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Capt Ron's Obituary

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Captain Ron - 04 Jul 2005 15:21 GMT
Captain Ron Yoli, born and raised in Huntington N.Y. and a former captain in
Montauk's charter boat fleet, died July 1 suddenly and unexpectedly of a
heart attack just before a second honeymoon with his wife, Barbara (Bobbie).
Captain Ron was an avid fisherman, both freshwater and saltwater, and had
moved to Florida four years ago so that he could fish full time.  He was an
active member of the Port Canaveral Captain's Association.

Known for his love of fishing, Captain Ron was an expert tackle designer,
and his fishing lures were still widely used by the Montauk fleet and had
been featured in several national magazines.  Until stricken by a severe
hearing loss and debilitating tinnitus, Ron was co-owner of an advertising
and plastic card company.  He was an avid supporter and counselor to the
many people who were afflicted by the disease of tinnitus.

He is survived by his loving wife of 18 years, Barbara; his brothers
Kenneth, Joseph, Gerald, and Leonard; his nieces, Jen, Laurie and Theresa;
his nephews Andrew, Brian, Kevin, and Matthew; his sisters-in-law Barbara,
Caroline, Mary Lucia and Susan; his brothers-in law James and Jim; and his
cherished little nephews, David and Patrick.

In Florida, visitation will be held Wednesday, July 6 from 5 p.m. - 8 p.m.
at the Wylie-Baxley Funeral Home in Merritt Island, Florida.  A funeral mass
is scheduled at Divine Mercy Church, Merritt Island on the morning of July 7
at 11:00 a.m. with a burial service to follow.  For our many friends on Long
Island, a memorial service will be planned in Montauk, New York.  As soon as
the date for the service in Montauk is finalized, we let all of you know.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be sent in the name of
Captain Ron Yoli to the American Tinnitus Society.

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Cheers
Capt. Ron Yoli
Merritt Island, Florida, USA
Home Of NASA

zuMan - 04 Jul 2005 17:27 GMT
> Captain Ron Yoli, born and raised in Huntington N.Y. and a former captain in
> Montauk's charter boat fleet, died July 1 suddenly and unexpectedly of a
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> Merritt Island, Florida, USA
> Home Of NASA

Thanks. I've got $100 donation to the ATA in Ron's name.
Anyone with me?

Bruce
A little green amphibian - 04 Jul 2005 18:45 GMT
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> I've got $100 donation to the ATA in Ron's name.
> Anyone with me?

I smell fish: strange messages here from his wife, his
Sister-in-law (sic) and even the man himself apparently!
Nothing on his website, nothing in the local rag.

Remember the stalking, remember the threats and the hurt
he caused both here and in real life; remember the
disruption and horrible things he said here.

Cheers hic
Stephen Nagler - 05 Jul 2005 22:03 GMT
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>Cheers hic

................

The reports of Ron's death, the obituary notice, etc. are all
accurate.

smn
J P - 06 Jul 2005 00:10 GMT
I read it this morning in the local paper (The Florida Today.)  A very
nice tribute to him.

jdp
alga - 06 Jul 2005 23:50 GMT
> The reports of Ron's death, the obituary notice, etc. are all
> accurate.

Yes, I see the obit in Florida Today.  Strange messages, though,
that preceeded it here.  Why would his sister-in-law send a message
here?  Why did she, his sister and some unknown person using the
same ISP post as "Captain Ron"?  Why do the members of his family
refer to him as "Captain Ron"?

De mortuis nil nisi bonum and all that, but there was much about
Yoli and his posts that was distinctly rum, and those messages
continued it.

So he died of a massive heart attack.  It doesn't surprise me as he
was mostly apoplectic here, and I suspect in the rest of his life.

Cheers hic
Janice - 08 Dec 2006 03:46 GMT
As a follow up, I am sure uses another name here now. The mental
illness became very apparent toward the end.

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> smn
Stychentyme - 08 Dec 2006 18:01 GMT
He's dead.

> As a follow up, I am sure uses another name here now. The mental illness
> became very apparent toward the end.
The Rev A.C. Byrne - 08 Dec 2006 20:14 GMT
> He's dead.

