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Andrea2 - 08 Dec 2006 23:28 GMT
After my fainting yesterday, supposedly because of dehydration, I am
having another bad day. It started with my fasting BG of 122. I am
usually about 95 +/- 4. The only thing I can blame the high BG on is
drinking a lot of water through the night. To prevent dehydration I
drank a small bottle of water every time I nursed my baby. That
amounted to 3 bottles through the night.

After the high fasting I only ate an orange, small scoop of brown rice
and 2 soft boiled eggs. I injected the proper amount of insulin plus 1
extra unit for the high BG. I tested 2 hours later and was 131, about
an hour after that I started feeling hypo. Testing confirmed it was 62
so I ate another half orange. It has been up and down every since
then. Normally I would just fast until BG stabilized but because I am
breast feeding I'm not sure that would be a good idea.

A MDI insulin regimen is good except when this roller coaster BG
starts. When I stop breast feeding I would like to go back on meds,
maybe Byetta.

Andrea2
Type 2, MDI insulin, mother
Alexander Arnakis - 08 Dec 2006 23:46 GMT
>After my fainting yesterday, supposedly because of dehydration, I am
>having another bad day. It started with my fasting BG of 122. I am
>usually about 95 +/- 4. The only thing I can blame the high BG on is
>drinking a lot of water through the night. To prevent dehydration I
>drank a small bottle of water every time I nursed my baby. That
>amounted to 3 bottles through the night.

Why would drinking water raise your BG? I would think it would have
the opposite effect, helping your kidneys flush out the excess
glucose. Remember, when you go into the hospital for high BG, the
standard treatment (besides insulin) is putting you on a saline
solution IV. Hydration is all-important in a situation like that.

From my perspective, as a Type 1, a 122 fasting glucose is nothing to
be alarmed about. (In fact, my *target* BG is about 130.) If I woke up
with a fasting BG of 95, I would have to *delay* my breakfast insulin
until *after* eating, or else risk a hypo.

If a 122 reading is unusual for you, it could be due to things
happening in your body "under the radar," and not to anything specific
that you did or did not do. Diabetes is simply not an exact science.
Gantlet - 08 Dec 2006 23:54 GMT
>>After my fainting yesterday, supposedly because of dehydration, I am
>>having another bad day. It started with my fasting BG of 122. I am
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> the opposite effect, helping your kidneys flush out the excess
> glucose.

It would have the opposite effect if we are talking about short term fasts
like those
during the day between meals.  but FBS is different.  I can see were
drinking to much water can cause a liver dump to happe earlier than usual
and as a result have higher than normal numbers in the morning.  after all
you are flushing out glucose.

Tom
Chris Malcolm - 09 Dec 2006 10:07 GMT
>>>After my fainting yesterday, supposedly because of dehydration, I am
>>>having another bad day. It started with my fasting BG of 122. I am
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>> the opposite effect, helping your kidneys flush out the excess
>> glucose.

> It would have the opposite effect if we are talking about short term fasts
> like those
> during the day between meals.  but FBS is different.  I can see were
> drinking to much water can cause a liver dump to happe earlier than usual
> and as a result have higher than normal numbers in the morning.  after all
> you are flushing out glucose.

If drinking lots of water causes you to flush out glucose then either
your BG levels are horrendously out of control or you have very
serious kidney problems.

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Alexander Arnakis - 09 Dec 2006 19:21 GMT
>If drinking lots of water causes you to flush out glucose then either
>your BG levels are horrendously out of control or you have very
>serious kidney problems.

That's true. I think the renal threshold for filtering out excess BG
is normally well above Andrea's reading of 122.

What I was trying to say is that, theoretically, drinking water should
tend to *lower* BG, not raise it. In any case, I doubt it had any
effect here.
Alexander Arnakis - 09 Dec 2006 19:16 GMT
>It would have the opposite effect if we are talking about short term fasts
>like those
>during the day between meals.  but FBS is different.  I can see were
>drinking too much water can cause a liver dump to happen earlier than usual
>and as a result have higher than normal numbers in the morning.  after all
>you are flushing out glucose.

I don't understand what you're saying. By "flushing out glucose," I
meant the kidneys eliminating excess glucose from the bloodstream, not
dumping it *into* the bloodstream. Water will not cause the liver to
dump anything, but it will help the kidneys to operate better.

Back before we had home blood glucose testing, we tried to measure our
degree of control with urine sugar tests. Once the BG passed the
"renal threshold," the higher the BG, the more sugar in the urine. Not
drinking enough water would play hob with this mechanism.
Gantlet - 09 Dec 2006 20:43 GMT
>>It would have the opposite effect if we are talking about short term fasts
>>like those
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> meant the kidneys eliminating excess glucose from the bloodstream, not
> dumping it *into* the bloodstream.

I meant it will lower bg but could possibly lessen the time
it takes to have a liver dump.  depending upon what she ate, what time she
ate
and how much water she drank (among other things) will effect morning FBS
levels.
and its very possible that she is having a liver dump during the night.

