I agree. If your partner does not want to help, fix that first, or get a
different partner. Any solution is going to involve psychological
relaxation, and how can you relax with a partner that does not care enough
about you to help.
Greg Turner, MA., CMH.
Certified Master Hypnotist
http://www.tranceformationtech.com
Maybe I was confusing. I do have a partner, (my wife) but she does not
want to help in the expercises. We are lucky to have sex once a month.
> Take care of the "partner" problem first and most of the others will
> evaporate. Being "premature" when you are by yourself, is impossible.
John 'the Man' - 06 Feb 2004 15:55 GMT
Once upon a time, our fellow Danny
rambled on about "Re: Does hypnois work for sex problems."
Our champion De-Medicalizing in sci.psychology.misc retorts, thusly
...
>Maybe I was confusing. I do have a partner, (my wife) but she does not
>want to help in the expercises. We are lucky to have sex once a month.
>
>> Take care of the "partner" problem first and most of the others will
>> evaporate. Being "premature" when you are by yourself, is impossible.
wife yes, ... partner no!
Just thought that you might want to know. :)
Emma Chase VanCott - 09 Feb 2004 02:12 GMT
In sci.med Danny <ALWAYSLONELY8@hotmail.com> wrote:
: Maybe I was confusing. I do have a partner, (my wife) but she does not
: want to help in the expercises. We are lucky to have sex once a month.
I'd imagine she's pretty frustrated too. Sometimes it's easier to just
give up hope when problems seem unworkable.
Read up on the "start stop" and "squeeze techniques" in some sex therapy
literature. They are commonly used for treating premature ejaculation.
The other alternative is to use Prozac, or similar medications to slow
down the journey to climax. Talk to your doctor. I'm sure it's been used
for "off-label" uses such as this before.
HTH,
Emma