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juniper - 01 Feb 2006 16:03 GMT I am at work and don't have much time, but I am so frustrated and don't know what to think. It is all very well and good for everyone to recommend going to only the best doctors, like 6, in the country. Well, its impossible for those few experts to treat every prostate cancer patient. If we try to go to Sloan Ketterling or wherever, it will bankrupt us. We can probably get $50K if we sold our house, maybe that much if we cleared out our retirements, maybe that much more could be put on VISAs. I doubt that $150K would pay for treatment at one of those places, much less the travel and motels and whatever. I'd have to quit my job or else send Steve off alone, which I wouldn't do. So this means bankruptcy and no income (he does have disability insurance which would give us roughly 40% of our current income).
BUT, if we don't go to one of these experts or masters or whatever they're called, it puts me in the position of giving the impression that Steve's life is less important. Well, what a load of crap. I believe it should be possible to find good doctors in Arizona, but the pressure (and it is pressure) from newsgroups, books, the internet is to go only to those few doctors, or you are making a big mistake that will permanently screw up whatever is left of your pathetic little life.
This is bullshit. To be responsible, you have to do what 99% of PCa patients cannot possibly achieve. Obviously, one or two dozen doctors cannot treat the 200,000 cases of PCa a year. Still, the message is loud and clear throughout every communication with everyone. So here I am, trying to find an Arizona surgeon, and feeling all the while that I am actively harming my husbands health and not caring about what he needs to get well. Worse, this is a subtle communication BETWEEN US that I don't think he is valuable.
I don't think this is fair or right. I think that most people would intuitively understand that if they could see the people that write the books and do the videos, it would be great. But PCa survivors, doctors and authors hammer it in so loudly, longly and consistently that in this case, you're left with the feeling that you are committing suicide or murder or lifelong disability if you don't go to one of them.
Try it. Ask someone: who would you go to locally? ANYWHERE you are, they will tell you "oh, Scardino's the best." Well, hello, I KNEW that. Why doesn't someone say, "this doctor has a good bedside manner, but that doctor is a good surgeon, and this other doctor does a lot of surgeries but..." Hell, no. Its Johns Hopkins or just go commit suicde and save yourself the hassel. No one even says "I went to so-and-so and it was good (or bad)."
I am hoping for some supportive responses, I know I'm really upset and please forgive me. This is my reality: that unless I somehow get my husband treatment from a nationally-known doctor who is famous for his skills, I am basically telling him he doesn't matter. It is a nasty, nasty situation to be in.
laurel
Sandy K. - 01 Feb 2006 16:45 GMT > I am at work and don't have much time, but I am so frustrated and don't > know what to think. It is all very well and good for everyone to [quoted text clipped - 49 lines] > > laurel First off - do you have medical insurance? If so, then your actual out of pocket should be reasonable. If not, then it's going to cost a lot no matter where you have the surgery done. Second - FYI - I was fortunate enough to have Dr. Scardino perform my surgery. My brother, 5 years older than me, was diagnosed with PCa right after I was diagnosed. We both live in NJ, Sloane is only a 45 minute ride from my home - so it seemed to be a reasonable option for me. My brother chose NOT to go to Sloane for treatment - he went to Morristown Memorial. Guess what? His surgery & hospital stay was charged out at exactly the rate same as mine. The insurance companies have made arrangements with the various medical centers around the country and seem to have set consistent rates across the board. Don't want to travel? Fine - I'm am sure that there are many good doctors near where you live - just find one that has had a lot of experience with the procedure your husband is going for. You may want to check with the Prostate Cancer Foundation to get recommendations for docs local to you. Do what is best for you & your husband. BTW - although my brother & I had different surgeons and different post-operative treatment -we're both doing fine. I just felt more comfortable going to Sloane - it was the right choice for me.
Best of luck to the both you, Sandy K.
Leonard Evens - 01 Feb 2006 16:57 GMT > I am at work and don't have much time, but I am so frustrated and don't > know what to think. It is all very well and good for everyone to [quoted text clipped - 47 lines] > skills, I am basically telling him he doesn't matter. It is a nasty, > nasty situation to be in. You don't have to bankrupt yourself by travelling to New York or Baltimore to be treated. Perhaps if you would tell us what kind of insurance or resources you have available, and what doctors are available to you, we could give you more explicit advice. You can also check out local doctors' qualifications. Look them up on the web and see where they did their training. Also ask them about their experience in the relevant procedure and what sorts of results they have, including side effect, for a case like your husband's. There are lots of retirees in Arizona, so there certainly is a market for doctors treating prostate cancer. I would be very surprised if there weren't several urologists trained at major medical centers under the stars you can't afford. At one point, it was possible to call Dr. Walsh's office and ask for a referral to a local doctor they know. Sloan Kettering may also provide a similar service.
