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i got final pathology report on my lrp today
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gary.miller12@comcast.net - 07 Nov 2006 07:16 GMT the path report is worse than the biopsy. the cancer was 4% of the prostate. the gleason was 3+4=7 biopsy was 3+3=6 the cancer penetrated the capsule but was not found in the margin. the margin was negative. T3A biopsy was T1C. surgeons comment was risk of recurrence is 35%. how can there be 35% risk since there is no cancer in the margin?
gary
tchtic@yahoo.com - 07 Nov 2006 10:18 GMT > surgeons comment was risk of recurrence is 35%. > how can there be 35% risk since there is no cancer in the margin? I've been wondering about this. Best I can figure, no one knows the exact mechanism that the cancer uses to get loose.
I've seen two descriptions. Both remind me of weeds.
The cancer creeps out, cell by cell, kinda like kudzu. The docs talk about margins, micro-tendrals, getting to the seminal vesicles. That speaks for slash (surgery) and burn (radiation) as a treatment.
They don't like to talk about distance metastasis, where colonies of the cancer take up in distant bones or lymph nodes. The docs send us for radioactive bone scans, which usually do not show cancer. Apparently, there's a speading mechanism that's like dandelion seeds.
Given that blood flows in and out of the prostate, these dandelion seeds are always spreading.
I guess that's the 35%. Maybe the seeds don't usually take root but in 35% of guys,over a long period of time, they do.
This suggests that environmental changes and good gardening techniques should help over the long term. By that I mean, the vitamin-D, the soy, tomatoes, the juices, and other supplements.
If that lets me skew the 35% to 20%, then it's worth trying.
-kh
I.P. Freely - 07 Nov 2006 14:37 GMT >> surgeons comment was risk of recurrence is 35%. >> how can there be 35% risk since there is no cancer in the margin? [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > I guess that's the 35%. Maybe the seeds don't usually take root but in > 35% of guys,over a long period of time, they do. That's the primary mechanism in Gary's case, and the Gleason 7 raises the odds. But there's no point worrying about it. My Gleason 8 raises my negative-margins recurrence likelihood, even further, but until it happens, it ain't happened.
> This suggests that environmental changes and good gardening techniques > should help over the long term. By that I mean, the vitamin-D, the > soy, tomatoes, the juices, and other supplements. > If that lets me skew the 35% to 20%, then it's worth trying. *IF*. Remember, their benefit is pure speculation, and many such speculations don't pass rigorous studies. Don't get obsessed by it.
I.P.
Claude - 07 Nov 2006 13:48 GMT > the path report is worse than the biopsy. > the cancer was 4% of the prostate. [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > > gary I had similar results in May of 2002 when I had my RP. 3+3 on biopsy, PSA in the 5's (my age then was 64), and a competent uro who felt that prospects looked good. After surgery (with one nerve spared), Gleason was 3+4, possible penetration of the capsule, and some cancer cells found in adipose tissue outside the prostate. I was really down.
A veterenarian whose SO had similar results used to post in this forum. She was really helpful to me. Not only did she assure me that escaped cancer cells are not a death sentence, especially when our immune system is good. What sticks in my mind was her saying that probably every time our skin is exposed to the sun for any length of time, some cancer cells may be produced, but our body usually takes care of them. But what was particular helpful is that she wrote that even with the alarming results in her SO's post surgical report, several years later his PSA was still undetectable, and everything was going well.
I am now 4 1/2 years post RP. PSA is still undetectable (<0.05), I am basically continent, and have erectile function normal, I believe, for my age. I still get nervous at PSA check time (and given the positive margins, I will have to go 10 years before I am declared "cured"), but really don't worry about it much anymore. I don't know if this is helpful to you, but the good lady's encouragement to me after my post-surgical bad news, helped me get through a difficult stretch. Don't let the negative statistics dominate your thoughts.
ron - 07 Nov 2006 14:38 GMT gary.miller12@comcast.net wrote:...snip...
> surgeons comment was risk of recurrence is 35%. > how can there be 35% risk since there is no cancer in the margin? > > gary Part of the prostate is just "hanging out" there in space in side your body, it is not physically attached to any other anatomical structures (other than the rest of the prostate). The remainder of the prostate is physically attached to other parts of your anatomy. When the surgeon removes the prostate he/she need only cut through the part that is physically attached to other structures. That area where the surgeon cut is called the margin. If cancer cells are found at the margin, then there is the possibility that some cancer cells remain in your body on the other side of the margin or excision, the part that remains in your body.
