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loss - 22 Aug 2006 21:14 GMT
Well the winner is ME.  I'm the mother of a bouncing baby - HSV-2 ... .
I feel like I have to wear a scarlet letter for the rest of my life. .
. The Valtrex worked wonders and I feel as if nothing ever happend.  I
can't wait until I get the full blown outbreak, flu, fever, chills,
aches pain, possible hositalization . . .
Eric - 22 Aug 2006 21:26 GMT
loss,

I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis. Don't think for one moment
that you have to wear a scarlet letter for the rest of your life. You
are still the same person you were before you found out. And you know
what, nobody has to know about it except those that you trust enough
and those you plan on being intimate with. People can look at my lip
and know what I have. If you take Valtrex suppressively, I'm sure any
recurrances will be milder and you won't get any of the things you
mentioned.

You're not alone. So many people have what you have. We're all here for
you, talk to us, ok? You'll be ok.

Hang in there,

~Eric

> Well the winner is ME.  I'm the mother of a bouncing baby - HSV-2 ... .
> I feel like I have to wear a scarlet letter for the rest of my life. .
> . The Valtrex worked wonders and I feel as if nothing ever happend.  I
> can't wait until I get the full blown outbreak, flu, fever, chills,
> aches pain, possible hositalization . . .
loss - 22 Aug 2006 22:16 GMT
Thanks. I just never though I'd be like one of those "beautiful" people
on the TV commercials.

I know my exhusband, (for better or worse, yada, yada) gave this to me.
He had numerous anonimous sex partners during our marriage, he
traveled a lot.  Unbeknownst to me, until later on, he was a sex
addict.  I confronted him after he had shown no interest in sex for
what would be a long period of time for him, he confessed that he had a
"sore" that was very painful and had gone to a "doc-in-the-box" where
they gave him an ointment and that seemed to be healing it.  I, of
course, flipped out and made him see a urologist, I even went to the
appointment with him.

I had every confidence in the doc, who said that whatever it was seemed
to have been "burned" off and not to worry.  To this doc's discredit he
NEVER said that I or my EX should be tested.  Well here it is 11-12
years later and .  .

I win!!!

I was sooooo stupid, but I thought, hey if the doc says not to worry. .
.. . I hope that anyone reading this might take heed and if they are
ever suspicious . .
GET TESTED, who cares what the doc says, the proof is in the test.

> loss,
>
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> > can't wait until I get the full blown outbreak, flu, fever, chills,
> > aches pain, possible hositalization . . .
grant - 22 Aug 2006 22:36 GMT
Hi Loss,

Congratulations on your diagnosis!  :)

Hugs to you.

I remember that feeling--of having to wear the scarlet letter.  I thought
everyone who looked at me could see I had a horrible disease.

But it really does get better, honest.  It just takes some time.  Allow
yourself the chance to grieve, then pull yourself together, and keep on
going.  I have faith in you.

ar

> Well the winner is ME.  I'm the mother of a bouncing baby - HSV-2 ... .
> I feel like I have to wear a scarlet letter for the rest of my life. .
> . The Valtrex worked wonders and I feel as if nothing ever happend.  I
> can't wait until I get the full blown outbreak, flu, fever, chills,
> aches pain, possible hositalization . . .
Yoshi2me - 23 Aug 2006 13:35 GMT
> Well the winner is ME.  I'm the mother of a bouncing baby - HSV-2 ... .

How were you diagnosed? Did you have a blood test or was it a culture?

> I feel like I have to wear a scarlet letter for the rest of my life. .

What you "think" and what "actually is" are two different things.

> . The Valtrex worked wonders and I feel as if nothing ever happend.

When I was on suppressive therapy there were days that I felt like this
too... it was nice.
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> I
> can't wait until I get the full blown outbreak, flu, fever, chills,
> aches pain, possible hositalization . . .

Are you being sarcastic?

Angela

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loss - 23 Aug 2006 15:50 GMT
Angela,
I am being sarcastic.  Your info has been very helpful.  With your
help, along with the help of others, I have calmed down.

There is a lot of info out there to diseminate and if it is
misunderstood or if you don't follow-up with the "test" or a face to
face with a doctor, a person could think the rest of their life was
going to be HELL.  Such as I was sacastically responding to regarding
the fever, chills, aches, pains, naseau, and as one site stated
hospitalization.  All of which, could happen, not happen at all, happen
in varying degrees.  But still scary to think about.

In my case, I would bet my doughnuts that for the past past couple of
years the "yeast" infections I was experiencing may very well have been
HSV outbreaks that I never associated with HSV. BUT now, looking back,
I always said to myself I wonder why I never had the "classic" symptoms
(discharge, ect) of a yeast infection, just iching and sometimes
burning, I NEVER had any sores.  The OTC meds just eventually worked.
And I got them about 3-4 times a year, sometimes less.  Soooo. . . .

I hope this "last" HSV-2 outbreak is the last of the worst and now with
the Valtrex on hand,  I can be prepared.
P.S. I did have the scrape (culture) test.

Thanks again

> > Well the winner is ME.  I'm the mother of a bouncing baby - HSV-2 ... .
>
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> Herpes Blog
> http://herpes-help.blogspot.com/
grant - 23 Aug 2006 15:58 GMT
Hi Loss,

Those supposed yeast infections could very well have been mild herpes
outbreaks.  Many women have thought the same and then been surprised to find
out they have herpes.

And you're so right.  The websites available out there on the net can be
very scary.  But, many of them are set up that way so a person will buy
whatever it is they are selling.  People do end up in the hospital because
their first outbreak is so serious, they don't know what's happening, so
they go to the ER.  Or, their eyes get infected with the virus and they have
to go into the hospital for treatment--that happened to my former college
roomie.  But all in all, the vast majority of people just go on living their
lives without incident.

I'm glad the Valtrex is offering you some comfort.  Many blessings to you.

ar

> Angela,
> I am being sarcastic.  Your info has been very helpful.  With your
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>> Herpes Blog
>> http://herpes-help.blogspot.com/
Yoshi2me - 23 Aug 2006 19:05 GMT
> Angela,
> I am being sarcastic.  Your info has been very helpful.  With your
> help, along with the help of others, I have calmed down.

Oh I am sooo glad you are feeling better. It really and truly is going to be
ok - you'll see. :)

> There is a lot of info out there to diseminate and if it is
> misunderstood or if you don't follow-up with the "test" or a face to
> face with a doctor, a person could think the rest of their life was
> going to be HELL.

That's sooo true!

> Such as I was sacastically responding to regarding
> the fever, chills, aches, pains, naseau, and as one site stated
> hospitalization.  All of which, could happen, not happen at all, happen
> in varying degrees.  But still scary to think about.

I can see how that might happen with somebody that doesn't really know much
about herpes. I think you'll find once you get a handle on all of this -
that it's not as scary as what you first thought. :)

> In my case, I would bet my doughnuts that for the past past couple of
> years the "yeast" infections I was experiencing may very well have been
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> burning, I NEVER had any sores.  The OTC meds just eventually worked.
> And I got them about 3-4 times a year, sometimes less.  Soooo. . . .

I too wonder if perhaps your "yeast infections" were really herpes
outbreaks, ya know?

> I hope this "last" HSV-2 outbreak is the last of the worst and now with
> the Valtrex on hand,  I can be prepared.
> P.S. I did have the scrape (culture) test.

Make sure you find out if the lab typed it or not so you will know if you
have genital herpes type-1 or genital herpes type-2, k?

> Thanks again

Hey, no problem! :)

Hang in there,

Angela :)

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