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New Experience at the Uro's

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Claude - 22 Oct 2005 18:52 GMT
   I know some of you guys have been through this, but it was a first for
me.  My uro has moved to Chicago, and when I went in for my six month check
(RP on 5/1/02), last Wednesday, the Nurse Practitioner did the exam.  I knew
a woman would be doing the exam, and I was a bit apprehensive. Her name is
Jacqueline ___, and a very good looking young woman.  She came in and
introduced herself as "Jackie" (Why would I have preferred her to introduce
herself as "Jacqueline+last name")  Well, I told myself that I have been
exposed to the world in the hospital and poked and probed by female nurses.
Just regard this as the same.  The digital went fine---I didnt have to look
at her. Actually, it was easier because she has small fingers.  But then I
had to sit on the table while she checked out my equipment.  I have two
spermatocoels (Do any of you have those?) That was when I noticed one of the
office nurses was also in, watching.  My wife tells me that it's SOP when
the male doc does a pelvic to have his female nurse in with him.  Certainly
understandable. But the witness bothered me more than the NP.  As she was
manipulating my testicles, I looked over her shoulder and kept telling
myself that she's just doing her job.  But it was the other nurse watching
her manipulate my testicles that bothered me.
Ron B - 22 Oct 2005 20:45 GMT
Claude, as a 'scared guy' who goes to Northwestern Memorial Hospital in
Chicago...I have never cared WHO does the exam, male or female.

My dad, who was backwards in many ways, told me when I was about 10
years old...not to be bothered if a woman doctor or nurse did any type
of exam...and over 45 years later...I am impressed by his wisdom.

A woman nurse removed my cath after my RRP and I could have cared less.

Honest to God Claude, it just dosen't matter. They're doing a job and
their job is to help US.

I hope this helps.

Ron B.

Chicago
Alan Meyer - 22 Oct 2005 22:20 GMT
> Honest to God Claude, it just dosen't matter. They're doing a job and
> their job is to help US.

I feel the same way.

Some women living in those countries where they have to wear veils
probably feel the same way about exposing their faces as we might
about exposing our "private parts".  In other places, nudity is common
and nobody thinks twice about it.

It's all just cultural baggage.  I'm just as happy to leave that baggage
behind.

   Alan
Steve Kramer - 23 Oct 2005 00:36 GMT
It would have bothered me when I could show some response.

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>     I know some of you guys have been through this, but it was a first for
> me.  My uro has moved to Chicago, and when I went in for my six month check
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> myself that she's just doing her job.  But it was the other nurse watching
> her manipulate my testicles that bothered me.
DonC - 23 Oct 2005 02:20 GMT
> It would have bothered me when I could show some response.

Ah...... to have such a problem again : )

>>     I know some of you guys have been through this, but it was a first
>> for
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>> watching
>> her manipulate my testicles that bothered me.
I. P. Freely - 23 Oct 2005 04:19 GMT
At least the REAL risk presented by a female practitioner isn't a risk any
more, for me . . . unfortunately.

I agree that small female fingers are more welcome than some big bruiser's
digits. My rad onc consultation was with a very small, very attractive
doctor, and I hardly noticed her delicate little digit(s?). Hey, if it
didn't bother her, it doesn't bother me. I'd still prefer to be the examinee
than the examiner.

I.P.

>    I know some of you guys have been through this, but it was a first for
> me.
 
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