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Holly Sox - 29 May 2005 14:50 GMT Hi, Y'all
My name is Holly, and I'm from SC(hence the greeting), and I have a 13 year old son who has had seizures since age 7. His first seizures were grand mal, about 3 in a year. He was on Tegretol for a couple of years, then switched to Depakote to help with behavior management as well. (He was thought to have ADHD.... more on that later) In 5th grade, he melted down completely. His teachers were spending half their day one-on-one with him, so we went through eval for special ed. His fine motor skills had begun to regress, and he was also dx with central auditory processing disorder.
After months of testing and evaluation, his neurologist finally determined that he was having partial complex seizures daily. What we thought were behavior outbursts were actually seizure activity. He felt that the motor problems were related to the depakote, so switched him to Trileptal, which we've now been on for 2 years. We are having a really frightening period right now because of his adolescent growth spurt. He has had a lot more p-c activity in the last 6 weeks, and on Thursday, had a grand mal that lasted 14 minutes.
I've been lurking here and reading the messages for a few months, but could really use the support from parents as well as adults with epilepsy who have made it through this stage.
Someone on an earlier thread mentioned that seizures are much more frightening for the witnesses than for the person experiencing the seizure. My son told me Friday, "Mom, it's really sort of serene. I just go to sleep and wake up in a little while. It's a serene kind of sickness to have."
Nice to meet you all, and I'm glad you are here.
-- Holly F. Sox, RN, RAC-C Clinical Editor Careplans.com
www.careplans.com
G.Ross - 29 May 2005 16:33 GMT > Hi, Y'all > [quoted text clipped - 30 lines] > sleep > and wake up in a little while. It's a serene kind of sickness to have." ** I can't imagine who posted that... :-< Actually several of us have listed that over last few months. Since once a full CP seizure starts to generalize, we are aware of little or None of what we do. That's where the First Aid charts, etc. come in, and sometimes care needs to be taken with respect to which sports or activities might prove harmful if we were to have an Absence or stronger seizure while e.g. on a Motorbike, Driving, Skating etc. *ALSO, someone might comment here about the effects of Puberty on Seizures and Medication levels, since I had read that during that period Body Weight Increase, plus Hormones etc. can mess with some of the anti ep drugs (AEDs). Since *my seizures were post Middle Age, I don't have experience with going through that, but others here did. ***** Below is a 'paste from cut' of an earlier list I did of some sites, in case you didn't see them, in the history queues. Most of them are provided or created by people who post here semi-regularly and purloined without their consent. If you haven't seen the First Aid ones, those can be useful. The First Aid in water is relatively new. Those would be particularly useful if he's into Water Sports or Summer activities that might take him outdoors to Lake Country or activities where you might not be around.
Second thing not listed there, but I wondered if they use Medic Alert Bracelets where you are? and would he *wear one if you got it to give Mom Peace of Mind? (i.e. not take it off as the car disappears out of view? ) They need his Blood Type for the bracelet and card, and Teachers or Doctors can call M.Alert collect from anywhere (in the world) to get Home and Emerg Contacts, Doctor's names and contact numbers etc. There are New ones now that are plain silver or gold, and don't highlight the Red Snake, but have the copyright oval and information that a Medic would recognize, so they're more like Jewellery than ones from 10 years ago were. Some people 'here' have mixed opinions about usefulness of those-- I found mine paid for itself from pre-1993 to 1998 when I had my last seizure. There's a one time charge, and you get reminder once a year to make sure you didn't move or medical condition didn't change and records need updating. (In Canada donations above cost of replacement bracelets are Tax Deductible under the Charities line on income tax -- don't know if the U.S. has that deduction too.) ******** This is the olde post --> (Note it doesn't include Howdy Dave's website in this list, my mistake. Find a recent post of his and his website is listed at end of posts, click to the site, then click to Add to Favorites, and keep Dave's Site address there too.) G./ ***************************** Some weblinks you might not have seen a few days ago, that have useful information about seizures. You can likely find your seizure type there (sounds like Complex Partial like mine?), and it shows that we're not aware of what we say or do while 'away'. If it would help any of them you could print the page, so they'd see how 'easy' it is to make your return more comfortable and quick, compared to getting into a panic about what to do. The main First Aid site I use (Julie put together for us, and Idaho) is --> http://www.epilepsyidaho.org/seizure.htm . (Check the description of 'what we do' for each type. That's why I thought your's would be either Complex Partial (Temporal Lobe) or Grand Mal from description.)
