I've been wondering about this too.  I'm 23 months post-treatment
(that's the rad part. I'm about 18 months post ADT) and while my
erection and orgasms are improving, it's still not very satisfying.  I
gotta really get in the mood to get going.

I'm probably doing better than those, low-libido, non-orgasmic, lower
third of the bell curve, women who sometimes wonder if they're missing
anything in life.

They are.

There are women out there who enjoy and crave sex.  One girlfriend,
with runway model legs and movie actress looks, said that she "lives
for her orgasms", "was afraid to get married because that would tie her
down and restrict her sexual range", and she had one rule in life, "if
a guy asks for sex,she always gives it to him."

She had mixed feelings on marriage and said that, "at least then, she
could have sex every day."    When we dated, we only got together once
a week or two.  Then it was a couple times in the evening, in the
middle of the night, and another couple times in the morning.   I'd
call her at work the next day and she'd say that she was "walking
funny" in a heavy, breathy voice.

Post treatment, even when goin' strong, it's not great.  And the
finish?  It's only OK.

That's a lot better than I was doing the other year.  8 months of
Lupron.  Nothing worked for over a year.  As the doc told me, "the good
news is that YOU won't care."

I think, and this is my opinion not scientific fact, that RP and RT
leaves the wiring scrambled.   RP seems worse that RT but as a
rad-grad, the sensations aren't right.

Sometimes I have a urethral burning at orgasm.  I can imagine how some
might interpret this as a stronger orgasm.

The other day, after reminiscing hard about ancient times with that
older, more experienced woman, the 30 year old slim blonde, very
pretty, grad student with perky breasts, the small amount of
semen-dribble was tinged pink.

The next morning I pee'd very light pink and one flake of a blood clot.

I have discussed this with the Rad-doc and he felt that this was a sign
of the 18 month to 20 year Rad induced prostate die-off, a good
indicator.

I wonder what happened to that grad coed, she'd be, what, 70 years old
now!!!   That was almost FORTY years ago.  I guess when you're an
inexperienced 20 year old boy and an old lady of 30 says, "Get behind
me.  I'll bend over on the bed  You'll like this. You'll be able to
watch yourself going in and out."  That makes an impression.

Anyway, practice makes perfect, I'm, er, pulling for everyone.  We
might be old men but there are women out there who want us to recover.
Get better, treat them right.  If Willie won't cooperate, the RX is a
rough wet tongue applied slowly to first the left labia, then the
right.  Don't rush this.

-kh