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Dedman - 12 Mar 2008 22:07 GMT
I am trying to do some terminal planning (financial, care, etc) and need an
order of magnitude estimate of the length of two intervals:

(1) How long between the time when my symptoms become severe enough to
interfere with my ability to care for my spouse and child until the time they
become severe enough that I can no longer care for myself, and

(2) How long can I expect to hang on after that assuming no intervention
other than painkillers.

Assume I reject Androgen Depravation Therapy.

I realize that these questions are not answerable other than statistically,
but I haven't been able to find the relevant statistics.  From hearsay and
other anecdotal sources, my impression is that the intervals are something
like six months and four months respectively but these are only impressions
and could be way off base.

Thanks for any help or pointers to sources of data you can give me.

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Justin Thyme - 12 Mar 2008 23:59 GMT
>I am trying to do some terminal planning (financial, care, etc) and need an
> order of magnitude estimate of the length of two intervals:
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>
> Thanks for any help or pointers to sources of data you can give me.

Yours is a very thoughtful and considerate question, but I'm afraid there
are so many variables only very rough estimates are possible.  Here's one,
when I searched for "from prostate cancer detection to death" (without
quotes).

http://www.aafp.org/afp/20050515/1915.html

Be advised, this is lengthy and only some of your question are discussed.

Keep in touch with us, though; there are many posters here with lots of
experience.

Best to you,

Ken Bland
Dedman - 19 Mar 2008 13:36 GMT
>> I am trying to do some terminal planning (financial, care, etc) and need an
>> order of magnitude estimate of the length of two intervals:
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
>
> Ken Bland

Ken, thanks for taking the time to respond.

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I.P. Freely - 13 Mar 2008 00:13 GMT
> I am trying to do some terminal planning (financial, care, etc) and need an
> order of magnitude estimate of the length of two intervals:
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> like six months and four months respectively but these are only impressions
> and could be way off base.

I can't answer those questions, but, at the risk of preaching to the
choir, want to be sure you're already doing what I've already done:
filed proper living will and power of attorney documents, including
strong final care directives. Also follow the advice in Ed Slott's book,
"Parlay Your IRA into a Family Fortune" to make sure your IRAs flow down
the family tree untaxed, saving beneficiaries scores to hundreds of
thousands of long-term dollars even on moderate-sized IRAs.

I'd bet many of us would appreciate your keeping us informed of your
findings as you continue researching this. Surely there must be data
and/or informed professional opinions available via Google. My onc once
sketched for me the shape of a nominal terminal morbidity/functionality
curve, but I can't find it at the moment. I'll let you know if I find it.

Also be aware that there are other, less obnoxious means of slowing
tumor progression being investigated, such as something called protein
4.1b (see at http://tinyurl.com/2f2c6z ). If I had a wife and kid
dependent on me, I'd probably jump at ADT when I reach that stage.

I.P.
Steve Kramer - 13 Mar 2008 20:37 GMT
> filed proper living will and power of attorney documents, including strong
> final care directives. Also follow the advice in Ed Slott's book, "Parlay
> Your IRA into a Family Fortune" to make sure your IRAs flow down the
> family tree untaxed, saving beneficiaries scores to hundreds of thousands
> of long-term dollars even on moderate-sized IRAs.

Son of a bitch!!

I've been in this ng for the better part of a decade and I don't think there
has been one thread about how to plan monetarily for the end of the string!

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Lud - 13 Mar 2008 22:06 GMT
> > filed proper living will and power of attorney documents, including strong
> > final care directives. Also follow the advice in Ed Slott's book, "Parlay
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> PSA <0.04, <0.05, <0.04, <0.04, <0.1  2/12/08
> Non Illegitimi Carborundum

Steve

Have you seen Molly Sugarman's booklet "Choices, living with cancer -
dying with dignity"?

