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Al - 18 Mar 2006 23:52 GMT
Going on Date # 2, with a new person I recently met. I already told her
I have genital herpes and she seemed okay with that. She has oral
herpes only to my knowledge. I'll keep you all posted!
Angela S. - 19 Mar 2006 14:14 GMT
> Going on Date # 2, with a new person I recently met. I already told her
> I have genital herpes and she seemed okay with that. She has oral
> herpes only to my knowledge. I'll keep you all posted!

Glad to see you are getting out there and having some fun. Very cool!

Angela :)

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shesand - 19 Mar 2006 20:02 GMT
Al, keep us updated and good luck! I usually had better luck when I
told someone early on in the relationship rather than waiting....
Anyway....good luck!
Al - 20 Mar 2006 04:41 GMT
Hi All,

Well date # 2 went well. We went out to a movie to see the movie
Firewall. We are planning on going to Chili's this Tuesday night and
then on the coming Saturday she said she's going to make dinner for me
and I can pickup a DVD rental. We'll see what comes next... :o)

I guess we are officially dating. So the next step is "seeing each
other"? I am so happy I met someone who is so okay with herpes the way
she is, its really a good feeling. I find it is also better to tell
someone right away rather than not. They either except you or not, and
if they don't its their loss, thats the way I look at it.
shesand - 20 Mar 2006 04:49 GMT
I'm sooo happy for you Al! I'm glad that it's going good for you!!!
shesand - 20 Mar 2006 04:49 GMT
I'm sooo happy for you Al! I'm glad that it's going good for you!!!
shesand - 20 Mar 2006 04:49 GMT
I'm sooo happy for you Al! I'm glad that it's going good for you!!!
Angela S. - 21 Mar 2006 14:58 GMT
Hi Al ~

So glad to see things are going well with your new girlfriend. Just be sure
you know her std status before you roll around in the hay, k?

Take Care,

Angela :)

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M2slo2cht@nospam.invalid - 22 Mar 2006 01:03 GMT
>Hi Al ~
>So glad to see things are going well with your new girlfriend.

Al's got a girlfriend???
Geeeze..... when'd that happen? I still have over 200 unread posts
here and I missed it.  Saw something about MLS bitin' the dust.  Who
else is among the missing around here?
Guess I'd better get to readin'.

M2
grant - 22 Mar 2006 02:34 GMT
What happened to MLS?

ar

>>Hi Al ~
>>So glad to see things are going well with your new girlfriend.
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>
> M2
M2slo2cht@nospam.invalid - 22 Mar 2006 04:55 GMT
>What happened to MLS?

How should *I* know?  LoL!
I thought I read somewhere that he'd found a girlfriend and was living
happily ever after somewhere.  Didn't you write that?  *Somebody*
did..... I think.

M2
grant - 22 Mar 2006 13:13 GMT
Yes, that was me.  :)  I've been gone for awhile and thought there was new
information.

ar

>>What happened to MLS?
>
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>
> M2
M2slo2cht@nospam.invalid - 22 Mar 2006 20:17 GMT
Not sure when you wrote it.  I'm just now reading posts of a couple
months ago so it's all new information to me.  Since mid-Dec I've been
up to my ears and haven't been around here at all until the other day.
That's as long as I've been away since I've been here I think. The
time went by before I realized it.
M2

>Yes, that was me.  :)  I've been gone for awhile and thought there was new
>information.
>ar

>>>What happened to MLS?
>>
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>>
>> M2
Angela S. - 23 Mar 2006 12:30 GMT
> Not sure when you wrote it.  I'm just now reading posts of a couple
> months ago so it's all new information to me.  Since mid-Dec I've been
> up to my ears and haven't been around here at all until the other day.
> That's as long as I've been away since I've been here I think. The
> time went by before I realized it.
> M2

M2 -

What's the word down in those parts. Are people still living in tents?

*Hugs*

Angela
M2slo2cht@nospam.invalid - 23 Mar 2006 19:19 GMT
>Are people still living in tents?

Yep, quite a few. Mostly though, it's FEMA trailers parked in the
driveways while the homes are being rebuilt.  That's slow, almost
non-existant progress though, so far. Most of our pre-Katrina
population seems to have just left the area for other parts of the
country. They being replaced temporarily by contractors and volunteer
help from all over the place living in what hotel rooms that are left
(17,000 rooms before, up to 5,500 now), plus rental housing where they
can find it, and sleeping under their trucks until something comes
available. Don't know where we'd be without volunteer help from every
state in the Union plus Canada, Mexico, and others. There's a Disaster
Relief team here from France, and get this... also from Haiti !!  :-D
All here workin' their butts off.  The North Carolina Baptist Men's
Convention alone has 1100 volunteers working here. I think that's half
of North Carolina! LoL!
It's gonna be a long long road back, and it'll never be the same, but
at least we're goin' SOMEwhere.

