Found this little bit of advice today...kind of apropos. Thought that
I'd share it.
Facing the Enemies Within
We are not born with courage, but neither are we born with fear. Maybe
some of our fears are brought on by your own experiences, by what
someone has told you, by what you've read in the papers. Some fears are
valid, like walking alone in a bad part of town at two o'clock in the
morning. But once you learn to avoid that situation, you won't need to
live in fear of it.
Fears, even the most basic ones, can totally destroy our ambitions. Fear
can destroy fortunes. Fear can destroy relationships. Fear, if left
unchecked, can destroy our lives. Fear is one of the many enemies
lurking inside us.
Let me tell you about five of the other enemies we face from within. The
first enemy that you've got to destroy before it destroys you is
indifference. What a tragic disease this is. "Ho-hum, let it slide. I'll
just drift along." Here's one problem with drifting: you can't drift
your way to the top of the mountain.
The second enemy we face is indecision. Indecision is the thief of
opportunity and enterprise. It will steal your chances for a better
future. Take a sword to this enemy.
The third enemy inside is doubt. Sure, there's room for healthy
skepticism. You can't believe everything. But you also can't let doubt
take over. Many people doubt the past, doubt the future, doubt each
other, doubt the government, doubt the possibilities and doubt the
opportunities. Worse of all, they doubt themselves. I'm telling you,
doubt will destroy your life and your chances of success. It will empty
both your bank account and your heart. Doubt is an enemy Go after it.
Get rid of it.
The fourth enemy within is worry. We've all got to worry some. Just
don't let it conquer you. Instead, let it alarm you. Worry can be
useful. If you step off the curb in New York City and a taxi is coming,
you've got to worry. But you can't let worry loose like a mad dog that
drives you into a small corner. Here's what you've got to do with your
worries: drive them into a small corner. Whatever is out to get you,
you've got to get it. Whatever is pushing on you, you've got to push back.
The fifth interior enemy is over-caution. It is the timid approach to
life. Timidity is not a virtue; it's an illness. If you let it go, it'll
conquer you. Timid people don't get promoted. They don't advance and
grow and become powerful in the marketplace. You've got to avoid
over-caution.
Do battle with the enemy. Do battle with your fears. Build your courage
to fight what's holding you back, what's keeping you from your goals and
dreams. Be courageous in your life and in your pursuit of the things you
want and the person you want to become.
>Found this little bit of advice today...kind of apropos. Thought that
>I'd share it.
>
>Facing the Enemies Within
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"a whole lot of philosophical advice here"
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>Do battle with the enemy. Do battle with your fears. Build your courage
>to fight what's holding you back, what's keeping you from your goals and
>dreams. Be courageous in your life and in your pursuit of the things you
>want and the person you want to become.
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Most of us are too old and treacherous to heed all that crap.
My previous sign-off was "If you can see it coming, head it off at the
pass, else put the wagons in a circle"
(I hope I didn't plagiarise that from "The Duke" lol.)
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Bob Anthony - 14 Apr 2005 21:39 GMT
lol! I too take most of it with a grain of salt! Kinda felt like I was
on the top of the mountain after the good news today, went to my head!!
Now, what was that sound Tarzan used to make before before leaping off?
I KNOW WHAT BOOK YOU'RE READING, you savage!!!! ;-)
I almost added an OT to the Subject line, but this topic is very definitely
ON topic in a PC forum.
"Bob Anthony" <bobantho@bellsouth.net> wrote >
> Facing the Enemies Within
>
> We are not born with courage, but neither are we born with fear. Maybe
> some of our fears are brought on by your own experiences, by what someone
> has told you, by what you've read in the papers.
I think MANY of our fears -- and fearfulnesss in general -- come from how
our parents react to situations. These days, many more fears come from
taking talk radio -- either side -- too seriously.
> Let me tell you about five of the other enemies we face from within. The
> first enemy that you've got to destroy before it destroys you is
> indifference.
Apathy costs people huge sums of money, pain, and hassle; it's FAR easier to
avert problems than to fix them after the fact, whether it's in one's own
home or international.
> The second enemy we face is indecision.
Research and anlysis often allays that, but many people won't bother. I had
zero doubt about about refusing a final promotion in the military once my
analysis proved the costs were too high. Ditto not getting another job after
the military, or acting on my PC as soon as I had read enough.
> The third enemy inside is doubt. Sure, there's room for healthy
> skepticism. You can't believe everything. But you also can't let doubt
> take over. Many people doubt the past, doubt the future, doubt each other,
> doubt the government, doubt the possibilities and doubt the opportunities.
Consider the people who will now never trust their savings to the stock
market (mutual funds), despite the fact that it consistently beats the next
best investment vehicle by about 500%. We used it to cruise from zero life
saving in 1993 to being set for life by now, DESPITE the last three years in
the market.
> The fourth enemy within is worry.
Research, analyze, act, and fuhgeddaboutit. I hardly even think about my PC
any more now that I've made my adjuvant ADT decision.
> The fifth interior enemy is over-caution.
I surely didn't hand-pick every move and assigment I got in 20 years in the
military by being timid about it. I busted my chops, pushed hard, and got
everything I ever REALLY asked for. Ditto my wife's career, once my moves
quit holding her back. We've both had some pretty great results.
> Do battle with the enemy. Do battle with your fears. Build your courage to
> fight what's holding you back, what's keeping you from your goals and
> dreams. Be courageous in your life and in your pursuit of the things you
> want and the person you want to become.
My GOD has that paid off for us. This is all good advice, IMO.
I'd add ignorance, but then it is part of -- a CAUSE of -- fearfulness,
apathy, doubt, worry, AND excess caution.
I.P.
Bob Anthony - 16 Apr 2005 00:39 GMT
Makes sense to me. As long as they don't ask me to drink Cool-Aid!
The only fear we have to fear . . .
> Found this little bit of advice today...kind of apropos. Thought that I'd
> share it.
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> dreams. Be courageous in your life and in your pursuit of the things you
> want and the person you want to become.