Ok Simple facts-RRP October 15, age 46, small Gleason 6 tumor, nerves
spared unknown (I didn't ask) Urinary control good except stress
Incont.

Prior to Cath coming out I sensed possible erection

One week after cath out- Only one level 5 out of 10 erection(10 being
best of pre-RRP erections) (surprised)

Started in week 2 watching porn (a rare activity in past)as a way of,
as I told my wife of no longer connecting the RRP with erections.
Prior to this it would start and I would start evaluating it and lose
it. This way I was "distracted"  BTW this is a soliary enterprise
although with full blessing and knowledge of wife.  BTW short, daily if
I can, sessions so as not no overdo it, more of just a taste if you
will - 10-15 minutes

Week 3  porn with manual stimulation, small progress, if nothing
happens Ok move on, same 10-15 sesions daily if possible

Week 4- Strong reactions, can reach climax but try not to so as to (in
my mind) have some tension left over for next day (level 8 out of ten)
says wife, some good days some bad, just tring to get and maintain it

Thats where I am at, thinking about;
Lavitra/Viagra to see if I can get a 10, also think it would be good
for circulation to have and maintain a  erection for a time period
(hour?)as its been 2 months of being in a relatively relaxed state.
Don't know how it would work.

Originally thought that I might "overused or tire nerves", but now
subscribe to "use or lose" policy.

Tried "romantic evening" with wife.  Proformance anxiety and 2 glasses
of wine made it a disaster.

Self evaluation is the quickest killer of an erection I know.

Trying to look at alternatives and additional options.

Its a mind game as well as what will my body do.  Morally if porn
upsets you, don't do it and don't tell me.  I am just trying to give
myself the best possible recovery possible.  Building  on prior
positive thoughts(positive thoughts are - this is where I was
yesterday, tomorrow will be better) seems to build confidence