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Minsati37 - 01 Feb 2004 20:48 GMT
My husband has been on antibiotics for 5 days and he is feeling much better.He
was diagnosed with  prostatitis.I worry that it is still too soon to have
inetrcourse because his ejaculate may have infection in it and thus pass an
infection on to me.
avocet - 01 Feb 2004 22:40 GMT
> My husband has been on antibiotics for 5 days and he is feeling much better.He
> was diagnosed with  prostatitis.I worry that it is still too soon to have
> inetrcourse because his ejaculate may have infection in it and thus pass an
> infection on to me.

       That's not a worry, since you don't have a prostate gland.

        He could pass you some small amount of the antibiotic he is taking.
He can avoid that using a condom.

        As far as sex goes, whenever he feels up to it is fine.  He might
well get a reduction in his symtoms just by ejaculating.

        Jim
Minsati37 - 02 Feb 2004 14:37 GMT
Robert A. Fink, M. D. - 03 Feb 2004 02:47 GMT
>That's not a worry, since you don't have a prostate gland.
>
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>         As far as sex goes, whenever he feels up to it is fine.  He might
>well get a reduction in his symtoms just by ejaculating.

Not quite.  If there is active infection in the semen, the sexual
partner can get infected even if they "dont have a prostate".  The
organisms which cause prostatitis can also cause vaginitis, infection
of the secretory glands in the female tract, and also infect the
woman's urinary tract.

It is probably a good idea for the man to use a condom unil the
infection has cleared up.

Best,

Bob

Robert A. Fink, M.D., FACS, P. C.
2500 Milvia Street   Suite 222
Berkeley, California  94704-2636  USA


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Minsati37 - 04 Feb 2004 22:07 GMT
Thank you Bob, That was my original thought.Too late now as the deed has been
done.We women are lucky because we can get alot of meds for vaginal infections
over the counter.So far, I haven't exhibited any  infectious signs.I know I
don't have a prostate to get  infected but alot of parts "on the way" are
certainly subjected to in fection...Also my husband did have some pain upon
ejaculation but, no more pain upon urination.IS THAT NORMAL?The Doc only
prescribed a 10 day course of Bactrim(sp?).I think he should be on the meds for
a few weeks longer...but hey, I'm not a physician.I only know that I have never
experienced someone with bone shattering "chills" like my husband had as soon
as the ibuprophen wore off.Maybe its time to switch Doctors!?
Robert A. Fink, M. D. - 05 Feb 2004 22:05 GMT
>Also my husband did have some pain upon
>ejaculation but, no more pain upon urination.IS THAT NORMAL?The Doc only
>prescribed a 10 day course of Bactrim(sp?).I think he should be on the meds for
>a few weeks longer...but hey, I'm not a physician.I only know that I have never
>experienced someone with bone shattering "chills" like my husband had as soon
>as the ibuprophen wore off.Maybe its time to switch Doctors!?

Pain with ejaculation is fairly typical with prostatitis.  Ten days'
worth of Bactrim may not be enough (and the organism might be
something which is not responsive to Bactim; this might include
trichomonas, which requires a different drug along with treatment of
*you* also).

If your husband continues to have symptoms (or you have any), I would
suggest that you both see an urologist.

Best,

Bob

Robert A. Fink, M.D., FACS, P. C.
2500 Milvia Street   Suite 222
Berkeley, California  94704-2636  USA


Telephone:  510-849-2555
FAX:  510-849-2557
<http://www.rafink.com>

"Ex Tristitia Virtus"

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NOTE:  The above message is not to be considered as
"medical advice".  Medical advice can be given only  
after a "hands-on" examination of the patient by a
physician.

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Webmaster Chronicprostatitis.com - 05 Feb 2004 22:44 GMT
> Pain with ejaculation is fairly typical with prostatitis.  Ten days'
> worth of Bactrim may not be enough (and the organism might be
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> If your husband continues to have symptoms (or you have any), I would
> suggest that you both see an urologist.

Oh look! A genuine dinosaur!

You should keep up with the literature, Bob.

For a more informed debate:
http://www.chronicpelvicpain.us/
IDEA MAN - 06 Feb 2004 08:49 GMT
"Robert A. Fink, M. D."  wrote...