If in water (swimming etc.) at seizure onset, there's some differences what to do, that I think are described at http://www.epilepsyidaho.org/seizure2.htm .
Learning about Epilepsy for people newly diagnosed or helping others understand. http://www.epilepsyidaho.org/learn.htm , and the General doorway that eventually links to all above but may have other stuff for people near to Idaho is at http://www.epilepsyidaho.org .
Those have lots of useful stuff about taking the 'edge' off learning to handle seizures for people newly diagnosed and people around us -- family and co-workers, etc. If any Medications are prescribed, the U.S. Ep. Foundation has a large database of info. but also a Medications Glossary within http://efa.org site. G./
> Nice to meet you all, and I'm glad you are here. > -- [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > www.careplans.com Holly Sox - 29 May 2005 23:07 GMT Wow, Thanks for all the information. That's exactly what I need.
It's funny.. I am a nurse. I know what to do from a clinical standpoint. But when it's my child lying there, it seems like everything I know just disappears.
I have considered the medic alert, and I think he would wear it. He is (so far) a wonderful child, and if I said it would make me feel better, that's all it would take for him to wear it 24/7.
Holly
-- Holly F. Sox, RN, RAC-C Clinical Editor Careplans.com
holly@careplans.com www.careplans.com
> > Hi, Y'all > > [quoted text clipped - 111 lines] > > > > www.careplans.com G.Ross - 03 Jun 2005 16:59 GMT > Wow, > Thanks for all the information. That's exactly what I need. [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > Careplans.com > holly@careplans.com www.careplans.com ** I just thought too-> ~4 years ago Medic Alert Canada introduced 'Sports Bands' for Kids who wear medic alert bracelets. They're like the Coloured Sweatbands that were in style then -- if they still are (in style) -- they come in Yellow, Red, Blue or Green? and the bracelet part is imbedded in the centre of the band so a Dr. would recognize the Copyright Oval and Snake and Sword logo, but others might just think it's a Sportband. They had told me at the time they introduced them so that kids didn't feel 'singled out' by wearing the other (adult) type of bracelet or necklace. I assume if they proved popular that they might still use those now too. (If Google can't find the link and pictures of samples, the phone number should be in your local phone book, and they could give you a www address if you want to see the pictures before any brochures could arrive.)
I thought (if you know his blood type, and have Doctor Work and Emerg. phone numbers) if he's going to any summer camps etc. over the holidays you could order it sooner if you needed (wanted) to. Their File will list up to *3 Doctors with Office and Emerg. Phone numbers, and up to *3 Family /Emergency contacts on their computer, so if they had to contact either for any reason that's on the central (worldwide) file. The Blood Type and Medical conditions (Epilepsy) are imprinted on Both the Bracelet back and Wallet card, plus their central computer. Family and Medical contacts are on the Wallet card and Central computer only (not the bracelet).
Once a year they send an update reminder to make sure the Doctor etc. haven't changed, or you've moved and someone forgot to tell them. And because there's an International Collect Call number for Doctors etc. you can go on Vacations or to College without needing to change anything, other than the computer records at Medic Alert. G./
owlvee - 29 May 2005 20:44 GMT Holly, Well I am owlvee and your son is correct in what he is telling you in the fact that his seizures "can be" a serene type of sleep probably with no memory of anything that has happened from the point of dropping or passing out to the point of waking or returning to alertness.
I have the same feelings during my seizures, no memory, with the only pain only being usually my tongue afterwards, where I have bitten it, And now that I am getting older, my body in general:) Of course there are many other seizures also and I am finding out that there are almost as many different medications to use. I imagine it is difficult to get the correct medication with the right body and seizure type. I know I am still changing, trying to get the right balance with no luck so far. But if you look on the epilepsy web sites listed by the ones that post here then ya will see an whole lot of new medications, reviews, and support groups.
