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Surprising post-RP  incontinence information

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I.P. Freely - 18 Jan 2008 01:15 GMT
I had a urodynamics test yesterday. They monitor bladder pressure, fill
and empty it via catheter, and stress it while full, all while watching
the bladder by continual X-ray and a pressure monitor, in an attempt to
determine the cause of lingering limited post-RP continence. The
urologist and the nurse performing the test each have 20 years’
experience explicitly in analyzing and improving urinary and sexual
performance in post-RP men; both are nationally known. Their
expectations and recommendations included some very surprising and
enlightening comments relevant to many of us and largely contradictory
to what we’re being told, IMO.

The dry guy -- the man who doesn’t permanently need pads after an RP --
is rare, for one simple, obvious reason: half the flow control valves
are gone. Compound that by removal of one or both of the nerve bundles
that control the remaining valve, and we’re lucky to need only a few
pads a day.

“You mean surgeons lie to patients before surgery about our incontinence
odds?”, I asked. “No; patients [lie] to their surgeons *after* surgery”.
She explained that the vast majority of men are far more willing to talk
candidly about post-op performance with a third party -- the sexual and
urinary continence specialist -- than with their surgeon, according to
her experience and many studies. IOW, pts are telling their surgeons,
“Oh, I’m fine. You did good” but then admitting problems only to
subsequent specialist(s). The surgeon chalks up another gold star to his
“dry, hard guy list”, contributes another victory to the party line, and
promulgates the myths we hear after diagnosis.

So what’s the *norm*, the degree of continence we might *expect*, after
a couple of years of healing and Kegels post-RP *if* both nerves are
spared, according to these practicioners’ literature contributions and
research? One to three pads a day, worse if one or both nerve bundles
were involved and removed.

Bummer.

When a man complains to a specialist that he’s extremely incontinent,
such as multiple full diapers daily a year post-op, we know the options:
artificial sphincter or sling. We all know the many risks, from normal
surgical risks to failure to a variety of further plumbing complications
maybe requiring further surgeries; no surprises there. The surprise?
Their target, their optimal outcome, the best they can legitimately hope
for, is … one to three pads a day. IOW, I have no valid complaint. I am
already, and have long been, dryer than most RP pts, even those with two
intact nerve bundles, even after their successful incontinence surgery.

I.E., lower your continence expectations across the board, according to
these published experts.

I asked them about collagen injections. Their simple answer, “Oh, that
doesn’t work for RP patients, period. Too much scar tissue. Not an option.”

Other factoids:

Urine expulsion with ejaculation is normal. The part of the bladder that
restrains urine during ejaculation is removed in an RP.

“RP-enhanced orgasms are unusual but clearly observed. Chalk that up in
the Win column.”

They also said Detrol or other bladder overactivity drugs would be of no
use to anyone without bladder overactivity, and the test revealed that
my bladder activity was normal. One could experiment with Detrol, but
its SEs can be very painful; the test involves no more than a routine
catheterization and some extra Roentgens.

Their eyebrows shot up when I mentioned that on a GOOD night, I won’t
wake up until time to get up, and may void a quart of urine then.
“That’s way too much urine. It over-stretches the bladder.”

Well, excuuuuuuuse me. It’s not like I was deliberately holding it. Any
night I sleep for eight uninterrupted hours also goes in the Win column.

And finally, re Kegels: *DO* them. I asked whether just going about
one’s day -- home, office, yard, gym, sidewalk, etc. -- while staunching
the flow is enough strengthening for the pelvic floor muscles we need.
“Definitely not. Just like any other muscle that needs more strength,
these need specific strength training.” I nodded and vowed to do them by
the book for as long as it takes to know whether I’m wasting my time,
and asked how long that may take. “You should know within about six
diligent weeks whether Kegels will help significantly.” I presume that’s
after full healing, meaning a couple of years post-RP.

I.P. Freely
And apparently that’s the NORM
ron - 18 Jan 2008 01:39 GMT
On Jan 17, 6:20 pm, "I.P. Freely" <fuhgheddabou...@noway.nohow>
wrote...snip...
> The dry guy -- the man who doesn't permanently need pads after an RP --
> is rare

> So what's the *norm*, the degree of continence we might *expect*, after
> a couple of years of healing and Kegels post-RP *if* both nerves are
> spared, according to these practicioners' literature contributions and
> research? One to three pads a day, worse if one or both nerve bundles
> were involved and removed.

I.P...I read what you wrote, but I just can't believe it, dunno what
else to say...ron
I.P. Freely - 18 Jan 2008 02:49 GMT
> I.P...I read what you wrote, but I just can't believe it, dunno what
> else to say...ron

I hear you, and was almost equally surprised. But I took careful and
thorough notes, asked questions when surprised or unclear, and had
another set of ears present who confirmed all this point by point. If I
were considering an RP or post-RP incontinence tx, I'd sure do some
further research in this direction.

Maybe adding their names might help to that end. The urologist is C.C.
Yang (very impressive curriculum vitae) of the University of Washington.
 The nurse is D.C. Clowers, whose name appears in many incontinence
references.

I.P.
Leonard Evens - 18 Jan 2008 13:10 GMT
> On Jan 17, 6:20 pm, "I.P. Freely" <fuhgheddabou...@noway.nohow>
> wrote...snip...
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> I.P...I read what you wrote, but I just can't believe it, dunno what
> else to say...ron

I also don't believe that almost all men permanently need pads after RP.

First note that people who treat men for incontinence after RP see a
biased sample.   Second, there are independent studies of quality of
life issues.  For example, I was referred by my urologist to such a
study at Evanston Hospital.  They asked quite penetrating specific
questions, and a man would have to be pretty determined not to admit he
was using pads if he were.  Third, not all men are that concerned about
their surgeons' feeling.  I tell my doctor every little thing, whether
he is happy about it or not and whether it is significant or not.
Fourth, why in the world would men be more willing to talk about
impotence then they are about incontinence?

I don't use pads except on rare occasions, every few months, when I know
I will not be able to find a bathroom when I need one.  That actually
happens less often now, after surgery, than it did before surgery, but
before surgery I would never have thought of the possibility.
jloomis - 18 Jan 2008 02:51 GMT
Not sure what to think of the post and such.  I do not feel that "That is
the Norm" at least as far as I am concerned.  I admit I have a one-sided
view of this matter.......me.
Anyway, I had RP when 49, and did kiegels prior to the surgery.
I lost one set of nerves.
I did not leak when the catheter was pulled.
I did need to be a bit careful at first for about 2 weeks but after that, I
am fine.  I admit with a drip here and then after finising, but that is left
over............
Anyway, I must not be a part of the norm, and feel that walking, and running
were a great help with the entire side effects of the surgery.  Oh, and I
can and do get great erections, and admit it took 2 years to get
there........I do use about 25% of 100 mgs viagra to really pump it up.
So, I am happy with my outcome and am very sorry for those who have not done
so well.
I had RP 1999.
anyway, wish I had some answers to this problem for all those suffering.
Jloomis
>I had a urodynamics test yesterday. They monitor bladder pressure, fill and
>empty it via catheter, and stress it while full, all while watching the
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> I.P. Freely
> And apparently that’s the NORM
Claude - 18 Jan 2008 03:42 GMT
> Not sure what to think of the post and such.  I do not feel that "That is
> the Norm" at least as far as I am concerned.  I admit I have a one-sided
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> anyway, wish I had some answers to this problem for all those suffering.
> Jloomis

I know this is all anecdotal, but my experience at age 64 was pretty much
the same as John's---even with the one nerve removed.  I don't have the
holding power I used to have, but I really don't leak.  Of the five men I
spoke to who had surgery done by our local urologist, only one had permanent
incontinence, and he was going to get the surgery for that.  Another has a
bit of a problem when he has too much alcohol, but that's about it.  It
would be interesting to know what the experiences of the other posters in
the group has been in this regard.
Peter - 18 Jan 2008 05:55 GMT
My experience with leakage...

Age 56. Robotic surgery Oct 13, 2007 (3 months ago). Nerves spared. Catheter
out after 9 days. Leaked allot for the first 2 months. Pretty good doing the
Kegels. During the past month, leakage is MUCH less. I use 2 men's size
Kotex type pads/day and they are mostly dry when I change them. I leak more
when doing lifting and twisting or bending.