When I was diagnosed with prostate cancer, I was covered by a Humana HMO, and unless I wanted to pay for it myself, I was restricted to local physicians. Fortunately, I was in an area well supplied with good doctors, and at the time Humana included some of them in its network. I just went to the doctor recommended by my primary care physician. I checked where he was trained and questioned him about his experience. I was satisfied that he would do about as good a job curing my cancer as anyone else. I was convinced that with him doing the surgery, the chances of permanent incontinence were too small to be concerned about. Impotence was another matter. He told me that, given my age, the chances of not being permenently impotent were about 50 percent. Had I arranged to have Patrick Walsh of some other star doi the surgery (at my own expense), I estimated that I might increase the likelihood to perhaps 60 percent. Given all the undertainties, it didn't seem worth the effort. I understood that I might be impotent, but that it also could be treated. So I stuck with him. As things turned out, I was impotent for 18 months, during which time I used a pump with satisfactory results, and I regained erections, albeit not up to what I had before surgery, after that.
At the same time, a friend who lived in California, was diagnosed with a case similar to mine is several ways and different in others. the surgeons avilable to him through Kaiser, his health plan, wern't at all optimistic about doing nerve sparing surgery. At our age aat the time, 67, the choice between radiation and surgery is close. It turned out that he has access through his inurance plan to a very good radiation oncologist, so he chose radiation. He seems to be doing pretty well also.
> laurel John Loomis - 01 Feb 2006 17:32 GMT Hello Juniper, I am sorry for your problems with financing RP. Does your work, or husbands work provide insurance? I have Blue Cross Insurance and I am self employed. It is very expensive. I just figured it cost about 11,800 per year, with part pay, etc.......and is going up. So, I imagine you do not have insurance and that is why you have a problem financing RP. I was diagnosed in 1999. I was 49 then. Scared yes, seeing a local Dr. yes. He was a Urologist. That Dr. frightened the heck out of me and was already set to have external beam radiation at a local hospital. I started reading and found this news group. I decided to go to "The Big City" San Francisco..I went to see 2 prostate cancer specialists.....I ended up @ Stanford Hospital with Dr. James D. Brooks. He is a wonderful Dr. and said he would help me out. They did take my insurance and see that may be where you are having problems. So, I can ask my Dr. James D. Brooks if he knows of a goo RP surgeon in Arizona. He may know one close by or within driving time. Did you look up prostate cancer specialist....Arizona? on the internet? The hospital stay is 2 days, the surgery is for 3 or so hours. You drive home in 2 days. You may be able to work out a payment schedule with a Dr. you choose also. I hope I have helped a bit. If you want to ask any questions feel free. Wish You the Best John Loomis
>I am at work and don't have much time, but I am so frustrated and don't > know what to think. It is all very well and good for everyone to [quoted text clipped - 49 lines] > > laurel hepburn2006@gmail.com - 02 Feb 2006 18:45 GMT > Hello Juniper, > I am sorry for your problems with financing RP. Does your work, or > husbands work provide insurance? > So, I imagine you do not have insurance and that is why you have a > problem financing RP. We do have insurance, for Arizona only. My frustration was that I had the message that there were only a few acceptable doctors, and none in Arizona. These replys have helped.
> I was diagnosed in 1999. I was 49 then. Scared yes, seeing a local Dr. > yes. He was a Urologist. That Dr. frightened the heck out of me and was > already set to have external beam radiation at a local hospital. I started Yes, we were in a cattle chute headed towards automatic surgery. It may end up being surgery, but this "frighten them into your plan" idea is not my idea of a reasoned decision.
> you are having problems. So, I can ask my Dr. James D. Brooks if he knows > of a goo RP surgeon in Arizona. He may know one close by or within driving I would REALLY appreciate that. Of course I have looked many times on the Internet. And can find sites for Arizona prostate surgeons. But they don't publish any real data on their websites (I wouldn't expect that, but it would be nice.) And of course they won't say, "we're not as good as so-and-so". No comparasions, a website is a marketing tool.
