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David S - 28 Jan 2004 03:05 GMT
   First of all let me apologize to the new people who may not understand
why I am making a post here about a dog.  When I was diagnosed in April
2003, and then RRP in August 2003, I was active on the ng and there were
quite a few people who responded favorably to my posts about out new dog,
Buttercup.  A photo is on Linda's web site if anyone is interested (I lost
the web address when I got the new computer, can anyone help, please?).
Anyway, she was a rescue, an abused dog, and this was our first experience
in that area.  It has turned out to be trying.  The second night we had the
dog my wife tripped over her and broke her, the wife's, foot.  In early
December my wife fell on the ice while walking the dog and broke her ankle,
the wife again, in two places, requiring surgery to pin it all back
together.  The cast came off last week, but she has a dead hunk of flesh and
bone at the end of that leg.  She will require weeks of physical therapy to
get back to normal walking ability.
   So, the latest on Buttercup is that last week I noticed that the water
bowl was not down when I changed it each day.  By my count she has not drank
(drunk?) any water since last Wednesday.  We had snow this past weekend, and
she did eat snow and lick the ice, so she did get moisture that way.  She
has stopped eating unless we put gravy or the like on her food.  She does
eat treats, e.g., Milk Bones.  On Monday we called the vet and he thinks it
is a mental versus a physical problem.  I am taking her in tomorrow for
blood work.  If that does not show a physical problem he is going to
prescribe a medication for treating anxiety.  I guess after living with us
for six months the dog need Valium.  Go figure.

   God bless those we lost in the past couple weeks.

   Thank you.
David S.
Beverley - 28 Jan 2004 13:04 GMT
Doggie Valium is not uncommon. Lots of dogs and cats are on it. Who knows
what she has been through before you got her. This is her first year with
you and so far her loving mistress has had two bad breaks and it's
Buttercup's fault. Does she understand that? Does she understand crutches?
Does she understand being left alone while "Mommy" has physical therapy? She
just knows that things are not right. She doesn't understand - she has a
very little brain. Just love her. (Have her teeth checked while at the
vets.) (Also keep the lid down on the toilet - seems they will balk if there
is anything in their water bowl and then they will go drink from the toilet!
Gawk!!!)
Bev

>     First of all let me apologize to the new people who may not understand
> why I am making a post here about a dog.  When I was diagnosed in April
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>     Thank you.
> David S.
David S - 28 Jan 2004 22:58 GMT
Bev:
   Good to hear from you.  It has been a long time.  I took her to the vet
today and he did a thorough exam and found nothing wrong.  He said that she
does not show signs of being dehydrated, but we have to wait for the lab
results to know for sure.  The prescription is for clomipramine
hydrochloride, or "Clomicalm" (Novartis).  He told me to not start it until
we get the lab results.  It will take a month or two to show signs of
improvement, and this is not something that she will be on forever.  Six
months or so maybe.  When we got home she drank from the streams of water
that are outside coming from the melting ice (thank God).  But I cannot see
where she has taken a drink from her water bowl.  The vet told me to try a
second bowl with a couple ice cubes.  He said that sometimes they will play
with the ice and then drink the water as they melt.  No luck there so far
though.  She is eating though, and she did urinate this morning and this
evening.  Not sure where that is coming from.  The lids are down on all the
toilets.  Maybe it is the immaculate hydration that I am witnessing (ha).
   So, more gray hair for me.
   Thank you.
David S.
Larry Wheat - 29 Jan 2004 01:20 GMT
You're a good dad, David!

Here's the website:

http://www.weaselmama.com/the_faces_of_prostate_cancer.htm

Here's the photo of the happy family (well, mom and dad are happy,
Buttercup looks stoic):

http://www.weaselmama.com/Buttercup_Aug2003.jpg

Larry

>     First of all let me apologize to the new people who may not understand
> why I am making a post here about a dog.  When I was diagnosed in April
> 2003, and then RRP in August 2003, I was active on the ng and there were
> quite a few people who responded favorably to my posts about out new dog,
> Buttercup.  A photo is on Linda's web site if anyone is interested (I lost
> the web address when I got the new computer, can anyone help, please?).