And hey, ya aren't trying to blame the P-C for any reason are ya:)??
--Not that it couldn't mind you, but it be a cure also-before I get any responses on the subject--
:) ~..~ owlvee
> Hi, Y'all > [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] > > www.careplans.com Holly Sox - 29 May 2005 23:05 GMT When I typed p-c, I was referring to his partial complex seizures, as opposed to his grand mal seizures. I'm not sure which P-C you are referring to.
;-) I do have a sense of humor, but it's been in short supply this week.
Holly
-- Holly F. Sox, RN, RAC-C Clinical Editor Careplans.com
holly@careplans.com www.careplans.com
> Holly, > Well I am owlvee and your son is correct in what he is telling you in [quoted text clipped - 59 lines] > > > > www.careplans.com gorf - 30 May 2005 01:29 GMT > I have the same feelings during my seizures, no memory, with the only > pain only being usually my tongue afterwards, where I have bitten it, Gotta agree with that one... my one grand mal consisted of me enjoying myself on a crowded dance floor and then waking up with the lights on, my head in my date's lap, and paramedics asking if I'd been drinking or taking drugs. No recollection of pain/fear, I have no idea what happened in that 5 minute time span (or whatever it was).
I had a nasty bump on my head from where I hit a banister near the side of the room and I felt like I had over-exercised every muscle in my body (another member in the group many years ago once compared it to being hit by a mac truck), but that's all after the fact.
Definite confusion though.
I also had some partials as a teenager that I didn't really associate with my condition until later, but those it felt like I just lost control of my legs and I would fall down. Or my arm would "spasm". No pain, just a loss of control and a bit of annoyance in that my body wasn't doing what I wanted it to.
-- gorf
Mary Fisher - 31 May 2005 15:53 GMT ...
> Someone on an earlier thread mentioned that seizures are much more > frightening for the witnesses than for the person experiencing the > seizure. > My son told me Friday, "Mom, it's really sort of serene. I just go to > sleep > and wake up in a little while. It's a serene kind of sickness to have." Oh! That's one of the nicest things I've ever heard said :-)
> Nice to meet you all, and I'm glad you are here. Yours is a lovely introduction, thanks.
Mary
Holly Sox - 02 Jun 2005 11:53 GMT Thanks, Mary.
I thought it was pretty neat, as well. But funny, too.
He's a unique person, and very deep spiritually. My brother-in-law said one time that he thinks Cody has seizures because there is so much going on in his mind that his brain shorts out. It's as good an explanation as anything else I have heard.
Holly
-- Holly F. Sox, RN, RAC-C Clinical Editor Careplans.com
www.careplans.com
> ... > > [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Mary Mary Fisher - 02 Jun 2005 16:54 GMT > Thanks, Mary. > [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > anything > else I have heard. No - I think that the spirituality follows the epilepsy. It did with me - and when the cause of my epilepsy was removed ALL the sensitivity I had to music, poetry, other people's feelings as well as my enhanced spirituality disappeared. It was the only part of that time which I regretted.
It's been said very many times that people in history with deep spirituality, those who hear voices (as I did) and have a very deep understanding of people were probably epileptic.
I hope your son makes the most of his gift.
Mary
Julie - 31 May 2005 17:33 GMT Hi Holly, we have many international members, so in case they were wondering, you are from South Carolina, (a southern state where they have a beautiful southern drawl and say things like y'all) am I correct?
I have coped with epilepsy since I was a teenager, but being a girl my seizures tended to be triggered by my menstrual cycle. Later I realized other things also triggered my seizures, so I figured out what to stay away from, take my AED med and rest when needed, and now I have been seizure free for 10 years.
I was very touched by what your son said to comfort you. What an endearing young man. I am very impressed with him, he has a very good and positive attitude.
I think for me the worst part about grand mal (tonic clonic) seizures is feeling that one is coming and having the fear that I have no control and when I come out of a seizure if I have someone yelling at me (panicked) and I cannot yet respond, it is frustrating. So when I feel a seizure may be coming I lay down, even if that means laying right on the floor, no matter where I am. That way if I do have a seizure, at least my body won't have to crash to the floor. My husband now knows not to yell at me when coming out of a seizure.