It's available at psa-rising link:
http://www.psa-rising.com/books/choices.htm

Lud
Steve Kramer - 14 Mar 2008 01:27 GMT
> Steve
>
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> It's available at psa-rising link:
> http://www.psa-rising.com/books/choices.htm

No, but it's about time, I guess.  I have less than a year until I pull the
pin on a 35-year job.  Need to start planning for that process.
Dedman - 19 Mar 2008 13:45 GMT
[snip]

> Have you seen Molly Sugarman's booklet "Choices, living with cancer -
> dying with dignity"?
>
> It's available at psa-rising link:
> http://www.psa-rising.com/books/choices.htm

Thanks.  That looks helpful if not bracing.

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I.P. Freely - 14 Mar 2008 02:21 GMT
> "I.P. Freely" wrote
>
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>> family tree untaxed, saving beneficiaries scores to hundreds of thousands
>> of long-term dollars even on moderate-sized IRAs.

> I've been in this ng for the better part of a decade and I don't think there
> has been one thread about how to plan monetarily for the end of the string!

> I have terminal cancer, a wife, three children, three children in law, and
> five grandchildren and two on the way.

Then your eyes will bug out of your head when you read Slott's book. The
farther down the family tree we can pass our IRA's -- it's called a
"stretch" IRA -- the greater the benefits. The difference in an ordinary
$100,000 IRA transferred to one of those grandkids as a Stretch IRA vs
as simply an inheritance is several million dollars in favor of the
stretch.

The best parts?
1. The Stretch IRA isn't a loophole we must sneak through. The IRS
deliberately wrote the IRA tax codes this way with this in mind.

2. The Stretch IRA isn't some whole new or additional IRA we must
convert to. The difference is in how we transfer our existing IRAs, not
how we initially set them up.

3. Transferring your IRA in this manner requires little more of you than
properly designating your IRA beneficiaries on IRA forms rather than in
your will. Then the beneficiaries must jump through a comparable hoop
when the time comes. It takes longer to skim the very clear book than it
does to set up the stretch.

Yes, Amazon has the book. We drop-shipped copies to all our
beneficiaries to be sure they know what they must do -- and what it's
worth to them -- on their end.

I.P.
Dedman - 19 Mar 2008 13:40 GMT
[snip]

> I can't answer those questions, but, at the risk of preaching to the
> choir, want to be sure you're already doing what I've already done:
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> the family tree untaxed, saving beneficiaries scores to hundreds of
> thousands of long-term dollars even on moderate-sized IRAs.

I'll be lucky to have any left to pass on ;-)

[snip]

> Also be aware that there are other, less obnoxious means of slowing
> tumor progression being investigated, such as something called protein
> 4.1b (see at http://tinyurl.com/2f2c6z ). If I had a wife and kid
> dependent on me, I'd probably jump at ADT when I reach that stage.

The issue is being in a physical state with enough energy, motivation, etc.
to provide care rather than needing it.

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kh - 13 Mar 2008 03:46 GMT
> (1) How long between the time when my symptoms become severe enough to
> interfere with my ability to care for my spouse and child until the time they
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Assume I reject Androgen Depravation Therapy.

There's no way to answer that.   I can tell you my story.

Last year, the PCa tumor in my chest began choking both my windpipe
and the blood flow to my lungs. I was in oxygen debt all the time. I
was able to work and walk short distances. I'm pretty certain that it
would have killed me in a month or two.  I'd lie in bed at night,
heart pounding, and wonder if I'd wake the next day.

ADT had me feeling better in a few weeks and near normal in a couple
months.

This year, tumors in my vertebra, bone mets, had me on the floor.  I
was literally unable to get up once the pain started.   It took
decadron and percocet to allow me to stand and walk. The MRI showed
that my vertebra were deteriorating by expanding and collapsing
against my spinal nerves.  I'm guessing I was a few months away from
permanent spinal cord injury.

External radiation from Inova's Trilogy has already reduced the pain
and my PSA.  I'm off the decadron and take a minimal amount of
percocet and ibuprofen.  The radiation has killed the tumor and my
bones will strengthen over the next few months.

