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Dedman - 12 Mar 2008 22:07 GMT I am trying to do some terminal planning (financial, care, etc) and need an order of magnitude estimate of the length of two intervals:
(1) How long between the time when my symptoms become severe enough to interfere with my ability to care for my spouse and child until the time they become severe enough that I can no longer care for myself, and
(2) How long can I expect to hang on after that assuming no intervention other than painkillers.
Assume I reject Androgen Depravation Therapy.
I realize that these questions are not answerable other than statistically, but I haven't been able to find the relevant statistics. From hearsay and other anecdotal sources, my impression is that the intervals are something like six months and four months respectively but these are only impressions and could be way off base.
Thanks for any help or pointers to sources of data you can give me.
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Justin Thyme - 12 Mar 2008 23:59 GMT >I am trying to do some terminal planning (financial, care, etc) and need an > order of magnitude estimate of the length of two intervals: [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > > Thanks for any help or pointers to sources of data you can give me. Yours is a very thoughtful and considerate question, but I'm afraid there are so many variables only very rough estimates are possible. Here's one, when I searched for "from prostate cancer detection to death" (without quotes).
http://www.aafp.org/afp/20050515/1915.html
Be advised, this is lengthy and only some of your question are discussed.
Keep in touch with us, though; there are many posters here with lots of experience.
Best to you,
Ken Bland
Dedman - 19 Mar 2008 13:36 GMT >> I am trying to do some terminal planning (financial, care, etc) and need an >> order of magnitude estimate of the length of two intervals: [quoted text clipped - 34 lines] > > Ken Bland Ken, thanks for taking the time to respond.
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I.P. Freely - 13 Mar 2008 00:13 GMT > I am trying to do some terminal planning (financial, care, etc) and need an > order of magnitude estimate of the length of two intervals: [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > like six months and four months respectively but these are only impressions > and could be way off base. I can't answer those questions, but, at the risk of preaching to the choir, want to be sure you're already doing what I've already done: filed proper living will and power of attorney documents, including strong final care directives. Also follow the advice in Ed Slott's book, "Parlay Your IRA into a Family Fortune" to make sure your IRAs flow down the family tree untaxed, saving beneficiaries scores to hundreds of thousands of long-term dollars even on moderate-sized IRAs.
I'd bet many of us would appreciate your keeping us informed of your findings as you continue researching this. Surely there must be data and/or informed professional opinions available via Google. My onc once sketched for me the shape of a nominal terminal morbidity/functionality curve, but I can't find it at the moment. I'll let you know if I find it.
Also be aware that there are other, less obnoxious means of slowing tumor progression being investigated, such as something called protein 4.1b (see at http://tinyurl.com/2f2c6z ). If I had a wife and kid dependent on me, I'd probably jump at ADT when I reach that stage.
I.P.
Steve Kramer - 13 Mar 2008 20:37 GMT > filed proper living will and power of attorney documents, including strong > final care directives. Also follow the advice in Ed Slott's book, "Parlay > Your IRA into a Family Fortune" to make sure your IRAs flow down the > family tree untaxed, saving beneficiaries scores to hundreds of thousands > of long-term dollars even on moderate-sized IRAs. Son of a bitch!!
I've been in this ng for the better part of a decade and I don't think there has been one thread about how to plan monetarily for the end of the string!
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Lud - 13 Mar 2008 22:06 GMT > > filed proper living will and power of attorney documents, including strong > > final care directives. Also follow the advice in Ed Slott's book, "Parlay [quoted text clipped - 19 lines] > PSA <0.04, <0.05, <0.04, <0.04, <0.1 2/12/08 > Non Illegitimi Carborundum Steve
Have you seen Molly Sugarman's booklet "Choices, living with cancer - dying with dignity"?
It's available at psa-rising link: http://www.psa-rising.com/books/choices.htm
Lud
Steve Kramer - 14 Mar 2008 01:27 GMT > Steve > [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > It's available at psa-rising link: > http://www.psa-rising.com/books/choices.htm No, but it's about time, I guess. I have less than a year until I pull the pin on a 35-year job. Need to start planning for that process.
Dedman - 19 Mar 2008 13:45 GMT [snip]
> Have you seen Molly Sugarman's booklet "Choices, living with cancer - > dying with dignity"? > > It's available at psa-rising link: > http://www.psa-rising.com/books/choices.htm Thanks. That looks helpful if not bracing.