Erections are not what I would like, but I have hope and glimmers of
success.
Peter

>> Not sure what to think of the post and such.  I do not feel that "That is
>> the Norm" at least as far as I am concerned.  I admit I have a one-sided
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
> about it.  It would be interesting to know what the experiences of the
> other posters in the group has been in this regard.
DoubleOwSeven - 19 Jan 2008 06:46 GMT
>> Not sure what to think of the post and such.  I do not feel that "That is
>> the Norm" at least as far as I am concerned.  I admit I have a one-sided
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
>would be interesting to know what the experiences of the other posters in
>the group has been in this regard.

I leaked badly at first, at least it seemed pretty bad, using 2 to 3
pads a day for the first couple weeks.  By about 3 months it was down
to one pad a day, then at about 4 months I said "No more pads" for
weekends and at 5 months said "no more ever".  I do get an occasional
squirt that will leave a quarter to half dollar sized wet spot in my
shorts but that only happens once or twice a month.  I also have
overactive bladder but have never "lost it" even when I've been
delayed getting to a bathroom as soon as I would have liked although
it takes a lot of concentration and leg crossing.  I had heard people
say alcohol caused problems but even when I have been pretty well
lubed with tequila I have not had an accident.  I consider my self
fortunate and am doing far better then I ever thought I would be as
far as the incontinence.  I wish I was doing as well in the erection
department but even that seems to be working a little better each
month and I'm a little past two years from my surgery.
youcan - 18 Jan 2008 20:59 GMT
I have never leaked a drop. I had RP a litle over 2 years ago at age 51. I
lost no nerves.

> Not sure what to think of the post and such.  I do not feel that "That is
> the Norm" at least as far as I am concerned.  I admit I have a one-sided
[quoted text clipped - 100 lines]
>> I.P. Freely
>> And apparently that's the NORM
rosbif - 18 Jan 2008 09:27 GMT
I'm surprised - incredulous even.  I can see why surgeons might want
to put a brighter spin on their success figures re this and that, but
why would a patient not want to admit the extent of any failure to
their surgeon?  Bizarre.

Are they stretching the 'norm' to its limit to mean anything >50%?
Even that would surprise me.

Does this apply just to open RP or to the laparascopic styles also?
Leonard Evens - 18 Jan 2008 13:13 GMT
> I'm surprised - incredulous even.  I can see why surgeons might want
> to put a brighter spin on their success figures re this and that, but
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> Does this apply just to open RP or to the laparascopic styles also?

The usual figures for serious long term incontinence requiring
intervention are something like 2 percent.  Long term stress
incontinence is estimated to be a bit  higher, 20-30 percent.
Laproscopic surgeons claim greater success in the matter, but I'm not
sure the research backs them up.
I.P. Freely - 18 Jan 2008 17:05 GMT
> The usual figures for serious long term incontinence requiring
> intervention are something like 2 percent.

A. Those figures come mostly from surgeons. Dr. Yang's whole point is
the distortion of those figures. I wonder what her publications say
about the statistics.

B. I'm not interested in intervention even on days I soak 2 or 3 pads,
yet one pt of my uro demands further surgery because he leaks literally
3 or 4 drops a day. Thus "required intervention" is a very lose term.

> Long term stress
> incontinence is estimated to be a bit  higher, 20-30 percent.

Estimated by whom? Is Dr. Yang's professional opinion of no value? Did
you Google her curriculum vitae? Who has less reason to distort the
percentage of post-RP dry men -- surgeons or the uros who try to dry the
 leakers up?

> Laproscopic surgeons claim greater success in the matter, but I'm not
> sure the research backs them up.

Bingo.

I.P.
A. Black - 18 Jan 2008 17:34 GMT
On Jan 18, 12:11 pm, "I.P. Freely" <fuhgheddabou...@noway.nohow>
wrote:
> > The usual figures for serious long term incontinence requiring
> > intervention are something like 2 percent.
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> yet one pt of my uro demands further surgery because he leaks literally
> 3 or 4 drops a day. Thus "required intervention" is a very lose term.

The studies that exist use different approaches.  Some use self
reporting
based on number pads used while others are based on pad weight.

1. Self reporting number of pads used is subjective since same level
of incontinence
might be regarded as cause for using a pad by one person and not
another;
however, it does have the advantage that it relates to how bothered
the patient
is by the incontinence and that could concievably be more important
than the
objective amount.

2. The second type is objective and seems unlikely to be subject to
wrong
reporting.

See references in link in my prior post for more info.

---
The Palpable Prostate
http://palpable-prostate.blogspot.com
I.P. Freely - 18 Jan 2008 20:50 GMT
> See references in link in my prior post for more info.

I didn't post this to debate it. It's just fresh light on an old topic
for others' consideration.

I.P.
I.P. Freely - 18 Jan 2008 16:52 GMT
> why would a patient not want to admit the extent of any failure to
> their surgeon?

Dr. Yang specifically said that was due to our not wanting to disappoint
 the nice surgeon. We've formed a bond with the man/woman who saved our
life, and don't want to make him or her feel guilty, so we suck it up
and are not candid with them. But when leaky or limp post-RP men consult
with a third party expressly for this new problem, we're much more
candid and thorough. When I told her I've told my surgeon everything
I've told her, she said that's rare, that studies show very few men do
so. Heck, look how many men come here relating very limited exchange of
information with their doctors even during critical treatment decision
phases. Realize, too, that our very presence here places us in the more
communicative cohort.

> Bizarre.

Uncommunicative men "bizarre"? I'd guess a hundred million U.S. women
would snort at that assessment.

> Are they stretching the 'norm' to its limit to mean anything >50%?

I didn't ask her for statistics.

> Does this apply just to open RP or to the laparascopic styles also?

Nor did we address that distinction, but because the primary continence
problems -- the removal of one sphincter and the bladder neck -- are
common to both procedures, and because nerve sparing is a function of
the cancer, not the procedure, I'd GUESS it matters little.

I.P.
DoubleOwSeven - 19 Jan 2008 06:51 GMT
>> why would a patient not want to admit the extent of any failure to
>> their surgeon?
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>with a third party expressly for this new problem, we're much more
>candid and thorough.

I don't doubt it at all because I have done it.  I switched from my
first uro because I found another who was more willing to be "hands
on" with ED issues as well as who seemed more up to date on kidney
stone problems.  But I didn't tell my first uro any of that, and I'm
sure if he was to think of me at all, which is unlikely, he would
mainly think that my disappearance is a sign of successful treatment.
rosbif - 20 Jan 2008 13:28 GMT
>> why would a patient not want to admit the extent of any failure to
>> their surgeon?
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>life, and don't want to make him or her feel guilty, so we suck it up
>and are not candid with them.

I recognise what you're saying here, I wouldn't deny its effect,
sometimes we want to say what others want to hear.  Might Dr Yang be
doing that for her patients?

>But when leaky or limp post-RP men consult
>with a third party expressly for this new problem, we're much more
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>phases. Realize, too, that our very presence here places us in the more
>communicative cohort.

Yet our local poll - admittedly too few respondents - shows
overwhelming dryness.  (Please! - if you're not dry, do add yourself
to the list!).

Our presence here might make us Kegel harder while seeking out the
best medical help we can find but is usenet-savviness really so potent
that it turns a predominantly wet tendency into a dry one?  There's an
interesting research project for someone looking to make a sensational
impact!

Do you rule out sensationalism in Dr Yang's efforts?

>> Bizarre.
>
>Uncommunicative men "bizarre"? I'd guess a hundred million U.S. women
>would snort at that assessment.

Yes, I concede that.

>> Are they stretching the 'norm' to its limit to mean anything >50%?
>
>I didn't ask her for statistics.

That should be the next step.
I.P. Freely - 20 Jan 2008 19:54 GMT
> I recognise what you're saying here, I wouldn't deny its effect,
> sometimes we want to say what others want to hear.  Might Dr Yang be
> doing that for her patients?

Are you guys (you're not the first to suggest this) so stuck on the
party line, so fearful of elevated risk, that you really think two
hard-bitten, blunt, no-nonsense pros would compromise their professional
integrity and risk their credibilities and careers by concocting
scenarios and literature just to appease some old fart who consulted
them upon his uro's advice largely out of curiosity about the nature of
a relatively minor nuisance? That's not even rational to me.

