Greetings,
Hi, This is regarding my mum who is aged 53. She is suffering from this
mental nervousness and depression. I don't know how to term it whether
hallunications or the advanced term like schizophrenia. She is
suffering from this since age of 35, but earlier it was occasional, now
it's sort of regular. I mean the symptoms are like someone is
constantly speaking to her in her ears saying that "your son is in
trouble. Something is happening to him etc etc." Also, she doesn't
trust her relatives like her own sister, daughter etc. The only person
she has some faith and trust is me. When I'm with my mom, I see to it
that she takes medicines regularly, but since from last 10 months, I'm
relocated to another country for a job. So, these symptoms have
worsened and she is not listening to anyone and doesn't take medicines,
she just sits idle and cries sometimes etc. Now, my relatives
forcefully took mom and admitted the nearby psychology centre. She's
now there since last 15-20 days, the doctor says she is recovering but
the only problem is that when she comes back home after a month, then
again after some time she won't listen to anyone and won't take the
medicine or else I will have to leave my job and come back and stay
with her to monitor her but it's very difficult becoz this is a good
job very important for my career growth and I don't want to loose it.
So how do I go about this problem? I'm very tensed sometimes thinking
of my mom? How can i instill a habit in mom so that she takes medicines
regularly without external force? Earlier, doctor used to give her
slight dosage of TRINICALM PLUS and that medicine was very good, the
only side-effect is, one gets sleepy - this is the main reason why my
mom doesn't take medicine.
Group, I need your help very much...Please advise. Thanks for your
time.
Regards,
Dilip
J. Davidson - 13 Jul 2005 01:04 GMT
Dilip, have you a relative where your mom lives, who would let her move in?
Or perhaps hire a day sitter to be with her, cook her meals and see that she
eats them, and gets her to take her meds.
If she is a church goer maybe the church ladies would take turns and go
there 4 hours a day, to provide company and med supervision.
Last choice would be moving her in with you at your new location. I would
not advise you to quit your job and move back. You have your own life to
live, and that is what you are doing.
Jackie
> Greetings,
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> Regards,
> Dilip
dilipn123@gmail.com - 13 Jul 2005 02:20 GMT
Jackie, Thanks for your inputs. Actually, my mom's older sister stays
with her only and near to my mom she has other relatives too who stay
just in the neighbourhood, but the problem is once my mom gets alrite
she doesn't listen to them and don't take medicines from them. Even
from me, I have to force her to consume the medicines when I'm around
otherwise by her own will she won't take. This is the proble,. Thanks
again