Greetings, fellow travelers:
They sat there is a word for everything. I just learned a new one, and I am
hereby sharing it with you.
The word is: anhedonia. It is: “a psychological condition characterized by
inability to experience pleasure in normally pleasurable acts”
How could anybody be in such a sate? Weird, huh?
Be well and be clear,
Suds
dBo - 11 Aug 2008 02:06 GMT
You haven't met my in- laws, have you. ;)
Yes its a great word and sadly the world is way too full of people who
are unable to experience real pleasure in anything because all their
energy is being taken up by negativity, finger pointing and The Blame
Game. What they consider enjoying some time together = ripping and
slashing whomever is not present, bitching and exchanging notes on
what they KNOW he/she MEANT by what he/she said, calling each other
and everyone else who has does not agree with them and back up every
little sick negative thought they express an "f.cking a.shole" - well
you get the idea....can you tell I've had a bad week? haha! Ah well
next week is a new week, right?
Actually I supposed anhedonia in its truest sense of the word is not
the correct word to descibe them. They DO experice pleasure - this is
what the consider "pleasureable", haha! So, ok any other "word freaks"
out there, what would the word be for what I'm describing? Maybe
Narcissistic? How bout just plain old "Dysfuctional" to the Max...
nah, that word is so hackeyed and worn out.....that one bores me
anymore....
Personally my idea of a "pleasureable" time usually involves something
peaceful and quite that allows me to "recharge" and get ready for the
next round of Daily Living and being grateful for the blessing I have,
return to better health etc.....Their idea of a pleasureable time is
spending it in chaos and turmoil. Its a bad mix for me.....
Hey CJ I think I need a visit to your Healing Tree ;)
Cactus Jammies - 11 Aug 2008 02:45 GMT
> Personally my idea of a "pleasureable" time usually involves something
> peaceful and quiet that allows me to "recharge" and get ready for the
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> Hey CJ I think I need a visit to your Healing Tree ;)
Naw, you're doing OK. The Dalai Lama describes the state of mind for the
type of people you mentioned (in the part I cropped out) as being wrapped in
'Purposeful Ignorance'. A hinderance to themselves and those around them.
Best to just avoid those types of people.
cj ~~~~~~~~
TX-012 - 11 Aug 2008 02:35 GMT
> Greetings, fellow travelers:
>
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
> Suds
This was the original title of the Woody Allen film "Annie Hall."
Woody is supposedly a very big fan of antidepressants as a result of
his longstanding battle with said state of being.
You'd never know it from his films, of course, which radiate
contentedness and satisfaction with the current human condition.
Waterspider - 24 Aug 2008 19:47 GMT
> Greetings, fellow travelers:
>
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> Suds
Thanks, Suds, I'm a big fan of interesting words. What worries me about
anhedonia is that "normal" word in the definition ;-)