Why would an incontinent man want to hear that he's doomed to attract
every dog and repel every woman within a hundred yards for the rest of
his soggy life? Why would a continence surgeon tell most prospective pts
that they won't benefit from surgery or collagen? Why would two
continence experts who presumably enjoy their careers tell their medical
school students and international peers that the medical field's
mainstream expectations of post-RP continence are all wet? Why would
they say the literature backs them up if they couldn't back *that* up,
especially when their own careers and reputation are so
literature-driven? And last but not least, who the hell are we to say
that our lay opinions trump their 50 professional years in the trenches?
After all, they not only read the literature, they contribute to it in
front of God and Lange (their department head and an RP pt) and everybody.

> Yet our local poll - admittedly too few respondents - shows
> overwhelming dryness.  

Actually the tally is 12 not dry, 10 dry, and some of the "not dry" are
VERY wet even after "aftermarket" continence surgery. And we don't get
to count stress incontinence as "dry", as several here have done,
because wet shorts are wet shorts and stress incontinence comprises most
RP-induced leakage, including mine.

Then there's the issue of selective poll acceptance: we seem to favor
our tiny forum polls if we think they support our beliefs (e.g., "most
men are dry post-RP"), yet dismiss them if they shake us up (e.g., our
ADT SE poll which showed that the vast majority of our ADT pts suffer
SEs significantly compromising their QOL).

And, of course, as you mention, there's that little matter of sample
size. We have 22 self-initiated responses; the VA's sample is drawn from
millions of old men, many of whom were exposed to Agent Orange.

> Do you rule out sensationalism in Dr Yang's efforts?

I'm not ruling out anything, but I AM keeping an open mind, unlike so
many others here who seem to be grasping at dry straws in the face of an
ill wind. Just as in politics, I want facts, not party rhetoric, and
before I make my choices I try to separate the two.

>> I didn't ask her for statistics.

> That should be the next step.

I agree, and I would advise anyone making continence-threatening
decisions to do just that. But perhaps even more important is to advise
decision-makers that although 60 dry years were awfully convenient, a
pad or three a day is such a tiny price to pay for our best shot at a
cure that complete (urinary) continence should be a ways down most men's
prioritized list of treatment selection criteria, IMO.

I.P.
rosbif - 21 Jan 2008 09:54 GMT
>> I recognise what you're saying here, I wouldn't deny its effect,
>> sometimes we want to say what others want to hear.  Might Dr Yang be
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>them upon his uro's advice largely out of curiosity about the nature of
>a relatively minor nuisance? That's not even rational to me.

Uh-oh!   I was drawn into this thread because of this key sentence in
your opening post:-

>The dry guy -- the man who doesn’t permanently need pads after an RP --
>is rare,"

Is this what your hard-bitten pros actually said?  Or not?

>Why would an incontinent man want to hear that he's doomed to attract
>every dog and repel every woman within a hundred yards for the rest of
>his soggy life? Why would a continence surgeon tell most prospective pts
>that they won't benefit from surgery or collagen?

I'm quite prepared to believe it and I didn't argue the point. Please
don't invent dispute with me.

>Why would two continence experts who presumably
>enjoy their careers tell their medical
>school students and international peers that the medical field's
>mainstream expectations of post-RP continence are all wet?

Because it's sensational and cheap at the price when one can define
'wet' as one pleases?

>> Yet our local poll - admittedly too few respondents - shows
>> overwhelming dryness.  
>
>Actually the tally is 12 not dry, 10 dry,

You're brazenly moving the goal-posts. The issue, as you originally
broached it, was how many were pad-free.

I make that 15 pad-free (including Leonard who didn't say but I seem
to remember...), 5 still using at least 1 pad.
Taking the liberty of of assuming JerryW's group are 7-1 and exclusive
to a.s.c.p. then that brings the tally to 22 to 6.  Compare that with
your 10 to 12 (not dry!)  using the *same* data.  That's some
stretching!
Who's doing it, you or me?

>And we don't get
>to count stress incontinence as "dry", as several here have done,
>because wet shorts are wet shorts and stress incontinence comprises most
>RP-induced leakage, including mine.

"We don't get to count stress incontinence as "dry"" because you and
Yang have decided on a nit-picking notion of what passes as dry?

Prior to my surgery and with a prostate closing in on my urethra I had
what my GP called 'terminal drip' after taking a pee.   "Not uncommon"
he said.   I'd say my stress leaks now amount to much the same wetting
volume as my terminal drip at the time, but pre-RP I would never have
said I was wet.  We're talking about fluid quantities of the same
order of magnitude as groin perspiration after a little effort.

Wet shorts/damp shorts/slightly damp shorts/occasionally spotted -
but-quickly-evaporated - shorts cover a range of wetnesses with
radically different extremes of comfort for the wearers.
If Yang insists on ignoring the difference let her do so but to
suggest by a catch-all defintion that urinary incontinence is the
'normal' expectation, post-RP, appears to me to be alarmist and
over-simplified to the point of absurdity.  Those lining themselves up
for RP need to understand the breadth of variation.  Yang doesn't
appear to be helping in this regard.

>Then there's the issue of selective poll acceptance: we seem to favor
>our tiny forum polls if we think they support our beliefs (e.g., "most
>men are dry post-RP"), yet dismiss them if they shake us up (e.g., our
>ADT SE poll which showed that the vast majority of our ADT pts suffer
>SEs significantly compromising their QOL).

Please don't attribute "selective poll acceptance" to me.  Much more
remarkable is how any of us can twist data out of all recognition to
suit our purposes.

As to the above, one woman's 'wet' appears to be another man's 'dry'.
It's about defintion, not bias.
rosbif - 21 Jan 2008 10:15 GMT
>22 to 6

21 to 6, assuming I double-counted JerryW.
djperry42@sbcglobal.net - 21 Jan 2008 16:17 GMT
> >22 to 6
>
> 21 to 6, assuming I double-counted JerryW.

6 out of 27 comes out to 22%, still a lot more than the oft touted 2%
"dry". Dave Perry
rosbif - 21 Jan 2008 20:30 GMT
>> >22 to 6
>>
>> 21 to 6, assuming I double-counted JerryW.
>
>6 out of 27 comes out to 22%, still a lot more than the oft touted 2%
>"dry". Dave Perry

Dave, that's 22% who are using pads.
djperry42@sbcglobal.net - 22 Jan 2008 04:47 GMT
> On Mon, 21 Jan 2008 08:17:40 -0800 (PST), djperr...@sbcglobal.net
> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Dave, that's 22% who are using pads.

Oops.
Dave Perry
I.P. Freely - 22 Jan 2008 01:09 GMT
> Uh-oh!   I was drawn into this thread because of this key sentence in
> your opening post:-
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> Is this what your hard-bitten pros actually said?  Or not?

I quoted them accurately and carefully. How silly of them and me to
presume that if a man wets his damned pants now and then, he'll wear a
pad only if he's pissing his pants due to urge, rather than stress,
incontinence. They and I feel that piss is piss, and we don't want to
run around -- ever -- with wet pants.

>> Why would an incontinent man want to hear that he's doomed to attract
>> every dog and repel every woman within a hundred yards for the rest of
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> I'm quite prepared to believe it and I didn't argue the point. Please
> don't invent dispute with me.

Anyone following this thread recognizes that I don't need to invent your
disagreement. I just offered the group two experts' position on post-RP
incontinence, and you and many others are far more interested in
debating the issue with the bird-brained parrot rather than with the
source, and without even inspecting *her* sources. And now you're
debating the merits and decimal points of a straw poll of 50 non-random
people, amany of whom think stress piss smells better and feels dryer in
their pants than urge piss, and apparently implying this trumps 50
manyears of professional experience. That's irrational, and is doing
decision-makers a significant disservice.

And how often do you guys grill this intensely the parrots who have
reported hundreds of other articles, findings, reports, etc.? I've told
you all I know about these people and their claims; if ya want more,
you'll have to do what you always do: call the human sources and
research the literature sources. Arguing with parrots strikes me as
rather pointless.

