
 canal at the first hint of obstruction, then I turned with my fingers
 the Q-Tip as I mentioned, and I got Blood on the cotton.

 I feel I have a very bad case of hard wax impaction, by that I mean,
 when I press on certain areas of my outer ear with my finger, I can
 'feel' discomfort and 'something' inside, something that seems hard.

 Possibly the moving of this 'hard' piece of wax could also have caused
 the skin in the inner ear to slightly tear and bleed???

 Again, this isn't possible. The ear canal and the inner ear are separated by the eardrum and the middle ear. Probing the ear canal with instruments won't cause bleeds in the inner ear.

 I'm asking for input, I've saved the Q-Tip samples with the 'excessive'
 amounts of blood on them, just in case my Dr did not do something
 un-professionally.

 She knew that she nicked you in the first place. It happens and should heal on it's own. From your description, the q-tips had some fresh blood. But you don't mention that there is bloody discharge from your ear canal. So it's likely that by testing with the q-tip all you are doing is re-irritating the nick. Stop testing with q-tips.

 My T is obviously slightly louder at the moment, I'm going to continue
 to use the drops to see what happens there.

 Please Advise, the blood on the Q-Tips with little probing has me
 worried, but, with my Panic Disorder condition, worrying excessively or
 the smallest things is one of my symptoms.

 Yes, you are worrying excessively, possibly because of your Panic Disorder.  

 HNG

Concerning your dizziness:  I have read on other sites that when
irrigating the ear, your need to use blood temperature water.  Too warm
or too cold will cause severe dizziness.

I used to have a lot of wax in my ear.  The way my doc treated it was
to pour a solution with part of the name -Dioxide sounding.  After a
while, the wax was dissolved and came out with the solution.

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Have you tried Hopi ear candles? You can get them in any health shop
these days. You put the candle in your ear and set light to it.

I'm going to be trying that in the next couple of days - I have severe
tinnitus following an ear operation.