SO please do ask your doctor if he can recommend any. If I had a limited number of names, I could try to get more info. Of course we could just go see every doctor in the plan. I think it is around 170. (joke) Hopefully we can get a few names then get more info about them. Or maybe one name from several sources....
Sandy K. - 02 Feb 2006 21:34 GMT > > Hello Juniper, > > I am sorry for your problems with financing RP. Does your work, or [quoted text clipped - 28 lines] > (joke) Hopefully we can get a few names then get more info about them. > Or maybe one name from several sources.... Contact the Prostate Cancer Foundation for Dr. recomendations. www.prostatecancerfoundation.org
Good luck, Sandy K.
NickySantoro - 03 Feb 2006 16:09 GMT >> Hello Juniper, >> I am sorry for your problems with financing RP. Does your work, or [quoted text clipped - 28 lines] >(joke) Hopefully we can get a few names then get more info about them. > Or maybe one name from several sources.... FWIW, this site lists places that use the Da Vinci robotic technique. It might provide some leads to major facilities with considerable experience with PCa surgery even if you don't choose to consider robotic. http://www.davinciprostatectomy.com/hospitals.html
FWIW YMMV
Claude - 01 Feb 2006 17:37 GMT >I am at work and don't have much time, but I am so frustrated and don't > know what to think. It is all very well and good for everyone to [quoted text clipped - 49 lines] > > laurel Laurel,
I had my RP done by Dr. Lipson in Canandaigua, NY. Never heard of him? That's the point. He is an excellent urological surgeon, half of a two doc practise, who has done a large number of RP's with excellent results. I was continent within 48 hours and, despite losing one of my nerves, have erectile function. I personally spoke with a number of his RP patients and all but one were continent and functioning (some with the help of Viagra) in the other way. The point of this is that there are *lots* of excellent urological surgeons all over the country, not associated with Johns Hopkins. Experience in the procedure is the key. And if you have one of the locals do it, rather than one of the big names, he (or she) will likely be the one wielding the knife, not a resident. I also liked having the surgery done in our local hospital, a 10 minute drive from my home. Though my margins were not clear, I am presently almost 4 years past the surgery and still with undetectable PSA's. Your right--This you *gotta* have a big name is bullshit. Claude
jhhtexas@ieee.org - 01 Feb 2006 18:01 GMT > >I am at work and don't have much time, but I am so frustrated and don't > > know what to think. It is all very well and good for everyone to [quoted text clipped - 67 lines] > undetectable PSA's. Your right--This you *gotta* have a big name is > bullshit. Claude I chose an experienced urologic surgeon at a major teaching hospital -- UCLA, as they accepted Medicare just as my local hospital would have. If you don't have health insurance, a major medical center (like UCLA) usually has financial assistance programs that could allow you can get an RRP done much cheaper than at a community hospital. Don't assume that a well-known medical center will be more expensive.
I.P. Freely - 01 Feb 2006 21:24 GMT "juniper" accurately lamented
> Well, its impossible for those few experts to treat every prostate > cancer patient. If we try to go to Sloan Ketterling or wherever, it > will bankrupt us.
> BUT, if we don't go to one of these experts or masters or whatever > they're called, it puts me in the position of giving the impression [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > this case, you're left with the feeling that you are committing suicide > or murder or lifelong disability if you don't go to one of them. I've got health coverage coming out my wazoo. Surgeries cost me less out of pocket than shoes or milk on an annual basis, no matter where I get it. On top of that, I don't think my wife and I will be ABLE to outspend our pensions and savings before we die. But did I even CONSIDER Scardino or Walsh Lange or S-K or Mayo Clinic? No. I did what I'll bet is 1)98.648% as good and 2) FAR simpler overall: I 3) picked a nearby teaching and research hospital, 4) checked out its emphasis on prostate cancer, 5) found a surgeon/ onc/ researcher/ medical professor I liked and who said all the right things, 6) rejected his offer of my choice of any physician on the staff, and said, 7) "Let's do it."
Why?
1. I doubt a surgeon who's done thousands of RPs is inherently better than one who has done merely a thousand or two. Innate skill counts, too, and if you can't get it right after one thousand, the next thousand ain't gonna overcome your ineptitude.