{{{hugs}}} back  ;-)

... and so as not to hijack the thread, Good Luck Al   :-)

M2
Angela S. - 23 Mar 2006 12:29 GMT
> How should *I* know?  LoL!
> I thought I read somewhere that he'd found a girlfriend and was living
> happily ever after somewhere.  Didn't you write that?  *Somebody*
> did..... I think.
>
> M2

Whooo Whooo - Mike has a new girlfriend! That's AWESOME. He deserves some
happiness.

Angela :)

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M.L.S. - 24 Mar 2006 03:37 GMT
>> How should *I* know?  LoL!
>> I thought I read somewhere that he'd found a girlfriend and was living
>> happily ever after somewhere.  Didn't you write that?  *Somebody*
>> did..... I think.

>Whooo Whooo - Mike has a new girlfriend! That's AWESOME. He deserves some
>happiness.

Oh Yeeeah!  Yep, me and the little woman have been treating ourselves like a hot
item for more than a *year* now.  You can probably thank the two of us for
single handedly driving up the cost of gas across the country as we relentlessly
burned up the miles commutin' into each other's arms.  In fact, the subsequent
relentless partings, of which much sweet sorrow is said to result, became so
unrelentingly sorrowful that I just bought a house within a few minutes drive of
the sweet thang and we are now getting to know each other in ways never before
thought possible. It just keeps getting better and better.  We met on MPwH, by
the way.

Take care, y'all,

Mike

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M2slo2cht@nospam.invalid - 24 Mar 2006 04:32 GMT
>thank the two of us for
>single handedly driving up the cost of gas across the country

So *that's* what did it.  I should'a known. Congrats on hangin' in
there though.  Guess I should fess up,  I helped give the price a bump
myself. Must have been about the same time period as yours. But my LDR
didn't hold up so well and went down the chute just recently.  400
miles and 6 hours was just too much.  Met her on Match  ;-)  Not sure
if that had anything to do with it or not lol!
oh well, back to the meet & greet circuit.
NEXT!!
M2
M.L.S. - 28 Mar 2006 18:04 GMT
>>thank the two of us for
>>single handedly driving up the cost of gas across the country

>So *that's* what did it.  I should'a known. Congrats on hangin' in
>there though.  Guess I should fess up,  I helped give the price a bump
>myself. Must have been about the same time period as yours. But my LDR
>didn't hold up so well and went down the chute just recently.  400
>miles and 6 hours was just too much.  

Sorry to hear it, M2.  Me and the svelte and lithesome K_ were but
100 miles or two hours driving time apart, and were able to make the
trip two to three times a week.  I put 25,000 miles on the truck in
the year.  If the distance had been greater it would have imposed a
much greater burden on getting to know each other, but exactly where
a good thing has to give way to physical realities I dunno.  I
consider myself lucky in all respects on this one.  Word is that she
does, too.  ;-)

>         Met her on Match  ;-)  Not sure
>if that had anything to do with it or not lol!
>oh well, back to the meet & greet circuit.
>NEXT!!

I was wondering if I'd run into you at one of the events, and K_ and
I were trying to attend one or two here and there, but eventually we
concluded we weren't really having that much fun in those settings
so our future precences at such will be rare.  See you on the
internets, then!

Take care and good luck,

Mike

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M2slo2cht@nospam.invalid - 28 Mar 2006 22:30 GMT
>trying to attend one or two here and there, but eventually we
>concluded we weren't really having that much fun in those settings
>so our future precences at such will be rare.

I've enjoyed the seminars mostly. But not many events have them
anymore. Indy has done away with theirs, Daytona was a one shot thing,
Houston will have one in April though. I'll try to make that one. The
party part can be fun but ya burn out after a few. I'm thinkin'
Houston will probably be my one and only for this year. Maybe my last,
I dunno.  But we may bump into each other yet, ya never know.

M2
Angela S. - 29 Mar 2006 02:45 GMT
> I've enjoyed the seminars mostly. But not many events have them
> anymore. Indy has done away with theirs,

That's cuz they don't have the same people putting the Indy Gathering
together any more.

