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BillyBob@nowhere.com - 12 Feb 2004 05:08 GMT
curtis

I know how much your wife means to you. All I can offer you  is my
support,  hopes and prays.

And remeberALWAYS have valuable you are and will be to all of here in
the group, As you see on bilboars everywher, Winston Churchill said
"Never, never, never give up the fight, no matter what.."

All OUR love and best wishes,

Jim  
 
Jim (AKA BillyBob, but only to newsgroups!)  
jjoy_DONT_USE_THIS_PART@austin_DONT_USE_THIS_PART.rr.com

Pre-op. PSA: 5.1 11-2000. Age 56 then
Biopsy 1-3-2001: 3+3=6, only 10% diffused cells, left side only. Left Sem. Ves,1-8-04: 4+3=7, 20% difused cells
RRP: 3-12-01, 20%  diffused cells, 20% capsular penetration, neg lymph &
Sem. ves.
Erection - 6 weeks and earlier; 6 wks.; first decent one
PSA's - .5,1.1,.5,.3,.4,.7,.7,.6,.7,.7.,.9,1.1 Nov.4 03, 1.1 Jan. 8, 04
NO ONE, not even my med school Pathology Prof. Step-Sister
EVER said "radiation" - "Wait until it gets to 2.0, i.e. serious."
(Last - Quote of urologist who did RRP!)

Can't beat that deal at ANY price! AND I have a 30 year old car with only
26,000 miles on it that a little old lady only used to drive to church on
Sundays. Want to buy that as well?


c palmer - 12 Feb 2004 09:31 GMT
thanks jim - the good news is tonight, my one son & his wife drove 60
miles after working all day, just to be with her.  they have a sandwich
shop on a different floor.   i talked with the nurses to make sure it
was ok to take the wife off the floor and we all went down to the
sandwich shop for relieve the stress of a hospital room setting.  her iv
unit start beeping "low battery" so we had to find a table that was
close to an electrical outlet, but i think the visit did a lot for her
spirits.  the four of us were just having a good time, nobody else was
in the eating room (it's was about midnight) and although she can't eat
anything because of the colonoscopy in the morning, i could tell it took
the stress off of the situation enough that when we unplugged the iv
unit and went back up to her room, that she thought she might be able to
sleep some.  

so, hopefully, i'll be able to post what they find.  as of tonight, she
is still bleeding but it is high up in the intestinal tract because it
is not tarry(sp?) or fresh.  

it's 5am now, and i'm still not sleepy.  stress does that to me.  the
last time she was in the hospital, i also lost 30 lbs.  so maybe the
positive thing of this is i'll lose some more weight.  

~ curtis

knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
sosep - 12 Feb 2004 15:32 GMT
> it's 5am now, and i'm still not sleepy.  stress does that to me.  the
> last time she was in the hospital, i also lost 30 lbs.  so maybe the
> positive thing of this is i'll lose some more weight.
>
> ~ curtis

Keep strong and have faith friend. Try and rest a little (if that's
possible). My thoughts/prayers are with you and "yours"

Sosep
Carolyn Preston - 12 Feb 2004 20:47 GMT
Keep your chin up Curtis, and please pass on a big
((((((cyber-hug)))))) to your dear wife.
I shall be thinking of you both and wish you well.
love
Carolyn Preston
UK
husband dx april 03 age 47yrs
PSA 639.5 april 03. PSA 14 .June 03.  PSA 18.7 dec 03.
stage T4
multiple bone mets.
current treatment- zolodex, casodex, gabapentin, zolidronic acid
infusions awaiting clinical trials (taxitare chemotherpy)

> > it's 5am now, and i'm still not sleepy.  stress does that to me.  the
> > last time she was in the hospital, i also lost 30 lbs.  so maybe the
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> Sosep
c palmer - 13 Feb 2004 00:49 GMT
had colonoscopy and barium drink complete with x-rays.  they did her a
favor i think. they knocked her out and it lasted over 2 hours.  

the results - colon was clear and haven't heard the results from the
x-rays on the small intestines.

so, here's the scorecard - losing blood, stomach is got clean bill of
health,  colon has clean bill of health, and small intestines is still
waiting.

makes you wonder if that comes back clean, where they will go to next.  

~ curtis

knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
Steve Kramer - 13 Feb 2004 02:05 GMT
Esophagus and large intestines is all that is left.  Right?  And the
duodenum.  I think that's what they call it.  But, you'd think those latter
two would be checked with the x-rays.