> Those lining themselves up
> for RP need to understand the breadth of variation.  Yang doesn't
> appear to be helping in this regard.

You decide that for the rest of the PC world based on a few sentences
from her? I'm wordless.

I.P.
rosbif - 24 Jan 2008 22:13 GMT
>> Uh-oh!   I was drawn into this thread because of this key sentence in
>> your opening post:-
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
>I quoted them accurately and carefully.

However, to date, 24 out of 30 here claim to not "permanently need
pads".  Far from being "rare" here, it's common, and turns Yang's
assertion on its head. Is it an 'a.s.c.p.-thing'?  Kegels? The usenet
gene? Researching and seeking out the best medical skills?  Or is Yang
not conscientiously counting the continent?

>>> Why would an incontinent man want to hear that he's doomed to attract
>>> every dog and repel every woman within a hundred yards for the rest of
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>Anyone following this thread recognizes that I don't need to invent your
>disagreement.

A double whammy. Not only do you invent dispute, you apparently also
need to invent support for your denial of it!  

I'll tell you this again.  I didn't and don't presume to disagree with
anyone about anything relating to collagen or surgery for incontinence
- I don't know the first thing about it.  OK?
Your question, 3 paras up, very clearly implies otherwise.

Kindly keep to the issue.

> I just offered the group two experts' position on post-RP
>incontinence, and you and many others are far more interested in
>debating the issue with the bird-brained parrot rather than with the
>source, and without even inspecting *her* sources.

We don't have access to the source and, in any case, the parrot
assures us, above, it has quoted her verbatim.  My concern?; If the
parrot keeps squawking, someone here might believe it.

> And now you're
>debating the merits and decimal points of a straw poll of 50 non-random
>people,

Decimal schmecimal. We could even halve our tally and we'd still have
a result so far out of Yang's orbit that, frankly, far from being
non-random, one could wonder if we actively conspired to unite in
a.s.c.p. expressly to rubbish her figures!!

'Non-random' doesn't even begin to explain away the yawning chasm
between her results and ours.  But should you have any idea what that
special 'a.s.c.p.-thing' might be, don't keep it to yourself.
 
>amany of whom think stress piss smells better and feels dryer in
>their pants than urge piss

Fascinating but irrelevant. You think an important commonality here is
our nose for distinguishing stress piss from urge piss!? While you're
prattling on about the quality of the piss, I'm trying to get you to
comprehend the *only* thing that matters - the QUANTITY of it.

There's a world of difference between 1 cc and 1000 ccs. Forget
bouquet, forget tactility, forget dry...just think **pad**.   Those
risking the odd millilitre now and then are not likely to wear pads.
That and that alone is the central issue.  Call them 'wet' if you
must, call them incontinent if it pleases you but
**they**are**not**wearing**pads**.    End of.

>and apparently implying this trumps 50
>manyears of professional experience.

I'm implying *this* study could be fatally flawed. If it is - and many
are - consider it trumped.

>That's irrational, and is doing
>decision-makers a significant disservice.

Hah!! Not even a fraction of the disservice you're rendering in
worrying those at the sharp end - prospective RP patients, some of
whom might be poised on a hair-line balanced decision between RP and
RT - that they have a future, a near-certain prospect, of permanently
needing pads.  

>And how often do you guys grill this intensely the parrots who have
>reported hundreds of other articles, findings, reports, etc.?

How often does a parrot defend the seemingly indefensible with such
determination yet complete absence of reason?  That's a dangerous mix
for those looking for information.

Most other studies even if they spring a little surprise aren't
usually as readily testable as this one, and in any case, we've learnt
to expect inconsistencies.  Face it, Yang's result is quite
exceptional - "rarely pad-free post-RP" totally overturns our own
observation yet you seem bent on undermining the usefulness of our
survey while having us swallow hook, line and sinker what I strongly
suspect to be sensational and careless.
*That* has the potential to be a disservice in spades.

> I've told
>you all I know about these people and their claims; if ya want more,
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>You decide that for the rest of the PC world based on a few sentences
>from her? I'm wordless.

Ohhhh, cut the melodrama, we're all tiny specks, I'm deciding nothing
for anyone...

...and it's not about a few sentences... just the one...

(please don't add any more of your own!)
Say What? - 25 Jan 2008 00:15 GMT
>>>> The dry guy -- the man who doesn’t permanently need pads after an RP --
>>>> is rare,"
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> gene? Researching and seeking out the best medical skills?  Or is Yang
> not conscientiously counting the continent?

I haven't been here for a bit but allow me toss my dry undies into the
mix.  I had the RRP in March 2000 and was bone dry, including
a lack of sporadic stress incontinence, by mid-May.  I didn't even use a
full pack of Depends before switch to a safety net composed of "winged"
maxi pads.

I never had a problem with incontinence before the Dx and Tx and even
now I can, as my wife says, "can hold more water than a camel."

Different strokes for different folks/surgeons.

So now it's 25 out of 30.

FWIW, I have five good friends who are all members of the PCa club.  Of
those five, only one is still using a pad.  Of course, we can't count
him since he had his surgery the first week of December<g>
I.P. Freely - 25 Jan 2008 03:23 GMT
rosbif whined:

> We don't have access to the source

There's this really neat web source called "Google"; you should try it
some time. It took three clicks:
http://depts.washington.edu/uroweb/directory/bios/yang.html

I suggest that if you contact her, don't open your inquiry with "I took
 this little straw poll of 30 dudes online, and it proves your life's
work means nothing".

I.P.
rosbif - 29 Jan 2008 08:16 GMT
>rosbif whined:

..:-)

.... 'Say What?' and 'youcan' are added to the poll which comes out
now at 26 out of 32.

>> We don't have access to the source
>
>There's this really neat web source called "Google"; you should try it
>some time.

..said the pusher.  It's a kind of opium and my habit is bad enough.

>It took three clicks:
>http://depts.washington.edu/uroweb/directory/bios/yang.html
>
>I suggest that if you contact her, don't open your inquiry with "I took
>  this little straw poll of 30 dudes online, and it proves your life's
>work means nothing".

I doubt it's her life's work, lol!  Some medical pros are notorious
for their shoddy maths. (An all-time favourite in these parts is
'Professor' Sir Roy Meadow.  Eye-watering scandal.)

Your continual scoffing shows you've completely failed to grasp the
key point; our sample of 32 is amply large enough to be confident that
at least one of the following is true:-

Her assertion is incorrect.
Her assertion is incorrectly reported.
Those polled on a.s.c.p. have not told the truth.
Subscribers to a.s.c.p. are atypical of the large population to the
extent that the two almost polar-opposite results can be reconciled.

If it's the last of those four, then it must completely undermine the
relevance of all large-scale stats to those attending this forum.

My stake - every last penny of it - is on one of the first 2.
Steve Kramer - 18 Jan 2008 12:09 GMT
>I had a urodynamics test yesterday.

<< Snip >>

Thanks a bunch, I.P.  This was, IMHO, your greatest contribution to date
(and remember the I was impressed with your early ADT work, so I am not
being sarcastic.).

For the first time in my post operative life, I now know that having to use
a pad just in case makes me awful lucky considering I lost an entire
prostate, including both nerves.  While it doesn't help the fact, it
certainly makes me feel better about it somehow.
ronju99 - 18 Jan 2008 12:51 GMT
I'm also one of those that is surprised by  I.P.'s report. I had LRP 4 1/2
years ago with one nerve bundle spared. I was using pads for about 3 1/2
mos. Haven't needed anything since. I just had an ultra-sound of the
bladder and kidneys Tuesday and drank 32 oz. of water one hour prior and
didn't leak with it. Looks like a lot of use here are exceptions to the
norm.

Ron S.

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Paul - 18 Jan 2008 13:31 GMT
>I'm also one of those that is surprised by  I.P.'s report. I had LRP 4 1/2
>years ago with one nerve bundle spared. I was using pads for about 3 1/2
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
>Ron S.

I'll add my name to that list. I wore pads for less than two weeks and
did my Kegels and have not had any incotinence issues. The only time I
feel like I may leak is amazingly, if I blow my nose too forcefully..
go figure.