2. We considered all the visits before and after surgery in choosing a hospital. We have a high-end cancer RT center 10 minutes from home and three very good hospitals within 20 minutes, but we're also just three hours from Seattle with its huge selection of medical centers for more depth and breadth. We've driven to Seattle (220 miles each way) 6-8 times now, for all sorts of consultations. We're down to occasional long phone calls now to discuss my case, relevant trials, new adjuvant tx options, etc., with more face-to-face visits lined up the minute my PSA resurfaces or just any time I want to talk face to face. It's also very reassuring to know that a whole team of oncologists is STILL discussing ME every time my situation or adjuvant treatment technology changes, thanks to my doc who's on that team and still calling me at home 15 months post-op. Is Walsh or Scardino gonna do that?
3. Teaching hospitals are the cream of the crop. One of mine's specialties is PC, there are several other related highly rated medical centers in Seattle, and they often work together. If I want a CT/PET scan to rule out mets before accepting adjuvant RT, a state-of-the-art CT/PET scanner is right down the road. Last time my doc phoned me, Caller ID said he was at that center. Big-name new cancer meds? They're made and tested "down the block". I'd have no reservations about walking in their door and asking whether my case warrants trying out their latest promising med. I presume most big cities have that depth and breadth of facilities available.
4. You local doc or some website clicks should indicate how active and reputable a particular hospital is in PC treatment, and what collateral facilities may be available if necessary. Similar checking into my particular candidate surgeon's background also told me a lot, such as experience (several RPs a week and teaches the procedure), reputation in the uro community, education (S-K internship and post-doc for , and attends national medical seminars), etc.
5. The "right things" for me included number of RPs he's performed as well as details on that last paragraph.
6. He said I could choose any physician I wanted, including the university surgery dept head, Lange, who had an RP, and who authored "PC for Dummies" along with the whole UW & VA oncology staff. I didn't need him; by now I was duly impressed with my guy.
7. They were ready to operate quite soon, having compacted many consultations with several specialists into a very short time span. Their cooperative, eager spirit, from nurses to surgeons, had impressed me from the very first time I phoned the uro phone number cold and said, "I've got Gleason 8 PC. What does your hospital have to offer me?" That call got me the OR nurse who coordinates all PC surgery and lasted over half an hour, and when the oncologist called back the next afternoon, we talked for another 45 minutes, checking each other out.
By that time I didn't need no steenkin' Walsh to feel confident I was in good hands.
And my entire expense so far? Great Seattle dining and a Super 8 motel for the wife while I was in recovery. (I could sleep and eat free in the hospital if I didn't take the wife along, but I ain't eatin' hospital food in a city like Seattle.)
Which brings up medical insurance. I gather you guys have none? I can't imagine entering our age brackets without it. My medical jacket runs into two very thick packages not even counting half a dozen surgeries (my RP was a low-risk pajama party compared to one of them). Sure, I had military care for 20 years and remnants of that now, so the cost is low (under a grand a year), but without that I'd have bought my own insurance at "list price" for exactly the concerns you've expressed. My medical bills would have probably hit seven figures by now without medical coverage, and I'm just STARTING to fall apart.
I.P.
juniper - 02 Feb 2006 05:15 GMT > "juniper" accurately lamented > > Which brings up medical insurance. I gather you guys have none? I can't This is great--all your answers. I am only half through. We do have health insurance, but it only covers doctors in Arizona. Not all, but a good selection. But if we tried to go to UCLA or New York, we would have to pay all of it ourselves.
I have been reading about PCa since the first PSA result on 12/18, and I must have missed the posts like this. I really appreciate the message that it is possible and responsible to get good medical care elsewhere. I may have been reading things wrong, but if I was, you guys have set me straighter. Thank you. laurel
I.P. Freely - 02 Feb 2006 16:34 GMT "juniper" wrote > you guys have set me straighter. Thank you. laurel
Now if you ladies could just return the favor, we'd be even. ;-(
I.P.