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I.P. Freely - 14 Mar 2008 02:21 GMT > "I.P. Freely" wrote > [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] >> family tree untaxed, saving beneficiaries scores to hundreds of thousands >> of long-term dollars even on moderate-sized IRAs.
> I've been in this ng for the better part of a decade and I don't think there > has been one thread about how to plan monetarily for the end of the string!
> I have terminal cancer, a wife, three children, three children in law, and > five grandchildren and two on the way. Then your eyes will bug out of your head when you read Slott's book. The farther down the family tree we can pass our IRA's -- it's called a "stretch" IRA -- the greater the benefits. The difference in an ordinary $100,000 IRA transferred to one of those grandkids as a Stretch IRA vs as simply an inheritance is several million dollars in favor of the stretch.
The best parts? 1. The Stretch IRA isn't a loophole we must sneak through. The IRS deliberately wrote the IRA tax codes this way with this in mind.
2. The Stretch IRA isn't some whole new or additional IRA we must convert to. The difference is in how we transfer our existing IRAs, not how we initially set them up.
3. Transferring your IRA in this manner requires little more of you than properly designating your IRA beneficiaries on IRA forms rather than in your will. Then the beneficiaries must jump through a comparable hoop when the time comes. It takes longer to skim the very clear book than it does to set up the stretch.
Yes, Amazon has the book. We drop-shipped copies to all our beneficiaries to be sure they know what they must do -- and what it's worth to them -- on their end.
I.P.
Dedman - 19 Mar 2008 13:40 GMT [snip]
> I can't answer those questions, but, at the risk of preaching to the > choir, want to be sure you're already doing what I've already done: [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > the family tree untaxed, saving beneficiaries scores to hundreds of > thousands of long-term dollars even on moderate-sized IRAs. I'll be lucky to have any left to pass on ;-) [snip]
> Also be aware that there are other, less obnoxious means of slowing > tumor progression being investigated, such as something called protein > 4.1b (see at http://tinyurl.com/2f2c6z ). If I had a wife and kid > dependent on me, I'd probably jump at ADT when I reach that stage. The issue is being in a physical state with enough energy, motivation, etc. to provide care rather than needing it.
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kh - 13 Mar 2008 03:46 GMT > (1) How long between the time when my symptoms become severe enough to > interfere with my ability to care for my spouse and child until the time they [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > Assume I reject Androgen Depravation Therapy. There's no way to answer that. I can tell you my story.
Last year, the PCa tumor in my chest began choking both my windpipe and the blood flow to my lungs. I was in oxygen debt all the time. I was able to work and walk short distances. I'm pretty certain that it would have killed me in a month or two. I'd lie in bed at night, heart pounding, and wonder if I'd wake the next day.
ADT had me feeling better in a few weeks and near normal in a couple months.
This year, tumors in my vertebra, bone mets, had me on the floor. I was literally unable to get up once the pain started. It took decadron and percocet to allow me to stand and walk. The MRI showed that my vertebra were deteriorating by expanding and collapsing against my spinal nerves. I'm guessing I was a few months away from permanent spinal cord injury.
External radiation from Inova's Trilogy has already reduced the pain and my PSA. I'm off the decadron and take a minimal amount of percocet and ibuprofen. The radiation has killed the tumor and my bones will strengthen over the next few months.
This monster will try again but my hope is that the taxotere IL-6 antigen trial at JHU will whack it back before it has a chance to start.
I'm making my worse-case scenario plans. I'm making time to do the things that I want to do.
My answer to your questions is, a couple months.
-kh with treatment though, it could be years or decades.
I.P. Freely - 13 Mar 2008 05:51 GMT And to think ... some of us, including myself, whine about having to wear pads, and may even choose treatments based on that prospect. These brave men's problems and attitudes should cast a different light on that issue.
I.P.
>> (1) How long between the time when my symptoms become severe enough to >> interfere with my ability to care for my spouse and child until the time they [quoted text clipped - 36 lines] > > My answer to your questions is, a couple months. Alan Meyer - 14 Mar 2008 02:46 GMT On Mar 13, 12:55 am, "I.P. Freely" <fuhgheddabou...@noway.nohow> wrote:
> And to think ... some of us, including myself, whine about having to > wear pads, and may even choose treatments based on that prospect. These > brave men's problems and attitudes should cast a different light on that > issue. Hear hear!