> David S.
David S - 29 Jan 2004 01:29 GMT
   Thank you for the link(s) Larry.   Yes, sometimes I think Buttercup
thinks we are the two that are nuts and she is the one with all four paws
planted firmly on the ground.  Maybe I am the one that the vet should have
given the anti anxiety pills to (ha).

   Thank you again.
David S.

> You're a good dad, David!
>
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>
> > David S.
Tom Cular - 29 Jan 2004 02:42 GMT
Dave,
We had a dog that would not drink from her bowl for the longest time (loved
the white porcelain), our vet suggested keeping her water bowl fresh and
close to the toilet and leaving the toilet open with some vinegar in it. It
took less than a week to change her preference of water bowls.As you haven't
had  Buttercup since she was a pup, you don't know what her old habits were.
Good luck with her, I hope all the two legged creatures in your home are out
dancing soon.
Tom
>     Thank you for the link(s) Larry.   Yes, sometimes I think Buttercup
> thinks we are the two that are nuts and she is the one with all four paws
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> >
> > > David S.
Beverley - 29 Jan 2004 05:05 GMT
I found a soup mug was a great drinking cup for a dog. It was easy to reach
down and grab the mug - no spilling of a full bowl, etc. and there is
something about that china they seem to like better than a plastic bowl or
even a stainless steel. And I think they know they are drinking out of "our"
cups. LOL
Bev

> Dave,
> We had a dog that would not drink from her bowl for the longest time (loved
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> > >
> > > > David S.
Debbie Trujillo - 01 Feb 2004 04:17 GMT
This reminds me of when we had our cat Rocky.  Every time I took him in for
any procedure, the vet had to give him valium because Rocky would get so
crazy at the vet's.  He got bone cancer in 1999 and I had him put to sleep
2-1/2 months after he was diagnosed because he was suffering.

Natasha our other cat was diagnosed in early October 2001 with lymphoma.
Cats sometimes live a long time with this.  She was on Predizone alone and
did fine until August 2002 and then started loosing weight again so the vet
added Leukeran.  She was again doing fine and got a good report from the vet
in May 2003.  That was also when John had the 2 borderline high PSA results
and I shared this with the vet.  It was in June when the cancer was
confirmed with John.  The week before his surgery in July, Natasha slept on
the bed with us at night and purred like she was trying to comfort us.  She
normally liked to lay on the couch at night but I think she was sensing we
were scared.  She started deteriorating again after John's surgery.
However, she didn't really get bad until the end of October when she stopped
eating entirely.  I then had her put down November 6.

>   Thank you for the link(s) Larry.   Yes, sometimes I think Buttercup
> thinks we are the two that are nuts and she is the one with all four paws
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>>
>>> David S.
BillyBob@nowhere.com - 29 Jan 2004 23:08 GMT
>    First of all let me apologize to the new people who may not understand
>why I am making a post here about a dog.  When I was diagnosed in April
[quoted text clipped - 25 lines]
>    Thank you.
>David S.

David,

Haven't been doing to well. Even M. D. Anderson doesn't really know
how to get at the core of the problems - the outrageous, almost
criminal negligence of the doctor who did my RRP and left about 80% or
more of both the seminal vesicles in me. One is cancerous and both are
being re-absorbed by my body so the cells of PCa will be all over my
body, if they are not already.

ANYWAY -  about Butercup: Try putting her bowl up on a Rubbermaid
foot-stool (or something like it), higher is necessary, so it will be
just below her head that when she bends her head to drink it will be
just below her head. Do this for the food bowl as well.

If I remember correctly she is a yellow Lab or Lab-mix. If she is big
as my lab mix - 105# - then she may not like bending over to drink and
eat.

As an aside, this is why they drink out of the toilet. And my vet said
that he had been taught in school (recently) that if a dog can eat
carrion and droppings without any side effect, they can surely can
take the toilet water unless it is blue or has vinegar in it.

Let her drink from the bowl until she calms down, THEN train her not
to do so.

Hope you are doing well.