This monster will try again but my hope is that the taxotere IL-6
antigen trial at JHU will whack it back before it has a chance to
start.

I'm making my worse-case scenario plans.   I'm making time to do the
things that I want to do.

My answer to your questions is,  a couple months.

-kh  with treatment though, it could be years or decades.
I.P. Freely - 13 Mar 2008 05:51 GMT
And to think ... some of us, including myself, whine about having to
wear pads, and may even choose treatments based on that prospect. These
brave men's problems and attitudes should cast a different light on that
issue.

I.P.

>> (1) How long between the time when my symptoms become severe enough to
>> interfere with my ability to care for my spouse and child until the time they
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>
> My answer to your questions is,  a couple months.
Alan Meyer - 14 Mar 2008 02:46 GMT
On Mar 13, 12:55 am, "I.P. Freely" <fuhgheddabou...@noway.nohow>
wrote:
> And to think ... some of us, including myself, whine about having to
> wear pads, and may even choose treatments based on that prospect. These
> brave men's problems and attitudes should cast a different light on that
> issue.

Hear hear!

  Alan
Dedman - 19 Mar 2008 15:03 GMT
>> (1) How long between the time when my symptoms become severe enough to
>> interfere with my ability to care for my spouse and child until the time
[quoted text clipped - 39 lines]
>
> -kh  with treatment though, it could be years or decades.

Thanks.  Sorry you are having such a rough time of it.

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kh - 19 Mar 2008 23:03 GMT
> Thanks.  Sorry you are having such a rough time of it.

I am past the worse of the radiation's side effects.  My back is much
better.  It is still stiff but I can walk OK.   Inova says that it
will take 6 weeks to heal.   JHU says they will start me on the
taxotere IL-6 antigen trial in 4 weeks.

I worked part time for 3 weeks, I was able to drive to the office and
accomplish real work.  I'll recap the week post-radiation in a few
days.

-kh Snagged an invite to another party!  Woo-hoo,   Lets boogie!
Steve Kramer - 13 Mar 2008 20:30 GMT
I don't know if your address is a much pessimistic as it is presumptuous
considering the number of men here who aren't likely to see another total
lunar eclipse.  :-(

>I am trying to do some terminal planning (financial, care, etc) and need an
> order of magnitude estimate of the length of two intervals:

Excellent question.  That is possibly the greatest advantage to prostate
cancer.  You cand do that!

> (1) How long between the time when my symptoms become severe enough to
> interfere with my ability to care for my spouse and child until the time
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> (2) How long can I expect to hang on after that assuming no intervention
> other than painkillers.

That is, of course, subject to how tough you are and how bad it is.  One of
the shortcomings of this newsgroup is that most of its participants who have
died have been disinclined to tell us how bad things are at the end.  I can
tell you that my father fought this bastard to the very last second and I'm
thinking that he was totally dependent for a month.  It seems to me that
Howard Martin, who took no ADT or chemo, took less than two weeks to die
after being out of commission.

If you want to know how much longer you have from where  you are, we'd need
to know where you are.  What's your PSA?  How old are  you?  What's your
history?  What was your Stage and Gleason?

> Assume I reject Androgen Depravation Therapy.

I do not assume that.  If you researched ADT, you would find:

Virtually every man who undergoes treatment involving current ADT meds will
experience some issues that they have never dealt with in their lives.  Some
will be mild.  Some will be moderate but might be made mild with meds.  Some
will be serious but might be made moderate with meds.  Some will be so
strong that a few will stop using them though they may die sooner.

But, nobody knows how many or which SEs he will experience or how severe
they will be or how easily they can be mitigated by other medications or
activities.

For a good list of SEs, please check out:

http://www.prostate-cancer.org/education/sidefx/Strum_ADS.html

If you have a wife and child to care for, why would you go for the short
route.  I had a wife and three children when I was diagnosed.  I now have
terminal cancer, a wife, three children, three children in law, and five
grandchildren and two on the way.  I'm having the time of my life and I'm on
ADT!!!  If you don't like it, you can always quit.

