Hello,

Originally I thought that I would just stay with my partner for the long
haul but tonight I decided that I was sick and tired of her moods and
meanness towards me and would break up with her.

I orginally posted the following in September last year:

http://groups.google.com.au/group/alt.support.herpes/browse_thread/thread/fcec47
b44411b8b6/15009ce538b58fe5?lnk=st&q=%22I'm+worried+that+she+may+have+a+HPV+or+w
orse+herpes%22&rnum=1&hl=en#15009ce538b58fe5

Sorry I didn't keep the group posted but it's been bloody frustrating
trying to get any kind of solid evidence about myself or get my partner
to get herself tested. I seem to test negative for everything but of
course my doctor does not know the latest information on male HPV
testing. I would like to find out how I can get this.

I've had to have a small cystic lesion removed from my left upper
eye-lid. We've both had candidiasis and oddly mine seemed to come back
when in relation to viewing porn on my PC. I was prescribed a cream to
deal with it that is also used for treating tinea.
Overall my penis now seems drier and a little bit smellier and i'm not
sure why.

The first time we had intercourse she had the lights out anyway so I had
a suspicion she may have tried to hide her symptoms from me.

She is big girl with wart/blister like things on her buttocks that she
admitted hurt and very dark patches and scars on the front of her
thighs. She seems to have an issue with vagina odor that could be
vaginitis.

She has small a cystic lesion on her chin very similar to the one I had
removed.

She was very sad that I was breaking up with her but perhaps I would
just prefer to be single and focus on my technology career interests
rather than live with someone that ridiculed me for my technical
knowledge and dedication.

If my immune system clears the infection from my system sometime in the
next 2 years and I can undergo testing to certify that then I may
consider entering another relationship.

So what the state-of-art in Male HPV testing and will I likely have to
travel to get it?

Is there anything I can do to stregthen my immune system and help defeat
the HPV?

Will diagnosing the type of HPV help me do this?

thanks