>Water will not cause the liver to
> dump anything, but it will help the kidneys to operate better.

yes I agree and know what you meant when you said

"I would think it would have
the opposite effect, helping your kidneys flush out the excess
glucose. "

i think this can lessen the time it takes to have a liver dump, causing
higher FBS levels

> Back before we had home blood glucose testing, we tried to measure our
> degree of control with urine sugar tests. Once the BG passed the
> "renal threshold," the higher the BG, the more sugar in the urine. Not
> drinking enough water would play hob with this mechanism.

drinking the right amount of water is very imporant for many things.
especially when doing tests with urine.

Tom
David - 09 Dec 2006 00:12 GMT
Hello Andrea,

> After my fainting yesterday, supposedly because of dehydration, I am
> having another bad day. It started with my fasting BG of 122. I am
> usually about 95 +/- 4. The only thing I can blame the high BG on is
> drinking a lot of water through the night. To prevent dehydration I
> drank a small bottle of water every time I nursed my baby. That
> amounted to 3 bottles through the night.

Keep up with the fluids.  Dehydration can be hard on a person.

The water isn't likely to have affected your blood sugar.  It
likely lowered it if you were able to drastically improve your
hydration.  I don't think that can be recovered in just a day
though.

A transition from 95 to 122 isn't that bad and is probably
within normal range.  The dawn phenomenon may explain that.
When you wake up your body prepares more sugar for the days
activity and with your interupted sleep cycle perhaps there
was a slight change.

> After the high fasting I only ate an orange, small scoop of brown rice
> and 2 soft boiled eggs. I injected the proper amount of insulin plus 1
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> then. Normally I would just fast until BG stabilized but because I am
> breast feeding I'm not sure that would be a good idea.

The diabetic roller coaster can be a problem.  We just try to
do our best to stay level.  For me it is a balancing act between
the foods I choose to eat and the insulins I take.  I used Humalog
and Lantus.  I haven't read what you are using.  An orange is
pretty much all fast acting sugar.  It will bring your blood sugar
up in 15-30 minutes and be available for about an hour, then it
drops off quickly.  To mitigate the roller coaster effect add
a slightly longer acting food, like toast to the mix.  It will
take affect a bit later and stay longer.  Meats and dairy products
take even longer to take affect.  You might try testing a bit
earlier or more often to see how the insulin affects you.  Every-
thing you do affects your blood sugar.  A little extra activity
after you have eaten is just like taking a fast-medium acting shot.
Perhaps you were a bit more active with your child and that causes
the low.  You might try testing a bit more often or eating a longer
acting food when you'll be busy.

> A MDI insulin regimen is good except when this roller coaster BG
> starts. When I stop breast feeding I would like to go back on meds,
> maybe Byetta.

I'm not familiar with how MDI insulin affects the body.  We're all
affected differently.

> Andrea2
> Type 2, MDI insulin, mother

David
-- Type I, Humalog, Lantus; experienced with Regular and NPH
Alexander Arnakis - 09 Dec 2006 19:24 GMT
>I'm not familiar with how MDI insulin affects the body.  We're all
>affected differently.

"MDI" simply means "multiple daily injections." People on
Lantus/Humalog are doing this.
David - 10 Dec 2006 07:04 GMT
> >I'm not familiar with how MDI insulin affects the body.  We're all
> >affected differently.
> >
> "MDI" simply means "multiple daily injections." People on
> Lantus/Humalog are doing this.

Thanks for the clarification Alaxander.  I've never heard the term
MDI used.  Perhaps 20 years hasn't been that long.

David
WoolyGooly - 09 Dec 2006 00:13 GMT
>After my fainting yesterday, supposedly because of dehydration, I am
>having another bad day. It started with my fasting BG of 122. I am
>usually about 95 +/- 4. The only thing I can blame the high BG on is
>drinking a lot of water through the night. To prevent dehydration I
>drank a small bottle of water every time I nursed my baby. That
>amounted to 3 bottles through the night.

I go through about a pint of water during hte night - more when the
weather is dry. I've never seen a variance in my FBG due to night-time
water intake.

>After the high fasting I only ate an orange, small scoop of brown rice
>and 2 soft boiled eggs.  I injected the proper amount of insulin plus 1
>extra unit for the high BG. I tested 2 hours later and was 131, about
>an hour after that I started feeling hypo. Testing confirmed it was 62
>so I ate another half orange

If you did chores after breakfast and nursed the baby a couple of
times the activity plus the extra insulin plus the draw-down of milk
production probably caused your low.

Also, you need at least 500 extra calories per day while you're
nursing, more as time goes on and the baby grows and nurses more.  Get
the extra calories from protein foods like cheese and chicken, not
carbs like rice and fruit.

. It has been up and down every since
>then. Normally I would just fast until BG stabilized but because I am
>breast feeding I'm not sure that would be a good idea.

Better to put the baby in a sling or the stroller and hike around the
block a couple of times, or march in place in the middle of the living
room if hte weather is bad.

>A MDI insulin regimen is good except when this roller coaster BG
>starts. When I stop breast feeding I would like to go back on meds,
>maybe Byetta.