judamd@aol.com - 01 Feb 2006 23:07 GMT I think you are unnecessarily flogging yourself. There are plenty of good urologists all over the country including Arizona, every one of whom can provide excellent care. We see an occasional horror story about some quack mutilating a patient, but many of these are "doctors" who also do nose jobs, hair transplants, boob lifts, and will cut your toenails too while waiting for the anesthesia to kick in with their cousin acting as assistant surgeon. They often work out of a storefront "clinica" in a poor part of town. Any surgeon operating in a real hospital has the same many years of training as any other surgeon, has passed the same exams, is board certified, etc., etc.. Sure, some are better than others and a few have to take the exams a second time to pass but any doctor can (and does) have screwups, even the gurus. Usually the best physicians are the ones who truly care about their patients and who will make the extra effort to do the best they can do no matter where they ranked in their graduating class or where they hang their shingle. What you need to do is get referrals from other physicians such as your family doctor (who would they go to if it were their prostate?) and interview at least half a dozen. People end up going with the one who seems to be the most caring, has the best "bedside manner", the one who has a busy office, the one who does many of these surgeries each month, and the one who claims to have good statistics. You do the best you can do given your resources - both financial and emotional. Our local county hospital (Oakland, CA) has some of the best doctors around. They often look a little hippy-dippy, coming to work in sandals with their hair tied back into a ponytail (the men that is) but they do damn good work inspite of their often limited financial resources - just about as good as anybody - so don't feel you're shortchanging your husband just because your doctor's name isn't Walsh.
If you have no insurance, you may want to investigate a new phenomenon, some of the large, brand spanking new hospitals in India and Thailand that cater to folks just like you from all over the world. The facilities are absolute top of the line, all the doctors are American or European trained, they all speak English (unlike some in this country), you are given a registered nurse as your private attendant (you're lucky to see a registered nurse for more than a few minutes each day around here), and after your hospital stay you spend another week or so recovering at a nearby resort. The total cost for two including airfare and resort is about 20% of what it would cost in the good old US of A just for the surgery. Many of our x-rays and MRI's are already outsourced to someone in Asia and we don't even know it - with results every bit as good as those from the inhouse radiologists. I'm not recommending this option, it's a mighty big step to take and you will really flog yourself if it doesn't turn out well, but you might look into it and tuck it away in the back of your mind just in case.
No matter what road you take, it will be a crap shoot with regard to side effects and possible recurrence. Most doctors and hospitals hover around the same statistics, all else being equal (no cherry picking, for instance). I saw some figures a few years ago with respect to major heart surgery where something like 5% of the patients died in the best hospitals and 10% died in the worst hospitals. Does that mean the best is twice as good as the worst? I don't know, they don't seem much different to me. Is 80% erectile function with Viagra as reported by Walsh better than 50% without Viagra as reported by some other doctors? Probably not.
When it is all over and your husband is fully recovered, you will have picked the best doctor.
All the luck to you and your husband. Dave Perry
Alan Meyer - 02 Feb 2006 23:00 GMT > ... Usually the best physicians are the ones who truly care > about their patients and who will make the extra effort to do > the best they can do ... I can't help but agree with this. I can't always tell when one doctor knows more science or more technique than another, but all of us have learned to tell the difference between a person who cares and is committed to what he or she is doing, and one who isn't.
One doctor I went to did a digital rectal exam in 2 seconds, found nothing, hurt me going in and out, told me I would be a fool to get radiation instead of surgery, and worked me through his office at high speed.
Another one did a careful exam, found problems that the first didn't, and spent over an hour answering questions. She's the one who I got treatment from (radiation) and I'm very happy with the results.
> ... get referrals from other physicians such as your family > doctor (who would they go to if it were their prostate?)... That sounds like a good way to start looking.
I.P.'s idea of checking out a teaching hospital is also a good way.
> ... People end up going with the one who seems to be the most > caring, has the best "bedside manner", the one who has a busy > office, the one who does many of these surgeries each month, > and the one who claims to have good statistics. ... In effect, "bedside manner" was a key criterion for me.
I'll tell what is really horrible - to go to a famous cancer center a thousand miles away and then have problems afterwards. That's the worst of both worlds. You spend the money for the "best" treatment and find out that it didn't work out for you and you can't easily get any followup.
I presume that happens less often at the great cancer centers than at other ones, but it definitely does happen. A friend of mine got out of surgery at Johns Hopkins and, a month afterwards, he still can't sit down without pain and one of his legs is numb. S**t happens, and it can happen at Hopkins or Sloan-Kettering or M.D. Anderson as well as anywhere else.
Good luck.
Alan
juniper - 04 Feb 2006 03:06 GMT > > ... Usually the best physicians are the ones who truly care > > about their patients and who will make the extra effort to do [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > cares and is committed to what he or she is doing, and one who > isn't. This is for sure. We saw Dr Ondreyco this week, and it was like being on another planet compared to our 'cattle chute' experience at Mayo. Maybe I'll post about it some day.
