First off, I understand some are worse than me but I have been characterised
as severe for many years. I don't take anything for the problem most of the
time, with the exception of an exceptionally strong dose of Saw Palmetto.
Anyway, some times I need pain relief and a twice a year, sometimes 3, I
need strong antibiotics which help while taking them then almost immediately
the symptoms go back to what they were after finishing them.

Because of many health problems, I have to have a real LOT of strong
caffeine in the morning in order to work effectively until about 2PM when I
flag and crash. Many say "don't take caffeine" for our problem and I am not
arguing that point at all. However, all I am saying is that I actually DO
take a lot of caffeine on work days and I pee etc well and easily. On days
when I am not working, I don't overdose on caffeine and I don't pee freely.

So what is the choice here? Obey medical advice and don't use caffeine at
all and be worse off or listen to my own body and working needs and take it
and pee well at the same time?

Which would you do?

So, why take Flomax when caffeine constantly makes peeing just fine for me?