I recently had oral contact with a woman. I told her that I did not
want her to perform oral sex but she placed her mouth on my penis
anyway. That contact was fairly brief but it did happen. At first I put
it out of my mind but a few days later I started to worry about the
encounter. At that time the very tip of my penis hurt so I went to the
doctor who did a urine test and said my WBC was high (> 10) so he gave
me some antibiotics. I asked him about diseases and basically had a
wait and see attitude. I became concerend about herpes after reading
about it. There is a lot of confusing information on the Internet so I
though maybe somebody here could help give me some direction. My penis
did begin to feel sensitive, sort of like a burning but I could not
nail it down to a specific spot. I wasn't sure if I was just
hyper-sensitive because of my anxiety or if there was some sensitivity
as the result of the antibiotics. I finally spoke about the encounter
to my wife and that made the symptoms go away. I spoke with my doctor
about it and he examined me and saw nothing. He said there was no easy
way to tell if I have herpes unless something shows up. Of course, now
I examine my penis every day. I did notice a small red bump (smaller
than  pin head) in some if the folds near the head but since I never
really spent much time examining it before I don't know if it was
always there or not. My question is, is there anyway if no obvious
symptons appear to be reasonably sure that I don't have herpes? I've
spoken to my wife and she understands that there could be a problem but
I would like to eliminate as much doubt as I can. My doctor did not
mention how to go forward from here. He did say there were some tests
but that if I have it I would know it so he didn't seem to interested
in doing any tests. It's been about 3 weeks since the encounter and
nothing dramatically obvious has shown up. Of course I still worry. I
don't want to hurt my wife.

Thanks