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Medical Forum / Diseases and Disorders / Epilepsy / January 2005Goodbye
Hi everyone, I know I have not posted on here all that much but I would like to tell everyone that I have always read the posts to try and work out better ways for Darryl (my husband) to manage his epilepsy and better ways for me to deal with it. As of the 17th December Darryl left me for a younger woman and when he gets his act together he will be coming back to pick up the rest of his stuff from our house including the computer. This is not a bitter attack against him even though it may seem like it, but I just wanted everyone to know that what you have posted I have read and in a lot of cases has helped me better understand the epilepsy that Darryl has. I wish you all the best Patsy Howdy Patsy! Sorry to see you go. Take care of yourself!  SignatureDave ???? http://www.howdydave.com > Hi everyone, > [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > > Patsy > Hi everyone, > [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] > > Patsy Not to belittle anything... but some safety tips in situations like this. Before he does take the computer back, ensure there is nothing of yours on it... and that any important records, numbers, and emails (especially emails) are transfered to a CD and "erased" from the computer. A good program to permanently erase a file is 'eraser', a free program available on downloads.com. Better yet, and the simplest solution, is to just swipe the drive from the computer and tell him to go spend the $60 to go get a brand new one, which will be much larger. If he complains, say he will get it back after you have gone through it (after you get YOUR computer btw) and removed all your important files from it. This is for your own protection, and consideration of the information drives contain, it is just as important as making sure jointly held credit cards and bank accounts are immediately blocked. Take care of yourself Kevin > > Hi everyone, > > [quoted text clipped - 35 lines] > > Take care of yourself I like the way you think. After a time together anyway, it is hard to tell who owns what. I hope she packs his stuff instead of allowing him to wander through the house and help himself to anything he sees. Barb > Kevin Hi Patsy, Take care of your self and this sure is not a nice way to start the New Year with! SignatureThanks. Marco The Netherlands Sorry to hear your sad news, Patsy. Best wishes for the future - may 2005 be a better year than 2004! Thanks for your contributions to the group. > Hi everyone, > [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > > Patsy Sorry to see you leave the group Patsy (what a pretty name!).... As far as the computer goes, my friend makes new and rebuilt ones (I ain't trying to sell ya one, but try and stay on the group if ya can!!)pretty cheap if you want another one....... As far as your husband goes, sounds definitely like his loss! Good luck in life for the new year! owlvee > Hi everyone, > [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > > Patsy Sorry to hear this kind of news, Patsy. Best wishes to you in the future though. Barb > Hi everyone, > [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > > Patsy Hello Patsy, > I know I have not posted on here all that much but I would like to tell > everyone that I have always read the posts to try and work out better ways > for Darryl (my husband) to manage his epilepsy and better ways for me to > deal with it. > > As of the 17th December Darryl left me for a younger woman That's dreadful news, I'm very sorry. > This is not a bitter attack against him even though it may seem like it, No it doesn't. I'm surprised how restrained you're being ... I'm shocked and surprised, we never really know what's happening behind the posts in newsgroups, do we? Mary I am sorry for the hurt feelings associated with human partings. But I have been getting fussy about the uses of language. "As of the 17th December Darryl left me for a younger woman" If the woman had been older, rather than younger, would that have been mentioned? I guess what got me a bit riled was the implication that the male wing of this race is cock-minded on fresh offerings. Personally I find that depth and richness comes with age. >I am sorry for the hurt feelings associated with human partings. But I >have > been getting fussy about the uses of language. So am I. > "As of the 17th December Darryl left me for a younger woman" > > If the woman had been older, rather than younger, would that have been > mentioned? It might not have been as hurtful. Many women are very conscious about their appearance (that's very evident on the breast cancer goup I inhabit) and are aware of their loss of youth. To be 'discarded' for someone who has that youth, possibly a younger figure, fewer wrinkles and the like can be cutting. It wouldn't affect me but I'm aware of others' feelings and have some sympathy for them. > I guess what got me a bit riled was the implication that the male wing of > this > race > is cock-minded on fresh offerings. That's your interpretation, it's not everyone's. > Personally I find that depth and richness comes with age. So do I. But many women (including me) still want to be attractive to their mates. The fact that my mate is very happy with my withered dugs, fat thighs and wrinkles makes me very happy, not all are, sadly. I used to want men to want me for my brains. Now I'd like them to want me for my body. You can't win ... :-) I didn't find the language used offensive at all. Mary >>I am sorry for the hurt feelings associated with human partings. But I >>have [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] > > Mary Hi all. Just to let you know, I'm back with Patsy now and we are working things out together. Was but a moment of temporary insanity on my part. Darryl. >>>I am sorry for the hurt feelings associated with human partings. But I >>>have [quoted text clipped - 38 lines] > Just to let you know, I'm back with Patsy now and we are working things > out together. Was but a moment of temporary insanity on my part. It usually is! I'm very pleased that you're back. It will take working on but nothing which is worthwhile is easy. Keep at it - if only for our sake! You caused argument in the group and we don't need help to do that :-) Mary > Darryl. Wow. That's great to hear! Barb > >>I am sorry for the hurt feelings associated with human partings. But I > >>have [quoted text clipped - 40 lines] > > Darryl.
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