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The Dreaded Grocery Store: Tips on saving time and energy while grocery shopping

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Nicole - 26 May 2006 11:31 GMT
The Dreaded Grocery Store: Tips on saving time and energy while grocery
shopping
Out of all the areas my illness kills the joy for-grocery shopping is number
one on the top ten list! Just the mere thought of grocery shopping makes me
want to crawl into bed and declare myself on a fast! I simply cannot stand
grocery stores.

The very bright, awful lights hurt my eyes. The sensory overload of colors,
smells and deals, deals, deals drive me nuts! And if I start my day with an
ounce of energy, you better believe by the time I drag my buns down to aisle
10, I am pooped and pissed.

Let's face it, it takes a good amount of stamina and great vision, as well
as biceps which have not been used in the last five years; to get through a
grocery store. No, you are not crazy, lazy or stupid- grocery shopping is
hard. Think about it:
1. Make a grocery list (concentrated thinking is not an easy task for many
of us)
2. Get to the store and find parking.
3. Pull apart the shopping carts (painful with stiff hand and wrists)
4. Then the actual shopping- up and down the aisles, standing in the deli
line and weaving in between carts parked dead smack in front of the meat
section.(Whew!)
5. Back in line for the checkout.
6. Stretch and bend to get the groceries back out of the cart. (redundancy).
7. Unpack the bags into the car.
8. Now at home, drag bags back out of the car and lug into the house
(blessed be the woman with a strong helpful husband and blessed is the man
with a wife not afraid to mess up her manicure.)
9. Unpack the bags.
10. And guess what...back on the shelves and into the refrigerator!

Dear Lord, there has to be a better way. So I started thinking to myself,
" Self," I said, "there's got to be a better way of doing this." So after
much thought and self talk, I came up with a few tips and tricks that have
been helpful to me.

· Don't shop! I do the majority of my grocery shopping on-line. Check your
local grocery shops and see if they have shoppers and delivery services.
This saves you a lot of time and energy.
· If you do go shopping, go when your energy is at its best. It's best to do
all your tiring and tedious activities when you have the most energy.
· Snatch a shallow shopping cart. Use a shopping cart that is not too deep,
making it easier to bend and stretch.
· Breakdown your trips. Section off your shopping list and plan to go to the
store for those items only. For example, one week, shop for your meats and
deli items. Then the next time, your paper products. It's up to you to
create
a system that works best, but it may be a strategy you would want to try.
· Take breaks. Most grocery stores now have a luncheon area where you can
sit down and have coffee and a snack. When you get tired, pull up a chair
and sip on some tea until the next go 'round.
· Ask for help. Inquire if your grocery bagger can bring your bags to your
vehicle and pack them in for you. And when you get home, make arrangements
for someone to be there to help you.
· Put away the perishables. Put away the meats and refrigerated items and
leave the rest for another time.

Don't suffer your way through shopping, with some clever thinking and
friendly delegation, you could save loads of time and energy.

Article written by by Keesha M. Mayes, Butyoudontlooksick.com ©2006

(Keesha Mayes is the President, Senior Consultant and Professional Wellness
Coach at CSOLUTIONS Coaching & Consulting services.)

Posted by Christine on May 23, 2006 04:07 PM | Permalink
Sherry - 26 May 2006 16:51 GMT
Nicole,
This was great....I gave up shopping a long time ago.  I still have to help
with the list but I'm blessed with a husband that will do the shopping, lug
the groceries in and put them away!!!!