> I realize that these questions are not answerable other than
> statistically,
> but I haven't been able to find the relevant statistics.

They are certainly unanswerable without more information.  But, we can give
you SWAGs if you let us know more about yourself.

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Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c
RRP 12/15/2000 G7 (3+4), T3cN0M0 Neg margins
PSA  <.1  <.1  <.1  .27  .37  .75            PSAD 0.19 years
EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47
PSA  .34 .22 .15 .21 .32                       PSAD .056 years
Lupron 07/03 (1 mo) 8/03 and every 4 months there after
PSA  .07 .05 .06 .09 .08 .132 .145       PSAD 1.4 years
Casodex added daily 07/06
PSA <0.04, <0.05, <0.04, <0.04, <0.1  2/12/08
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Gourd Dancer - 13 Mar 2008 22:21 GMT
Kramer's comments are dead on.

My comments could be....

I was diagnosed with advanced metastatic prostate cancer of May 8, 2004. If
there was no intervention, I'd be dead, plain and simple. With aggressive
inventation, my Medical Oncologist told me he could buy me 10 years, Today
at age 61, I am undetectible and all signs of the two areas of metastasis
are gone. Please read the short appended article, it may help you
understand:

Metastatic Prostate Cancer Survival Related to PSA Drop After Treatment
By Daniel J. DeNoon
WebMD Medical News
Reviewed by Louise Chang, MD
Aug. 29, 2006 -- How long will a man with advanced prostate cancer survive?
That may be related to how low his PSA level drops after
androgen-deprivation therapy.

The finding comes from University of Michigan researcher Maha Hussain, MD,
and colleagues. They're conducting a study of men newly diagnosed with
prostate cancer that has spread to other parts of their bodies. For men with
this deadly metastatic cancer, it is big news.

It depends on a simple blood test. Prostate cells -- especially prostate
cancer cells -- give off a marker called PSA (prostate-specific antigen).

After seven months of androgen-deprivation therapy, which is standard
treatment for metastatic prostate cancer, men with low PSA levels have only
one-fourth the chance of dying as men with higher PSA levels. Those with
undetectable PSA levels have only one-fifth the risk of death as men with
higher PSA levels.

"Low or undetectable PSA after seven months of androgen-deprivation therapy
is a powerful predictor of risk of death in patients with new metastatic
prostate cancer," Hussain said, in a news release. "These findings could
help patients avoid ineffective treatment."

PSA Test Predicts Prostate Cancer Death
Metastatic prostate cancer is usually fatal. Some patients die quickly.
Others survive for years. Until now, there's been no reliable way to tell a
patient which group he's in.

Standard treatment for spreading prostate cancer is to give a man a drug
that blocks male hormones. It's called androgen-deprivation therapy. It's
not a cure. Eventually, the body becomes resistant to the drug. But
treatment fails earlier in some men than in others.

Now there may be a way to predict this treatment failure. Hussain and
colleagues studied 1,345 men who were on androgen-deprivation therapy for
seven months.

The men whose PSA levels stayed above 4.0 ng/mL survived only 13 months on
average after the seven months of treatment. The men whose PSA levels were
4.0 ng/mL or less but more than 0.2 ng/mL survived an average 3.5 years. And
the men whose PSA levels were undetectable (less than or equal to 0.2 ng/mL)
lived for six years.

The findings could also provide what the researchers call a "window of
opportunity" to test new treatments for advanced prostate cancer.

Hussain and colleagues are now testing whether successful
androgen-deprivation therapy can be prolonged by stopping and starting
treatment after the seven-month "induction" period.

The study appears in the Aug. 20, 2006 issue of the Journal of Clinical
Oncology.