Jim
Jim (AKA BillyBob, but only to newsgroups!)  
jjoy_DONT_USE_THIS_PART@austin_DONT_USE_THIS_PART.rr.com

Pre-op. PSA: 5.1 11-2000. Age 56 then
Biopsy 1-3-2001: 3+3=6, only 10% diffused cells, left side only. Left Sem. Ves,1-8-04: 4+3=7, 20% difused cells
RRP: 3-12-01, 20%  diffused cells, 20% capsular penetration, neg lymph &
Sem. ves.
Erection - 6 weeks and earlier; 6 wks.; first decent one
PSA's - .5,1.1,.5,.3,.4,.7,.7,.6,.7,.7.,.9,1.1 Nov.4 03, 1.1 Jan. 8, 04
NO ONE, not even my med school Pathology Prof. Step-Sister
EVER said "radiation" - "Wait until it gets to 2.0, i.e. serious."
(Last - Quote of urologist who did RRP!)

Can't beat that deal at ANY price! AND I have a 30 year old car with only
26,000 miles on it that a little old lady only used to drive to church on
Sundays. Want to buy that as well?


David S - 31 Jan 2004 19:10 GMT
Jim:
   I don't know what to say about your plight post surgery.  Hard to
believe in this age that a surgeon can screw up that bad.  Criminal is a
good word for it.
   Biggest problem(s) here is the continued incontinence and impotence.
Getting used to the pad routine.  Do not know what I will do if a year from
now it is the same.  Stopped using the Viagra, Cialis, etc., because it did
not work and I was tired of popping pills for no reason.
   We bought a raised bowl set for Buttercup, part lab part spaniel
supposedly, 50 lbs., but so far she will no even go close to it.  Anything
"different" is a problem with her.  The first time I tried to put the leash
on her when I was wearing a hat she backed off and wanted nothing to do with
me.  That was after we had her a couple months.  She notices the littlest
things and reacts like it was a threat of some kind.  The anti anxiety
medication she is on now should help that, but the vet said it could take a
couple months to work.  We will see.
   I'll keep you in my prayers.  If you can't get help down here maybe
someone upstairs will.  Don't give up.
   Thank you.
David

> David,
>
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> 26,000 miles on it that a little old lady only used to drive to church on
> Sundays. Want to buy that as well?
Alan Meyer - 31 Jan 2004 22:19 GMT
> ... Anything
> "different" is a problem with her.  The first time I tried to put the leash
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> medication she is on now should help that, but the vet said it could take a
> couple months to work.  We will see.

I once saw a dog trainer on TV show how to pick a dog for a pet from
a litter.

He took a bunch of keys out of his pocket, held them low to the ground
and watched what the puppies did.  One came over to investigate.  That's
the one he picked as being curious, intelligent, friendly, and non-neurotic.

He said many people will pick the puppy cowering in the corner because
they feel sorry for it.  But they soon find they have a more difficult pet
than they hoped for.
BillyBob@nowhere.com - 03 Feb 2004 00:00 GMT
>Jim:
>    I'll keep you in my prayers.  If you can't get help down here maybe
>someone upstairs will.  Don't give up.
>    
This is what I am hoping and praying for. 59 is not the age you want
to begin to die. Heck, I still haven't even figured out what my true
purpose is !

I am doing as Winston Churchill suggests "Never, Never, Never ever
give up."

Thanks for the encouragement.

Jim

Jim (AKA BillyBob, but only to newsgroups!)  
jjoy_DONT_USE_THIS_PART@austin_DONT_USE_THIS_PART.rr.com

Pre-op. PSA: 5.1 11-2000. Age 56 then
Biopsy 1-3-2001: 3+3=6, only 10% diffused cells, left side only. Left Sem. Ves,1-8-04: 4+3=7, 20% difused cells
RRP: 3-12-01, 20%  diffused cells, 20% capsular penetration, neg lymph &
Sem. ves.
Erection - 6 weeks and earlier; 6 wks.; first decent one
PSA's - .5,1.1,.5,.3,.4,.7,.7,.6,.7,.7.,.9,1.1 Nov.4 03, 1.1 Jan. 8, 04
NO ONE, not even my med school Pathology Prof. Step-Sister
EVER said "radiation" - "Wait until it gets to 2.0, i.e. serious."
(Last - Quote of urologist who did RRP!)

Can't beat that deal at ANY price! AND I have a 30 year old car with only
26,000 miles on it that a little old lady only used to drive to church on
Sundays. Want to buy that as well?


 
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