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Medical Forum / General / Dentistry / August 2004Divorce
Just in my final year of dental school, got married last year. It's been fine until now but we'll be divorcing soon. It's such a shock to me... I wonder if anyone's ever been involved in such a tragic situation. Fortunately my Dean is understanding. But it's hard to face my friends and colleagues (after all we went to so many social functions and dinners with my friends)... I'm a little better now but I can't help but sigh everytime I think of her... I just want to graduate next May. I pray everyday I survive each single day. It's so tough. Just wanted to vent and see if anyone had anything to share with me. Cheers >Just in my final year of dental school, got married last year. It's >been fine until now but we'll be divorcing soon. It's such a shock to >me... Do not worry .. she will miss you. You sound like a great person already. > I wonder if anyone's ever been involved in such a tragic >situation. Fortunately my Dean is understanding. But it's hard to face >my friends and colleagues (after all we went to so many social >functions and dinners with my friends)... Oh those dinners ........ not worth it anyway. > I'm a little better now but >I can't help but sigh everytime I think of her... I just want to >graduate next May. I pray everyday I survive each single day. It's so >tough. Just wanted to vent and see if anyone had anything to share >with me. Get involved with your work, seek out research oriented-dentists and faculty, use your time off for good behaviour to good advantage ..... The best revenge is living well ...... (not really, but just a thought!) PS- You know how to make beer can chicken? Its a huge hit with the ladies. JOEL >Cheers I had a different problem in dental school. There was an instructor who was ferocious. He was TOUGH, tough, tough. One evening I was at the Academy of Music for a Philadelphia Orchestra concert. At intermission my date and I bumped into THAT FEARED INSTRUCTOR. Turns out the lovely lady knew him! She was the daughter of his best friend, the guy who came with him from their native Germany to Philadelphia. OK. Fast forward ....... the next year. I was a married dental student. I did not marry "JOYCE," but I MARRIED another woman. The instructor, every time he looked over my work (and gave my my most undeserved A) would say, "Oh, so how is JOYCE!" So I started to lie ...... had to. I was too scared. My friends still wonder to this day how I got those "A"s and they never failed to question me as to "WHO IS THIS JOYCE PERSON" and how does she help you get "A"s? I was nervous until the end, but fortunately it worked out fine. Its all history. It was 1964. Joel PS- I changed the name to protect the innocent. Her real name? "Joyce!" >Just in my final year of dental school, got married last year. It's >been fine until now but we'll be divorcing soon. It's such a shock to [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] >with me. >Cheers I would haved kicked his a.s. >I had a different problem in dental school. There was an instructor >who was ferocious. He was TOUGH, tough, tough. [quoted text clipped - 26 lines] >PS- I changed the name to protect the innocent. Her real name? >"Joyce!" -- W_B wubbabubbazG@RBAGEyahoo.com Take out the G'RBAGE >I would haved kicked his a.s. Several buddies did that. One is now a podiatrist and the other left for medical school. >>I had a different problem in dental school. There was an instructor >>who was ferocious. He was TOUGH, tough, tough. [quoted text clipped - 26 lines] >>PS- I changed the name to protect the innocent. Her real name? >>"Joyce!" > Just in my final year of dental school, got married last year. It's > been fine until now but we'll be divorcing soon. It's such a shock to [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > with me. > Cheers Tough break.... My sympathies. Hang in there, man. FWIW, there were a few break-ups when I was going through as well. Even some long-standing relations with children. Take it a day at a time and pour all your strengths into that. Lean on your friends a bit if you can. At least, you didn't have kids into the mix. My guess is that your partner just decided that there wouldn't be enough room for a real relationship and your carreer. Above all, don't get down on yourself. Don't make any other important decisions until you're squarely back on your feet. Cheers SP  SignatureTo reply: take out the TRASH... Good advice. >> Just in my final year of dental school, got married last year. It's >> been fine until now but we'll be divorcing soon. It's such a shock to [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] >Cheers >SP -- W_B wubbabubbazG@RBAGEyahoo.com Take out the G'RBAGE >Just in my final year of dental school, got married last year. It's >been fine until now but we'll be divorcing soon. It's such a shock to [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] >with me. >Cheers Keep on keeping on bro. Gorgonzola, -- W_B wubbabubbazG@RBAGEyahoo.com Take out the G'RBAGE > Just in my final year of dental school, got married last year. It's > been fine until now but we'll be divorcing soon. It's such a shock to [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > tough. Just wanted to vent and see if anyone had anything to share > with me. You are a whiny little wuss. No wonder you're getting divorced. > > Just in my final year of dental school, got married last year. It's > > been fine until now but we'll be divorcing soon. It's such a shock to [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > > You are a whiny little wuss. No wonder you're getting divorced. Just have to speak to the OP here. Man, do you remember what it was like when you first started out in DS? I mean after the initial partying and merryment died down, and you actually had to sit down and WORK, and STUDY, and SCULPT, and DISSECT and working on the articulator had to procuce something that was ACCEPTABLE? And you had EXAMS that had to be PASSED????????? Like you still do to some extent? Well, anyone who got through that, to the place where you are now, would not DREAM of uttering such an a.shole comment as what appears above. This tells me that this guy (I'm sure it's a guy) is a welfare line reject and not worth ONE SECOND of your time or thought. Like I said b/4... hang in there, and finish the year, doing it one day at a time. That's all you need to get there. If you come across any more a.sholes like this one, do yourself a huge favor: DON'T RESPOND. Don't even THINK about answering the twit. Be selfish. Save your energies for people and things worthy of it. If this guy had started DS with you, he wouldn't have lasted ONE MONTH. Hang in there! :-) SP SignatureTo reply: take out the TRASH... Good advice. I might add that it's better to split now than after three kids and 25 years of grief at the hand of a poor spousal choice (which this would probably have turned into). Fawks Be selfish. Save your energies for people and > things worthy of it. > > If this guy had started DS with you, he wouldn't have lasted ONE MONTH. > > Hang in there! :-) > SP |
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