My most pressing SE is periodic bouts of a weak stream, even though I
know my bladders full and that I could put out a four alarm fire.
Sitting helps but I cannot correlate anything to why this comes and
goes....

Signature

PSA @ 45 yrs. = 4.7 02/06/2007
Biopsy 03/16/2007 G7(3+4),T1c
RLRP 06/12/2007 G7(3+4),T2cN0M0 Neg margins
PSA 07/16/2007 = <0.1
PSA 09/12/2007 = <0.1
PSA 12/18/2007 = <0.1

I.P. Freely - 18 Jan 2008 18:22 GMT
> I  drank 32 oz. of water one hour prior and
> didn't leak with it.

I can wake up in the morning with a full bladder, do a variety of
exercises as a sphincter test without thinking about continence, cough
hard, pass gas, walk up and down the stairs, all with a dry pad, THEN
void a measured 1,000-1,200 ccs -- a huge quantity of urine. But that's
no guarantee I'll stay dry all day, especially as my sphincter muscles
tire. I leak more when relatively empty than when full.

I.P.
DoubleOwSeven - 19 Jan 2008 06:59 GMT
>> I  drank 32 oz. of water one hour prior and
>> didn't leak with it.
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
>I.P.

Wow, that's a huge amount.  The most I've ever held is 500ml and
that's rare.  Most times I pee it's between 150 and 250 ml .
I.P. Freely - 19 Jan 2008 07:30 GMT
>>> I  drank 32 oz. of water one hour prior and
>>> didn't leak with it.
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> Wow, that's a huge amount.  The most I've ever held is 500ml and
> that's rare.  Most times I pee it's between 150 and 250 ml .  

My (measured) norm runs 500-700 cc; I often hit a liter if I'm sleeping
well or when my catheter fails to work -- as they always have -- after
any catheterized surgery. FORTUNATELY, I wake up and walk into the
bathroom first in the former case. UNFORTUNATELY, the damned nurses flat
refuse to believe my catheters are blocked until I drag my butt out of
bed, dance around and/or mess with the catheter, and ultimately manage
to flood my bag with way over a liter -- which they ALSO refuse to
believe, figuratively. I once had to go to an ER to get the catheter out
so I could pee after my RP, and the next day I called a nurse and had
her talk me through removing yet another blocked catheter, which, at my
surgeon's blessing, I never replaced.

I.P. Freely
Which beats the hell out of not peeing.
Ron B - 19 Jan 2008 19:09 GMT
I had an open RP in March of 2005.

Catheter out in 10 days.

Leaked for a few months and used pads.

Then I stopped...except for Leonard's fine explanation of the 'just the
tiny bit of urine left in the system.'

The 'no matter how you jump or dance, the last few drops go in your
pants' thing.

I hung on to John Loomis who after a year and a half or so...he woke up
with an erection.

At almost 3 years...I don't have spontaneous erections...but can have
fine orgasms...and Levitra (not the others that I have used every day or
so from day ONE after surgery)...seems to help.

The 'medical thinking' has changed about erections.

They used to say that 18 months was the limit, and if you didn't have
erections by THEN...you won't.

However...they have increased that to 3 years.

I found out also that even if you have both nerves spared...but they
needed a few extra stitches here or there...things can be altered.

Each man is anatomically different...the 'numbers' may be constant...but
the anatomy of the prostate and bladder can vary.

I found that I had only ONE seminal vesicle instead of two.

Who knew?

:-)

Best to all,

Ron B.

Chicago
I.P. Freely - 18 Jan 2008 17:13 GMT
>> I had a urodynamics test yesterday.
>
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> prostate, including both nerves.  While it doesn't help the fact, it
> certainly makes me feel better about it somehow.

Same here. I can stop wondering what I'm doing wrong (very little),
wondering whether some form of intervention is in the cards some day
(not unless the floodgates open), wondering whether Kegels will help
(they should, and six diligent weeks should answer the question).

But a more universal question remains unanswered: why such a huge
disparity in continence statistics? If I were considering an RP or
incontinence intervention, I'd be reading Dr. Yang's pubs in detail.

I.P.
DoubleOwSeven - 19 Jan 2008 06:56 GMT
>>I had a urodynamics test yesterday.
>
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>prostate, including both nerves.  While it doesn't help the fact, it
>certainly makes me feel better about it somehow.

Steve, has your pad use, "just in case" ever actually turned out to be
needed?  I stopped using pads even though it meant I left some pretty
big spots on my underwear from time to time for the first few months.
I felt that getting rid of the safety net would force me to control
it.
Steve Kramer - 19 Jan 2008 16:31 GMT
> Steve, has your pad use, "just in case" ever actually turned out to be
> needed?  I stopped using pads even though it meant I left some pretty
> big spots on my underwear from time to time for the first few months.
> I felt that getting rid of the safety net would force me to control
> it.

Oh, yeah.  I still have a pretty active job and I still do quite a bit
around the home, or with my truck, or at my son-in-law's bakery, etc.  If I
so much as pick up a file box the wrong way, I sometimes wish the whole rest
of the day that I hadn't forgotten my pad.  And, when I do forget and squirt
just a little, that wetness is like a magnet.  I end up leaking all day
until I get into a dry pad or dry shorts.
I.P. Freely - 19 Jan 2008 21:36 GMT
>   If I
> so much as pick up a file box the wrong way, I sometimes wish the whole rest
> of the day that I hadn't forgotten my pad.  And, when I do forget and squirt
> just a little, that wetness is like a magnet.  I end up leaking all day
> until I get into a dry pad or dry shorts.

That would be enough for me to wear pads every day. I see no downside to
them for a man who isn't bone dry all the time.

I.P.
Steve Kramer - 19 Jan 2008 21:52 GMT
>>   If I so much as pick up a file box the wrong way, I sometimes wish the
>> whole rest of the day that I hadn't forgotten my pad.  And, when I do
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> That would be enough for me to wear pads every day. I see no downside to
> them for a man who isn't bone dry all the time.

This was in response to a question about me saying I wear them "just in
case."  I almost never forget to put one on.
DoubleOwSeven - 20 Jan 2008 07:56 GMT
>>   If I
>> so much as pick up a file box the wrong way, I sometimes wish the whole rest
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
>I.P.

For me it's would have a major downside because of the way my penis
points, it's just not comfortable with a pad.
I.P. Freely - 20 Jan 2008 18:38 GMT
>>>   If I
>>> so much as pick up a file box the wrong way, I sometimes wish the whole rest
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> For me it's would have a major downside because of the way my penis
> points, it's just not comfortable with a pad.

Alas, mine doesn't point. It's way too content to just lay wherever I
place it and conform to its environment. It is rather non-descript until
 it's allowed out for work or play, at which point gravity and/or blood
flow awaken it to no longer resembles a one-eyed, freshly-killed toad.

I.P.
Peter Headland - 18 Jan 2008 15:50 GMT
I will speculate a little:

Most RP patients are older. People of that generation tend to be more
deferential to authority figures such as surgeons. So maybe they
really don't want to "make a fuss".

This group is self-selecting to be more technically literate and
questioning than the population at large. So members would have fewer
inhibitions laying it on the line to their surgeons.

But all that said, the percentages of contributors here reporting
incontinence seem to tally with the generally-accepted figures. So add
me to the list of people who is struggling to the data provided to IP.

--
Peter Headland
A. Black - 18 Jan 2008 16:55 GMT
> The dry guy -- the man who doesn't permanently need pads after an RP --
> is rare, for one simple, obvious reason: half the flow control valves
> are gone. Compound that by removal of one or both of the nerve bundles
> that control the remaining valve, and we're lucky to need only a few
> pads a day.

There have been many studies on this. The range of outcomes from these
studies
tends to be that 80% - 100% of patients regain continence within a
year or two (and
most far before that) depending on the study and definition of
continence.  See:

http://palpable-prostate.blogspot.com/2007/02/post-rp-urinary-incontinence.html

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http://palpable-prostate.blogspot.com
I.P. Freely - 18 Jan 2008 18:53 GMT
> There have been many studies on this. The range of outcomes from these
> studies
> tends to be that 80% - 100% of patients regain continence within a
> year or two (and
> most far before that) depending on the study and definition of
> continence.  