Alan
Dedman - 19 Mar 2008 15:03 GMT >> (1) How long between the time when my symptoms become severe enough to >> interfere with my ability to care for my spouse and child until the time [quoted text clipped - 39 lines] > > -kh with treatment though, it could be years or decades. Thanks. Sorry you are having such a rough time of it.
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kh - 19 Mar 2008 23:03 GMT > Thanks. Sorry you are having such a rough time of it. I am past the worse of the radiation's side effects. My back is much better. It is still stiff but I can walk OK. Inova says that it will take 6 weeks to heal. JHU says they will start me on the taxotere IL-6 antigen trial in 4 weeks.
I worked part time for 3 weeks, I was able to drive to the office and accomplish real work. I'll recap the week post-radiation in a few days.
-kh Snagged an invite to another party! Woo-hoo, Lets boogie!
Steve Kramer - 13 Mar 2008 20:30 GMT I don't know if your address is a much pessimistic as it is presumptuous considering the number of men here who aren't likely to see another total lunar eclipse. :-(
>I am trying to do some terminal planning (financial, care, etc) and need an > order of magnitude estimate of the length of two intervals: Excellent question. That is possibly the greatest advantage to prostate cancer. You cand do that!
> (1) How long between the time when my symptoms become severe enough to > interfere with my ability to care for my spouse and child until the time [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > (2) How long can I expect to hang on after that assuming no intervention > other than painkillers. That is, of course, subject to how tough you are and how bad it is. One of the shortcomings of this newsgroup is that most of its participants who have died have been disinclined to tell us how bad things are at the end. I can tell you that my father fought this bastard to the very last second and I'm thinking that he was totally dependent for a month. It seems to me that Howard Martin, who took no ADT or chemo, took less than two weeks to die after being out of commission.
If you want to know how much longer you have from where you are, we'd need to know where you are. What's your PSA? How old are you? What's your history? What was your Stage and Gleason?
> Assume I reject Androgen Depravation Therapy. I do not assume that. If you researched ADT, you would find:
Virtually every man who undergoes treatment involving current ADT meds will experience some issues that they have never dealt with in their lives. Some will be mild. Some will be moderate but might be made mild with meds. Some will be serious but might be made moderate with meds. Some will be so strong that a few will stop using them though they may die sooner.
But, nobody knows how many or which SEs he will experience or how severe they will be or how easily they can be mitigated by other medications or activities.
For a good list of SEs, please check out:
http://www.prostate-cancer.org/education/sidefx/Strum_ADS.html
If you have a wife and child to care for, why would you go for the short route. I had a wife and three children when I was diagnosed. I now have terminal cancer, a wife, three children, three children in law, and five grandchildren and two on the way. I'm having the time of my life and I'm on ADT!!! If you don't like it, you can always quit.
> I realize that these questions are not answerable other than > statistically, > but I haven't been able to find the relevant statistics. They are certainly unanswerable without more information. But, we can give you SWAGs if you let us know more about yourself.
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Gourd Dancer - 13 Mar 2008 22:21 GMT Kramer's comments are dead on.
My comments could be....
I was diagnosed with advanced metastatic prostate cancer of May 8, 2004. If there was no intervention, I'd be dead, plain and simple. With aggressive inventation, my Medical Oncologist told me he could buy me 10 years, Today at age 61, I am undetectible and all signs of the two areas of metastasis are gone. Please read the short appended article, it may help you understand:
Metastatic Prostate Cancer Survival Related to PSA Drop After Treatment By Daniel J. DeNoon WebMD Medical News Reviewed by Louise Chang, MD Aug. 29, 2006 -- How long will a man with advanced prostate cancer survive? That may be related to how low his PSA level drops after androgen-deprivation therapy.
The finding comes from University of Michigan researcher Maha Hussain, MD, and colleagues. They're conducting a study of men newly diagnosed with prostate cancer that has spread to other parts of their bodies. For men with this deadly metastatic cancer, it is big news.
It depends on a simple blood test. Prostate cells -- especially prostate cancer cells -- give off a marker called PSA (prostate-specific antigen).