The part of the prostate that is not physically attached to your body, the part that is just "hanging out" is covered with a thin membrane, the capsule. Cancer can also grow through this membrane and exist on the outer surface of the prostate (extra-capsular extension). From the prostate surface it can then migrate to the seminal vesicles and so on.
So there are at least two pathways for the escape of cancerous cells, 1) through the physically attached portion of the prostate and 2) from the surface of the prostate. The best pathological prognosis would be negative margins and no ECE. This would indicate that both of these pathways were not operative...Best wishes and good health, ron
Leonard Evens - 07 Nov 2006 22:59 GMT > the path report is worse than the biopsy. > the cancer was 4% of the prostate. That sounds pretty good to me.
> the gleason was 3+4=7 biopsy was 3+3=6 You would feel better if that hadn't happened, but it is not at all unusual.
> the cancer penetrated the capsule but was not found in the margin. > the margin was negative. That is good.
> T3A biopsy was T1C. T1c is a diagnosis before surgery based primarily on what the doctor can feel under DRE. After surgery, presuming any cancer at all is found in the prostate that was removed, you can't have T1c anymore. It has to be at least T2-something. The T3 in your case means it penetrated the capusule, which you already knew.
> surgeons comment was risk of recurrence is 35%. The Sloan Kettering nomogram puts it a bit lower at around 28 percent, but that seems the right ballpark.
> how can there be 35% risk since there is no cancer in the margin? I think others have addressed this issue. The pathology report after surgery only tells you what the pathologist found when examining the prostate. He can't be sure some small amount of cancer hasn't managed to escape, and clearly he can't say anything definite about parts of your body he can't examine. Estimates of this kind are based on follow up studies of other patients with similar post-surgical pathology.
The most likely prognosis is that you will never have a recurrence. After all, the odds seem to be at least 2 to 1 against it. But even if you do, most likely it won't be for a while, and it will first show up as an increase in PSA. At that point, if the recurrence is local, it still may be possible to destroy the remaining cancer through radiation. Even if the cancer has escaped to distant sites, it often takes many years before a PSA rise is followed by clinical symptoms. At that point, hormone therapy is still available, or perhaps some miracle cure developed in the next several years.
I know it is difficult, but for the moment assume the best, not the worst, and concentrate on recovering from the surgery. Most likely, you will do fine, and worrying about what will happen otherwise won't do any good.
> gary Steve Kramer - 08 Nov 2006 02:59 GMT > the path report is worse than the biopsy. > the cancer was 4% of the prostate. [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > surgeons comment was risk of recurrence is 35%. > how can there be 35% risk since there is no cancer in the margin? Sorry to hear about your urinating problem, but it is quite common and should fix itself quickly.
T3a means that it penetrated the wall of the prostate or is in the seminal vesicles. That's where I started my journey.
 Signature PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46 Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c RRP 12/15/2000 G7 (3+4), T3cN0M0 Neg margins PSA .1 .1 .1 .27 .37 .75 EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47 PSA .34 .22 .15 .21 .32 Lupron 07/03 (1 mo) 8/03 (4 mo), 12/03, 4/04, 09/04, 01/05, 5/05, 10/05, 2/06, 6/06 PSA .07 .05 .06 .09 .08 .132 .145 Casodex added daily 07/06 PSA <0.04 Non Illegitimi Carborundum
callalily - 08 Nov 2006 21:59 GMT > the path report is worse than the biopsy. > the cancer was 4% of the prostate. [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > > gary Hello Gary--
This will probably make me an outcast here but I have concluded that in terms of QOL after pca treatment it is the "overexamined life that is "not worth living". (Socrates: "the unexamined life is not worth living"). You need to review the information that you must know in terms of your treatment but with everything you come across here you could drown in info and also become more depressed and nervous. That's what happened to me initially.
I have to say I love this group but some here are so obsessed with data relating to this illness that in order to remain here I have to skip through most of the specific stats and numbers because if not I would go crazy. And anyway, after J's surgery, I didn't really care about knowing every particular detail of his tumor and what his prospects were in aggravated detail. Some of thatinfo was too late to be of any use, anyway.. What really chills my bones is the nomogram, just the idea that somebody would actually want to sit down and placidly try to predict their own life expectancy to a T. It makes me freak out just to think about it.
This relates to the stat you mentioned: the 35% recurrence rate. It had been somewhere in my consciousness before I read it here (time and again) but none of the doctors had mentioned it explicitly and as far as my husband was concerned, I had discouraged him from to reading too much about future outcomes, at least not until after his RP.
