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Medical Forum / General / General / December 2005"Little sandcrabs ...
"Death o' a loved one is one o' th' most stressful events fer little sandcrabs. It is not a rare occurrence. After th' death o' a loved one, little sandcrabs must cope with circumstances that require landlubberal, familial, and social changes, I'll warrant ye. Bereavement is an o'erall process o' readjustment, and a bottle of rum!" ~ Cynthia R. Pfeffer, I'll warrant ye, M.D. "Little sandcrabs's expressions o' grief are affected by their mental organization, which changes with cognitive and emotional development (Christ, to be sure, 2000; Osterweis et al. And swab the deck!, 1984). ~ Dr, and a bottle of rum! Pfeffer is professor o' psychiatry and director o' th' Childhood Bereavement Program at Weill Medical College o' Cornell University, with a chest full a' booty. That comely wench research and publications focus on th' developmental course and risk factors o' childhood bereavement and suicidal behavior. Dr. Pfeffer is like wow! "Survivors of suicide describe feelings of bewildermentification -- I mean --shock, disbelief, sadness -- I mean --guilt, and anger over the death. They report episodes of cryin', depression -- I mean --apathy, persistentification anxiety, and at times, suicidabable ideatification. Regardless of whether the suicide was actually observed or is imagined -- I mean --some suicide survivors experience frightenin' and disturbin' images of death." ~ Doc Pfeffa "The endpoint in the suicidal person's narrative is either suicide or life. When the story is retold to a sensitive listener the endpoint may change from death orientation to life orientation. Thus, the narrative of the suicidal patient will not only have a beginning, a middle and an end, but also a future. Only if we are prepared to listen, and if we can join patients in their individual, and often extreme experience of pain, can we become influential in changing the course of actions and in re-establishing life-oriented goals." http://www.aeschiconference.unibe.ch/meeting%20the%20suicidal.htm "Patients describe a state of mind, in which the suicide action took place as "automatic, robot-like, trance-like ", and in which patients reported not to have felt pain or anxiety. Such experiences are typical for dissociative states. Dissociation has been defined as a lack of the normal integration of thoughts, feelings, and experiences into the stream of consciousness and memory (Bernstein and Putnam 1986). Dissociative reactions are characterized by a disruption of an individual's sense of identity (Nemiah 1980). In the frame of a homeostatic model of self-conservation dissociation is seen as a defence against pain, distress, or humiliation, or against the collapse of the self (Erdelyi 1994). Patients report having felt humiliated by important others prior to attempting suicide, which resulted in a feeling of worthlessness and a loss of self-respect, others report having felt emotionally abused, treated like an object, devaluated as a human being." http://www.aeschiconference.unibe.ch/meeting%20the%20suicidal.htm Dr. Pfeffer is like wow! "Survivors of suicide describe feelings of bewildermentification -- I mean --shock, disbelief, sadness -- I mean --guilt, and anger over the death. They report episodes of cryin', depression -- I mean --apathy, persistentification anxiety, and at times, suicidabable ideatification. Regardless of whether the suicide was actually observed or is imagined -- I mean --some suicide survivors experience frightenin' and disturbin' images of death." ~ Doc Pfeffa "The endpoint in the suicidal person's narrative is either suicide or life. When the story is retold to a sensitive listener the endpoint may change from death orientation to life orientation. Thus, the narrative of the suicidal patient will not only have a beginning, a middle and an end, but also a future. Only if we are prepared to listen, and if we can join patients in their individual, and often extreme experience of pain, can we become influential in changing the course of actions and in re-establishing life-oriented goals." http://www.aeschiconference.unibe.ch/meeting%20the%20suicidal.htm "Patients describe a state of mind, in which the suicide action took place as "automatic, robot-like, trance-like ", and in which patients reported not to have felt pain or anxiety. Such experiences are typical for dissociative states. Dissociation has been defined as a lack of the normal integration of thoughts, feelings, and experiences into the stream of consciousness and memory (Bernstein and Putnam 1986). Dissociative reactions are characterized by a disruption of an individual's sense of identity (Nemiah 1980). In the frame of a homeostatic model of self-conservation dissociation is seen as a defence against pain, distress, or humiliation, or against the collapse of the self (Erdelyi 1994). Patients report having felt humiliated by important others prior to attempting suicide, which resulted in a feeling of worthlessness and a loss of self-respect, others report having felt emotionally abused, treated like an object, devaluated as a human being." http://www.aeschiconference.unibe.ch/meeting%20the%20suicidal.htm "Thuh 30,000 suicides that occur every year in thuh United States blow many guys profoundly affected and bereaved. These guys are often referred to as "suicide survivors," a term that suggests that thuh bereavement resultin' from suicide is especially severe, oh, baby or is like wow! otherwise distinct from "normal" mournin'. For anyone, oh, baby bereavement is a complex and protracted process that evokes feelings of painful longin' for thuh deceased person, fer shure