After seven months of androgen-deprivation therapy, which is standard treatment for metastatic prostate cancer, men with low PSA levels have only one-fourth the chance of dying as men with higher PSA levels. Those with undetectable PSA levels have only one-fifth the risk of death as men with higher PSA levels.
"Low or undetectable PSA after seven months of androgen-deprivation therapy is a powerful predictor of risk of death in patients with new metastatic prostate cancer," Hussain said, in a news release. "These findings could help patients avoid ineffective treatment."
PSA Test Predicts Prostate Cancer Death Metastatic prostate cancer is usually fatal. Some patients die quickly. Others survive for years. Until now, there's been no reliable way to tell a patient which group he's in.
Standard treatment for spreading prostate cancer is to give a man a drug that blocks male hormones. It's called androgen-deprivation therapy. It's not a cure. Eventually, the body becomes resistant to the drug. But treatment fails earlier in some men than in others.
Now there may be a way to predict this treatment failure. Hussain and colleagues studied 1,345 men who were on androgen-deprivation therapy for seven months.
The men whose PSA levels stayed above 4.0 ng/mL survived only 13 months on average after the seven months of treatment. The men whose PSA levels were 4.0 ng/mL or less but more than 0.2 ng/mL survived an average 3.5 years. And the men whose PSA levels were undetectable (less than or equal to 0.2 ng/mL) lived for six years.
The findings could also provide what the researchers call a "window of opportunity" to test new treatments for advanced prostate cancer.
Hussain and colleagues are now testing whether successful androgen-deprivation therapy can be prolonged by stopping and starting treatment after the seven-month "induction" period.
The study appears in the Aug. 20, 2006 issue of the Journal of Clinical Oncology.
Good luck,
Gourd Dancer
>I am trying to do some terminal planning (financial, care, etc) and need an > order of magnitude estimate of the length of two intervals: [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > > Thanks for any help or pointers to sources of data you can give me. Dedman - 19 Mar 2008 15:08 GMT > Kramer's comments are dead on. > [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > By Daniel J. DeNoon > WebMD Medical News [snip]
Thanks for the article and the encouragement.
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Alan Meyer - 14 Mar 2008 02:45 GMT Dedman,
Here's a partial answer to the question of survival time cited in the National Cancer Institute's State of the Art Treatment Summary for Health Professionals. See:
http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/pdq/treatment/prostate/healthprofessional/allpages
The citation is to this 1993 article in PubMed:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8230518?dopt=Abstract
It studied men who had failed radiation therapy (i.e., had a rising PSA after radiation. These men almost all had hormone therapy. The authors stated: "... median cancer-specific survival of 6 years after local failure".
I presume the median would be less without hormone therapy.
So if you had local therapy with radiation and failed, and you are willing to accept hormone therapy, you have a 50% chance of living six years, measured from the time of the beginning of the rise of PSA after radiation.
The study didn't talk about patients who had surgery. I suspect the numbers are in the same ballpark, but I don't know that.
It also didn't talk about patients who had no primary therapy at all. It would obviously be much harder to project a lifespan for such men since they don't have a common starting point (e.g., failure of primary therapy) and could have been diagnosed at vastly different points in the course of their disease.
If I were you I would consider seriously what the other posters told you. With current medical technology, you can't be cured of your cancer, but you can extend your life, make the pain and other symptoms much more bearable, and reduce the time of final incapacity before death. It can be very worthwhile to try to find a good medical oncologist to help you with all of that.
I also think I.P.'s advice about how to prepare for death is valuable. In addition to his recommendations concerning legal and financial issues, you might think about some of the intangibles. Are there thoughts you might like to write down or put into a sound or video recording for your children and grandchildren (if you have them)? Are there treasured possessions or keepsakes that you would like to give away to people who you think will appreciate them, or to whom you would like to express appreciation? Are there things you would like to do for your family that you haven't done yet?
Are there things you would like to do for yourself, a trip to Alaska, a hike in the mountains, a visit to a favorite cousin, some books that you always wanted to read, or whatever, that you haven't done? You may have a fatal illness. In a sense, all of us do. We have known from a young age that we would die some day. But you're not dead yet, and there's no reason to stop living until you have to.
Or as Stever Kramer likes to say, don't let the bastard grind you down.
Best of luck.
