I have been in a comitted relationship for over 2 years with a girl who
told me back then that she had GH. We've been pretty careful over that
period but not careful enough, I guess. I just found out that I'm
infected. She was really upset at first and was blaming herself for a
couple of days. I know that it was my own responsibility and I have to
live with the consequences. She didn't realize that she was having an
outbreak and I decided to skip the condom. Her "detection" abilities are
very good. It was just this one time, I guess. My symptoms are milder
than most others that I've read about. I only have one lesion on my
groin and nothing on my penis. I am experiencing muscle soreness in one
leg and a lot of surface sensitivity in the thigh and buttock of the
same leg. Wearing pants to work every day is like wearing sandpaper. I
started Valtrex (1000mg BID) the first day that I saw the lesion and I'm
hoping that the effects die down soon.

Here's my real question. Before this, we had a very active sex life.
Besides "normal" sex, we do a lot of oral and some occasional anal. Some
toys now and then as well. I'm assuming that I am now carrying the same
strain that she already has. Can either of us "catch" it from the other
orally or anally? I don't want her to get new outbreaks in new
locations. BTW, we're both over 40.

Thanks in advance