Maybe someone with more time and motivation can track down this study
and see whether it sheds any light:

 Urol Oncol. 2003 Mar-Apr;21(2):93-100.
Related Articles, Links

    Treatment decision-making by men with localized prostate cancer:
the influence of personal factors.

    Berry DL, Ellis WJ, Woods NF, Schwien C, Mullen KH, Yang C.

    School of Nursing, University of Seattle, Department of Urology,
University of Washington Medical Center, Seattle, Washington, USA.
donnalb@u.washington.edu

    OBJECTIVES: For many men with localized prostate cancer, there is
no definite answer or unequivocal choice regarding treatment modality.
This high-stakes treatment decision is made in the context of great
uncertainty. The purpose of this study is to systematically document
meaningful and relevant aspects of treatment decision-making reported by
men with localized prostate cancer. METHODS: Focus groups and individual
interviews were conducted with 44 men who were within 6 months of a
diagnosis of localized prostate cancer. Using content analysis and
grounded theory analytic techniques, major aspects and processes of
men's treatment decision making are identified and described. RESULTS:
The participants reported their experiences beginning with influential
personal history factors, followed by detailed descriptions of
information gathering and the important influence of expected treatment
outcomes and other individuals' cancer histories and/or shared opinions.
Twenty of the 44 (45%) participants relied heavily on the influence of
another's opinion or history to finalize a decision, yet only 10 of the
44 (22.7%) reported this individual to be their physician. A common
process, "making the best choice for me" was explicated. CONCLUSION:
Clinicians assume that men are making rational treatment decisions based
on reliable information, yet this study documents a different reality.
Patient education about medical therapies and the patients' own medical
factors is not enough. A clinic visit dialogue that brings personal
factors to the conversation along with medical factors can guide a man
to making his "best choice" for localized prostate cancer.

    Publication Types:

        * Research Support, U.S. Gov't, P.H.S.

    PMID: 12856636 [PubMed - indexed for MEDLINE]

I.P.
A. Black - 18 Jan 2008 19:10 GMT
> Maybe someone with more time and motivation can track down this study
> and see whether it sheds any light:
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>      Treatment decision-making by men with localized prostate cancer:
> the influence of personal factors.

That paper is about how patients make treatment decisions prior to
treatment whereas this thread is about incontinence outcomes after
treatment.

---
The Palpable Prostate
http://palpable-prostate.blogspot.com
I.P. Freely - 18 Jan 2008 21:02 GMT
>> Maybe someone with more time and motivation can track down this study
>> and see whether it sheds any light:
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> treatment whereas this thread is about incontinence outcomes after
> treatment.

Don't most men's top two treatment selection criteria include a
continence projection? Wouldn't you want all the continence data you
could find if you were choosing a treatment? Don't you thnk it revealing
and alarming that so many newbies choose treatments based on their buds'
advice rather than their uros' and oncs' advice? Might you place more
faith in continence failure rates presented to post-RP specialists than
in a surgeon who's trying to sell you his services based on his
continence projection claims? Isn't it important that so many surgeons
define "dry" as getting by on only one pad a day? Heck, I don't even
soak one pad in an intensive 5-hour, whole-body gym session ... as long
as I don't look at a trampoline.

I.P.
A. Black - 19 Jan 2008 15:48 GMT
> >> Maybe someone with more time and motivation can track down this study
> >> and see whether it sheds any light:
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> continence projection? Wouldn't you want all the continence data you
> could find if you were choosing a treatment?

You would want relevant data but not irrelevant data on a different
topic.

> Don't you thnk it revealing
> and alarming that so many newbies choose treatments based on their buds'
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> soak one pad in an intensive 5-hour, whole-body gym session ... as long
> as I don't look at a trampoline.
I.P. Freely - 19 Jan 2008 21:29 GMT
>>>> Maybe someone with more time and motivation can track down this study
>>>> and see whether it sheds any light:
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> You would want relevant data but not irrelevant data on a different
> topic.

If you don't consider incontinence expectations relevant to treatment
choice, I suspect you're in a minuscule minority.

Quoting the abstract: "The purpose of this study is to systematically
document meaningful and relevant aspects of treatment decision-making
reported by men with localized prostate cancer." That's why I started
the thread, as incontinence expectations relate directly to initial and
follow-on treatment decisions.

I.P.
djperry42@sbcglobal.net - 18 Jan 2008 16:59 GMT
> Their eyebrows shot up when I mentioned that on a GOOD night, I won't
> wake up until time to get up, and may void a quart of urine then.
> "That's way too much urine. It over-stretches the bladder."
>
> Well, excuuuuuuuse me. It's not like I was deliberately holding it. Any
> night I sleep for eight uninterrupted hours also goes in the Win column.

I too sleep through the night, always have.  What I find interesting
is that when I wake up with the full bladder, I don't leak a drop
until after I empty the thing.  I can put on clothes, move my wife's
car outside the gate so the dogs won't escape when she goes to work,
scrape ice off the windshield, come back inside and the whole time not
drip a drop.  If I urinate first, I dribble the whole time.

As for telling tall tales to the doctor, I can relate to that.  I
recall telling my doc that I was using 2-3 pads/day when I really knew
4-5 was the norm.  A few months later, saying 1-2 when I was using
3-4.  I think I was focusing on the one or two days when I indeed
needed only 1-2 and forgetting about all the others when I needed
more.  I was treating the low pad days as the norm and the others as
"temporary regressions" on the road to total continence.  At the 18
month mark to the day, the time when everyone will be as continent as
they're going to get, I actually left the house pad-free.  I drove to
the Post Office, went into a store and did some shopping.  No major
problems, a little too damp though in the underwear upon returning
home.  Had I gone more than a few blocks of walking however, things
would have been much worse.  Also, had I gone directly to my doctor
later that day I would probably have said "Good news, no pads."  The
point is, I wasn't intentionally fibbing to my doctor, I really
believed what I was saying and thinking, blinded by my belief that
things were better than they really were.  Also, I used to sleep
without a pad but after two or three episodes of peeing the bed while
dreaming of urinating I now wear a pad.  Some wacko psychological
thing since I hadn't done that pre-op since I was about six years old
nor have I done it while wearing a pad.  Maybe I need a psychiatrist
more than a urologist.

Incidently, my wife works in both hospitals and nursing homes and has
seen many patients who had in the past been treated for prostate
cancer.  The pad wearers far exceed the 2% often quoted here and in
the literature.  Granted, some of these folks date back to pre-nerve
sparing days but most don't.
Dave Perry
I.P. Freely - 18 Jan 2008 20:38 GMT
> I too sleep through the night, always have.  What I find interesting
> is that when I wake up with the full bladder, I don't leak a drop
> until after I empty the thing.  I can put on clothes, move my wife's
> car outside the gate so the dogs won't escape when she goes to work,
> If I urinate first, I dribble the whole time.

Same here. I have always leaked more when relatively, maybe almost
completely, empty.

> scrape ice off the windshield

I vaguely remember doing that as a kid. I quit it >40 years ago when I
discovered that hot water melts ice. Haven't scraped since then, and
haven't damaged a windshield yet; haven't even seen an existing chip or
 crack propagate. Physics beats manual labor ALL to hell.

> after two or three episodes of peeing the bed while
> dreaming of urinating I now wear a pad.  Some wacko psychological
> thing

I'm always relieved to awaken fully, dry, after dreaming that I've been
peeing for 20 minutes. I'm sure the full bladder triggers the dream
rather than vice versa.

> Incidently, my wife works in both hospitals and nursing homes and has
> seen many patients who had in the past been treated for prostate
> cancer.  The pad wearers far exceed the 2% often quoted here and in
> the literature.

If I had heard my opening post data from any old family physician,
without solid substantiation, I'd never have printed it here. But Yang
(Claire C.) and Clowers (Diane C.) have been wallowing, writing,
publishing, and lecturing in this stuff professionally since the 1980s
and are very highly praised by their peers. Their claims warrant our
consideration, IMO.

I.P.
djperry42@sbcglobal.net - 19 Jan 2008 00:17 GMT
> > after two or three episodes of peeing the bed while
> > dreaming of urinating I now wear a pad.  Some wacko psychological
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> peeing for 20 minutes. I'm sure the full bladder triggers the dream
> rather than vice versa.