Alan
I.P. Freely - 14 Mar 2008 20:30 GMT > I also think I.P.'s advice about how to prepare for death is > valuable. In addition to his recommendations concerning legal > and financial issues, you might think about some of the > intangibles. List computer/website/account passwords. Cancel automatically self-renewing accounts. Call our "best girl" and other once-close friends from past lives. Call your worst enemy and forgive him or curse him out. If single, provide for pets. Tell the wife where to get the car/roof/fridge fixed. Throw out and sell off your own $#!+ so she won't have to agonize over it. MAKE SURE OUR FINAL CARE PHYSICIANS CONCUR WITH AND AGREE TO SUPPORT OUR LEGALLY BINDING FINAL CARE DOCUMENTS. I've read that many don't, beyond the most basic DNR order. I'm also helping promote the proposed Death With Dignity legislation in my state in the hopes of replicating Oregon's successful, humane system here in WA. I have no intention of burdening my family beyond their wishes or capacity.
I.P.
Alan Meyer - 14 Mar 2008 22:02 GMT > > I also think I.P.'s advice about how to prepare for death is > > valuable. In addition to his recommendations concerning legal [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > > I.P. More excellent advice.
We ought to copy this and a lot of the other stuff into a F.A.Q.
Alan
I.P. Freely - 14 Mar 2008 23:03 GMT > More excellent advice. > > We ought to copy this and a lot of the other stuff into a F.A.Q. I'm sure we could Google much more on how to prepare for the end of life socially, medically, emotionally, fiscally, logistically, and administratively. I suspect that, notwithstanding our last miserable months or year, we're lucky SOBs to die so slowly. What other terminations give most patients so many years to fight back and prepare for the end? Here I thought I was fortunate when given days to live when they thought in 1996 that I was sloughing brain stem emboli and again when given months to live if they couldn't cure my oversized carcinoid colon cancer in 2004. My uro onc keeps telling me I'll be asymptomatic for several more years and a viable person for a few years beyond that, so I have another decade ahead of me even if my PC returns.
That's GOOD news in my book. I'd guess few other specialties would make that statement regarding a 64-yo male. If I can't get my act together for my wife and beneficiaries in ten years, it's no one's fault but my own. I'm going to be *PO'd* if I get hit by a meteor tomorrow.
We're going to pay off our mortgage next week as the next step in streamlining our lives.
I.P.
Steve Jordan - 15 Mar 2008 00:00 GMT Quoting Señor Freely
>> I'm also helping promote the proposed Death With Dignity legislation in >> my state in the hopes of replicating Oregon's successful, humane system [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > We ought to copy this and a lot of the other stuff into a F.A.Q. Quite so.
Here's a quotation I posted a couple years ago in response to a post by Freely:
"...the sole end for which mankind are warranted, individually or collectively, in interfering with the liberty of action of any of their number, is self-protection. The only purpose for which power can be rightfully exercised over any member of a civilised community, against his will, is to prevent harm to others. His own good, either physical or moral, is not sufficient warrant. He cannot rightfully be compelled to do or forbear because it will be better for him to do so, because it will make him happier, because, in the opinion of others, to do so would be wise, or even right...The only part of the conduct of anyone, for which he is amenable to society, is that which concerns others. In the part which merely concerns himself, his independence is, of right, absolute. Over himself, over his own body and mind, the individual is sovereign." -John Stuart Mill
IOW, our lives are ours to do with as we wish. Except, of course, to those who think themselves endowed with the wisdom to decide for others what they shall do. And enforce their decisions by, well, force. Mainly, they're miscalled "liberals."
Regards,
Steve J
> Alan Alan Meyer - 15 Mar 2008 22:19 GMT > <... Quotation from John Stuart Mill elided ...> > ... > IOW, our lives are ours to do with as we wish. Except, of course, to > those who think themselves endowed with the wisdom to decide for others > what they shall do. And enforce their decisions by, well, force. Mainly, > they're miscalled "liberals." But remember that Mill was a classic Utilitarian. He believed that government should not constrain the lives of citizens except insofar as they harm others, but also believed that government should actively promote social welfare, something that I think corresponds most closely to the American "liberal" position. I have not read him in many years, but I don't think he would be classed as what we in America call "libertarians".
Alan
Steve Kramer - 14 Mar 2008 23:13 GMT > List computer/website/account passwords. I have written out instructions also for my wife to get onto this NG and tell you how I am doing. Robert Young, Martin Howard, Berky the Warrior, and many others just stopped posting because they did not want to discourage us. Frankly, I have always wanted to know. At times and to some extent we have become friends and we want to know when the others of us are suffering or have passed.