God rest his soul.
Janice - 11 Dec 2006 00:31 GMT
Really? Did you go to college to learn that?

It wasn't Ron who had the mental illness.

> He's dead.
>
>> As a follow up, I am sure uses another name here now. The mental
>> illness became very apparent toward the end.
Stychentyme - 15 Dec 2006 04:52 GMT
No.  I was told shortly after it happened.

Thanks for the rudeness.  Ron was my friend.

> Really? Did you go to college to learn that?
Janice - 15 Dec 2006 04:59 GMT
Ron was my friend also. Does his friendship somehow nullify your
ability to read?

Did you think your posted information was helpful? The rudeness was
when you burst into a thread making statements that indicate your
complete ignorance of the thread topic.

Could you not even read the title of the thread before interferring?

Now take your ignorant, judgemental,  comments and keep them to
yourself.

> No.  I was told shortly after it happened.
>
> Thanks for the rudeness.  Ron was my friend.
>
>> Really? Did you go to college to learn that?
Stychentyme - 15 Dec 2006 16:46 GMT
> Ron was my friend also. Does his friendship somehow nullify your ability
> to read?
> Did you think your posted information was helpful? The rudeness was when
> you burst into a thread making statements that indicate your complete
> ignorance of the thread topic.

Umm,.... Janice, I never "burst" into your precious thread, and I certainly
never posted anything that warranted your attack, .... and yet you continue
to persist.

> Could you not even read the title of the thread before interferring?
>
> Now take your ignorant, judgemental,  comments and keep them to yourself.

I never made any judgemental comments.  I merely said "he's dead", which is
the truth, and you jumped down my throat.  I made you aware of your
rudeness, and you brought out your claws.  It would seem that YOU are the
one being ignorant and judgemental here, but I have no idea why.

There have been many threads on AST and other boards about Ron since he
died, and it just bugs me.  Let him rest in peace.

This is the reason I rerely post here anymore.  Too many bitter, spiteful
people like yourself.

If Ron was truly your friend, you wouldn't have attacked me like you did.

Oh well.

>> No.  I was told shortly after it happened.
>>
>> Thanks for the rudeness.  Ron was my friend.
>>
>>> Really? Did you go to college to learn that?
Janice - 15 Dec 2006 23:07 GMT
That is quite a twist. How about we clarify something.

You are a troll.

>> Ron was my friend also. Does his friendship somehow nullify your
>> ability to read?
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>>>> Really? Did you go to college to learn that?
Stychentyme - 16 Dec 2006 16:37 GMT
Really? Did you go to college to learn that?

> That is quite a twist. How about we clarify something.
>
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>>>>> Really? Did you go to college to learn that?
Janice - 17 Dec 2006 23:06 GMT
No. I didn't have to. I have seen trolling techniques before. Yours
started with a statement, made to irritate legitimate posters.
Something like "He is dead", when the whole discussion was about his
death, as a factor, in the main topic argument of the thread. You were
either, just being nasty (trolling) to post that or just ignorant of
what is going on in the thread topic  we are discussing.

Now, on top of that you try the "you nasty person" act by implying I
am making a mockery of Ron's death, as a tool to defend your posting
stupidity. You were caught with your pants down here and the attempt
to turn it around also makes you appear as a troll, fishing for a
bite.

I hope that is clear enough for you.

> Really? Did you go to college to learn that?
>
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>>>>>> Really? Did you go to college to learn that?
Stychentyme - 18 Dec 2006 02:23 GMT
I am not a troll.  I have been posting on this, and other boards for years.
I knew Ron.  He was my friend.  As I stated to you.  You can believe this or
not,... I don't care.

He helped me at a time when I had no idea what was happening with me.  His
death was a shock to me, as it was with the others that were close to him.

I explained that I'm tired of hearing all the crap posted by people about
Ron since his death.  My statement was a simple one of fact for all the
"doubters" out there.  This is only one thread of many others I've seen.  As
I said, it bugs me.  You may be a doubter or not,.... I'm not clear on that.
If there was anyone I meant to "irritate," it was those out there who doubt
his death, or wish to insult him when he's not here to defend himself.