'Fraid not.  For fifty-five years, more or less, I never wet the bed,
full bladder or not.  More recently sleeping while padded never wet
the bed, full bladder or not.  Send me to bed now though without pad
and the risk of bed-wetting is quite high - three times over a span of
a few months.  Sounds psycho to me.

> > scrape ice off the windshield
>
> I vaguely remember doing that as a kid. I quit it >40 years ago when I
> discovered that hot water melts ice. Haven't scraped since then, and
> haven't damaged a windshield yet; haven't even seen an existing chip or
>   crack propagate. Physics beats manual labor ALL to hell.

Physics did crack my windshield although it was from washing the dust
off a warm windshield with a garden hose.  Existing chip grew at the
speed of light, or at least within the blink of an eye, into a crack
that covered the whole width of the glass.  Maybe the ice offers some
temporary protection while everything heats up somewhat.  No matter
though, heating the water and carrying it to the car is more bother
than the thin film of ice that accumulates only occasionally in our
more balmy coastal clime.  I only mentioned it in my first post since
an ice scrape this morning was still fresh in my mind.
Dave Perry
I.P. Freely - 19 Jan 2008 03:30 GMT
> heating the water and carrying it to the car is more bother
> than the thin film of ice that accumulates only occasionally in our
> more balmy coastal clime.

I've lived in upstate NY and northern Utah, and Canada is just 3-4 hours
away from where I live now. Those spots are icy enough. But the REAL ice
storms were in northern Alabama, where a night of drizzle at 32 degrees
often leaves a centimeter of ice on a windshield. In those climates,
filling a milk jug or two from the hot water tap is effortless compared
to the alternative.

Yes, we had hot tap water even in Alabama. ;-)

Your garden hose experience doesn't surprise me. Your cool water
contracted the warm surface, placing the surface glass under tension. My
warm water induces surface expansion, placing it in compression.

Yes, folks, we know this is unrelated to PC. OTOH, it does relate to
almost every one of you, and I hope it saves some of you a lot of hassle.

I.P.
Leonard Evens - 19 Jan 2008 01:49 GMT
>> Their eyebrows shot up when I mentioned that on a GOOD night, I won't
>> wake up until time to get up, and may void a quart of urine then.
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> the literature.  Granted, some of these folks date back to pre-nerve
> sparing days but most don't.

How do you know that the people she sees consitutue a random sample from
the entire population of men who have been treated for prostate cancer?

To settle a question like this, you need to study the entire population.

I'm reminded of the story of how at a meeting of a prostate cancer
support group, someone asked how many men were no longer impotent.  One
man raised his hand.  From this the paricipants concluded that impotence
was the rule until someone pointed out that most of the men who had
regained potent=cy weren't attending such meetings.  they were home
having sex.

Similarly, if you attended a meeting of AA,  you might conclude that
virtually everyone in this country is an alcoholic.

> Dave Perry
BH - 18 Jan 2008 17:09 GMT
>I.P. Freely
>And apparently that’s the NORM

I.P., I certainly don't doubt what you say the Doc and Nurse told you;
but, that's not consistent with my experience and what I've learned
from talking with other RP patients.  

I have some small leakage - no more than a few drops -  when squatting
or lifting (stress), or when I'm really tired.  I've not used pads
since a few weeks after surgery.  (It's been too long ago to remember
exactly.)  I feel lucky and I'm sorry you and others have more
problems.  But, what they are saying just doesn't sound "right" to me.

Take care and best wishes.

Burney
RP in 1995 (age 52)
RT in 2000
ADT (Casodex) 10/06 - 8/07
Latest PSA - 0.13

burney dot huff at mindspring dot com
I.P. Freely - 18 Jan 2008 20:44 GMT
> I.P., I certainly don't doubt what you say the Doc and Nurse told you;
> but, that's not consistent with my experience and what I've learned
> from talking with other RP patients.  

A little arithmetic implies these two have analyzed, diagnosed, treated,
and/or lectured to something approaching 100,000 pts and peers. Their
careers depend on their credibility, and in no small part to the fact
that their boss, Paul Lange, and many of their peers, are also PC
patients. A researcher isn't likely to publish dozens of peer-reviewed
studies with hundreds of co-authors unless their peers trust them.

I.P.
BH - 18 Jan 2008 22:08 GMT
>patients. A researcher isn't likely to publish dozens of peer-reviewed
>studies with hundreds of co-authors unless their peers trust them.
>
>I.P.

I.P, my only point was that it seems clear that most of us in this
group have trouble believing Dr. Yang's assertion that most patients
have significant (whatever that means) incontinence problems and lie
to their Docs about it - resulting in bad data.

Dr. Yang does have an extensive curriculum vitae.  For anyone who is
interested, here's the url.
http://depts.washington.edu/uroweb/print/cv/yang_cv.pdf

As for your point about a researcher not being likely to publish
dozens of peer-reviewed studies..........

According to his curriculum vitae, Dr. Yang currently holds
non-tenured assistant and adjunct professor positions (in urology and
neurology) at the University of Washington.  Do you think the old
saying about "publish or perish" no longer applies to non-tenured
faculty?
RP in 1995 (age 52)
RT in 2000
ADT (Casodex) 10/06 - 8/07
Latest PSA - 0.13

burney dot huff at mindspring dot com
I.P. Freely - 18 Jan 2008 22:29 GMT
> As for your point about a researcher not being likely to publish
> dozens of peer-reviewed studies..........
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> saying about "publish or perish" no longer applies to non-tenured
> faculty?

You omitted the rest of my sentence: "A researcher isn't likely to
publish dozens of peer-reviewed studies *with hundreds of co-authors
unless their peers trust them*."

I.P.
BH - 18 Jan 2008 22:36 GMT
I was just striving for brevity.  I did not mean to leave out anything
for malicious reasons.  

I believe my point is still valid.  A non-tenured professor,
especially at a research institution, had damned-well better publish
if he (or she, as in this case) doesn't want to perish (lose their
job).  And, academia is full of non-tenured professors/researchers who
are eager to publish.

Best wishes.
Burney

PS - I had the impression you lived on the other side of the Cascade
Curtain.  Do you come all the way over to this side to see Dr. Yang,
or was I wrong about on which side of the state you live?

BH  

>> As for your point about a researcher not being likely to publish
>> dozens of peer-reviewed studies..........
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>
>I.P.
RP in 1995 (age 52)
RT in 2000
ADT (Casodex) 10/06 - 8/07
Latest PSA - 0.13

burney dot huff at mindspring dot com
I.P. Freely - 19 Jan 2008 03:19 GMT
> I was just striving for brevity.  I did not mean to leave out anything
> for malicious reasons.  

I know that. Your sterling character gelled some time ago.

> PS - I had the impression you lived on the other side of the Cascade
> Curtain.  Do you come all the way over to this side to see Dr. Yang,
> or was I wrong about on which side of the state you live?

You're right. But I got and get all my treatment in Seattle due the
complexity of the dual prostate/colon surgery and the team of doctors I
found there. The fact that it hasn't cost me a cent is just icing on the
cake. It's an easy 3-hour trip as long as Snoqualmie Pass is open.

I.P.
Leonard Evens - 19 Jan 2008 01:58 GMT
>> I.P., I certainly don't doubt what you say the Doc and Nurse told you;
>> but, that's not consistent with my experience and what I've learned
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>
> I.P.

Sorry.  I looked at her CV, and while it is respectable, it is not
particularly impressive.  Also, I couldn't find any of the papers which
clearly involved the issue we are debating here.

While number of papers is not necessarily a guarantee of wisdom, with
that as a criterion, either Peter Scardino or Patrick Walsh have much,
much longer CVs.  Moreover, each is highly respected as a biomedical
scientist.

I doubt very much that she has seen hundreds of thousands of patients
who have had RPs.
I.P. Freely - 19 Jan 2008 04:16 GMT
> While number of papers is not necessarily a guarantee of wisdom, with
> that as a criterion, either Peter Scardino or Patrick Walsh have much,
> much longer CVs.  Moreover, each is highly respected as a biomedical
> scientist.