I wanted to bring up some issues with Jon and so I mentioned this 35% stat to him the other day and he was like a deer staring into the headlights. He just had had no idea. If you must know I felt like a murderer afterwards, he was so down for a couple of days and I thought maybe telling him had served no purpose.
I suggested to J.that there were a couple of things that he might want to try in terms of diet. Hence, why i had been urging him to drink pom juice. He was very eager to comply and we also decided he would eat 3 tbs of tomato sauce a day and also have a V-8. (Thank you, Alan for that). A can of V-8 juice has a day's MDR of vegetables and it comes in bought the low- sodium. You can only help yourself by eating more fruits and vegetables and, as a matter of fact, I am going to have a v-8 myself every day.And I thought there was some reliable evidence in existgence about the pom juice.
Afterwards we talked about him doing other things that can always help with illness such as trying to lead a less stressful life, going to the gym and doing more enjoyable things. And, In his case, J. already prays every day so I told him to do it double-hard! (BTW I think prayer is a healing exercise and you don't even have to be relig. to get something out of it. For example: I enjoy reading Psalm book even though my religious practice is now mostly vestigial).
You know there are some people in this group who are clearly obsessive. In your case, the worst thing you can do for yourself is to dwell on this statistic (and others) in my opinion. It is already bad enough that you have that 3-mo psa test to cope with.
I would add that there are some types who might want to know everything but this is not the right approach for a lot of people. Personalities vary.
Also, even if every bit of info were valuable some people are just not capable of acquiring it before or during illness. For ex. after my husband was initially dx he was so paralyzed by fear and depression that it was enough work for me just to keep him going. And there wasn't any time to waste in treating him, acc. to the docs, so I simply did not time to read the whole encyclopedia britannica Some people don't have a research ass't (like J. has me) and there are limits to what they themselves can do.
Hope this helps.
Best of luck,
Leah
I.P. Freely - 08 Nov 2006 22:58 GMT > I have to say I love this group but some here are so obsessed with data > relating to this illness that in order to remain here I have to skip [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > idea that somebody would actually want to sit down and placidly try to > predict their own life expectancy to a T. Hear, hear. I didn't like what I saw in my nomograms, but that's SO easy to fix: I STOPPED LOOKING AT THEM. They were interesting after my post-op pathology results came in, and provided one data point in researching the expected benefits of adjuvant treatment, but are not only useless but needlessly alarming beyond that. I've gone two years now with virtually zero PSA, but have I gone back to the nomograms or studies? For what purpose? I'll have plenty of time -- years -- to visit Paris and climb some frigging mountain, and may even pay somebody else to mow my lawn, after my PSA starts to climb, and an early bone met will just have to get in line with all my other aches and pains anyway -- at which point any nomogram just got REALLY useless. Besides, the same nomograms that give me 8 years to live also give me narrow but finite odds of living two years or 20 years. Guess what? My CANCER will tell me where I'm heading, and no news is great news once that data point has expended its planning usefulness.
> I wanted to bring up some issues with Jon and so I mentioned this 35% > stat to him the other day and he was like a deer staring into the > headlights. He just had had no idea. If you must know I felt like a > murderer afterwards, he was so down for a couple of days and I thought > maybe telling him had served no purpose. That's GREAT news. A 65% chance of being completely cured of CANCER? Many cancer victims would love those odds.
> V-8 juice has a day's MDR of vegetables and it comes in low-sodium. Mmm, hmmmm. And it tastes great . . . as long as you add about a day's MDR of salt to it.
> there are some people in this group who are clearly obsessive. > there are some types who might want to know > everything but this is not the right approach for a lot of people. PC data's primary contribution is to making decisions. Beyond that it's primarily a source of worry, or maybe encouragement if it's good, but in either case it's arguably just a conversation piece once tx decisions are made.
I.P.
Mary Fisher - 09 Nov 2006 11:57 GMT >> I have to say I love this group but some here are so obsessed with data >> relating to this illness that in order to remain here I have to skip [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > Hear, hear. I didn't like what I saw in my nomograms, I don't even know what a nonogram is. Do I need to?
We're always being sent catalogues full of essential things for the 'home' (we don't live in a home) or how to be healthier. We always say that we don't know how we've got so far in life without them ...