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> > ... get referrals from other physicians such as your family > > doctor (who would they go to if it were their prostate?)... > > That sounds like a good way to start looking. We could ask the family doctor for more referrals. He did refer us to the one urologist in town who (from what I could find) has an 'interest' in prostate cancer. That doctor is, however, a general urologist. I am pretty sure we would want treatment from someone who does PCa day in and day out.
Its a drag to go to Phoenix, but even if we found one good doctor here, what about the rest of the team? I didn't even try. It might be bad enough to go out of town for treatment, but if we saw a doctor in town then did not choose to get treatment from him, we would get a reputation and that would be bad. Its bigger than it used to be, but its still a small town. And anyway, stuff like the endorectal MRI cannot even be done up here. Do they send people with PSAs over 20 to Scottsdale? Or do they just 'make do' with what they have up here? I don't know, it just didn't seem like a good idea to start down that local path.
Dr Ondreyco is an exception (to the 'PCa-day-in-and-day-out' statement), but she has knowledge/experience with PCa, and also she has excellent experience with chemo and breast cancer (in some ways similar to PCa). Since it's looking like chemo has been the unappreciated stepchild in PCa treatment, for no good reason, I wanted a physician who had real knowledge there to put into the treatment-decision mix. Also, she is strongly dedicated to a team approach. She has many other qualities, such as a relationship with Scholz' clinic, willingness to say "I don't know" (when she does, she gets the answer in minutes, literally), and extreme caring very well done. (Some humor, lots of information-gathering, lots of information-giving.) Plus a nice surprise was the quality of her staff. They are pros also.
So she is our hematologist/oncologist. Grado has been recommended several times, for expertise and caring, plus he has the best equipment (no pun intended y'all), plus his office helped us get tests ordered and such even though we had not yet been to see him. So we have some personal experience. We are looking forward to meeting him.
We have so many more resources (2 good doctors instead of none; staging tests on order) than we had 2 weeks ago, it almost feels like we have no problems at all. The MRI is scheduled for exactly 6 weeks after the biopsy and we don't see any reason to rush down there to see doctors when we won't even be able to stage before then. So, although Ondreyco wants us to have seen the other 2 doctors already, we're waiting till the MRI and putting it all into one 2-day trip. I hope she doesn't fire us over this. She's pretty cool.
> I'll tell what is really horrible - to go to a famous cancer > center a thousand miles away and then have problems afterwards. > That's the worst of both worlds. You spend the money for the > "best" treatment and find out that it didn't work out for you and > you can't easily get any followup. Excellent point.
Glassman - 01 Feb 2006 23:53 GMT > I am at work and don't have much time, but I am so frustrated and don't > know what to think. It is all very well and good for everyone to [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > will bankrupt us. We can probably get $50K if we sold our house, maybe > that much if we cleared out our retirements, maybe that much more could Looks like you have no health insurance. Start contacting human resources at all your area hospitals. Tell them your situation, and let them help you. Almost every doc in the world does SOME pro bono work. It's tax deductable for them. Even broke guys get surgery. As to the doc... relax there are thousands of good qualified Urologists all over the country that can get this done. It's not like you're going to a blind butcher. Start doing the legwork, and stop feeling sorry for yourselves. If he was diagnosed early there's a good chance he'll be just fine.
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Tom - 02 Feb 2006 04:38 GMT I'll just second what others have said. You don't need a big name. There are uros all over who do great work. I live in Georgia and had surgery 4 months ago locally. I am VERY pleased with the outcome. I married a RN 3 years ago and have learned a lot about how the medical community. Primary care docs see patients for years after surgery. They know who's good and who isn't. If you know anyone in the AZ medical community have them ask around. If you know someone who knows someone have them ask around. If you know someone who knows etc. I'll bet AZ is a great place to find a PCa surgeon. All the best.
Tom
Justin Case - 02 Feb 2006 17:56 GMT : I am at work and don't have much time, but I am so frustrated and don't : know what to think. It is all very well and good for everyone to : recommend going to only the best doctors, like 6, in the country. <Remainder snipped>
Laurel, I live in New Mexico, probably in a smaller town than you, and my surgeon was recommended (on the basis of a 28.4 PSA) by my personal physician who knew to whom he was sending me. The PSA was scary enough and the biopsy was certainly no fun (and confirmed all our suspicions) and surgery, RRP, performed within the week. Prior to the urologist's examination I didn't know this man, but trusted my doctor's recommendation because I trusted him.