Here is another thread I posted in earlier this year on the same topic;

http://www.pahealthsystems.com/printthread.php?threadid=636580

You attacked me.  I never posted anyting to insult you.  You took what I
said and made it into something it was not.  You jumped to conclusions with
no idea what you were talking about.

Again, believe me or not,... I don't really care anymore.  I've said my
piece now.

Rest in peace, Ron.

> No. I didn't have to. I have seen trolling techniques before. Yours
> started with a statement, made to irritate legitimate posters. Something
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>>>>>>> Really? Did you go to college to learn that?
Janice - 19 Dec 2006 00:19 GMT
OK, fair enough. I did jump on you, for what I thought was a stupid
statement, in that particular place, for which I apologize.

If I read you correctly, there are people that do not believe Ron is
dead and I can understand you frustration. I found it hard to
believe...no I did not want to believe it. Maybe it isn't true but
then it would be clear he wanted out of this rat race and the trail he
left. He at least was being stalked by a couple of crazies from this
group and would have had good reason to fake his death to avoid that.
Either way he deserves to be out. I still have his personal emails and
they haunt me sometimes when I encounter them again.

The post I originally replied to, to prove a point to somebody else,
was in reply to Nagler's (the insanity case) confirmation of Ron's
demise. Ths should be enough here to convine all the negative people
that worshiped ever word Nagler despite his trolling and abusive,
condescending nature here. Why would these same people doubt his
confirmation?

Any, Have a lovely Christmas, no matter what your religion.

>I am not a troll.  I have been posting on this, and other boards for
>years. I knew Ron.  He was my friend.  As I stated to you.  You can
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>>>>>>>> Really? Did you go to college to learn that?
Stychentyme - 20 Dec 2006 01:35 GMT
That's okay, I probably looked before I leaped,... post-wise.

I've just seen some really dumb comments about Ron in various boards since
his death, and I guess I'm quick to quash any dumb rumors or insensitive
comments in regards to him.  I should have made my post more descriptive and
less blunt.

There are a lot of people out there with a grudge against Ron, I guess,....
or people just trying to stir the pot.

You have a good Christmas as well.

> OK, fair enough. I did jump on you, for what I thought was a stupid
> statement, in that particular place, for which I apologize.
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>>>>>>>>> Really? Did you go to college to learn that?
Susan - 16 Dec 2006 00:08 GMT
> This is the reason I rerely post here anymore.  Too many bitter, spiteful
> people like yourself.

Nah, Lix is the only one.

Susan
zuMan - 05 Jul 2005 22:42 GMT
Hey there Froggy : )

Well, it's all over the tinnitus discussion groups that he is gone.
Regardless of all that has happened the ata is a very worthwhile cause
to have benefit from this.
Email me some day will ya?

salut
Bruce

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> Cheers hic
alga - 06 Jul 2005 22:59 GMT
> Hey there Froggy : )

G'day Bruce!

> Well, it's all over the tinnitus discussion groups that he is gone.

Ah.  Is there weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth there too?

> Regardless of all that has happened the ata is a very worthwhile cause
> to have benefit from this.

Certainly a worthwhile cause, but poor Yoli was vexatious to the ATA,
and it seems inappropriate to me to give to it in his name.  YMMV.

> Email me some day will ya?

Do you have something in mind to discuss?  I am definately not buyng
any more of that Eerie Wax: it took several bottles of Domaine Croak
to get rid of the taste.

> salut
> Bruce

Cheers hic
Able Seaman Frog
ferdie - 10 Jul 2005 13:39 GMT
Would if I could

>> Cheers
>> Capt. Ron Yoli
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> Bruce
Janice - 08 Dec 2006 03:44 GMT
Is this good enough for you?
With more experience you will learn to search posts also.

> Captain Ron Yoli, born and raised in Huntington N.Y. and a former
> captain in Montauk's charter boat fleet, died July 1 suddenly and
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> In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be sent in the
> name of Captain Ron Yoli to the American Tinnitus Society.

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