Mary
I.P. Freely - 09 Nov 2006 17:19 GMT > I don't even know what a nonogram is. Do I need to? They are interactive charts based on huge statistical bases, which "tell" us how long we have to live based on our numbers -- Gleason grade, stage of advancement, treatments, etc. They're Partin tables on steroids. They sound morbid, and give worrywarts something tangible to worry about. What's most "fun" -- i.e., useful -- about them is playing war games with them. I entered the nomograms with my pre-op PSA, Gleason 8, SVI, negative-margin surgery, and whatever the heck else it covered (e.g., age?, political bent?, number of people filtering me?, number of people *I* filter?, diet?) and came out with a statistical death sentence in X years.
Duly noted (but soon forgotten).
Then when my oncs recommended early adjuvant (i.e., Just In Case) ADT, I fed that additional hypothetical data into the nomograms to get their opinion on how that would change X, to get one more ADT benefit "data" (opinion) point. One could play similar war games with any mainstream treatment combo they were considering, producing a fairly useful and fairly meaningful set of decision fodder.
There are several nomograms out there, such as Sloan-Kettering online and, I think, Strum's book. Google 'em here, or stand by and wait for others to link you to them. I forget where they are, partly because my Windows computer had one hell of a time accessing the online ones (haven't tried them since switching to Mac) and partly because my decisions are made until and unless my PSA takes off again. My attitude towards X at present is something like, "Let me know when X counts down to a couple of years, when it might actually affect my activities. OH, WAIT . . . my PSA will tell me that, won't it? Then who needs to "know" X unless they're still making decisions?" Well, one person needing X is the guy or S.O. considering retiring to enjoy what's left. (Did that, 18 years ago, when it dawned on me I may not live forever due to disease or WMD proliferation into radical terrorist Islam.) Or the guy has to see his yet-hypothetical grandkids at any cost. (I'd have to wait too long, given that I have no kids yet.) Or the guy whose dreams require years to achieve, such as paying off his home for his SO (think insurance.) (My top goal is to catch some big wind and waves tomorrow, followed closely by visiting Alaska and AU/NZ, none of which X threatens.)
There's the thought process. Whether nomograms are useful to you depends on where you fit in the scenarios. I'm going windsurfing, because winter looms FAR closer than X does.
I.P.
Mary Fisher - 09 Nov 2006 20:36 GMT >> I don't even know what a nonogram is. Do I need to? > > They are interactive charts based on huge statistical bases, Ah - we call it actuarial statistics.
> There's the thought process. Whether nomograms are useful to you depends > on where you fit in the scenarios. I'm going windsurfing, because winter > looms FAR closer than X does. I'd say that most people in Britain aren't too bothered.
I'm certainly not. When I kept bees I sometimes had a general reaction to a sting, which could kill me. But I always thought that driving to the apiary was a greater risk than death by anaphylaxis.
I still drive and so does Spouse.
I'm reminded thought that until he had it explained to him he was worried about the <1% risk of dying because of anaethesia.
Perhaps it's right that doctors give such risk information but I'm not at all sure that it helps a patient to take a pragmatic view of his/her condition.
Mary
Alan Meyer - 09 Nov 2006 22:56 GMT "nomogram" is apparently a mathematical term (I had to look this up) for a way to graph variables so that you can use the values of two or more variables to find the value of an unknown variable.
Nowadays I assume nobody actually draws graphs any more. The computer calculates the result and gives it to us.
Here's a link to definitions:
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/nomogram
Or better still, and with a gorgeous diagram of a real, graphic, nomogram:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nomogram
Alan
I.P. Freely - 10 Nov 2006 04:24 GMT > Or better still, and with a gorgeous diagram of a real, > graphic, nomogram: > > http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nomogram HAH! Haven't seen a Smith chart since my junior year in college.
I.P.
Mary Fisher - 10 Nov 2006 10:34 GMT > "nomogram" is apparently a mathematical term (I had to > look this up) for a way to graph variables so that you can [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] > > Alan Thank you.
Mary
Joe Price - 09 Nov 2006 23:18 GMT That's nomogram, not nonogram (which is a kind of puzzle).
See: http://www.mskcc.org/mskcc/html/10088.cfm
You fill in what you know about a series of risk factors and it uses a statistical database to predict the probability of extra-prostatic disease etc.,
>>> I don't even know what a nonogram is. Do I need to? >> >> They are interactive charts based on huge statistical bases, > > Ah - we call it actuarial statistics. Mary Fisher - 10 Nov 2006 10:35 GMT > That's nomogram, not nonogram (which is a kind of puzzle). > [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > statistical database to predict the probability of extra-prostatic disease > etc., It's not peculiar to prostate diseases is it?
Mary
I.P. Freely - 10 Nov 2006 17:33 GMT > It's not peculiar to prostate diseases is it? 100% prostate cancer specific.
I.P.
