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On Sat, 4 Mar 2006 22:26:56 -0500, Ronetta@webtv.net (Loretta
Eisenberg) wrote:
>Quentin, it is very hard to hear that you are putting your house in
>order. Unfortunately, the reality of our lives calls that all of us
>should be having our houses in order. I tell my daughter everyday where
>all the papers are that she can go and just get them.
G'day G'day Loretta,
In my case it represents progress. Soon after the more recent
diagnosis went death seemed immanent was not the best time to put
things in order. It seemed almost like tempting fate. I've gotten
past that and hope others have too. I have a wife, children and
grandchildren. The time I spend with them has become more precious.
Only by being part of their lives will I be part of their lives. We
sort financial counseling and received the following advise.
Deal with everything that would leave a legacy of resentment.
>My mil who recently passed, told her daughter everything was in one
>draw, but it wasnt . It tooks weeks to go through all those papers and
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>Have your house in order Quentin, but I hope it wont need another
>cleaning for many years to come.
You have been through the mill.
>It is a reality of life.
Here is what I was told that made the essential decision making
easier.
"Deal with everything that would leave a legacy of resentment."
>Loretta
Best wishes,

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Loretta Eisenberg - 06 Mar 2006 00:37 GMT
I like that Deal statement. It is very true.
Quentin, you have it so together.
Loretta
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