Last night I met with my nephews at Borders drinking coffee and talking for
several hours. We had a good time rehashing old stories and they even
confessed to a few teen aged transgressions that I didn't know about. On a
ten point scale, these misdeeds were about a 2, so they made for interesting
conversation with no real harm done to my image of them as youngsters.
Both nephews are good fathers, good husbands, good providers, good men, and
both have responsible positions working with computers and software. I
recently retired from the same kind of business, but their knowledge has
left me in the dust. My nephews don't, drink, gamble, smoke or run around
on their wives.
Last night I realized how much these two guys mean to me.
One problem--they're both very overweight, one more so than the other. They
have youngish children and wives to support so I worry about them. The
nephew that lives farthest from me, hundreds of miles away, has a weight
problem that is especially worrisome. The other nephew is obese as well, but
I've been able to persuade him to begin a walking and diet program. He's
already showing signs of Metabolic Syndrome. The other nephew claims his
tests are good and he takes no meds.
Both are aware of how much I've lost and commented on it. I didn't reveal
any of my worries about. We briefly discussed how I lost my weight and that
should be enough to plant a seed in the nephew who worries me most.
When I got up this morning, I yelled at myself, "Get your Big Butt outta
Bed and get down to Bally's." Before I knew what I was doing I was
showered, had my bag and towel and was headed to the gym. I'm learning to be
obedient.
Loretta Eisenberg - 14 Jan 2006 20:43 GMT
I am glad that you only talk to yourself that well. I wonder if that
kind of talk would have helped your nephews. When the time is ready for
them and they feel motivated, they will take care of it, or not. The
choice is theres. I hope it isnt before they get terrible conditions
from being very overweight.
Loretta
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Wes Groleau - 14 Jan 2006 23:38 GMT
Better than going to Rally's :-)

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W.M.McKee - 15 Jan 2006 00:03 GMT
>Last night I met with my nephews at Borders drinking coffee and talking for
>several hours. We had a good time rehashing old stories and they even
>confessed to a few teen aged transgressions that I didn't know about. On a
>ten point scale, these misdeeds were about a 2, so they made for interesting
>conversation with no real harm done to my image of them as youngsters.
You are wonderful , Rudy.
But thanks, I'll stick to my 30 min walks, as long as I can.. It is
sometimes hard to walk.
I have a membership in Bally's, but it really is a hassle. If I can
stick to my shady lanes with tall trees, surrounded by wonderful
smells of nature, and the joyous laughter of children at play, that is
enough for me....
No criticism intended.
Will, T2
Rudy Toot - 15 Jan 2006 03:43 GMT
> But thanks, I'll stick to my 30 min walks, as long as I can.. It is
> sometimes hard to walk.
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> smells of nature, and the joyous laughter of children at play, that is
> enough for me....
I'd much rather walk, too, but it was raining today. :(
Bally's is my least favorite place to exercise, but on a rainy day, it'll
do. If my yearly membership wasn't $98, I'd probably look for another gym.
Ballys could improve things if they had garlic and non-garlic exercise
areas.
Donna - 15 Jan 2006 16:37 GMT
I used to have a Bally's membership, but then I broke my hip in an
accident--and we also moved away from a Bally's location. I had enjoyed
going, especially for the steam and dry saunas and the lap swim lanes. The
hot tub at the end really kept down sore muscles.
Now a fitness club very similar to Bally's has opened near our home. Has
everything but the steam sauna.
I'm from the South and didn't go anywhere without my makeup and hair done.
However, I have revised that recently---I'm 56 and not trying to win any
beauty contests and am also retired so not trying to impress any colleagues
or play politics. I've been married 37 years and I'm not trying to impress
the opposite sex. (And my DH won't be at the gym. :-) How liberating
this time of life is.
So now I am able to just get up, get dressed in any old exercise clothes,
grab my gym bag already loaded with swimsuit etc., and walk out the door. I
do not stop to do anything but wash my face and brush my teeth---and get a
couple of liters of water (one for the car there and back, and another for
inside the gym). Oh yes, and grab something as a carb to eat in the car.
An important part is that my gym bag is already packed and my carb is just
something I can pick up and get out the door.
I really enjoy this--I am in no hurry these days and usually spend a couple
of hours or more. First I do some reclined cycling---watching closed
caption TV or reading, then circuit type strength work, then cycling again.
Then I change for the dry sauna and stay there really relaxing. I shower
there by the pool, do some laps, and then enjoy the jets on my back and feet
in the sauna whirlpool. Then I shower and go home.
I am **no** athlete, never have been since junior high basketball (girls
played half-court then--anybody remember?). Probably the way I exercise has
a lot to be desired. I don't use heavy weights on the machines--am just
very gradually increasing the weight a little bit and increasing the
repetitions. My laps are in my own style---on my back, not in any hurry. I
don't have a goal for improvement---success is entirely based on my general
feeling of wellness related to flexibility, strength, and stamina.
I can also be faulted for not stopping to get a good breakfast. But if I
did that, one thing would lead to another---I'd decide to check my e-mail,
check the news, etc.---and I would be less likely to go at all.
I'm not putting this up as any kind of model; I'm just adding my two cents
as to what seems to be helping me to exercise right now.
Best Wishes for the New Year---
Donna
bj - 15 Jan 2006 19:30 GMT
> I'd much rather walk, too, but it was raining today. :(
Rain gear. (e.g. Gore-tex)
Waterproof boots. (e.g. Timberland)
I'll walk or run in anything but icy-underfoot. I just dress for it. I've
also run races that were halfway wading events; I just make sure to change
my shoes & socks as soon as possible (though that can be a couple of hours
depending on venue & transport).
bj