Well, I don't know how this happened...
My husband and I just got married a month ago. We honeymooned at a
house that is only 2 years old and had a whirlpool bath. A week back
from the honeymoon and I had my first yeast infection in about 12
years. A few days later he was very sore and crusty around the tip of
his penis and it was just confirmed yesterday that he has herpes. Is
there -any- chance that his herpes was contracted through the bathtub?
It occurs to us that a recirculating water system like a whirlpool
would be very hard to clean, and, unlike a hot tub, the temperature is
not kept particularly warm so bacteria might not get killed. We have
been partners for about a year and a half and all of a sudden we have
had this pair of medical problems.
Herpes is a sneaky disease and we both might have been exposed
previously but he has never had a sore of any kind and I have had
infrequent single "pimples" but nothing like people describe. When I
was in college there was a night when my boyfriend woke me up laughing
because he thought I must have been having a wild dream because I was
breathing so heavily. It turned out that I had a very high fever that
was never diagnosed and went away in a couple of days. The useless
student infirmary was saying it was mono but it just went away. There
were no vaginal or other herpes-like symptoms. This was in 1982. That
boyfriend was once diagnosed with warts - not herpes. He was not
promiscuous and neither was I.
Heck, I have too many questions for one topic. The main thing I really
want to know is this: seeing as it has been years since the
possibility of herpes for me, would a blood test be able to detect if
herpes is, or has ever been, in my system? My husband is not concerned
with assigning blame but I feel awful. I think that I kind of stuck my
head in the sand since there is so much misinformation out there. I
hate to think that I have brought this into our marriage.
Thanks for any help.
LL
grant - 02 Nov 2006 22:23 GMT
Hi LL,
Welcome to the group. I'll comment below:
> Well, I don't know how this happened...
That's not uncommon. :)
> My husband and I just got married a month ago.
Congratulations!
>We honeymooned at a
> house that is only 2 years old and had a whirlpool bath. A week back
> from the honeymoon and I had my first yeast infection in about 12
> years.
How do you know it was a yeast infection? Did you go to a doctor, or self
diagnose? Mild herpes outbreaks are often mistaken for yeast infections in
women. You could have been having herpes outbreaks all this time.
A few days later he was very sore and crusty around the tip of
> his penis and it was just confirmed yesterday that he has herpes.
How was it confirmed?
>Is
> there -any- chance that his herpes was contracted through the bathtub?
Probably not. The herpes virus is very delicate and doesn't live outside
the body for more than a few seconds--unless conditions are perfect, and
then it will live a few seconds longer. Soap and water easily kill it.
> It occurs to us that a recirculating water system like a whirlpool
> would be very hard to clean, and, unlike a hot tub, the temperature is
> not kept particularly warm so bacteria might not get killed.
Herpes is a virus and not a bacteria.
>We have
> been partners for about a year and a half and all of a sudden we have
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> previously but he has never had a sore of any kind and I have had
> infrequent single "pimples" but nothing like people describe.
Unless you've both had a herpes blood test, then you really have no idea if
either of you had herpes prior to your relationship.
>When I
> was in college there was a night when my boyfriend woke me up laughing
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> boyfriend was once diagnosed with warts - not herpes. He was not
> promiscuous and neither was I.
Unless that boyfriend had a herpes test, you won't have any idea if he had
it. My boyfriend had warts and herpes...and guess what...then so did I. :(
> Heck, I have too many questions for one topic. The main thing I really
> want to know is this: seeing as it has been years since the
> possibility of herpes for me, would a blood test be able to detect if
> herpes is, or has ever been, in my system?
Herpes blood tests test for herpes antibodies. If you have the virus, you
have antibodies. It takes about 12 to 16 weeks for a person's body to build
up enough antibodies for accurate testing.
>My husband is not concerned
> with assigning blame but I feel awful. I think that I kind of stuck my
> head in the sand since there is so much misinformation out there. I
> hate to think that I have brought this into our marriage.
I can understand how you feel. But take a cue from your husband and don't
worry about it. What a great guy you have there! Just make sure that you
have a blood test to find out if you really do have it. Your husband might
be the one with herpes and not you. Also, if either of you have ever had a
cold sore, then you have herpes. Oral herpes gets passed on to the genitals
through oral sex. Oh, also, find out if your husband has type 1 or type 2.
It's actually kind of important to know.
Keep asking questions and we'll keep answering.
Take care,
ar
Eric - 03 Nov 2006 00:00 GMT
LL,
Herpes is not spread through hot tubs. However, Pseudomonas bacteria
live in hot tubs so I suppose there is a chance that it could be that.
None of your "yeast infection" or his "discharge" symptoms sound like
herpes, but you'll want a doctor to verify this.
If he got a blood test, was it type-specific? Most people will test
positive for HSV-1 so this may be a factor. Talk to your physician
about this.
> Well, I don't know how this happened...
>
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>
> LL
Wanda - 03 Nov 2006 10:28 GMT
Hi Eric!
> LL,
>
> Herpes is not spread through hot tubs. However, Pseudomonas bacteria
> live in hot tubs so I suppose there is a chance that it could be that.
> None of your "yeast infection" or his "discharge" symptoms sound like
> herpes, but you'll want a doctor to verify this.
Actually, the yeast infection could have been a mild outbreak. Maybe. Of
course a doc would be the one to say for sure. I have had mild OB's like
that before myself and that's what I thought it was too.
