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exxos - 12 Dec 2005 10:39 GMT

Hi all,

My gf got really drunk and ended up sleeping withsome else (she has been
with my for 6 years aswell!) she feels bad (as she should) tho I made her
get tested for STD's, she has developed warts it seems overnight ?! and she
is having treatment for it, she also has cervix warts which she will be
treated for soon. I probably have the virus aswell now, since she didn't say
anything to me for a few days! needless to say im pretty much stuffed myself
now.

Can these warts appear *that* fast basically overnight ? from what I read it
can take months to develop, which makes me think shes cheated on my like 6
months ago! she has had people come onto her and shes told me about it in
the past, I do not trust her tho.. I want her to get tested for how long
shes had the virus as apparently it can be checked, she seems very reluctant
to have it done, which makes me wonder.

Even tho all the damage has now been done for both of us, can she develop
all those warts over a matter of days ?

thanks
chris

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Grant - 12 Dec 2005 12:15 GMT

Chris,

I don't know about how fast the warts can show up. However, I do know the virus
can lay dormant for awhile and therefore, you should be checked. There is a
good possibility that you might have given her the virus. When was the last
time you had a full std panel? As well as a herpes test?

There are many types of HPV. The vast majority of the populace has at least
one. Having an STD is not indicative of someone cheating on the relationship.

ar

>Hi all,
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>thanks
>chris

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exxos - 12 Dec 2005 13:36 GMT

> Chris,
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> ar

Well even tho im only 27, she was the first g/f ive had, and I was her first
too, there was just no reason to get checked in the past, i know for a fact
shes been with another guy, actually even know who he is, shes gotta be
treated and is been doing, either way for me dont really matter, im sticking
by her and just assume I have the virus, I should have got checked when she
did, though I dont plan on being with anyone else, we are trying to give it
another go. I can't imagine either of us have picked it up in the past, we
just haven't been with anyone else (well I haven't thats for sure)... I
guess its just one of those things we will both have to live with now..

Let it be a lesson to girls reading this, don't get drunk and don't sleep
with guys who haven't been STD tested, same for the guys too.

chris

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Grant - 12 Dec 2005 16:39 GMT

Chris,

I'm glad you're sticking with her.

ar

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exxos - 12 Dec 2005 21:47 GMT

> Chris,
>
> I'm glad you're sticking with her.
>
> ar

I think your the first one whos actually said that in the whole of this week
tho.

chris

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Grant - 12 Dec 2005 23:56 GMT

>I think your the first one whos actually said that in the whole of this week
>tho.
>
>chris

Well, the decision is yours. And only yours. Don't pay any mind to what anyone
else says. But there are a few things you said that I think you need to
carefully think about. You said in one post that you don't really trust your
girlfriend. That's a bad sign. Also, it's important to know that stds aren't a
sign of a "bad" person. You didn't say that but it is an impression that was
left with me.

But back to your situation. If you believe that you have a future with this
woman, then it is a good idea to work it out. People make mistakes. And that's
the bottom line. But make sure you feel she is telling you the truth and that
she knows what she wants. It could be that she isn't as sure as you are as to
what she wants.

ar

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exxos - 14 Dec 2005 17:24 GMT

>>I think your the first one whos actually said that in the whole of this
>>week
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> ar

I've spent a couple of nights with her n things seem like how they used to
be somehow, so something has changed, I just hope it will last and there
won't be any more "mistakes" in the future. every one I know says ditch her
and that im a total fool for wanting to stick with her, i guess just have to
see how things go...

Chris

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