And, for those who are not my friends, well I want to know they're dead too.
:-) Lud - 15 Mar 2008 18:42 GMT I'm with you on this - I want to know what's coming - I don't like nast surprises. I can handle the future when I am sure that that those delinquent cancer cells have been attacked by all currently available means. This requires knowing early warning signs so that we can get them when they are still low in numbers.
I believe in sharing all the way and thank all those that do.
Lud ~~~~~`
> > List computer/website/account passwords. > [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > And, for those who are not my friends, well I want to know they're dead too. > :-) Dedman - 19 Mar 2008 15:14 GMT > Dedman, > > Here's a partial answer to the question of survival time cited in > the National Cancer Institute's State of the Art Treatment > Summary for Health Professionals. See: http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/pdq/treatment/prostate/healthprofessional/a
> llpages > [quoted text clipped - 55 lines] > > Alan Alan, thanks for the article and the advice. My primary concern is remaining able to care for my wife as long as possible. I certainly don't rule out ADT but if it results in bringing on my incapacity to do that earlier, I'm not sure it is a good trade off. I guess one never knows until they try.
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I.P. Freely - 19 Mar 2008 16:38 GMT > My primary concern is remaining > able to care for my wife as long as possible. I certainly don't rule out ADT > but if it results in bringing on my incapacity to do that earlier, I'm not > sure it is a good trade off. I guess one never knows until they try. ADT pretty much has two purposes, with overlap: 1. Make men with disabling mets feel *better* and stay that way longer. It's essentially a no-brainer in that case unless an individual experiences a rare level and combination of SEs.
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2. Make men w/o symptoms stay asymptomatic longer at the expense of SEs. The dilemma then is how well each individual performs with his blend and degree of SEs, and only trial and aggressive mitigation efforts will determine that.
Either way, the ADT can add anywhere from weeks to years to one's life, with a median benefit on the order of 6-8 months. Given the nature and extent of your motivation, I'd guess you and your family would benefit from ADT unless you had extreme SEs that a good med onc could not mitigate satisfactorily. Most men who reject ADT have a whole different set of motivators than you, probably experienced abnormal SEs, and/or weren't even sure they still had cancer.
I.P.
Alan Meyer - 19 Mar 2008 23:10 GMT > ... My primary concern is remaining able to care for my wife as > long as possible. I certainly don't rule out ADT but if it > results in bringing on my incapacity to do that earlier, I'm > not sure it is a good trade off. I guess one never knows until > they try. Yes. You need to try.
I'm thinking that ADT is most likely to prolong your capacity to take care of your wife - for the reasons that I.P. gave.
First of all, once symptoms begin, you'll be hard pressed to take care of yourself, much less anyone else. ADT will delay the onset of symptoms or, if begun after symptoms appear, will (for many men) suppress them for some period of time.
Secondly, after you're dead you can't take care of anyone. ADT can delay death.
It is my understanding that the latest research shows a survival advantage for early ADT over late ADT. For that reason, I would seriously consider early ADT.
Whether the ADT will reduce your ability to care for your wife depends on a number of factors:
1. How severe a reaction will you have to ADT?
Some men, such as Ron Figueroa were debilitated by it. Others, including myself for the relatively short period I was on it, were not. It is my understanding that most men, if they exercise on a regular basis, eat right, and get enough sleep, will not be debilitated by it.
2. How much physical labor is involved in caring for your wife?
ADT can be expected to somewhat reduce your physical strength and stamina. If, for example, your wife is crippled and needs to be lifted and carried, ADT could make the tasks harder. Whether the tasks become too hard for you to do depends on point 1 above.
3. What are the financial issues involved?
ADT may allow you to live longer and work longer, making more money to support your wife.
4. Is there hope of additional treatments?
If ADT prolongs your life, you may live long enough to benefit from some of the experimental treatments that are becoming available. It is conceivable that they will prolong your life still further, enabling to prolong still further the care you can provide to your wife.
I think any difficulties you experience with ADT are likely to come on gradually. You can take it and see what happens. If things start to go south for you in ways for which you cannot compensate, you can get off. The effects will wear off, especially if you have not been on it for years.
Good luck,
Alan
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