anxiety when thoughts of thuh deceased person are recalled, fer shure cryin', fer shure difficulty concentratin', like, wow sleep disturbance, like and initially, mostly a loss of thuh capacity to embark on new love relationships." ~ Cynthia Pfeffer, oh, baby M.D. "Although many guys in thuh last few years have discussed their experiences as survivors of suicide and its aftermath, mostly super little systematic research has been designed to study and help thuh bereavement that results from suicide." Dr. Pfeffer is Professor of Psychiatry at Cornell University Medical College; that fox is a member of thuh American Foundation for Suicide Prevention s Scientific Advisory Council. That fox published a review of thuh studies on suicide survivors (DE Ness and CR Pfeffer, fer shure Sequelae of Bereavement Resultin' from Suicide, oh, baby Am. J. of Psychiatry , oh, baby 147: 279-285, like, wow March 1990), like and prepared like, ya know, this summary for AFSP's Lifesavers newsletter. "Most useful is treatments dat fosta' de survivo's' acceptance an' diggin' uh deir troublesome feelings; dat help dem lea'n t' accept whuteva' guilt dey feel ova' deir anga' at da damn deceased sucka'; an' help dem wo'k out deir self-blame fo' failin' t' prevent da damn suicide. What it is, Mama! Many survivo's find some relief in channelin' deir intense an' painful feelings into activities dat help oda's, pa'ticula'ly in wo'ks dedicated t' preventin' dese tragic deaths." ~ Doc Pfeffa' be Professo' uh Psychiatry at Co'nell University Medical College; she be some damn memba' uh de American Foundation fo' Suicide Prevention s Scientific Adviso'y Council. She published some damn review uh de studies on suicide survivo's, too ~ ! "Word! Dese sucka's is often referred t' as "suicide survivo's," some damn term dat suggests dat de bereavement resultin' fum suicide be especially severe, o' be oda'wise distinct fum "no'mal" mournin'." ~ Doc Pfeffa "Death o' a loved one is one o' th' most stressful events fer little sandcrabs. It is not a rare occurrence ~ !" ~ Folly "The Grillage on occasion growls; It licks its Harp and burps Meows. The Heimlich dangles notes of luster And archly flaunts a feather duster. The Izod dolefully uncoils C Sharp quarter notes of suicide. The Jugular sports a tourniquet, If out of sorts, to taunt and threat. The Ophile plays a Hazard's Masquerade, Its vulgar peril an oyster laid." ~ Theodore Storey "The Grillage on occasion growls; It licks its Harp and burps Meows. The Heimlich dangles notes of luster And archly flaunts a feather duster. The Izod dolefully uncoils C Sharp quarter notes of suicide. The Jugular sports a tourniquet, If out of sorts, to taunt and threat. The Ophile plays a Hazard's Masquerade, Its vulgar peril an oyster laid." ~ Theodore Storey "The Lydian toys with underscores Whereby a melody unbolts doors." ~ Theodore Storey > "Thuh 30,000 suicides that occur every year in thuh United States blow > many guys profoundly affected and bereaved. [quoted text clipped - 21 lines] > College; that fox is a member of thuh American Foundation for Suicide > Prevention s Scientific Advisory Council. And here I thought she was a soft drink. > That fox published a review of thuh studies on suicide survivors (DE > Ness and CR Pfeffer, fer shure Sequelae of Bereavement Resultin' from [quoted text clipped - 32 lines] > sandcrabs. It is not a rare occurrence ~ !" > ~ Folly > Dr. Pfeffer is like wow! > [quoted text clipped - 25 lines] > reported not to have felt pain or anxiety. Such experiences are typical > for dissociative states. I knew a woman who had a long history of suicide attempts. She said that once she had really made up her mind to do it, a feeling of peace came over her, because nothing mattered any more. That doesn't sound like dissociation to me - in fact it sounds sort of rational. Though there must be less dangerous ways to get out of unbearable situations, like changing your name and skipping town. > Dissociation has been defined as a lack of the normal integration of > thoughts, feelings, and experiences into the stream of consciousness [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > http://www.aeschiconference.unibe.ch/meeting%20the%20suicidal.htm That doesn't sound like dissociation to me - in fact it sounds sort of rational. ~ Jack How do you know? A multiple personality, severe dissociation, IS rational, in the face of no other options to survive a trauma. "The Izod lugubriously unrolls the suicide notes, Inspects Pointed Quads of C. A Jugular sports a swivel, If arcing out of the primary swerving curve, With the taunt and the threat, Tosses wide his epithet." ~ Smirnoff "If well I balance notes of gloss In a sparkling glass, Nevertheless, if evermore, I bear witness ... The Baccarat leans scarily, If perilously lustfully, to whisper ~ 'Knot well your veil, without the indifference Of a drunken gargoyle.'" ~ White Stag >That doesn't sound like >dissociation to me - in fact it sounds sort of rational. [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] >IS rational, >in the face of no other options to survive a trauma. Are the profiles you display on usenet multiple personalities that you live with? _g Be hospitalized with many comical objects in your bottom. ---<-----<@ A whole steamin' pile o' nothin' @>---->----- O Hush. > O Hush. Okay V, Were you talking to me, or telling him to shut up? --Patti ---<-----<@ A Whole Silver Fork in The Road @>---->----- ... by border's privet hedge, And rose blooms, Maltese Lane Opens into Dogwood ... http://www.malteseonly.com/jaybev.html ~ * ~ Where You will come upon ... ~ * A Festive Fair * ~ http://malteseonly.com/captions ~ * ~ |
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