Yep ... and their specialty is surgery. Yang's and Clowers' specialty is
impotence  and incontinence, and Yang said studies support her claim
that guys with  post-RP problems tell their third-party pts more than
they tell their surgeons. Stranger things have happened than gurus being
successfully contradicted. Google Lorenzo's Oil and helicobacter pylori
for familiar examples. And would you co-author papers with an uncredible
coworker?

> I doubt very much that she has seen hundreds of thousands of patients
> who have had RPs.

I'm sure you're right. That's why I said something quite different: "A
little arithmetic implies these two have analyzed, diagnosed, treated,
and/or lectured to something approaching 100,000 pts and peers."

2 people (Yang and Clowers) X 50 years collective experience X 10 pts a
day X 5 days/wk X 50 weeks/yr = 250,000. Add their decades of lecturing
locally and nationally on the subject. Heck, maybe they HAVE reached
"hundreds of thousands of pts and peers" relevant to their specialty.

You guys are examining the lichens rather than the redwoods in the
forest. The message is not a publication count, nor a poll of outspoken
internet people, nor (at this level of examination) a meta-analysis of
the continence literature, nor an examination of Walsh's (whom many are
eager to dismiss as a knife-happy buzz saw when the subject of radiation
or chemistry arises) expertise. The message is twofold:
1. Two incontinence experts claim their experience and the literature
generate and support their professional opinions that the party line is
misleading.
2. People making treatment choices should be aware of the controversy.

I don't think anyone here has the right or the expertise to dismiss
these experts' opinions without at the very least examining whatever
literature Yang and/or Clowers have seen AND being privy to their
combined 50 years' experience. To do so may unduly bias a new patient's
choices.

I.P.
Leonard Evens - 20 Jan 2008 18:04 GMT
>> While number of papers is not necessarily a guarantee of wisdom, with
>> that as a criterion, either Peter Scardino or Patrick Walsh have much,
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> combined 50 years' experience. To do so may unduly bias a new patient's
> choices.

You seem to be rejecting the opinions of Scardino and Walsh "because
they are surgeons".  You often hear this canard.   But both these men
work with diverse groups of colleagues who are knowledgeable about
different aspects of prostate cancer and its treatment.  They
collaborate with such people in their research.  To suggest that no one
in such a group would be aware of sources of bias in such studies is to
ignore the reality of the way biomedical research is done.

The clinical experience of specialists in the treatment of incontinence
is not too relevant.  About the only insight they might have to add is
that the patients they see, who represent a highly biased sample of the
total population of men treated for prostate cancer, usually tell them
that they didn't tell their surgeons the truth about how much trouble
they were having.  This suggests the possibility that incontinence is
underreported, but it certainly doesn't establish it as a fact and it
gives us no quantitative guide about how common that is.

As to their qualifications to examine the literature is concerned, I
don't see how their experience gives them any special insight in the
matter.  If anything, it might bias their view of the subject.

If you could give some references in the biomedical literature which
deal specifically with the issue of underreporting of incontinence, I
would be happy to look at them.  Until we see something specific, we are
just making noise.

> I.P.
I.P. Freely - 20 Jan 2008 23:14 GMT
> You seem to be rejecting the opinions of Scardino and Walsh "because
> they are surgeons".  

I'm neither rejecting nor adopting them or Yang/Clowers. I'm just
parroting other experts' claims for readers' consideration. The only
rejection I see here is of this new (to us) paradigm.

> You often hear this canard.

Yes, we do, and each time we see it I point out exactly what you do:

> But both these men
> work with diverse groups of colleagues who are knowledgeable about
> different aspects of prostate cancer and its treatment.  They
> collaborate with such people in their research.  To suggest that no one
> in such a group would be aware of sources of bias in such studies is to
> ignore the reality of the way biomedical research is done.

I've made that point repeatedly in past discussions, but now that it
supports the party line, it's somehow more acceptable?

> The clinical experience of specialists in the treatment of incontinence
> is not too relevant [to incontinence].

That is a stunning and seemingly arrogant statement.

> About the only insight they might have to add is
> that the patients they see, who represent a highly biased sample of the
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> underreported, but it certainly doesn't establish it as a fact and it
> gives us no quantitative guide about how common that is.

So the literature they study, teach, write, and/or present for peer
scrutiny is inconsequential?
Certainly I'd agree men who soak their diapers are a biased sample; why
would a dry man complain to his uro or to a continence specialist about
incontinence?
The only facts I presented is that these highly experienced,
peer-praised pros made these claims and say they're based on their
experience and supporting literature.

> As to their qualifications to examine the literature is concerned, I
> don't see how their experience gives them any special insight in the
> matter.

You're implying that any of us is better qualified to research the
literature than continence practicioners, teachers, and researchers?
Does not your experience as a mathematician give you special insights
into things mathematical, especially over mathematical laymen such as,
oh, say ... physicians?

>  If anything, it might bias their view of the subject.

So on a flimsy "might", we should dismiss their claims without even
looking for and at their evidence?

Gee, I don't see anyone disputing Steve Kramer's oft-repeated mantra
that PC should be cured by 2015. "Might" there be a bias in this group's
perceptions of its own members?

> If you could give some references in the biomedical literature which
> deal specifically with the issue of underreporting of incontinence, I
> would be happy to look at them.

You can find them as easily, probably mor so, than I, and I have no
reason to take the time.

> Until we see something specific, we are just making noise.

Precisely. So on what basis do so many of this group say these two
specialists are wrong?

I.P.
JK - 19 Jan 2008 02:57 GMT
It took me 6 months to go without a pad. After 5 1/2 years I only have
stress leakage, like when bending to tie my shoes. I almost always sleep
through the night. I can tell you that I don't have the old discomfort
associated with needing to go... it's kind of like, I just have a kind of
full feeling that it's time.  I don't do Kegels either.

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DoubleOwSeven - 19 Jan 2008 06:38 GMT
>I had a urodynamics test yesterday. They monitor bladder pressure, fill
>and empty it via catheter, and stress it while full, all while watching
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>I.P. Freely
>And apparently that’s the NORM

I can't factually argue with what your doctors are telling you but it
just doesn't sound right to me based on the relatively small number of
men I've met and talked with about these issues.  I can't help but
wonder if part of what they are saying is meant to soften the impact
of them not being able to find a way to help solve your issue.  I'm
also left scratching my head about their comment regarding Detrol and
it's side effects.  I've got overactive bladder and have tried almost
every overactive bladder medice on the market and detrol seems no
worse or better then any of them and neither deetrol or any of them
have given me painful side effects, just some constipation at times.

My uro has been gently pushing me to have the urodynamics done to pin
down what's going on with my bladder - I'm glad to see a couple posts
suggesting having it done is not an ordeal.  Still, when I ask him
what he will do differently once we run the tests the only answer is
that we'll have a better idea of what's going on.  Yeah, but will it
lead to any treatment we haven't already tried???  If not, it's just
an academic exercise.
I.P. Freely - 19 Jan 2008 07:19 GMT
>  I can't help but
> wonder if part of what they are saying is meant to soften the impact
> of them not being able to find a way to help solve your issue.

I don't think these experienced pros are setting the prostatectomy world
and their reputations on their ears for my sake.

> I'm
> also left scratching my head about their comment regarding Detrol and
> it's side effects.

That was my comment and my experience, not theirs. Abdominal pain is a
documented SE of overactive bladder meds, and I was doubled over for a
week -- 2-3 days on Detrol plus 3-4 more to recover after I quit the
stuff. It's something we IBS patients have experienced for decades --
colon spasms accompanying constipation.

> My uro has been gently pushing me to have the urodynamics done to pin
> down what's going on with my bladder - I'm glad to see a couple posts
> suggesting having it done is not an ordeal.

Not at all. A couple of deep breaths as they thread the catheter in, and
that's it ... until that first post-procedure pee pee, which stings a bit.

> Still, when I ask him
> what he will do differently once we run the tests the only answer is
> that we'll have a better idea of what's going on.  Yeah, but will it
> lead to any treatment we haven't already tried???  If not, it's just
> an academic exercise.

What it does is tell you and your docs what the problem is and thus what
may help. I already knew that Detrol helped a little but sometimes hurt
me a lot, but if the test had revealed bladder overactivity, I'd have
tried the Oxybutinin patch again; it calmly and effectively resolved the
bladder overactivity I had before my PC diagnosis.

I.P.