David S wrote in a recent post:
"28 days to activation.  Feeling much better now.  Took about two weeks
for me to get back in the saddle.  The only thing I am worried about is
public restrooms.  If guys see me squeezing my balls they may get the
wrong impression!"

That really struck a nerve! We have nothing to be embarassed about.
David, I'm very sympathetic. I go to a gym every day, and returned to
it about 3 weeks post op. I was still wearing Guards. The changing area
is fairly public. At first it was difficult, and I would head for a
stall to change pads or get rid of them. After a while, the people I
whose opinions I care about knew I had cancer surgery. I bet with a
little practice you will be able to be very discrete. After all you
have been through, why torment yourself about what some stranger
thinks?
Steve U