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Medical Forum / Diseases and Disorders / Herpes / July 2006First date with that person!
Hiya, I had my first date with that women I talked about in a previous post. We went to the Mall in Downtown Providence, went to Dave and Busters, played video games, then ate lunch at the Cheesecake factory, then watched an outdoor concert going on in the city and finally finished it with coffee and dessert at an area cafe, and she gave me a kiss in the parking garage! Now this person doesnt know that I have herpes at all. I didnt even hint about it. I am going to wait until at least the 3rd date and see what happens. I know her ex husband was almost rich, but he was a jerk. I'm just getting by financially, average looking, and have a slightly big butt and need to loose a few lbs. I can say right now that she seems to like me alot, and she called me sweety and babe and this was only the first date, so I'll keep y'all posted. Ps. It could all change when I tell her I have herpes, she could look at me and tell me to go away, but maybe she won't. The thing is I have BOTH genital herpes and genital hpv, so I have to talk about BOTH things. :o( Al Hey Al, Thanks for the update. I'm there with you on the hpv and hsv. Gotta love it. :) Keep us informed on how it's going. ar > Hiya, > [quoted text clipped - 19 lines] > > Al > Hey Al, > > Thanks for the update. I'm there with you on the hpv and hsv. Gotta love > it. :) Keep us informed on how it's going. > > ar Yes I sure will. The second date may just be dinner and a movie, but usually by the second date there is more intense kissing going on. We'll see what happens. Al Really? Kissing on the second date? Perhaps you could slow it down a bit. I would certainly not tolerate all that kissing on the second date! ar > Yes I sure will. The second date may just be dinner and a movie, but > usually by the second date there is more intense kissing going on. > We'll see what happens. > > Al > Really? Kissing on the second date? Perhaps you could slow it down a bit. > I would certainly not tolerate all that kissing on the second date! > > ar Well I don't know for sure, but I kind of leave it up to the person I am with. I'm on the passive side. I find that women like men to be passive sometimes, and not all women want a real macho guy as one would think. I don't even know if there will be a second date, I still have to talk to her about that. I probably shouldnt put all my eggs in one basket yet, maybe I should meet new people in the meantime in case another person comes along and looks good. Just out of curiousity ar, what would you do if a guy tried all that kissing with you??? :o) Al > Just out of curiousity ar, what would you do if a guy tried all that > kissing with you??? :o) > > Al I don't know, Al. It's been so long, I can't remember! :) But seriously, before I go around intensely kissing someone, I like to know who they are and if I really have feelings for them. Now, I'm not talking about a nice, goodnight kiss at the door. I'm talking about a bit more than that. Before that happens, I had better sure I want the relationship to continue. I think that on a third date, if a man tried that with me, I'd boot him on out the door and not ever speak to him again. ar Before > that happens, I had better sure I want the relationship to continue. I > think that on a third date, if a man tried that with me, I'd boot him on out > the door and not ever speak to him again. > > ar Wow! Maybe I move a little faster, I don't know. Anyway I'm starting to think this girl from today is a dud, because she told me she was going to call me tonight and she didnt and I tried to call her and it seems shes avoiding me, her voice mail is always on. I had a back up plan to meet this other woman if the one from today didnt pan out. I'm supposed to meet this woman named Ana and shes half portuguese and half hispanic, and she seems really even though theres a slight language barrier. I had been talking to her online for about 2 months and we never met and she already knows i have herpes and she is okay with it. I just don't have good luck, but maybe things will change soon...I hope. Al So much for that person, she told me she had fun on the date, but there was no physical attraction! Oh well. I am thinking of talking to someone I was dating before, maybe re-kindle things. I think my luck with dating is running low :o( Why don't you just take a break. ar > So much for that person, she told me she had fun on the date, but there > was no physical attraction! Oh well. I am thinking of talking to > someone I was dating before, maybe re-kindle things. I think my luck > with dating is running low :o( I agree with AR on this one Al. It seems that dating for you is becoming some sort of competition to see who you can finally be with... Take a break and relax... Angela :) > Why don't you just take a break. > [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] >> someone I was dating before, maybe re-kindle things. I think my luck >> with dating is running low :o( > I agree with AR on this one Al. > [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > Angela :) Well this is true, I should take a break. I did however meet a new person recently and it turns out that after talking to her a while we got on the subject of health conditions. Well I found out that we both have anxiety and genital herpes. Shes 36 and has 2 children and we have alot of other things in common so I am eager to meet her now. Maybe soon I will take a break though...hopefully I'll be taking if after meeting the right person! Al |
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