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PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46
Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c
RRP 12/15/2000
PSA  .1  .1  .1  .3  .4  .8
EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47
PSA  .3 .2  .2  .2 .3
Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48
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PSA  .1
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> had colonoscopy and barium drink complete with x-rays.  they did her a
> favor i think. they knocked her out and it lasted over 2 hours.
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> knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
ButtercupsDad@dog.net - 13 Feb 2004 13:27 GMT
    I hope they do not find anything seriously wrong in there
Curtis.  You both are both in my prayers.  
    Thank you.

David

>had colonoscopy and barium drink complete with x-rays.  they did her a
>favor i think. they knocked her out and it lasted over 2 hours.  
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>knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
c palmer - 13 Feb 2004 15:52 GMT
can you believe this??????   they can't find anything wrong with her and
are sending her home.  not that i'm complaining.   but after all the
testing they say there they can't find anything, but they did confirm
again the day after she was admitted that she was passing blood.  

so, you see, all the prayers worked and that 1-800 line to the maker is
still in good working order.   many thanks to everyone, the support here
isn't just about prostate cancer, but the whole person.   what a  great
group of caring folks :)  

one big   s                            e  
               s                         l
                 s                     i
                   m                i
                      m          m
                         mmm
~ curtis

knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
Alan Meyer - 13 Feb 2004 17:35 GMT
> can you believe this??????   they can't find anything wrong with her and
> are sending her home.  not that i'm complaining.   but after all the
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> knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional

Great news Curtis.  We're all happy for both of you.

Hopefully, this was some transitory illness or injury that is now
healed up and won't be seen again.

Best regards to the missus.

  Alan
c palmer - 13 Feb 2004 21:00 GMT
i learned something - webtv doesn't translate very well when trying to
do graphics.   that was suppose to be a big smile using the word "smile"
and you see how it turned out.  learn something new everyday.

~ curtis

knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
Alan Meyer - 13 Feb 2004 21:55 GMT
> i learned something - webtv doesn't translate very well when trying to
> do graphics.   that was suppose to be a big smile using the word "smile"
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> knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional

Actually, it does look like a smile on my email client screen.

Each combination of computer, software package, screen resolution,
video hardware, and font seems to produce different results.  It's
very hard to predict what things will look like on someone else's screen.

  Alan
ButtercupsDad@dog.net - 13 Feb 2004 21:00 GMT
    That is great news Curtis.  I am very happy for you both.  

    Have a good weekend and look at your vacation photos.

    Thank you.

David S.

>can you believe this??????   they can't find anything wrong with her and
>are sending her home.  not that i'm complaining.   but after all the
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MH - 13 Feb 2004 22:59 GMT
Great news, Curtis!!!

I'm so glad you will have your wife home for the Valentine's weekend.  Hope
you can both get some rest and put all this past week behind you!

And your *smile* came out fine on my screen!

Take care.... be well!

MikeH

> can you believe this??????   they can't find anything wrong with her and
> are sending her home.  not that i'm complaining.   but after all the
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> knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
Tom Cular - 14 Feb 2004 00:31 GMT
Curtis,
Your smile worked here; more important is the fact that you wanted to smile!
My wife recently went through a mastectomy followed by removal of lymph
nodes as a separate procedure. I can only say that she gave me the
confidence and inspiration to rely on my physicians and "The Guy Upstairs."
I think it's interesting how we become self absorbed in our own problems and
tend to miss what's going on around us until something serious occurs with a
loved one; to turn on the light, so to speak.

We wish your wife and you the best.

Tom

> Great news, Curtis!!!
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c palmer - 14 Feb 2004 02:15 GMT
hi tom - i hope everything turns out fine for your wife.  your post
reminds me of the wife who complained about her husband's snoring until
another wife spoke up.  

"i wish he was alive so i could hear his snoring."

i say this as i walked through the living room where my wife is very
much sound asleep after a hard week.  this house sure has been quiet
this week by myself.  it really makes you appreciate what time we have
together and what truly is important in life.  

to add to this - i just got a call from my son asking about mom.  his
son came down with something today and is on his lap and burning up with
a temp.  he is sleeping and i could tell that as a new father of 2
years, he is beginning to see what it feels from that view point of what
it's like to be a father.  i told him, been there, done that.  i
remember when you were on my lap sleeping with a fever and the feeling
of nothing you could do but let it run it's course.  

i think this group has the some of  biggest  hearts.  we can talk openly
about other subjects as well.  we are support for the whole person, not
just the one little organ deep inside the body.

be sure to give your wife a great big hug and tell her it is from a very
special newsgroup.

~ curtis

knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
 
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