Good luck,

Gourd Dancer

>I am trying to do some terminal planning (financial, care, etc) and need an
> order of magnitude estimate of the length of two intervals:
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
> Thanks for any help or pointers to sources of data you can give me.
Dedman - 19 Mar 2008 15:08 GMT
> Kramer's comments are dead on.
>
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> By Daniel J. DeNoon
> WebMD Medical News

[snip]

Thanks for the article and the encouragement.

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Alan Meyer - 14 Mar 2008 02:45 GMT
Dedman,

Here's a partial answer to the question of survival time cited in
the National Cancer Institute's State of the Art Treatment
Summary for Health Professionals.  See:

http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/pdq/treatment/prostate/healthprofessional/allpages

The citation is to this 1993 article in PubMed:

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8230518?dopt=Abstract

It studied men who had failed radiation therapy (i.e., had a
rising PSA after radiation.  These men almost all had hormone
therapy.  The authors stated: "... median cancer-specific
survival of 6 years after local failure".

I presume the median would be less without hormone therapy.

So if you had local therapy with radiation and failed, and you
are willing to accept hormone therapy, you have a 50% chance of
living six years, measured from the time of the beginning of the
rise of PSA after radiation.

The study didn't talk about patients who had surgery.  I suspect
the numbers are in the same ballpark, but I don't know that.

It also didn't talk about patients who had no primary therapy at
all.  It would obviously be much harder to project a lifespan for
such men since they don't have a common starting point (e.g.,
failure of primary therapy) and could have been diagnosed at
vastly different points in the course of their disease.

If I were you I would consider seriously what the other posters
told you.  With current medical technology, you can't be cured of
your cancer, but you can extend your life, make the pain and
other symptoms much more bearable, and reduce the time of final
incapacity before death.  It can be very worthwhile to try to
find a good medical oncologist to help you with all of that.

I also think I.P.'s advice about how to prepare for death is
valuable.  In addition to his recommendations concerning legal
and financial issues, you might think about some of the
intangibles.  Are there thoughts you might like to write down or
put into a sound or video recording for your children and
grandchildren (if you have them)?  Are there treasured
possessions or keepsakes that you would like to give away to
people who you think will appreciate them, or to whom you would
like to express appreciation?  Are there things you would like to
do for your family that you haven't done yet?

Are there things you would like to do for yourself, a trip to
Alaska, a hike in the mountains, a visit to a favorite cousin,
some books that you always wanted to read, or whatever, that you
haven't done?  You may have a fatal illness.  In a sense, all of
us do.  We have known from a young age that we would die some
day.  But you're not dead yet, and there's no reason to stop
living until you have to.

Or as Stever Kramer likes to say, don't let the bastard grind you
down.

Best of luck.

  Alan
I.P. Freely - 14 Mar 2008 20:30 GMT
> I also think I.P.'s advice about how to prepare for death is
> valuable.  In addition to his recommendations concerning legal
> and financial issues, you might think about some of the
> intangibles.

List computer/website/account passwords.
Cancel automatically self-renewing accounts.
Call our "best girl" and other once-close friends from past lives.
Call your worst enemy and forgive him or curse him out.
If single, provide for pets.
Tell the wife where to get the car/roof/fridge fixed.
Throw out and sell off your own $#!+  so she won't have to agonize over it.
MAKE SURE OUR FINAL CARE PHYSICIANS CONCUR WITH AND AGREE TO SUPPORT OUR
LEGALLY BINDING FINAL CARE DOCUMENTS. I've read that many don't, beyond
the most basic DNR order.
I'm also helping promote the proposed Death With Dignity legislation in
my state in the hopes of replicating Oregon's successful, humane system
here in WA. I have no intention of burdening my family beyond their
wishes or capacity.

I.P.
Alan Meyer - 14 Mar 2008 22:02 GMT
> > I also think I.P.'s advice about how to prepare for death is
> > valuable.  In addition to his recommendations concerning legal
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>
> I.P.

More excellent advice.

We ought to copy this and a lot of the other stuff into a F.A.Q.