Do your 1- and 2-hour post-prandials ever go over 140?  Do you take
basal insulin to control your FBG?  Is your current weight nearly what
it was before you got pregant (I don't recall if you were
overweight/T2 pre-pregnancy, sorry).  If the answers are no you may be
able to do without the insulin altogether and manage your BG with diet
and excercise.

Time to talk to an endocrinologist who knows about diabetes and
nursing women.

Signed,
Former gestational diabetic and milch cow, er, breastfeeder
Andrea2 - 09 Dec 2006 01:49 GMT
Thanks for the replies and information, it is all good advice and has
allowed me to put this event in respective. I like the idea that the
extra water might have triggered a dawn effect. This might have
started me on the roller coaster, which I have had before. I might be
too cautious about my BG, I get ballistic if it ever goes over 140. I
use Lantus and Humalog, I do frequent correction injections of Humalog
when ever I go over 140. Before I was pregnant I took metformin which
made control much easier. It is not advised to take metformin while
pregnant or breast feeding.

The breakfast I had was a normal one for me, I use a lot of butter in
the soft boiled eggs and eat it with the brown rice first. I have the
orange after that. I went jogging a while later, only went 2 times
around the block this time, I normally do more, down the trail for a
mile or two.

I can usually balance the Humalog and food with good results. When it
goes wrong like today it is very disturbing. Sometimes I feel like
things are happening that are beyond my control and that worries me.
My DH tells me to relax, have some tea and do my meditation thing.

Andrea2
Type 2, MDI insulin, mother
Anon - 09 Dec 2006 02:27 GMT
> Thanks for the replies and information, it is all good advice and has
> allowed me to put this event in respective. I like the idea that the
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> Andrea2
> Type 2, MDI insulin, mother

Much better to be to cautious about BG control than complacent. I know
people that have lost limbs and even died of diabetic complications that
might have been prevented with caution like yours.
Jackie Patti - 09 Dec 2006 14:42 GMT
> I can usually balance the Humalog and food with good results. When it
> goes wrong like today it is very disturbing. Sometimes I feel like
> things are happening that are beyond my control and that worries me.
> My DH tells me to relax, have some tea and do my meditation thing.

You might just be coming down with something.  When I get sick, my bg
goes wacky in unpredictable ways.  Between that and the fainting
episode, I'd think you may have picked up a bug or something.

Your DH's advice seems sensible, as does the advice to get lots of fluids.
Andrea2 - 09 Dec 2006 20:43 GMT
>> I can usually balance the Humalog and food with good results. When it
>> goes wrong like today it is very disturbing. Sometimes I feel like
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
>Your DH's advice seems sensible, as does the advice to get lots of fluids.

Maybe I am getting something, fasting BG was a little high again today
but only 104. I took my temperature, it was 99.2, not high enough to
cause concern.

I went out this morning, only the second time since we brought the
baby home. I had a hair appointment, my hairdresser promised to take
me first so I wouldn't be out too long. I haven't had my hair done
since before I went in the hospital to have the baby. My hair is long
and was a total mess because I haven't been able to take care of it.
After she finished, I felt like a woman again.

When I got home it was such a beautiful day that we took Misako out
for a stroll in her buggy. Two neighbors came over and were making
such a fuss over her that I could hardly stand it I was so proud.
Nothing can ruin my day today, I am so happy, I don't care if my BG's
are out of wack.

Andrea2
Type 2, MDI insulin, mother
Nicky - 09 Dec 2006 22:58 GMT
> When I got home it was such a beautiful day that we took Misako out
> for a stroll in her buggy. Two neighbors came over and were making
> such a fuss over her that I could hardly stand it I was so proud.
> Nothing can ruin my day today, I am so happy, I don't care if my BG's
> are out of wack.

Bottle it, and savour it forever :D

Nicky.

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Andrea2 - 10 Dec 2006 21:26 GMT
>> When I got home it was such a beautiful day that we took Misako out
>> for a stroll in her buggy. Two neighbors came over and were making
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
>Nicky.

I've look back on my whole behavior for the last two days. It is not
normal for a person to act like I did. It caused me to review this
paragraph from the NIMI web site:

"Bipolar disorder, also known as manic-depressive illness, is a brain
disorder that causes unusual shifts in a person's mood, energy, and
ability to function. Different from the normal ups and downs that
everyone goes through, the symptoms of bipolar disorder are severe."

This describes me on a lot of different occasions, especially
yesterday. I went from extreme happiness to total depression in a few
hours and that was after being depressed the night before. It was all
triggered by an insignificant events that I should have just shrugged
off and went on with my life. I was in therapy on two other occasions.
With therapy and the help of drugs I was able to see the world as it
is and deal with life's little problems on a rational basis. That is
what I need to do again, for my own sake, my babies sake and my dear
husbands sake. He has been so supportive in my constantly
unpredictable moods, we both agree it will be best for me to start
therapy again.