Mary Fisher - 10 Nov 2006 20:59 GMT >> It's not peculiar to prostate diseases is it? > > 100% prostate cancer specific. Since you snipped the relevant words I've no idea what your're reffering to.
Your loss.
> I.P. I.P. Freely - 10 Nov 2006 04:24 GMT > Ah - we call it actuarial statistics. Same here. The PC nomograms just address specifically the PC factors and mortalities.
> I'm reminded thought that until he had it explained to him he was worried > about the <1% risk of dying because of anaethesia. Then he should love the current risk with modern anaesthesia drugs: 1 in 250,000.
> Perhaps it's right that doctors give such risk information but I'm not at > all sure that it helps a patient to take a pragmatic view of his/her > condition. Actually I think it is quite pragmatic. Hypothetically it removes emotion (and reliance on anecdotal "evidence") from the decision altogether, for better or worse. And even if for no other reason, doctors would get sued constantly if they didn't tell us of the more serious risks and their likelihoods. (I'm surprised not more of us sue after not being told about some of the SEs we face unexpectedly; I guess it's because most of them are ADT-related and subside after tx.)
I.P.
Mary Fisher - 10 Nov 2006 10:38 GMT >> Ah - we call it actuarial statistics. > [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > Then he should love the current risk with modern anaesthesia drugs: 1 in > 250,000. That's what the "<" is about! And it can happen during dentistry or other minor surgeries. He hadn't understood that it wasn't pecular to prostatectomy - we were given a huge amount of information and nobody can take everything in.
>> Perhaps it's right that doctors give such risk information but I'm not at >> all sure that it helps a patient to take a pragmatic view of his/her >> condition. > > Actually I think it is quite pragmatic. Hypothetically it removes emotion Not if it's taken literally.
> (and reliance on anecdotal "evidence") from the decision altogether, for > better or worse. And even if for no other reason, doctors would get sued > constantly if they didn't tell us of the more serious risks and their > likelihoods. That's the reason the information is given.
Mary
NICK - 10 Nov 2006 06:52 GMT > I'm reminded thought that until he had it explained to him he was worried > about the <1% risk of dying because of anaethesia. > Perhaps it's right that doctors give such risk information but I'm not at > all sure that it helps a patient to take a pragmatic view of his/her > condition. I began seeing my former rheumatologist (RD) in 1991. She continued to tell me to wait (for a hip replacement) until I couldn't stand it (pain) any longer.
In August 1999, I told her I was ready.
Her reply was, "Welllllllllllllllllll, it may be too late. The way your neck is fused, the anesthetist could paralize you when you're intubated. But I'll talk to them and see if it could be done."
Next appointment, Novermber 1999, she had not talked to anyone. I had collected some notes from the arthritis support group and began asking questions.
The bitch's reply was, "I KNOW WHAT'S BEST FOR YOU!"
Goodbye to the whore.
I found a new RD by February 2000 who took one look at my X-rays and sent me to a surgeon. I had the hip replacement in July. Told I would be in the hospital 2 weeks and in rehab 4 to 6 weeks.
I was home in 12 days. Drove the nurses nuts, walking up and down the halls, strengthening the new hip, 8 to 12 hours a day. I was supposed to have been out of bed only for PT and OT - perhaps an hour a day - but I never saw them after day #2. So I took up walking...and walking...and walking. <g>
Mary Fisher - 09 Nov 2006 11:55 GMT >> the path report is worse than the biopsy. >> the cancer was 4% of the prostate. [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > "not worth living". (Socrates: "the unexamined life is not worth > living"). I couldn't agree more!
> I have to say I love this group but some here are so obsessed with data > relating to this illness that in order to remain here I have to skip > through most of the specific stats and numbers because if not I would > go crazy. Same here.
> And anyway, after J's surgery, I didn't really care about > knowing every particular detail of his tumor and what his prospects [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > predict their own life expectancy to a T. It makes me freak out just > to think about it. Yes. It doesn't take buses into account either :-)
> I would add that there are some types who might want to know > everything but this is not the right approach for a lot of people. > Personalities vary. Indeed they do.
> Also, even if every bit of info were valuable some people are just not > capable of acquiring it before or during illness. For ex. after my > husband was initially dx he was so paralyzed by fear and depression > that it was enough work for me just to keep him going. Spouse wasn't, but as I've said before we've gone the cancer road before. We accept what happens.
I think that some people might be confused between 'recurrence' and 'secondaries' (mets). They are different in character and implications. It might be just my reading of posts of course!