Welcome to our group and best wishes to you and your son.
Julie, Volunteer Webmaster Epilepsy Foundation of Idaho http://www.epilepsyidaho.org
> Hi, Y'all > [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] > > www.careplans.com Holly Sox - 01 Jun 2005 12:12 GMT Thank you, Julie. You are exactly correct; I am from South Carolina, and I think "lovely" is in the ear of the beholder, so to speak, when it comes to the drawl. I like it, but some folks don't. ;-)
And thanks for recognizing that my son is a really exceptional kid. He is the most compassionate and genuinely empathetic person I know, and is constantly concerned about how others around him are doing. (Sometimes to the point of getting in trouble at school when defending someone he thinks is being treated unfairly.) I work in a nursing home, and his favorite thing to do in the summer is come to work with me and help with activities.
Okay... enough bragging. I really appreciate the information and understanding you all have. Cody is reaching the age where he is forming his own identity and understanding of himself. I can see that it's going to be hard for me to let him do that at times, because I worry so much. Reading this group is helping me to understand and accept that he is going to be fine, no matter what. I can trust that God, the docs and the medicine have things under control.
Thanks again.
Holly
-- Holly F. Sox, RN, RAC-C Clinical Editor Careplans.com
www.careplans.com
> Hi Holly, we have many international members, so in case they were wondering, > you are from South Carolina, (a southern state where they have a beautiful [quoted text clipped - 60 lines] > > > > www.careplans.com Dave ©¿©¬ - 01 Jun 2005 20:00 GMT Howdy Holly!
Did you post here a few years ago?
I seem to recall somebody else posting who had a little boy (maybe an infant?) named "Cody"!
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> Thank you, Julie. > You are exactly correct; I am from South Carolina, and I think "lovely" is [quoted text clipped - 114 lines] > > > > > > www.careplans.com Holly Sox - 02 Jun 2005 00:12 GMT Nope, it wasn't me.
It's a great name, though. ;-)
Holly
-- Holly F. Sox, RN, RAC-C Clinical Editor Careplans.com
www.careplans.com
> Howdy Holly! > [quoted text clipped - 143 lines] > > > > > > > > www.careplans.com Dave ©¿©¬ - 31 May 2005 18:17 GMT > Hi, Y'all > [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] > > www.careplans.com Howdy Holly!
The only type of seizure that I'm aware of are simple partials.
To the best of my knowledge, if a person is having a partial seizure and they are oblivious to the environment around them then BY DEFINITION they are having a complex partial.
Since I don't get auras as a foreshadowing of T-C seizures, the only ways I know that I had a T-C or a complex partial is if I hurt myself during the seizure or if somebody tells me about it afterwards.
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Dave ©¿©¬ - 31 May 2005 18:26 GMT > > Hi, Y'all > > [quoted text clipped - 47 lines] > they are oblivious to the environment around them then BY DEFINITION they > are having a complex partial. I always assumed that the opposite was also true (if a person is having a CP then BY DEFINITION they are oblivious to their environment.
Guess you learn something new every day, eh?
> Since I don't get auras as a foreshadowing of T-C seizures, the only ways I > know that I had a T-C or a complex partial is if I hurt myself during the > seizure or if somebody tells me about it afterwards. Chris aka Rewired - 02 Jun 2005 00:36 GMT Hi Holly, I have had epil since 8 month old. I remember that my sz's did increase during my teenage yrs. the CP and the Generlized. I have forwarded your response to my mom, who was a MSN. Chris
Holly Sox - 02 Jun 2005 11:53 GMT Thank you, Chris.
I don't know anyone else IRL who has a child with epilepsy and it'd be nice to hear from another nurse-mom.
Holly
-- Holly F. Sox, RN, RAC-C Clinical Editor Careplans.com
www.careplans.com
> Hi Holly, > I have had epil since 8 month old. I remember that my sz's did increase > during my teenage yrs. the CP and the Generlized. > I have forwarded your response to my mom, who was a MSN. > Chris
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