Andrea
Ozgirl - 10 Dec 2006 21:37 GMT
>>> When I got home it was such a beautiful day that we took Misako out
>>> for a stroll in her buggy. Two neighbors came over and were making
[quoted text clipped - 28 lines]
>
> Andrea

Maybe it is best but also remember you are a new mother,
with fluctuating hormones still, lack of proper sleep
perhaps and a whole new way of life now you have a baby.
Give yourself a few months to let things pan out. The first
3-6 months with a new baby can be harrowing and then usually
life settles into a pattern.
Priscilla Ballou - 11 Dec 2006 00:31 GMT
> >> When I got home it was such a beautiful day that we took Misako out
> >> for a stroll in her buggy. Two neighbors came over and were making
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
> unpredictable moods, we both agree it will be best for me to start
> therapy again.

Sounds like a wise decision.  A good therapist can be an enormous asset,
particularly one who's a skilled diagnostician.  

Priscilla
Nicky - 11 Dec 2006 13:43 GMT
> I've look back on my whole behavior for the last two days. It is not
> normal for a person to act like I did. It caused me to review this
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> This describes me on a lot of different occasions, especially
> yesterday.

Well - maybe - but it also describes every new mother I ever met. And I
don't think your dislike of the pervert who likes to fondle your underwear
is inappropriate in any way, nor is the opposite thing of being filled with
joy because of your daughter...

Nicky.

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Andrea2 - 11 Dec 2006 22:55 GMT
>> I've look back on my whole behavior for the last two days. It is not
>> normal for a person to act like I did. It caused me to review this
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>
>Nicky.

Thanks for that, I have been trying to diagnose myself from reading
the NIMH web site. I might have a bipolar disorder and might not. It's
just that I would go from a high to a low or low to high too fast and
often. It could just be hypochondria, I imagine I have every thing I
read about.

I can't see my former psychiatrist anyway, I called and he has closed
the local office. I would have to drive a long way to see him and he
is the only one I would trust.

As far as the pervert, we had a good laugh about it when I told DH
about him. The first thing he said is that he is up to his old tricks
again. Seems he that when he drinks he does things like that, he even
told me about an incident much worst than mine. The problem is that
they were all members of the same group and went through a lot of
dangerous missions together. He could not invite the others without
inviting him. When they're coming over I will just have to stay out of
the way or as DH suggested, confront him in front of the others about
it. It I could get up the courage to do that, it might be good for a
laugh at his expense. :-)

Andrea2
Type 2, MDI insulin, mother
W. Baker - 12 Dec 2006 02:51 GMT
: >> I've look back on my whole behavior for the last two days. It is not
: >> normal for a person to act like I did. It caused me to review this
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
: >
: >Nicky.

: Thanks for that, I have been trying to diagnose myself from reading
: the NIMH web site. I might have a bipolar disorder and might not. It's
: just that I would go from a high to a low or low to high too fast and
: often. It could just be hypochondria, I imagine I have every thing I
: read about.

: I can't see my former psychiatrist anyway, I called and he has closed
: the local office. I would have to drive a long way to see him and he
: is the only one I would trust.

: As far as the pervert, we had a good laugh about it when I told DH
: about him. The first thing he said is that he is up to his old tricks
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
: it. It I could get up the courage to do that, it might be good for a
: laugh at his expense. :-)

: Andrea2
: Type 2, MDI insulin, mother

andrea,

Many women experience varying degrees of post-partum depression after
having a baby.  this may well be what is getting you currently.  If time
doesn't help then soem counseling may well help, but it is not at all
unusual.  Don't jump to te conclusin that it is a permanent condition
until more time has passed and your whole system and life get settled
down.  Another reason not to jump into another pregnancy.   My two boys
are about 2 1/2 years part and are now as adults very close with a great
deal of respect for each other.  I, personally, found that a good spread
between the kids, both as littlle ones and as they went through school.  

Wendy
Michelle - 15 Dec 2006 00:22 GMT
Hi Andrea,

I'm soooo glad you told your husband about the pervert!  I don't pretend to
understand the bond military men (and women) share because I've never been
there, but I do respect it.  At least with your husband in the loop, he can
act as a buffer or back you up if you confront him.  That would be a hoot!

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>>> I've look back on my whole behavior for the last two days. It is not
>>> normal for a person to act like I did. It caused me to review this
[quoted text clipped - 39 lines]
> Andrea2
> Type 2, MDI insulin, mother
Andrea2 - 15 Dec 2006 04:27 GMT
>Hi Andrea,
>
>I'm soooo glad you told your husband about the pervert!  I don't pretend to
>understand the bond military men (and women) share because I've never been
>there, but I do respect it.  At least with your husband in the loop, he can
>act as a buffer or back you up if you confront him.  That would be a hoot!

When I was under treatment for pushing a nurse down the stairs, my
doctor made me confront her and apologize. It did help me a lot,
before the confrontation I didn't ever want to leave the hospital.
Within a week after, I felt I was read to get on with my life. I was
released soon after into the custody of my in laws.

I would never have the courage to confront him. If they come over for
Christmas, I have been thinking of getting a present for each of them.
His would be a pair of my panties just like the ones he was playing
with. I could include a note, I haven't decided how to word it yet.