Turns out, this urologist was formerly an army officer who treated many men at Fort Bliss, Texas, before retirement from the army and he was the most considerate, compassionate, and knowledgeable surgeon I could have hoped to find. He followed up consistently, made further recommendations (radiation was eventually required), and is still following my case after about four years.
Maybe it's an advantage for me that I'm a Christian and depend on the kind of guidance that I receive from God. It's a discussion I prefer not to go into right now, but I never even thought twice about accepting what was being offered. I hadn't read anything about prostate cancer before this, never looked at this newsgroup, never even talked with anyone on a personal basis, and I certainly didn't travel out of town (Las Cruces) to New York or Los Angeles, or Boston, or any of those other places where the "experts" live and perform their surgeries.
In short, do you trust your family doctor or personal physician? What does he or she tell you? Is there more than one urologist in your vicinity? Do you have an US TOO chapter in your town? (You can hear valuable stories and helps in this group.)
There are many posts preceding mine here and I haven't read most of them. Some may offer similar counsel -- I hope they do.
Don't despair, help is available. You and your husband are not experiencing anything that a number of others here are not also experiencing.
Ken Bland
judamd@aol.com - 02 Feb 2006 22:08 GMT Did you really mean "surgery within a week"? I have always been led to believe the colon needed to heal up a bit after the biopsy and before any surgery was performed in that area since there's some risk peeling the prostate off the other side of the damaged colon wall. The usual wait is around six weeks or more. Maybe your higher PSA was more of an "emergency" but the one week delay is a surprise, to me at least. It seems to have worked out OK for you though. Dave Perry
Justin Case - 02 Feb 2006 22:29 GMT : Did you really mean "surgery within a week"? I have always been led to : believe the colon needed to heal up a bit after the biopsy and before [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] : seems to have worked out OK for you though. : Dave Perry It might've been a little longer than a week, Dave; it happened quite a while ago. I suppose it took several days for the needle biopsy results to come back and a little longer for the surgeon to schedule to operating room, but, on recollection, I don't think it was more than about two weeks. Things moved pretty fast when the biopsy report was returned. I recall that there was concern that the prostate capsule had begun to rupture.
The prostatectomy didn't reduce the PSA to zero, either. I had two shots of Lupron-L which dropped the PSA a bit, but then started back up again. At this point the urologist said, in his laconic style, "Well, 't'were me, I'd be going for radiation." That was sufficient for me. The subsequent radiation dropped the PSA to zero where it's been for four years, but the coincidental effects were not pleasant and after four trips for colonoscopy and sigmoidoscopy with argon laser cauterization, I'm greatly encouraged at this moment.
Ken Bland
doubleowseven@theplacecalledyahoo.com - 03 Feb 2006 03:31 GMT >I am at work and don't have much time, but I am so frustrated and don't >know what to think. It is all very well and good for everyone to [quoted text clipped - 49 lines] > >laurel Sorry for what you are going thru. It's something I'm sure crosses many peoples minds. I know I gave it some thought. I'm in Arizona (Phoenix metro) but went to Detroit, MI for my robotic lap RP. I found that the doctor there (one of the pioneers in RLRP) as well as the hospital was "in-network" for my health insurance. Having said that, there's no way to know that the outcome would have been any different had I used a local doctor. I have talked to people who used local doctors here who had completely great outcomes so its not a given that a local doc won't be as good. I did have to find a local Uro to do my follow up. I can't vouch for his surgical skills but I found a local Uro-surgeon who seems very nice who has done 150 of the same type of robotic LRP here in phx and he may be just as good as anyone else. He was agreeable to doing my follow up even though he knew I was going out of town for the surgery before I went. I'm not making any recommendation that he's right for you but if you want to see if he's on your insurance his name is Dr. Dale Russell. One of his partners, whose name I believe is Mitchell Kane, also does the same surgery but I've never met him. I believe Kane has done perhaps 200 of the procedures. From my research at the time (last Dec) they appeared to be the most experienced at that particular procedure here in Phx.
My best wishes to you in this trying time. Ask if you have any questions.
juniper - 04 Feb 2006 03:22 GMT > Uro to do my follow up. I can't vouch for his surgical skills but I > found a local Uro-surgeon who seems very nice who has done 150 of the > same type of robotic LRP here in phx and he may be just as good as > anyone else. He was agreeable to doing my follow up even though he Thanks, I have been trying to come up with a list of specific questions for doctors and all I found on the Web (bad search probably) is generic things to ask a doctor. Guess I know what I'll be doing this weekend. But I know that the resources I have (books, websites, groups) have between them all the questions I need to know. I just need to start collating and culling. But up until Monday night we were still doing the questions for the 1st visit to the oncologist, this weekend it is surgery and rad I guess.
