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Medical Forum / General / General / April 2005Condom use
I have a question about "safe sex." After watching more than one porn movie I have noticed that condoms are used during penetration only. If the actors are practicing safe sex then, according to their logic, anything oral is safe sex? You see scene after scene where the guy spends himself in the girl's mouth after being wrapped a second ago during penetration. I have heard that the mouth, because of acids, is too hostile for the AIDS virus to live. I wouldn't advise anyone to practice sex like they do in the movies, but I don't have any other explanation why condoms are used in such a way. > I have a question about "safe sex." After watching more than one porn > movie I have noticed that condoms are used during penetration only. If [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > do in the movies, but I don't have any other explanation why condoms > are used in such a way. I heard a news report last week that lots of young people are no longer having regular sex but instead are engaging in oral sex since they believe that it's safer. For example, they believe that they can't get AIDS from engaging in oral sex or various other sex related diseases. They are wrong. For example, if one person has bleeding gums or any kind of cuts in those mouths--they can get AIDs and various other sex related diseases.  SignatureNEWSGROUP SUBSCRIBERS MOTTO We respect those subscribers that ask for advice or provide advice. We do NOT respect the subscribers that enjoy criticizing people. > I heard a news report last week that lots of young people are no longer > having regular sex but instead are engaging in oral sex since they believe > that it's safer. For example, they believe that they can't get AIDS from > engaging in oral sex or various other sex related diseases. They are > wrong. For example, if one person has bleeding gums or any kind of cuts in > those mouths--they can get AIDs and various other sex related diseases. I don't disagree with anything you have said. I am just looking for an explanation why condoms are being used only for penetration. If they are not being used for safe sex then why use them at all? >I don't disagree with anything you have said. I am just looking for an >explanation why condoms are being used only for penetration. If they >are not being used for safe sex then why use them at all? They are, um, "professionals." They choose their risks and rely on the fact that oral sex is less risky than intercourse with regard to HIV. But did you really expect to find safe sex on porn sites? "Carey Gregory" <tiredofspam123@comcast.net> wrote in message > But did you really expect to find safe sex on porn sites? Unless HIV can be transmitted over the internet I'd say it's pretty safe. > > I heard a news report last week that lots of young people are no > longer [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > explanation why condoms are being used only for penetration. If they > are not being used for safe sex then why use them at all? Several of those porn stars have died. I seem to recall that there was a famous guy named John Holmes (porn star) that died of AIDS. Those porn stars are in it mainly for the money. They make shows that appeal to people and they are NOT trying to make shows that will shown in sex education classes. Most of the stars don't care about their health or lives--they just want to make money and have great lives. Believe it or not--many young people have this same attitude about life. I heard one person on a tv show say that he only worried about today and did not care whether or not he caught AIDS. SignatureNEWSGROUP SUBSCRIBERS MOTTO We respect those subscribers that ask for advice or provide advice. We do NOT respect the subscribers that enjoy criticizing people. > > > I heard a news report last week that lots of young people are no > > longer [quoted text clipped - 22 lines] > person on a tv show say that he only worried about today and did not care > whether or not he caught AIDS. There is a philosophy called FATALISM and it is a form of DETERMINISM. You may be able to do a google search on either of these terms. Both terms are discussed in philosophy books used in colleges. There was once a song called "Live for today and don't worry about tomorrow". There is a saying from the Bible about it: Eat, drink and be merry since tomorrow you may die. SignatureNEWSGROUP SUBSCRIBERS MOTTO We respect those subscribers that ask for advice or provide advice. We do NOT respect the subscribers that enjoy criticizing people. >> Those porn stars are in it mainly for the money. They make shows that >> appeal to people and they are NOT trying to make shows that will shown in [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] >There is a saying from the Bible about it: >Eat, drink and be merry since tomorrow you may die. Don't get too carried away with it. It's really a pretty typical thing for teenagers and even the 20-something crowd to say, and it's nothing new at all. I heard the same thing 30 years ago. Hell, I probably even said it myself when I was in my teens. Basically, they're just too immature to really comprehend the concept of death and the finality of it. Most of them grow out of it, but the unlucky ones who are presented with the reality that they might die "right now" beg and plead for their life just as frantically as anyone else. > >> Those porn stars are in it mainly for the money. They make shows that > >> appeal to people and they are NOT trying to make shows that will shown in [quoted text clipped - 20 lines] > they might die "right now" beg and plead for their life just as frantically > as anyone else. I agree with you. In fact, the Bible clearly indicates that it was happening in those days. God even destroyed two cities.The teenagers and the adults were so corrupt that they wanted to have sex with two angels that visited the cities. When I was in college, we were not allowed to drink alcohol on campus or in the county where the college was located. On many weekends--we would put our money together and buy lots of beer. We would invite lots of girls and go to a park in the next county. We would build a fire and have a great time. It was especially fun when the girls all got drunk--I won't tell you the rest. This happened over 25 years ago. It's much worse now day--the kids take all sorts of drugs that could damage them for life or even kill them. Several local college students have been victims of overdose situtations. SignatureNEWSGROUP SUBSCRIBERS MOTTO We respect those subscribers that ask for advice or provide advice. We do NOT respect the subscribers that enjoy criticizing people. The correct term is always... safer There's never zero risk. Here's a collaborative blog about the strategy of getting tested together before having sex http://NotB4WeKnow.EditThisPage.com >> I have a question about "safe sex." After watching more than one porn >> movie I have noticed that condoms are used during penetration only. If [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] >wrong. For example, if one person has bleeding gums or any kind of cuts in >those mouths--they can get AIDs and various other sex related diseases. This is, however, extremely rare. On the other hand, many *other* venereal diseases are spread quite readily by oral sex. -- David Wright :: alphabeta at prodigy.net These are my opinions only, but they're almost always correct. 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