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> It's her choice to make about her dental needs.
But she had little to no knowledge and still probably do not seem to
realize the extent of the benefit she will get from the implant. Good
in a away as it is a *big* job doing all this for her.
> If the dentist has offered a bridge as a reasonable option to meet her needs.
When we went to him, we told our plan to do the implant. He's aware
how she was a pain in the a*s for me for not wanting to do the brace
step and just wanted the implant done - it's like the repeated
explantion, not just translation was just a waste. I got so exhausted
that I finally informed the dentist what she's demanding. The dentist
had to tell her that he would not keep her as a patient if she insists
on doing implant without the brace step.
Now that she wants to do the bridge, I think that the whole costly
brace work ($5500 including the retainer when the brace if off) is a
waste of time and money. Am I wrong to assume that?
> and she chooses that option,
The probem is all the option she has chosen in her life on her own got
her nowhere:)-
>you have to realize that she is living her life not yours.
Rather, it is like I am being forced to live her life (aside from mine
with my own stress) because I get to deal with every crisis of hers
here. So far, I had done it at big expense - big because it's not just
time expense but having to deal with her abuse that seems to stem from
feeling bad and getting resentful, I guess form having depend on me.
I'll let her live with the conseqeuces of her choice. In another word,
I am going to ignore it when she comes tell me that she wants to do the
impant.
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