Medical Forum / Diseases and Disorders / Prostate Cancer / December 2003
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David S - 14 Dec 2003 13:07 GMT Dear Santa: Well, first just let me give thanks for the good things I received this year, especially the news of organ contained disease, clear surgical margins, clear lymph nodes, and no sign of disease on the bone scan. Also the <0.1 on the 90 PSA. I am also thankful for all my friends on alt.support.cancer.prostate and the help that they have given me this year. Now on to the good stuff, my wish list for this year. I am not sure if number one should be a cure for cancer or world peace. As I recall, when the Prince of Peace came to visit we killed him, so maybe nobody really wants that on this rock. I will go with a cure for cancer for the first wish. For number two I would like a healthcare system in this country that does more to help the sick and injured than to generate profits for insurance companies and corporate executives. It would also cover the costs to deal with post RRP incontinence and impotence. Help for my friend that is in the drug rehab center trying, again, to kick the $600 a day cocaine habit. A clean election in November resulting in a leadership that can pull the country together and get us back on track. I would like a full Collins S Line with the linear, why not a KWM2 for mobile operation, and a hundred foot tower with a seven element beam (including the WARC bands). And while we are at it, I would like my code speed to be up to 40 wpm. Next, I need a mouse for this laptop computer to use while at the desk. The touch pad is hard to get used to. I would like all the movie channels on the cable for free, because that is about what they are worth. I would like stop pissing all over myself by the New Year, or in lieu of that how about some two for one sales for Depends Guards. The return of spontaneous erections would be nice, but I would settle for Viagra or Cialis to actually work. Lose 20 lbs. and have my hair grow back. Lab results of <0.1 on my next PSA. Finally, a positive attitude and a permanent goodbye to depression.
Now for things I do not want in the New Year. Tops on that list would be no more of our soldiers being butchered on a daily basis in foreign lands. I understand that Dodge trucks is trying to outdo the Miller Beer Country Club Catfight ad by having women in lingerie play tackle football. Please do not let that appear on my tv, including news stories about it. Please do not let anything having to do with Britney Spears show up in my house. Same for Madonna and any singer/actor covered in tattoos. I also do not care who Jennifer Lopez is sleeping with this week. No long staying out of town guests. No more books by Hillary Clinton. No more Harry Potter books. No more dogs with psych problems (I love you dearly Buttercup, but having a dog that is afraid of paper plates is a bit much).
As the Dickens's character would say, "God bless us one and all". Merry Christmas and Happy New Year everyone.
David S.
MH - 14 Dec 2003 13:32 GMT Hi, David.....
As usual, I thoroughly enjoyed your post... and your wonderful sense of humor in all this! That is a blessing! Sometimes, I find, we have to laugh at it and try to keep it all in perspective!!
If you want to work on the depression *and* the ED in another way, you can do like I did. I went on Prozac. It helps with the depression.... my mood is better. It also takes away pretty much all libido. If I ever try to play with Willy, it has totally killed any ability to orgasm. But... since I'm taking the Prozac, I also don't really give a d#@m! :)) So it doesn't really seem to matter as much! LOL
I hope you get all the things you asked for in your letter to Santa! But I wonder..... have YOU been a good boy this year???
I hope you at least get a mouse for your laptop... get an optical one, so you don't have to worry with a cord!! I *hate* using a touchpad!!
Ho Ho Ho.... Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays to all!
MikeH :)
> Dear Santa: > Well, first just let me give thanks for the good things I received this [quoted text clipped - 50 lines] > > David S. David S - 14 Dec 2003 18:19 GMT Hi Mike: Was I a good boy this year? Never thought about that to be truthful. I get up, shower, go to work, usually eat lunch at my desk, come home, eat, do the dishes, wait for time to go to bed when my wife won't give me a lot of sh.t about going to bed so early. Then the 4 to 5 pad per day cycle repeats. Don't think I have to worry about being "bad", except maybe about speeding or the cursing because of getting angry at other drivers. Wonder if that could cost me the mouse? The work with Willie is post RRP therapy of course, not sinful activity like the nuns used to tell us in school. I did forget one thing on my "do not want" list. No more "Trading Spaces" on tv. I am sick of that show, and they lousy attitude, e.g., "I am a designer and can do whatever I want". F??k you lady. Stay the hell out of my neighborhood. How's that for Christmas spirit? A neighbor just showed up with food. Better check that out. More later.... Thank you. David S.
