Tom,
the thing to remember is that there is no "normal" for herpes. Ignore what the
literature and doctors say.
Caffeine is a huge herpes trigger for many people. Yes, it is possible that by
drinking the coffee you started another outbreak. But the body is so revved up
fighting the one you are recovering from that it just didn't manifest fully.
>2. Does anyone know what the norm is for frequencies after a primary OB?
There is no "normal." We are all different. some people never have another
outbreak. Others have them monthly.
>3. Why did the primary take 3 months to start, when they are supposed to
>start in a couple of weeks from infection?
There is no "supposed to start." Some people don't have their primary until
YEARS after infection. In my case, I had small outbreaks once or twice but
then, I had the mother of outbreaks. That huge, awful, outbreak was my
"primary." These are just words. Don't worry about them too much.
>4. I really don't want to have to rely on Valtrex, but I am thinking of
>asking my doctor for some to keep on hand when I see him soon. I'm going to
>inform him of all the tests I had and the outcome, but I really just want to
>change my diet and take vitamins, but am I being realistic? I just feel like
>I am really suffering right now.
Yes, you are being realistic. Use the Valtrex for now because you are having
such a difficult time of it. Changing your diet can take awhile. Your main
goal is to be healthy. Plan for the long term. You can stop taking the Valtrex
whenever you want.
Take care,
ar
Tom - 09 Mar 2005 00:17 GMT
Thanks ar,
I am starting to understand that there is no norm for herpes now. Its funny
how doctors seem to make it seem that its one way or no way, but that's not
the case. I think I did have some smaller outbreaks previous to this one,
now that I think of it, but this one was the worst!
Its funny though that I got these blisters all of a sudden and most were
kind of like blister/pimples that just came to a head and then dried up,
except one that burst and got painful and now there is a scab on it. I
didn't have that maybe, just a few small ones and 1 big one, so I wasn't
sure what to think.
I changed my diet. I no longer eat chocolate, coffee, nuts and raisins, at
least very rarely if at all. I have been eating much better and taking alot
of vitamins and Lysine (1000mg now). I don't drink hardly at all and don't
smoke. I also bought a book called "Managing a Chronic STD: Herpes, and
living with it". I bought it on Amazon so I should get it by Friday. I'm
going to talk to my doctor about the possibility of valtrex and maybe a
cream for the sores.
Well thanks again,
I am sure I will have more questions at some point.
Tom
> Tom,
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> Take care,
> ar