Hugs,
Sherry
Shelagh - 26 May 2006 19:21 GMT
Ditto for me Sherry; my husband is also 'that sort'
and will do it all for me!
TG for that!!
But you covered a lot of good points Nicole and hit the nail on the head alrighty!!
Good luck to you all who 'do it yourselves'!!
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hugs,
Shelagh
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> Nicole,
> This was great....I gave up shopping a long time ago.  I still have to help
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Hugs,
> Sherry

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> The Dreaded Grocery Store: Tips on saving time and energy while grocery
Beverley - 26 May 2006 19:42 GMT
We have one grocery store that will allow you to order online for a few
dollars.  I don't do it. But I do tend to shop in smaller increments and not
buy the entire month is one trip. I also tend to shop either late afternoon
when I know he'll be home from work as I come in with the groceries or in
the evening when I know he's right there. I also tend to shop on Sunday
night for lunchmeat, etc for the week. He'll pick up stuff I need on his way
home from work as he passes right by the store. But to take him shopping???
NO WAY!!! I wind up with all sorts things in my cart from goodies to exotic
seafood.

I get the cold stuff put away and the rest can sit there until I get around
to it.
Bev

Ditto for me Sherry; my husband is also 'that sort'
and will do it all for me!
TG for that!!
But you covered a lot of good points Nicole and hit the nail on the head
alrighty!!
Good luck to you all who 'do it yourselves'!!
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hugs,
Shelagh
http://clik.to/lupus

> Nicole,
> This was great....I gave up shopping a long time ago.  I still have to help
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Hugs,
> Sherry

> The Dreaded Grocery Store: Tips on saving time and energy while grocery
Shelagh - 26 May 2006 20:18 GMT
No no Bev... I don't take him shopping!
He goes instead of me... he takes a list we both have input on and gets it all done at a variety of stores too; the deli, walmart, thriftys, SaveOn and M&Ms frozen entrees etc...
he is my superman when it comes to groceries/malls/errands... and the like!
but no,.... i get what you are saying and to go 'with'? definitely would not work!
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hugs,
Shelagh
http://clik.to/lupus

> We have one grocery store that will allow you to order online for a few
> dollars.  I don't do it. But I do tend to shop in smaller increments and not
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> to it.
> Bev
Coach Keesha - 07 Jun 2006 19:59 GMT
Thanks Sherry! As I was writing the article, it really dawned on me how
difficult shopping really is!
Keesha Mayes aka Coach K
> Nicole,
> This was great....I gave up shopping a long time ago.  I still have to help
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Hugs,
> Sherry
Sidheag - 27 May 2006 20:32 GMT
I'm stubborn to the end, and as tired and painful as some thing are I
push through them. Treadmills, walks, and season tickets to my beloved
Seattle Storm are just some of the things  I do so I don't drift into
depression. Today is my partner's and my 9th anniversary, and
thankfully she has a job that comes with a house, so while I wait for
my SSD to start we can afford to go to our season tickets to Storm
games.

Sometimes I go shopping alone, and like you said I go when I have the
most energy. We live behind The Commons, formally known as Sea Tac
mall, so with Target there I don't have to go far if I need something.
House work too is a bitch, but again I can only do so much and I don't
do anything heavy. This disease along with the other problems I have
would take me down the depression road if I didn't have the support of
a loving women, and if I didn't get out in the real world now and then.

Sidheag
Shelagh - 28 May 2006 18:02 GMT
I agree with you about need to get out into the real world!
I am fortunate in that I don't suffer the 'depression' that so many chronic illness patient do but I also do understand how dark and lonely it can be and I never want to put myself at risk for it!
To be with other people, sick or well, is important for me and so I am a part of a lupus support group and we meet out in the 'real world'  in a different restaurant for each monthly  luncheon meeting and as well, we email each other and even drop in on each other for tea visits during the month.
That is one way I stay connected to 'out there' and don't get so tied into my home and nest!
I could easily remain as a nester and I know that risk so I am very cautious as we all should be about staying connected and keeping up our communications in the wide world if possible with meaning productivity, no matter how small,  even volunteering to help others who are not so lucky as we are and  can't get out on their own....
A very important point you mentioned here, Sidheag and not to be taken too lightly IMO!
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hugs,
Shelagh
http://clik.to/lupus

> I'm stubborn to the end, and as tired and painful as some thing are I
> push through them. Treadmills, walks, and season tickets to my beloved
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> a loving women, and if I didn't get out in the real world now and then.
> Sidheag
 
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