Angela :)

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M2slo2cht@nospam.invalid - 29 Mar 2006 22:44 GMT
>they don't have the same people putting the Indy Gathering
>together any more.

^^^Understatement ^^^
They don't even have anybody from *Indiana* putting it together
anymore  :-(
When the chief planner and instigator of the original "gathering" idea
stepped down after... how many years?... 6-7 whatever... nobody picked
up the ball to run with it.  Who can blame them.  It takes an
incredible amount of planning, organizing, idea sparking, leadership
and w-o-r-k to make something like that so successful.  So with that
date open in June, one of the Atlanta party organizers, along with
somebody in Illinois, stepped up to just throw a simple bash that
weekend. No one is claiming it to be like the original "Gathering"
that started it all though. From what I understand, there's just NOT
anyone that can pull that off for a widely diverse crowd. So those
days are gone with the wind. It should be a good weekend for the
serious party peeps though. Those Atlanta party organizers are
specialists and have the party part down pat!   ;-)

M2
grant - 24 Mar 2006 13:13 GMT
Congratulations, Mike.  :)  Just come by for a visit once in awhile and let
us know how you're doing.

ar
M.L.S. - 28 Mar 2006 18:06 GMT
>Congratulations, Mike.  :)  Just come by for a visit once in awhile and let
>us know how you're doing.

Thank you, Ar!  I'm doing fine!

I'm closing my DSL account today, though, and am not planning a
connection at my new home for the foreseeable future.  I'll still
check in from my sweetie's home, though, about half the week, I
figger.

And thanks for your support!  ;-)

Mike

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Angela S. - 23 Mar 2006 12:28 GMT
> What happened to MLS?

That's what I'd like to know AR.

*Hugs*

Angela :)
Angela S. - 23 Mar 2006 12:28 GMT
> Al's got a girlfriend???
> Geeeze..... when'd that happen? I still have over 200 unread posts
> here and I missed it.  Saw something about MLS bitin' the dust.  Who
> else is among the missing around here?
> Guess I'd better get to readin'.

Hi M2 -

I must have missed the post where MLS bit the dust. Just goes to show you
that I don't always read what I'm supposed to! lol I am still around these
days - not as much as I'd like to be - but I am still around.

*Hugs*

Angela :)

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Al - 22 Mar 2006 06:32 GMT
Hi everyone,

Well the dinner at Chili's went well, so dinner at her house is next.
I'll probably have to postpone the dinner at her house because there
was a death in my family as my grandmother has died today. I know she
only has oral herpes, but she is very okay with me having genital
herpes, so I'm not sure what that means. I havent asked her if she has
anything else, but I will before we get more close. Whats the best way
to ask that question?

Al
grant - 22 Mar 2006 13:14 GMT
Sorry to hear about your grandmother.

ar

> Hi everyone,
>
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>
> Al
shesand - 23 Mar 2006 03:25 GMT
I hate to hear that about your grandmother. I hope everything continues
to go well between you and the girl....
talking about std's is never easy I don't think..no matter how you do
it or how comfortable you feel with your partner.  I wouldn't even know
how to begin that conversation.
Angela S. - 23 Mar 2006 12:32 GMT
> Hi everyone,
>
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Al

Wow - When it rains it certainly pours. I'm sorry to hear about your
grandmother's death. That sucks. I wouldn't "ask her if she has anything
else" but if it were me - I would make a "lets go get tested together" date
before you do the deed.

*Hugs*

Angela :)
Al - 23 Mar 2006 18:36 GMT
<<Wow - When it rains it certainly pours. I'm sorry to hear about your
grandmother's death. That sucks. I wouldn't "ask her if she has
anything
else" but if it were me - I would make a "lets go get tested together"
date
before you do the deed. >>

Hi,

Yes it certainly does. My mothers dog and cat died last fall and now my
grandmother. Since this all happened I am getting another OB and it was
worse than usual so far. It must be stress? Great timing huh? Just
before I am supposed to go to that womans house. I don't know if i have
the guts to ask her about getting tested, but I have a feeling she may
have genital herpes without telling me, because she is so okay about
it.

I was thinking also of looking into a chiroprator for my back. The
herpes nerve pain has been worse than ever in my lower and even upper
back. My health insurance covers that, but not accupuncture. My family
seems to frown on Chiropractors, and tells me I should look into a
massuese. One question I have is do I have to tell the masseuse that I
have herpes since they will be massaging the lower back? If I do tell
them could I be turned down for backrubs?

Thanks,
Al
 
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