Mary
Alan Meyer - 09 Nov 2006 20:10 GMT I agree with pretty much everything in Leah's post.
We should not allow fear of death to keep us from enjoying life. All of us know from the time we are 6 years old that one day we will die. As children, and often as adults, we cope with that fact by putting it out of our minds. Cancer and other serious diseases make it much more difficult to put it out of our minds. Cancer brings our mortality very clearly into focus.
But very little has really changed for us. With or without cancer, we still have just a finite amount of time left. The challenge that we face is to make the most of that time, to enjoy it to the fullest, to achieve what we want to achieve, to care for our loved ones as best we can, and to contribute to the world we will leave behind as best we can.
While we're alive, let's truly live.
Alan
I.P. Freely - 10 Nov 2006 04:47 GMT > All of us know from the time we are 6 years old that > one day we will die. I wish more of today's teenage drivers, urban skateboarders, etc. AND THEIR PARENTS realized that.
> While we're alive, let's truly live. A valid motto for those who elect to avoid early adjuvant (i.e., preemptive, asymptomatic) ADT.
I.P.
Mary Fisher - 10 Nov 2006 10:40 GMT >> All of us know from the time we are 6 years old that >> one day we will die. [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > >> While we're alive, let's truly live. That's why the urban skateboarders do what they do. I'm full of admiration for them (as well as scared).
Mary
I.P. Freely - 10 Nov 2006 18:11 GMT >> We should not allow fear of death to keep us from enjoying >> life. All of us know from the time we are 6 years old that [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > That's why the urban skateboarders do what they do. I'm full of admiration > for them (as well as scared). Take it from someone who has done that and much more along those lines: they would have far MORE fun if they wore protective gear, and even more yet if they chose more forgiving (i.e., softer) venues. The first thought in my head when I see these absolute FOOLS flying skateboards off rooftops into crowded asphalt parking lots, schussing several flights of concrete and steel staircases, and street lugeing down city streets at night HOPING they correctly timed the traffic light at the bottom of the hill, wearing no more than shorts and tees, is, "Where the hell are/were their parents?" These kids swamp ERs by the tens of thousands, and many of them drive the same way, putting everyone ELSE at risk.
I doubt Alan meant "forget physics and try to maim and/or kill one's self". I suspect he meant something more like, "enjoy sunsets or skiing or a great career rather than spending that time slumped in a chair worrying about a cancer we can do nothing more about."
I.P.
Mary Fisher - 10 Nov 2006 21:00 GMT >>> We should not allow fear of death to keep us from enjoying >>> life. All of us know from the time we are 6 years old that [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > These kids swamp ERs by the tens of thousands, and many of them drive the > same way, putting everyone ELSE at risk. Not the ones in my city. Perhaps they ARE better at it than your youth ...
> I doubt Alan meant "forget physics and try to maim and/or kill one's > self". I suspect he meant something more like, "enjoy sunsets or skiing or > a great career rather than spending that time slumped in a chair worrying > about a cancer we can do nothing more about." I'd agfree with that.
> I.P. I.P. Freely - 11 Nov 2006 00:39 GMT > Perhaps they ARE better at it than your youth ... Youth, schmouth. I still strap on helmet, face cage, and torso armor armor every day I go out to play. If I hadn't done so all these decades, I would never have gotten old enough to get prostate cancer.
I.P.
dave perry - 10 Nov 2006 21:35 GMT At the risk of being Politically Incorrect, the majority of these kids I see in my area are for the most part lowlifes, skateboarding while cutting school, ignoring signs trying to put some control on such activities, endangering pedestrians and even motorists who swerve to avoid them. I don't see anything to admire in that. The only good comes when one of them smashes down on his groin. Might improve the gene pool. Dave Perry
> >> All of us know from the time we are 6 years old that > >> one day we will die. [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > > > Mary Steve Jordan - 10 Nov 2006 22:21 GMT > At the risk of being Politically Incorrect, the majority of these kids > I see in my area are for the most part lowlifes, skateboarding while [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > gene pool. > Snert. Keyboard!
Regards,
Steve J
"Nits Make Lice." --Variously attributed
NICK - 10 Nov 2006 23:47 GMT > At the risk of being Politically Incorrect, the majority of these kids > I see in my area are for the most part lowlifes, skateboarding while > cutting school, ignoring signs trying to put some control on such > activities, endangering pedestrians and even motorists who swerve to > avoid them. Hey, you're describing my community. <G> Are we neighbors?
Steve Kramer - 10 Nov 2006 13:02 GMT > This will probably make me an outcast here but I have concluded that in > terms of QOL after pca treatment it is the "overexamined life that is > "not worth living".