I went to my endo appointment yesterday. My tests were all good except
for my BUN test. She said I was probably slightly dehydrated. Like
others here have advised, she advised me to wait 2-3 months before I
considered going back in therapy and also to wait 6-12 months before
trying to get pregnant again. She wants me to get a IUD rather than
use the pill.

Andrea2
Type 2, MDI insulin, mother
Michelle - 15 Dec 2006 19:24 GMT
>>Hi Andrea,
>>
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> His would be a pair of my panties just like the ones he was playing
> with. I could include a note, I haven't decided how to word it yet.

Actually, that sounds like a really good idea.  You make your point without
having to be present.  For the note, how about:  I got you a pair of your
own so you don't have to play with mine?  ;-)

> I went to my endo appointment yesterday. My tests were all good except
> for my BUN test. She said I was probably slightly dehydrated. Like
> others here have advised, she advised me to wait 2-3 months before I
> considered going back in therapy and also to wait 6-12 months before
> trying to get pregnant again. She wants me to get a IUD rather than
> use the pill.

As some of the other ladies have pointed out, it would probably be best to
delay therapy until your hormones normalize.   Otherwise it would be tough
for the therapist to sort out which is causing what.  Still, if you really
get to the point where you feel you can't cope, don't hesitate to go
earlier.

Smart endo.  With an IUD you would avoid those hormonal complications that
you might get with the pill.

And from your earlier posts, I want to echo the others who encouraged you to
consider going back to work after Misako is a little older.  Your DH is one
smart cookie.  :-)  No matter how much you love caring for Misako--and we
all know how much you do  :-)--everyone needs other interests, interacting
with other people, etc.
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Andrea2 - 16 Dec 2006 03:11 GMT
>> Christmas, I have been thinking of getting a present for each of them.
>> His would be a pair of my panties just like the ones he was playing
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>having to be present.  For the note, how about:  I got you a pair of your
>own so you don't have to play with mine?  ;-)

I like that, I may use those exact words. I do worry that the others
might think something's going on between us. When they are drinking a
lot, I am the only woman around and they sometimes slap me on the butt
or try to pinch me. Boys will be boys does not quite excuse this with
me but I guess all men are like this when they drink.

>> I went to my endo appointment yesterday. My tests were all good except
>> for my BUN test. She said I was probably slightly dehydrated. Like
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>all know how much you do  :-)--everyone needs other interests, interacting
>with other people, etc.

There is a new contractor where I worked before. The old one or some
of my previous coworkers must have given them my name because they
have called several times asking if I was going back to work. I
enjoyed working before, and probably would again, especially if I got
my old job back. With the new contractor, things might have changed so
much that I wouldn't like it.

Andrea2
Type 2, MDI insulin, mother
Cheri - 16 Dec 2006 03:32 GMT
No, all men aren't like that when they drink, only the clods, and those
types usually act that way drunk or sober. Fortunately, in my life, I've
been surrounded by a majority of really nice men, and the one or two
that weren't, weren't in my life long. I know you've had really bad
experiences with men, but don't let a few bad apples spoil your outlook.
No reason for any of them, except your husband, to be touching you at
all. Put them in their place in no uncertain terms, and I bet it will
stop. JMO

--
Cheri

Andrea2 wrote in message ...
>I like that, I may use those exact words. I do worry that the others
>might think something's going on between us. When they are drinking a
>lot, I am the only woman around and they sometimes slap me on the butt
>or try to pinch me. Boys will be boys does not quite excuse this with
>me but I guess all men are like this when they drink.
DonnaB shallotpeel - 16 Dec 2006 04:08 GMT
In alt.support.diabetes on Fri, 15 Dec 2006 19:12:21 -0800  in Msg.#
<h8o6o2p263dulkt0rq577b2ius728rv2p5@4ax.com>, Andrea2
<andrea6192001@yahoo.com> wrote:

> I like that, I may use those exact words. I do worry that the others
> might think something's going on between us. When they are drinking a
> lot, I am the only woman around and they sometimes slap me on the butt
> or try to pinch me. Boys will be boys does not quite excuse this with
> me but I guess all men are like this when they drink.

No, all men aren't like that. And, those men should not be disrespectful to
you in this way.

> There is a new contractor where I worked before. The old one or some
> of my previous coworkers must have given them my name because they
> have called several times asking if I was going back to work. I
> enjoyed working before, and probably would again, especially if I got
> my old job back. With the new contractor, things might have changed so
> much that I wouldn't like it.

You could get in touch with some of your former coworkers & ask them what
things are like now, without committing yourself to doing anything at any
point, leaving all your options of what & when to yourself.

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Nicky - 16 Dec 2006 21:48 GMT
> I do worry that the others
> might think something's going on between us. When they are drinking a
> lot, I am the only woman around and they sometimes slap me on the butt
> or try to pinch me. Boys will be boys does not quite excuse this with
> me but I guess all men are like this when they drink.

No, they're not - you have a right for them to respect you, and not treat
you like a bit of fluff! Any idiot trying that round me would have a slap on
the face. Does your husband behave like that to other women he meets? I
doubt it. Why does he accept it from his friends?