Wanda
> If he got a blood test, was it type-specific? Most people will test
> positive for HSV-1 so this may be a factor. Talk to your physician
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> >
> > LL
M2slo2cht@nospam.invalid - 03 Nov 2006 14:38 GMT
>A week back
>from the honeymoon and I had my first yeast infection in about 12
>years.
Do you know for sure it was yeast? Sometimes the symptoms are hard to
differentiate from Herpes.
>A few days later he was very sore and crusty around the tip of
>his penis and it was just confirmed yesterday that he has herpes.
With a culture type test? (a blood test probably wouldn't show
positive unless he'd been infected at least 12-16 weeks)
>Is
>there -any- chance that his herpes was contracted through the bathtub?
No.
>not kept particularly warm so bacteria might not get killed.
Herp isn't a bacteria, it's a virus. And it can't survive in bathtub
water no matter what the temp is, hot or cold.
>he has never had a sore of any kind and I have had
>infrequent single "pimples" but nothing like people describe.
Most people don't have symptoms at all or at least no symptoms that
can be identified as Herpes. The only way to diagnose those folks is
with a blood test. Btw, an "infrequent single pimple" can't be ruled
out as Herp.
>The useless
>student infirmary was saying it was mono but it just went away. There
>were no vaginal or other herpes-like symptoms. This was in 1982.
In 1982 there were no blood tests available. At least not accurate
ones. And back then there was even more misinformation about Herp than
there is now.
>That
>boyfriend was once diagnosed with warts - not herpes. He was not
>promiscuous and neither was I.
He could easily have been hsv positive though, but asymptomatic. It's
very very common. And by the way, it wouldn't matter whether either of
you was promiscuous or not.
>seeing as it has been years since the
>possibility of herpes for me, would a blood test be able to detect if
>herpes is, or has ever been, in my system?
Yes. Definitely.
M2
Under the Radar - 03 Nov 2006 16:07 GMT
> >A week back
> >from the honeymoon and I had my first yeast infection in about 12
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>
> M2
Hi everyone. Original poster here...
Thanks for all of the feedback. My husband was diagnosed with a
culture. They are treating him with something for the herpes itself (5
pills at once for 10 days) and with an antibiotic for, I guess, a
secondary infection. He is still sore and red but almost all of the
crusty is gone. We haven't called about the type I vs type II but we
will. I have an appointment for a blood test next Tuesday. I'll post
when I know the results.
Thanks!
LL
M2slo2cht@nospam.invalid - 03 Nov 2006 21:02 GMT
>They are treating him with something for the herpes itself (5
>pills at once for 10 days)
Before he throws all five of those pills down at once, get him to
check his instructions one more time, just to be on the safe side.
The usual dosage for 200mg Acyclovir (and sometimes 400mg pills) is 5
times a day for 10 days (sometimes longer). That works out to one pill
every 4 hours during the day. Not all five at once. Or maybe he's
being treated with something else, but it wouldn't hurt to check.
M2
grant - 03 Nov 2006 22:07 GMT
Hi,
Call today to get the type 1 or 2 info from the lab. Unless the doctor
requests to have the culture typed, they won't do it. But labs keep the
culture for a bit so if you call early enough, the lab can run the test.
ar
>> >A week back
>> >from the honeymoon and I had my first yeast infection in about 12
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> Thanks!
> LL
Under the Radar - 21 Nov 2006 01:17 GMT
> Hi,
>
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> > Thanks!
> > LL
Hello! OP again with a follow-up. My blood test came back positive
for HSV2. My husband's original culture was positive for HSV2 and his
subsequent blood test was "positive for a new outbreak of HSV2". The
doctor was specific about calling it a new outbreak (the word may not
have been "outbreak" but the emphasis was on "new").
My poor hubby was finally comfortable having an erection by the middle
of last week, but still gets very sore very quickly. I cannot believe
how long this outbreak has lasted!!
Our big goal now is not to get anything on our mouths. I know we can
deal with it but we both work in forms of customer service and it is
just easier if our newly-discovered status stays private.
Thanks for all of the help and information.
LL
grant - 21 Nov 2006 03:24 GMT
> Our big goal now is not to get anything on our mouths. I know we can
> deal with it but we both work in forms of customer service and it is
> just easier if our newly-discovered status stays private.
>
> Thanks for all of the help and information.
> LL
the good news is that type 2 generally doesn't infect the oral area. But
always proceed with caution.
ar
M2slo2cht@nospam.invalid - 21 Nov 2006 11:54 GMT
>My blood test came back positive
>for HSV2.
Well, the good news is, since you're both infected with the same type,
you're not subject to the worry of transfer as you otherwise would be.
>My husband's original culture was positive for HSV2 and his
>subsequent blood test was "positive for a new outbreak of HSV2". The
>doctor was specific about calling it a new outbreak (the word may not
>have been "outbreak" but the emphasis was on "new").
I know "primary" and I know "initial" but I thought every outbreak
could be considered a "new" one. Including the recurrent ones. I'm not
sure what he meant by "new".
>I cannot believe
>how long this outbreak has lasted!!
2-3 weeks isn't uncommon. How long has it lasted?
>Our big goal now is not to get anything on our mouths.
That's not likely, but be careful for now anyway. The longer you both
have it, the less likely it becomes. The antibodies you build up over
time will protect you from a new infection in other locations. No
guarantees, especially for people without normal immune systems, but
it usually works that way.
M2