   Alan
I.P. Freely - 14 Mar 2008 23:03 GMT
> More excellent advice.
>
> We ought to copy this and a lot of the other stuff into a F.A.Q.

I'm sure we could Google much more on how to prepare for the end of life
socially, medically, emotionally, fiscally, logistically, and
administratively. I suspect that, notwithstanding our last miserable
months or year, we're lucky SOBs to die so slowly. What other
terminations give most patients so many years to fight back and prepare
for the end? Here I thought I was fortunate when given days to live when
they thought in 1996 that I was sloughing brain stem emboli and again
when given months to live if they couldn't cure my oversized carcinoid
colon cancer in 2004. My uro onc keeps telling me I'll be asymptomatic
for several more years and a viable person for a few years beyond that,
so I have another decade ahead of me even if my PC returns.

That's GOOD news in my book. I'd guess few other specialties would make
that statement regarding a 64-yo male. If I can't get my act together
for my wife and beneficiaries in ten years, it's no one's fault but my
own. I'm going to be *PO'd* if I get hit by a meteor tomorrow.

We're going to pay off our mortgage next week as the next step in
streamlining our lives.

I.P.
Steve Jordan - 15 Mar 2008 00:00 GMT
Quoting Señor Freely

>> I'm also helping promote the proposed Death With Dignity legislation in
>> my state in the hopes of replicating Oregon's successful, humane system
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> We ought to copy this and a lot of the other stuff into a F.A.Q.

Quite so.

Here's a quotation I posted a couple years ago in response to a post by
Freely:

"...the sole end for which mankind are warranted, individually or
collectively, in interfering with the liberty of action of any of their
number, is self-protection. The only purpose for which power can be
rightfully exercised over any member of a civilised community, against
his will, is to prevent harm to others. His own good, either physical or
moral, is not sufficient warrant. He cannot rightfully be compelled to
do or forbear because it will be better for him to do so, because it
will make him happier, because, in the opinion of others, to do so would
be wise, or even right...The only part of the conduct of anyone, for
which he is amenable to society, is that which concerns others. In the
part which merely concerns himself, his independence is, of right,
absolute. Over himself, over his own body and mind, the individual is
sovereign."
-John Stuart Mill

IOW, our lives are ours to do with as we wish. Except, of course, to
those who think themselves endowed with the wisdom to decide for others
what they shall do. And enforce their decisions by, well, force. Mainly,
they're miscalled "liberals."

Regards,

Steve J

>     Alan
Alan Meyer - 15 Mar 2008 22:19 GMT
> <... Quotation from John Stuart Mill elided ...>
> ...
> IOW, our lives are ours to do with as we wish. Except, of course, to
> those who think themselves endowed with the wisdom to decide for others
> what they shall do. And enforce their decisions by, well, force. Mainly,
> they're miscalled "liberals."

But remember that Mill was a classic Utilitarian.  He believed
that government should not constrain the lives of citizens except
insofar as they harm others, but also believed that government
should actively promote social welfare, something that I think
corresponds most closely to the American "liberal" position.
I have not read him in many years, but I don't think he would
be classed as what we in America call "libertarians".

   Alan
Steve Kramer - 14 Mar 2008 23:13 GMT
> List computer/website/account passwords.

I have written out instructions also for my wife to get onto this NG and
tell you how I am doing.  Robert Young, Martin Howard, Berky the Warrior,
and many others just stopped posting because they did not want to discourage
us.  Frankly, I have always wanted to know.  At times and to some extent we
have become friends and we want to know when the others of us are suffering
or have passed.

And, for those who are not my friends, well I want to know they're dead too.
:-)
Lud - 15 Mar 2008 18:42 GMT
I'm with you on this - I want to know what's coming - I don't like
nast surprises. I can handle the future when I am sure that that those
delinquent cancer cells have been attacked  by all currently available
means. This requires knowing early warning signs so that we can get
them when they are still low in numbers.

I believe in sharing all the way and thank all those that do.