Nicky.

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Andrea2 - 16 Dec 2006 22:17 GMT
>> I do worry that the others
>> might think something's going on between us. When they are drinking a
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>
>Nicky.

The first time it happened I did slap him and everybody laughed. I was
the only one that got embarrassed. My husband after asked me if I
wanted him to call them down when they did things like that. I told
him I could handle it myself. I didn't want to look like a baby or a
prude. It doesn't happen very often, when it does it is partially my
fault for hanging around them when they are drinking. Usually when
they do that they make flattering remarks about my anatomy. I have to
admit I enjoy that part of it.

Andrea
Chris Malcolm - 12 Dec 2006 03:24 GMT
>>> When I got home it was such a beautiful day that we took Misako out
>>> for a stroll in her buggy. Two neighbors came over and were making
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>>
>>Nicky.

> I've look back on my whole behavior for the last two days. It is not
> normal for a person to act like I did. It caused me to review this
> paragraph from the NIMI web site:

> "Bipolar disorder, also known as manic-depressive illness, is a brain
> disorder that causes unusual shifts in a person's mood, energy, and
> ability to function. Different from the normal ups and downs that
> everyone goes through, the symptoms of bipolar disorder are severe."

> This describes me on a lot of different occasions, especially
> yesterday. I went from extreme happiness to total depression in a few
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> unpredictable moods, we both agree it will be best for me to start
> therapy again.

You might like to check out "cyclothymia", which describes a mild form
of bipolar affective disorder. Many people have personalities which
exhibit mild forms of behaviour which when more exaggerated is
characteristic of one or anther mental disorder. These are sometimes
called "shadow syndromes". A cyclothymic isn't a diagnosable case of
bipolar affective disorder, but can benefit from some of the
self-management strategies used by BP sufferers.

Including oily fish in their diet, or taking fish oil supplements, has
helped some people to stabilise their moods.

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Andrea2 - 12 Dec 2006 04:23 GMT
>>>> When I got home it was such a beautiful day that we took Misako out
>>>> for a stroll in her buggy. Two neighbors came over and were making
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>Including oily fish in their diet, or taking fish oil supplements, has
>helped some people to stabilise their moods.

Thanks all for the information. I can't take fish oil supplements now
because I am still nursing my baby. Before I was pregnant I was taking
3-4 grams of fish oil a day. I love oily fish and eat it often. I even
eat my DH's pickled herring. I'm not supposed to eat raw tuna
(sashimi) which I really like but we still get tuna and I cook it.

DH says I just get overly obsessive about things, like now my
obsession is my mood shifts and I've convened myself it is BP disorder
(his words). He might be right or he might be wrong. He don't mind my
obsessive behavior, he even enjoys following along in my obsessions.
I'm not sure he's right about this BP idea, I still feel the way my
mood shifts from happy to sad is not normal.

Andrea2
TigerLily - 12 Dec 2006 15:38 GMT
Andrea....... fluctuating hormones after pregnancy
are VERY strong mood disruptors

you are safe unless you are planning something
dire for yourself and/or your baby

if you continue to have HUGE fluctuations in your
mood changes after the 3 week mark is passed
(that's when the fluctuations are strongest) then
it's time to see a Dr and talk about it

keep a diary of your mood changes, so you can see
that you are getting fewer and less dramatic
swings in mood..... rate your mood, and time each
change in mood

bi-polar doesn't shift moods quickly...... it
usually comes in 3 to 6 month cycles

good luck, honey! and ENJOY that beautiful baby
girl of yours ;-)

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> DH says I just get overly obsessive about things, like now my
> obsession is my mood shifts and I've convinced
myself it is BP disorder
> (his words). He might be right or he might be wrong. He don't mind my
> obsessive behavior, he even enjoys following along in my obsessions.
> I'm not sure he's right about this BP idea, I still feel the way my
> mood shifts from happy to sad is not normal.
>
> Andrea2
Andrea2 - 12 Dec 2006 22:16 GMT
>Andrea....... fluctuating hormones after pregnancy
>are VERY strong mood disruptors
>
>you are safe unless you are planning something
>dire for yourself and/or your baby

I must have posted about when I tried to kill the nurse and broke her
leg by pushing her down the stairs. That earned me 5 months in the
mental hospital to avoid prosecution. It was the only time I ever
tried to hurt anyone. I can't say my moods were changing for no reason
that time, I had hit the bottom and didn't want to live any more. I
feel I was cured, mostly by the skill of the fine doctor I had. I have
never planned to hurt anyone except myself and would never ever hurt
my baby.

>if you continue to have HUGE fluctuations in your
>mood changes after the 3 week mark is passed
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>
>kate

As long as I realize what is happening when my mood changes, I can
rationalize the reason for the changes and try to put them in
perspective. DH asked me last night if I wanted to go back to work
after 6-8 months. He thinks I need to get out and talk to other people
and have responsibilities outside the house. It might be a good idea,
we don't need the money but I enjoyed working before and maybe it
would be help me find myself. DH would be here to take care of Misako
and I might even make some friends.

