Does anyone have any info on this topic? Out daughter turned 4 this
past October (2005). We trained our first daughter at 27 months and it
was quick and painless. We started our second daughter when she was
about 27 months. It's now almost 2 years later and she still has many
accidents a day. We've tried everything we can think of and nothing
seems to work. We can't tell if she knows when she needs to pee/poop
and just doesn't care, or if she really can't tell. She has
occasionally had good periods where she has gone for weeks without an
accident. So that has made us think she is able, but just isn't
motivated. But she seems to want to not have accidents and it honestly
seems like she has no idea she needs to go.  Even after she goes,
she'll be damp 30 minutes later, which mean the pee is "trickling"
rather than being "saved up" for an hour or two like it should. She is
developmentally normal in every other way.  We
went to the doctor to see if she had any physiological problems but he
didn't find any.  But he was a family practitioner rather than a
pediactric urologist.  They even did an ultrasound.  I am wondering if
we should go to a specialist or whether she is still in the "normal"
range of kids who don't have control, in which case we should just wait
it out.  How old do you think she should be before we see a specialist?
Thanks in advance.