Lud
~~~~~`

> > List computer/website/account passwords.
>
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> And, for those who are not my friends, well I want to know they're dead too.
> :-)
Dedman - 19 Mar 2008 15:14 GMT
> Dedman,
>
> Here's a partial answer to the question of survival time cited in
> the National Cancer Institute's State of the Art Treatment
> Summary for Health Professionals.  See:

http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/pdq/treatment/prostate/healthprofessional/a

> llpages
>
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>
>    Alan

Alan, thanks for the article and the advice.  My primary concern is remaining
able to care for my wife as long as possible.  I certainly don't rule out ADT
but if it results in bringing on my incapacity to do that earlier, I'm not
sure it is a good trade off.  I guess one never knows until they try.

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I.P. Freely - 19 Mar 2008 16:38 GMT
>  My primary concern is remaining
> able to care for my wife as long as possible.  I certainly don't rule out ADT
> but if it results in bringing on my incapacity to do that earlier, I'm not
> sure it is a good trade off.  I guess one never knows until they try.

ADT pretty much has two purposes, with overlap:
1. Make men with disabling mets feel *better* and stay that way longer.
It's essentially a no-brainer in that case unless an individual
experiences a rare level and combination of SEs.

and/or

2. Make  men w/o symptoms stay asymptomatic longer at the expense of
SEs. The dilemma then is how well each individual performs with his
blend and degree of SEs, and only trial and aggressive mitigation
efforts will determine that.

Either way, the ADT can add anywhere from weeks to years to one's life,
with a median benefit on the order of 6-8 months. Given the nature and
extent of your motivation, I'd guess you and your family would benefit
from ADT unless you had extreme SEs that a good med onc could not
mitigate satisfactorily. Most men who reject ADT have a whole different
set of motivators than you, probably experienced abnormal SEs, and/or
weren't even sure they still had cancer.

I.P.
Alan Meyer - 19 Mar 2008 23:10 GMT
> ... My primary concern is remaining able to care for my wife as
> long as possible.  I certainly don't rule out ADT but if it
> results in bringing on my incapacity to do that earlier, I'm
> not sure it is a good trade off.  I guess one never knows until
> they try.

Yes.  You need to try.

I'm thinking that ADT is most likely to prolong your capacity to
take care of your wife - for the reasons that I.P. gave.

First of all, once symptoms begin, you'll be hard pressed to take
care of yourself, much less anyone else.  ADT will delay the
onset of symptoms or, if begun after symptoms appear, will (for
many men) suppress them for some period of time.

Secondly, after you're dead you can't take care of anyone.  ADT
can delay death.

It is my understanding that the latest research shows a survival
advantage for early ADT over late ADT.  For that reason, I would
seriously consider early ADT.

Whether the ADT will reduce your ability to care for your wife
depends on a number of factors:

1. How severe a reaction will you have to ADT?

Some men, such as Ron Figueroa were debilitated by it.  Others,
including myself for the relatively short period I was on it,
were not.  It is my understanding that most men, if they exercise
on a regular basis, eat right, and get enough sleep, will not be
debilitated by it.

2. How much physical labor is involved in caring for your wife?

ADT can be expected to somewhat reduce your physical strength and
stamina.  If, for example, your wife is crippled and needs to be
lifted and carried, ADT could make the tasks harder.  Whether the
tasks become too hard for you to do depends on point 1 above.

3. What are the financial issues involved?

ADT may allow you to live longer and work longer, making more
money to support your wife.

4. Is there hope of additional treatments?

If ADT prolongs your life, you may live long enough to benefit
from some of the experimental treatments that are becoming
available.  It is conceivable that they will prolong your life
still further, enabling to prolong still further the care you can
provide to your wife.

I think any difficulties you experience with ADT are likely to
come on gradually.  You can take it and see what happens.  If
things start to go south for you in ways for which you cannot
compensate, you can get off.  The effects will wear off,
especially if you have not been on it for years.

Good luck,

  Alan

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