Andrea2
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TigerLily - 14 Dec 2006 17:54 GMT
"Andrea2" wrote in message ...

> As long as I realize what is happening when my mood changes, I can
> rationalize the reason for the changes and try to put them in
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> Andrea2
> Type 2, MDI insulin, mother

Andrea....... i went back to work when kidlet was
8 full months old (in his 9th month) and the first
few days were teary eyed over missing him, but it
was the best thing i did...... it gave the kidlet
time away from Mom (they do need that) and it gave
ME time to be 'a normal adult' for 8 hours every
day

don't worry about it right now........... enjoy
your time with Misako, but in the future, do think
about this as a very healthy thing to do for
yourself

you are lucky hubby will be with Misako during the
day....... when she's about 3 years old, she
should go to 'pre-school' to learn how to
socialize with other kids her own age, and get
prepared for the day when Kindergarten
comes....... all of this will happen so fast, you
won't be able to believe that the time has passed
! ! !

meanwhile, do you have any "Babes and Mom's"
groups that you can join? our public health nurse
came out and told us about a local group that was
meeting...... it was excellent for the moms to
compare notes when the babies were young, then it
was excellent for the babies to crawl around and
play together when they got able to crawl
about.....

good luck!

kate
Andrea2 - 10 Dec 2006 04:19 GMT
>>> I can usually balance the Humalog and food with good results. When it
>>> goes wrong like today it is very disturbing. Sometimes I feel like
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
>Andrea2
>Type 2, MDI insulin, mother

Maybe I spoke too soon about nothing bothering me today. DH has his
old Navy buddies over tonight. I like all of them except one. I had
specifically asked DH to never have him over again, but he did.

I can put up with their remarks about me being such a young catch and
even DH telling them that I raped him the first time and how I almost
killed in the first 6 months. I can't stand this one guy. The last
time he was here I caught him in our bedroom going through my dirty
clothes with a pair of my panties in his hand.

They're out there right now drinking and joking, some at my expense
I'm sure. I'm trying real hard to keep my temper and think happy
thoughts.

Andrea
Michael - 10 Dec 2006 07:27 GMT
>  
>>
[quoted text clipped - 48 lines]
> Andrea
>  
Remember:  You can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose.  But
you can't pick your friend's nose.

Back in college, my GF (now SWMBO) didn't like one of my friends.  
Couldn't say I disagreed with her assessment.  He was the type to hit on
my GF just to be annoying...  or at least that's what I thought.  
Fortunately for SWMBO, we lost touch after college.  Last I spoke with
him, he was on trial for rape.  He insisted it was a misunderstanding.  
Last I googled him, he was an author living in Sillycon Valley.

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Andrea2 - 10 Dec 2006 09:14 GMT
>>  
>>
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>
>mt

I've stayed in my room and had a lot of time to think. I really don't
have any friends, the only close friend I had moved up north to go to
school. Before DH moved in with me I was a recluse. The only time I
went anywhere was to go to work or shopping. I had been like that
since my first husband died. In 7 years, I could count the number of
dates I had on the fingers of one hand. When fate threw us together, I
was desperate for a friend but didn't know how to go about making one.
He was one of the only three people in the world that I trusted so
when I saw my chance to get close to him I took it. I had know him
since my first husband was still alive. He was always the perfect
gentleman and had never made an advance. Me and DH had so much in
common it was fated that we should be together, not the least of which
was we are both Type 2 diabetics.

His friends are all retired Navy pilots. He says they saved each
others a.ses dozens of times. I can't ask him to not see them but that
one guy is just too much for me to stand. Maybe I should have told DH
what I caught him doing, but I don't know how he would react. I don't
think stealing a friends wife's underwear is a normal thing to do.

I don't want to cause trouble between them so I just said I didn't
like him and please don't invite him over again. From now on when they
come over, I'll just stay in my room and take care of my baby. They
usually come over every other Saturday. If DH is going to be drinking,
I would rather he did it here at home. My first husband had been
drinking the night he was killed in an auto accident driving some
friends home.

Sorry, but I just had to get this off my chest and I have no one else
to talk to.

Andrea
Nicky - 10 Dec 2006 14:04 GMT
> Maybe I should have told DH
> what I caught him doing, but I don't know how he would react. I don't
> think stealing a friends wife's underwear is a normal thing to do.

No. It isn't - it's downright creepy, and I think you owe it to your DH to
explain your antipathy towards this weirdo.

Nicky.

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Hi_Therre - 10 Dec 2006 15:39 GMT
>>>  
>>>
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>Sorry, but I just had to get this off my chest and I have no one else
>to talk to.

It's none of my business, but, you live there to.  The house is also
your house.  That should tell you how to resolve an unacceptable
position.  If you don't stand up for yourself, then, no one will. Your
life is totally up to you.
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> After my fainting yesterday, supposedly because of dehydration, I am
> having another bad day. It started with my fasting BG of 122. I am
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> starts. When I stop breast feeding I would like to go back on meds,
> maybe Byetta.