> Hi, David..... > [quoted text clipped - 81 lines] > > > > David S. c palmer - 14 Dec 2003 22:15 GMT hey, they say that if you're naughty, you get a lump of coal in your sock. i guess it must be true, because i've had a dump truck full of coal driven by a big jolly fat guy in a red flannel suit making deliveries each year at christmas. helps on the heating bill, so it isn't all bad.
first, and foremost, i had very grateful that they caught the cancer when they did. considering that i was one of those "healthy" people who doesn't get sick or go to the doctor for years at a time. i realize that it could have been a different story just as easy and i would have had no one to blame but myself.
i am grateful that my psa readings have came by as undetectables so far.
i am grateful that they caught hussin and that maybe the troops will get to come home real soon.
i am grateful that i've had my wife here to share to joy of this time of the year given what she has been through.
i am grateful that, just when we thought it was the end of the rope for her and the treatment of health, that they have found a treatment that cause the growth of new arteries in her heart.
i am grateful, that someone was watchful that tv show that put us onto that path and led us to those clinical people, because i never knew it existed and it is the other folks in this world that let us know we are not alone.
i am grateful for all of my new friends and the friendships i've got because of this disease called prostate cancer. it would have been better to meet under different situations. but that was not in the cards and because of this disease, i've been blessed.
i am grateful again, that since my bout with prostate cancer, i am able to look at life with a renewed view. i do not take life for granted. i was lucky, or unlucky from vietnam to have discovered this and have treasured each day as my last. but these wonderful days seemed like there were more to come as the years went by and even though i did treasure those days, i became use to them. now, because of my pca, i am back to where i was before and enjoying these wonderful times.
i wish that they would be the christ back in christmas. i'm sick and tired of seeing christmas trees and christmas stock being put out in july and that it has dust piled on it by november.
i'm tired of the only thing the news can think about it is black friday, the retail sales market, and the impact of the weather and how it affect the seasonal sales.
i wish we could go back to trusting people and when a person gave their word, it was all you needed, not a contract.
i wish we could get over the fears, and prejudice of a person's background or color. who cares if they are successful and jewish, for example. instead of saying something negative, look at it that if they can do it, so can you.
i wish we could get the family unit back again. society has stress the folks so bad, that it takes both partners in the marriage to have a job, just to pay the bills. how hard it is, to raise a child with both parents working? and how much harder it is to raise that same child when the two people can't get along, and get a divorce. now, if you think if it was hard to raise a child with both parents working, try to raise a child with one parent working. the child loses and falls through the cracks of society. the parents fight over the custody of the child - like a piece of clothing. the child is a person, and should not treated as such.
we had one person, they say, who was put on this earth, and all he ever said was to "love" that was it. love each other, love yourself, and in 2000 years, we haven't got it right yet. we still have fighting, killing, and hatred spreading like wildfire. they say we are developed more now, into a better society than we were hundreds of years before. yet, when one looks at the 500,000 people that were slaughtered in rowanda, one has to ask, "how have we really developed?" and we had parents killing their children, and we had neighbors killing neighbors, and we had family members killing family members, and 2000 years ago, killed the one person who said to love one another.
they said in 1964, school buses were needed to move our precious children around to other schools to make sure the racial numbers were politically correct. yet, after almost 40 years, and with the moving patterns of people. we still bus our children. why? putting a bus out in today's traffic is at risk. putting the money used for that bus into our school system to make it a better school makes more sense.
so, santa, i guess my final wish, i would ask that you bring to the people of earth, the gift of common sense. the ability to just reason what is the best of everyone to get along, instead of what can i get if i sue.
this is a pretty long wish list now, santa. and besides, i heard rumors that the elves were voting for go union this year, right before christmas. i hope that is not true. the last thing we need is for a strike right before christmas.
~ curtis
knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
Steve Kramer - 15 Dec 2003 00:51 GMT Never in the history of man, since Cane slew Abel, has there been world peace. We will likely cure cancer someday, and eboli, and fill this world with 120 year olds. Since we have no right to a 'health care system', I wonder if we just can't afford to live that long. I'm sorry for your friend, but cocaine is nearly impossible to kick. We had a clean election last time. The only thing that has ever brought a country together is war. See #1. How about a Citizen 40-channel CB with roof magnet mount antenna? A mouse costs about $15. I have five I'm not using. I'll mail you one. The more channels you have, the longer it takes to find something you don't wanna watch. Sorry, I have no answers for the rest.
> Dear Santa: > Well, first just let me give thanks for the good things I received this [quoted text clipped - 50 lines] > > David S. Steve Kramer - 15 Dec 2003 13:01 GMT Wow! I must have been in a surly mood yesterday. I was trying for humor, but these came across awful pessimistic.
 Signature Steve Kramer PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46 Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c RRP 12/15/2000 PSA .1 .1 .1 .3 .4 .8 EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47 PSA .3 .2 .2 .2 .3 Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48 Begin Lupron 07/21/2003 @ 48 PSA .1
> Never in the history of man, since Cane slew Abel, has there been world > peace. [quoted text clipped - 73 lines] > > > > David S. DanR - 16 Dec 2003 21:59 GMT AMEN! (Though I can do without the HAM rig...) Good luck with Buttercup! DanR
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