> use, anyway.. What really chills my bones is the nomogram, just the > idea that somebody would actually want to sit down and placidly try to > predict their own life expectancy to a T. It makes me freak out just > to think about it. Ha!! That doesn't make you an outcast. That makes you a woman! Actually, more than that -- Jon's woman. You don't want to know his chances or is time. You are wrapped up, as you should be, in the emotion of his mortality.
He, on the other hand, when he sidles up to his mortality (which will likely be awhile) will want to know exactly when so that he can prepare for it -- in most cases so he can prepare for your well-being.
> I wanted to bring up some issues with Jon and so I mentioned this 35% > stat to him the other day and he was like a deer staring into the > headlights. He just had had no idea. If you must know I felt like a > murderer afterwards, he was so down for a couple of days and I thought > maybe telling him had served no purpose. He is just not ready yet. It didn't hurt to put it out there. It gives him something to wrap his arms around. But, I would not push it further for awhile.
> I suggested to J.that there were a couple of things that he might > want to try in terms of diet. Take him out walking too. I cannot tell you how many benefits that has afforded me. I am sure it is helping me fight the cancer (and ruptured disk). It helps me sleep, digest, ward off colds, heal when I have medical procedures, etc. But, it also gives me time to think and, when I'm with someone, time to talk. It provides me a view of God's gifts (or the natural consequence of the Big Bang) on a daily basis that I've seen sparingly before.
> And, In his case, J. already prays > every day so I told him to do it double-hard! (BTW I think prayer is > a healing exercise and you don't even have to be relig. to get > something out of it. For example: I enjoy reading Psalm book even > though my religious practice is now mostly vestigial). Ugh! I hate the psalms. But, I have to admit that I've typed a few out for my bulletin board in my office. Psalm 108 (some list it as 109) for my boss, but the rest for me.
> Also, even if every bit of info were valuable some people are just not > capable of acquiring it before or during illness. For ex. after my > husband was initially dx he was so paralyzed by fear and depression > that it was enough work for me just to keep him going. Check the archives, m'lady. I think you will find that the initial posts by almost everyone here, if it occurred at or near dx, were marked by fear, depression and paralization.
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Mary Fisher - 10 Nov 2006 16:23 GMT >> This will probably make me an outcast here but I have concluded that in >> terms of QOL after pca treatment it is the "overexamined life that is [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > likely be awhile) will want to know exactly when so that he can prepare > for it -- in most cases so he can prepare for your well-being. How do you know what he will want, just becasue yo're another man?
Not all men are the same.
Nor are all women.
>> And, In his case, J. already prays >> every day so I told him to do it double-hard! (BTW I think prayer is >> a healing exercise and you don't even have to be relig. to get >> something out of it. According to research women with breast cancer who are prayed for have a better rate of survival than those who aren't prayed for. And the first category includes those who don't know they're being prayed for.
I'll pray for your husband.
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> Check the archives, m'lady. I think you will find that the initial posts > by almost everyone here, if it occurred at or near dx, were marked by > fear, depression and paralization. "Almost". That's not everyone, my man.
My husband's diagnosis wasn't marked by fear or depression, I've no idea what "paralization" is.
callalily - 11 Nov 2006 17:02 GMT Hello Steve,
> "callalily" <lfcjjk@aol.com> wrote in message > > > Ha!! That doesn't make you an outcast. That makes you a woman! Actually, > more than that -- Jon's woman. You don't want to know his chances or is > time. You are wrapped up, as you should be, in the emotion of his > mortality. You really got me in the emotional cojones there. This is so true, it makes me want to cry. I appreciate someone knowing what it feels like. I have already decided that if "biochemical failure" should occur I am going to kill myself first. Anyone have a cyanide pill?
He, on the other hand, when he sidles up to his mortality (which will likely
> be awhile) will want to know exactly when so that he can prepare for it -- > in most cases so he can prepare for your well-being. He was out of work for a while and had to cancel his life ins. policy so that we could pay the mortgage. I wonder if it's possible for a person w/2 cas to get life ins.? Also, he would not want to know Exactly he would want to know Approximately is my guess.
> > I wanted to bring up some issues with Jon and so I mentioned this 35% > > stat to him the other day and he was like a deer staring into the [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > something to wrap his arms around. But, I would not push it further for > awhile. I do not want to discourage people and say that he is down. He is doing quite well and only I am the one thinking about the pca. He was down for a couple of days and then got up.
