> the dr put her on some meds and told her to come back in two weeks and
> if the lumps havent gone down by then she will have to go for
> surgery.shes a real heavy bleeder do you think she may need a blood
> transfusion? sorry these ?'s mst seem real dumb but i dont know.the dr
> said that if its the lupus they will go down if its not they will stay.
Tina, it's pretty hard to predict what will happen, even when you have
all the information. It sounds like you are really worried about your
friend. She's very lucky to have someone who cares for her enough to
come on a message board like this. Maybe you could get her to "join"
you here.
The very knowledgable people here would be able to give both of you
more accurate information if they knew more about what kind of lumps
your friend has, whether the doctors have tested the lumps to see if
they are cancer and what kind of symptoms she has with her lupus. Does
she bleed a lot because of the lupus?
Lupus is different for everyone, and many people live normal life
spans. There are so many kinds of cancer, too, and many of those are
treatable. Try to help your friend take one step at a time and deal
with each new thing as it comes. Waiting for answers can be the
hardest part. Take care.
Gretchen.