Just for sharp contrast a bad day for me involves my rollercoaster
going from 35 to 400. If it gets much worse than that I end up with an
ambulance trip to the ER because my wife can't wake me up.

If I could stay within 62 to 131 every day, I would be so so so happy
and consider myself nearly "cured". I can be within those limits many
but not all days when everything is working just right.

Tim.
Alexander Arnakis - 10 Dec 2006 21:13 GMT
>Just for sharp contrast a bad day for me involves my rollercoaster
>going from 35 to 400. If it gets much worse than that I end up with an
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>and consider myself nearly "cured". I can be within those limits many
>but not all days when everything is working just right.

My feelings exactly, although I'm a little higher on the low side. I
can't recall ever having been as low as 35, and even at 62 I have
severe symptoms of hypoglycemia. I try to stay between 100 and 150,
and if I can do so, I feel very well. This seems to be working, since
I have never had to go to the hospital for diabetes (after the first
diagnosis), and I have gone 41 years with no complications other than
treatable retinopathy.
Kurt - 10 Dec 2006 21:39 GMT
> >Just for sharp contrast a bad day for me involves my rollercoaster
> >going from 35 to 400. If it gets much worse than that I end up with an
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> diagnosis), and I have gone 41 years with no complications other than
> treatable retinopathy.

Ah, such are the dreams/nightmares of the everyday Type 1. :)  Roller
coaster is a great analogy for what we sometimes have to go through.
Since I switched to Humalog/Lantus that roller coaster has been pretty
boring in a good way, plenty of flat rails.

Alexander, just wanted to add that reading your success (41 years!) is
an inspiration to me and I'm betting other T1's here.  Thanks.

Best,
Kurt
Cheri - 11 Dec 2006 00:01 GMT
Yes, but do you look in the mirror and stare at the wrinkles that
weren't there yesterday? ;-) Just kidding Kurt, I'm sure it must be a
constant with type 1's. I'm very glad for you that you have gotten off
the roller coaster and I wish you many, many years of good health.

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>Ah, such are the dreams/nightmares of the everyday Type 1. :)  Roller
>coaster is a great analogy for what we sometimes have to go through.
>Since I switched to Humalog/Lantus that roller coaster has been pretty
>boring in a good way, plenty of flat rails.
Alexander Arnakis - 11 Dec 2006 04:05 GMT
>Ah, such are the dreams/nightmares of the everyday Type 1. :)  Roller
>coaster is a great analogy for what we sometimes have to go through.
>Since I switched to Humalog/Lantus that roller coaster has been pretty
>boring in a good way, plenty of flat rails.

Yes, Humalog/Lantus seems to be the treatment of choice for Type 1. I
admit I was skeptical at first when Humalog came out, because the
so-called 5-minute onset of action was scary. In practice, there's a
lot more margin for eating a meal, depending on the pre-meal BG. If my
pre-meal BG is low, I just delay the Humalog until *after* eating.

For a while, I was combining Humalog with Regular and NPH in a fairly
complex regimen. The idea was to avoid taking shots in the middle of
the day, which would have interfered with my work schedule (or so I
thought).

In the case of Lantus, even my endocrinologist at the time was
hesitant, because he pointed out that using Lantus would mean a bolus
injection with *every* meal. This was a major lifestyle change.

But, I've been on Humalog/Lantus for about six years now, and I'm glad
I made the switch. The main advantage, for me, was being able to
tailor the insulin to what I ate, and not the other way around. This
has helped me keep my weight under control, and in general I feel
better.

Nowadays, if a Type 1 is *not* on Humalog/Lantus, there must be a very
good reason. (Cost springs to mind, if the person has no insurance.)

>Alexander, just wanted to add that reading your success (41 years!) is
>an inspiration to me and I'm betting other T1's here.  Thanks.

Thanks. One reason that I post here is to hopefully encourage others.

But I'm under no illusions that what I'm doing in regard to treatment
has been what has saved me from complications. Sheer luck has a lot to
do with it. I'm sure that people with much tighter control than I have
fallen victim to all sorts of complications. We do the best we can.

Ever since I was diagnosed in the fall of 1965, the story has always
been that "a cure is just around the corner." I've come to be rather
skeptical of such reports, but I really think now that we may be on
the verge of a breakthrough. All this time we were thinking in terms
of islet transplants, but it looks as though the new big thing will be
electronic/mechanical -- an artificial pancreas. If they can stretch
the unattended operation of this "closed-loop" system from 36 hours to
36 days, I'll be jumping on board.
Hi_Therre - 11 Dec 2006 13:20 GMT
>>Ah, such are the dreams/nightmares of the everyday Type 1. :)  Roller
>>coaster is a great analogy for what we sometimes have to go through.
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>Nowadays, if a Type 1 is *not* on Humalog/Lantus, there must be a very
>good reason. (Cost springs to mind, if the person has no insurance.)

The cheapest place I can find for humalog/novolog is
http://www.canadadrugsonline.com//DrugMoreInfo2578.aspx at $34 + $10
s/h for humalog.  I bought a vial of novorapid (novolog in US) a few
months ago $41 + $10.  Not sure why the $7 difference.
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