> > I suggested to J.that there were a couple of things that he might > > want to try in terms of diet. [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > consequence of the Big Bang) on a daily basis that I've seen sparingly > before. You are absolutely right. We already walk a lot because we live in the city and we have no car. The problem is that J. likes to walk in the park (we have two big ones, Central and Riverside) -- I guess to look at god's gifts -- but I find that boring. I like walking on Broadway where there are people, noise, things to look at. So he walks alone in the park.
> > And, In his case, J. already prays > > every day so I told him to do it double-hard! (BTW I think prayer is [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > my bulletin board in my office. Psalm 108 (some list it as 109) for my > boss, but the rest for me. What is there to hate about the Psalms? Is something wrong with psalm 23 except that people associate it with funerals? Try 91, 27and 86. And by the way, its just a technicality, but, I am not on "speaking terms with God" so I read but don't pray out loud. I find the old trusty psalm book the most comforting thing to read when I'm down. It is so full of raw emotion, first despair then hope. (Also good is Rilke).
> > Also, even if every bit of info were valuable some people are just not > > capable of acquiring it before or during illness. For ex. after my [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > almost everyone here, if it occurred at or near dx, were marked by fear, > depression and paralization. Of course I believe you. And in his case it was double jeopardy (he had already had ca). My point was that he was not in a position to help much w/medical decisions.
Thanks for the lovely note even though it broke my heart.
Leah
Steve Kramer - 11 Nov 2006 23:02 GMT > I have already decided that if "biochemical failure" should occur I am > going to kill myself first. Anyone have a cyanide pill? I sure would be disappointed in you if you didn't stick around to assist Jon in his journey. But, if you want cyanide, you'd probably have to go to Oregon.
> He was out of work for a while and had to cancel his life ins. policy > so that we could pay the mortgage. I wonder if it's possible for a > person w/2 cas to get life ins.? Also, he would not want to know > Exactly he would want to know Approximately is my guess. Yeah, that is true. No one can really know exactly. I can still remember getting called from the hospital and being told, "You'd better come in now. Your dad has about 20 minutes left." I think it was three days later that he died.
> I do not want to discourage people and say that he is down. He is > doing quite well and only I am the one thinking about the pca. He was > down for a couple of days and then got up. That's how I was. I'm not saying it's bad or good.
> So he walks alone in > the park. Me too.
> What is there to hate about the Psalms? Is something wrong with psalm > 23 except that people associate it with funerals? Try 91, 27and 86. I obviously like some psalms. I just hate getting to the psalms when I read through the Bible. They're boring!
> And by the way, its just a technicality, but, I am not on "speaking > terms with God" so I read but don't pray out loud. "But, when thou prayest, go into thy room, and closing thy door, pray to thy Father in secret." --Matthew 6:6
MAS - 09 Nov 2006 02:57 GMT All it takes is for one cancerous microfiber to enter the bloodstream and at some point there is a re-occurrence.\ And how many blood networks are within the prostate capsule?
gourd dancer
> the path report is worse than the biopsy. > the cancer was 4% of the prostate. [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > > gary ron - 09 Nov 2006 03:41 GMT > All it takes is for one cancerous microfiber to enter the bloodstream and at > some point there is a re-occurrence.\ And how many blood networks are within > the prostate capsule? Tumor DNA can be detected in the serum of all men with PCa (at least in the study that was conducted). Men with more aggresive PCa have higher serum tumor DNA loads then men with less aggresive disease. My guess is that it takes more than circulating tumor cells to cause a recurrence. I suspect that a strong immune system can help reduce the post-treatment level of circulating tumor DNA. Also, studies have shown that other biological factors are required to be present to enable the circulating tumor cells to survive at a remote location. So again, any thing your body can do to lessen the concentration of these factors will also serve to stave off recurrence...Best wishes and good health, ron
Mary Fisher - 09 Nov 2006 11:58 GMT >> All it takes is for one cancerous microfiber to enter the bloodstream and >> at [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > the study that was conducted). Men with more aggresive PCa have higher > serum tumor DNA loads then men with less aggresive disease. Not always.
Mary
ron - 09 Nov 2006 14:46 GMT > "ron" <oitbso@yahoo.com> wrote in message > > Tumor DNA can be detected in the serum of all men with PCa (at least in > > the study that was conducted). Men with more aggresive PCa have higher > > serum tumor DNA loads then men with less aggresive disease. Mary Fisher responded
> Not always. The detection of tumor DNA in serum that I am referring to was done in a research study, it is not a common or widely available test. What are you referring to, more information please...ron
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