Is it okay to just call doctors offices and ask them these questions without actually going in? How do you do that?
> making any recommendation that he's right for you but if you want to > see if he's on your insurance his name is Dr. Dale Russell. One of [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > appeared to be the most experienced at that particular procedure here > in Phx. Thank you for sharing the fruits of your time and research, and thank you also for being willing to actually name names. We will be responsible for the doctors we choose, but it is very helpful to have starting places.
best regards, laurel
Glassman - 04 Feb 2006 05:24 GMT Laurel/Juniper, I may get some upset but this is my opinion. I would not mortgage my family's future with a lifetime of debt for the top 10 guy, when I can get an OK experienced guy to do this surgery that's covered by my insurance. It's not like it's brain surgery, or a 1960's Debaky heart transplant that no one else could do. Sure it's a serious surgery and desease, but there are thousands of really good experienced Uro's that can do it with a high probability of the same success. I had the surgery almost 4 years ago. I went with a younger and local guy, with lots of experience and top credentials, that no one ever heard of. I wouldn't change a thing if I could go back and get Walsh to do it.
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Tom Cular - 05 Feb 2006 14:32 GMT > Laurel/Juniper, I may get some upset but this is my opinion. I would not > mortgage my family's future with a lifetime of debt for the top 10 guy, [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > with lots of experience and top credentials, that no one ever heard of. I > wouldn't change a thing if I could go back and get Walsh to do it. I agree with JK, if the "Top Ten", whether it's surgery or radiation were the only competent Drs. to seek out, they would be darn busy with the 230,000 +/- cases diagnosed every year in the US, not to mention that most of us would go untreated.
Tom
doubleowseven@theplacecalledyahoo.com - 04 Feb 2006 07:40 GMT >> Uro to do my follow up. I can't vouch for his surgical skills but I >> found a local Uro-surgeon who seems very nice who has done 150 of the [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] >the questions for the 1st visit to the oncologist, this weekend it is >surgery and rad I guess. I never found a good set of questions. Mostly I read Walsh's book and as I read it things that seemed important would jump out and I'm jot them down as things to ask. For example, Walsh says "if your doctor says 'the cancer is more on the right side then the left so I'll remove the right side nerves", that you should know that statistically that's a poor decision and he goes into the statistics. And that was one of the things my first Uro/surgeon said, that he was going to remove the right side nerves for that reason. The Doctor I finally choose left all the nerves in and still got negative margins. So if you have time, you might try that approach.
>Is it okay to just call doctors offices and ask them these questions >without actually going in? How do you do that? I'll be surprised if you get much info that way from the local doctors. I hoped to do that with a guy recommended at the Mayo but when I called I found it would cost me around $400 for a consultation visit and my insurance didn't include the Mayo in it's network. I later found out that the Mayo here in Scottsdale is not much of a player in the newest forms of prostate surgery anyway. But I did find that the Major out of town places that looked like strong candidates based on their web pages would often have a doctor call you back and talk to you. One place was Kongrad in Florida, I talked to him a couple times and almost went there but my insurance would not cover his $18000 fee. Another place very high on my list was the Henry Ford Hospital in Detroit and they were covered under my insurance along with the Doctors. They sent a package of forms to fill out which I faxed back and a couple days later one of the Doctors on their team called and talked to me and did not seem to be trying to rush me off the phone. Of course there is only so much they can tell you and it's not going to be vastly different from doctor to doctor but you can get a feel for how up they are on the newest stuff and just an overall feel for whether you think they sound competent. I think ultimately you wind up going with part gut feeling and part rational choice. Even though you are restricted to AZ hospitals and doctors you might want to talk to some of the out of town people to see what they say. One question I always ask is "Is there some question I didn't ask that most people ask you?" Sometimes they have something I should have asked.
>> making any recommendation that he's right for you but if you want to >> see if he's on your insurance his name is Dr. Dale Russell. One of [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] >best regards, >laurel Please let us know how things are going. Everyone here cares about you folks and hopes you will get thru this in the best possible way.
Peace Jim
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