> Pain with ejaculation is fairly typical with prostatitis.  Ten days'
> worth of Bactrim may not be enough (and the organism might be
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> If your husband continues to have symptoms (or you have any), I would
> suggest that you both see an urologist.

I have a legitimate question and it should not be misconstrued as sarcastic.
I see you take seriously the topic of infection. I'm impressed. I'm curious
though and I bet some of the other sufferer's are too? What type of cultures
are available for your patients? Do you ask that your labs screen for all
bacteria and how long do they bake specimens for? I'm assuming it is the
Stamey Mears methodology being used? The reason my question should not be
construed as sarcastic is because even though I don't believe all CPPS - IC
cases are infection related, ( see....I said it ), I do believe some are,
and it seems to me that it is very appropriate and a responsibilty that a
physician cultures as a first line investigatory measure. So, I'm just
wondering what type of serices you might offer in this regard?

Ciao.
Robert A. Fink, M. D. - 07 Feb 2004 21:19 GMT
>I have a legitimate question and it should not be misconstrued as sarcastic.
>I see you take seriously the topic of infection. I'm impressed. I'm curious
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>physician cultures as a first line investigatory measure. So, I'm just
>wondering what type of serices you might offer in this regard?

I am not an urologist.  In fact, I have already been called a
"dinosaur" by "Webmaster Chronicprostatitis" who alleges that the
literature and I disagree.  Aside from seeing a cite or two, I am not
going to dignify Mr. Chronic's posting with a response.

What I was actually saying was that the symptoms described by the wife
of someone who might have chronic prostatitis might be related to
residual infection; that use of a condom during intercourse might be a
good idea; that further evaluation (jncluding cultures, which are not
always valid) was indicated; and finally, that there are other kinds
of infections (other than bacterial) that can involve the prostate
(like Trichomonas, which is a parasite) which require treatment
different than the standard antibacterial antibiotics.

Best,

Bob

Robert A. Fink, M.D., FACS, P. C.
2500 Milvia Street   Suite 222
Berkeley, California  94704-2636  USA


Telephone:  510-849-2555
FAX:  510-849-2557
<http://www.rafink.com>

"Ex Tristitia Virtus"

--------------------------------------
NOTE:  The above message is not to be considered as
"medical advice".  Medical advice can be given only  
after a "hands-on" examination of the patient by a
physician.

========================================
Webmaster Chronicprostatitis.com - 08 Feb 2004 04:18 GMT
> I am not an urologist.  In fact, I have already been called a
> "dinosaur" by "Webmaster Chronicprostatitis" who alleges that the
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>
> Bob

Looking at the original posting in this thread, I see that I may have
overreacted to Bob's advice, and if so, apologies. It is possible her
husband does have an infection given the description. It is certainly
unusual to have a woman posting here about her husband's acute
prostatitis though. It may be the first time in 8 years. Far more
commonly we see woman posting about their husband's chronic pelvic pain.

Bob, as for studies discouraging a microbe-centered approach to the
issue of chronic prostatitis, see
http://www.chronicprostatitis.com/
IDEA MAN - 08 Feb 2004 23:04 GMT
"Robert A. Fink, M. D." wrote..

> What I was actually saying was that the symptoms described by the wife
> of someone who might have chronic prostatitis might be related to
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> (like Trichomonas, which is a parasite) which require treatment
> different than the standard antibacterial antibiotics.

Yes, and I agree with those concerns above, that is why I asked if you went
an extra step regarding culturing instead of relying on basic measures down
at the local lab? By your reply, I guess you rely on the latter.
IDEA MAN - 03 Feb 2004 21:52 GMT
"Minsati37" wrote..

> My husband has been on antibiotics for 5 days and he is feeling much better.He
> was diagnosed with  prostatitis.I worry that it is still too soon to have
> inetrcourse because his ejaculate may have infection in it and thus pass an
> infection on to me.

If it was determined he does have an infection then he can indeed pass it on
to you during intercourse. It's probably best for you two to use a condom
until he finishes his course of antibiotics and is tested again. After he is
tested again, you both should review the results with your doctor and
discuss how you would like to move forward, ( condom or not? ).

p.s. hopefully the medicine will do it's job and all will be fine and back
to normal. Please report back for the group and let us know how thing's turn
out.

Good luck to you.
 
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