Hello all!!
We are back....we have been lurking for 2 months now. We had made a
couple of posts, and received wonderful answers and support from all.
This group has been great for us!!
Let me recap---I was dx on 06/26/03, PSA 5.9, Gleason 3+3, age 53.
I will be having surgery in Chicago on September 2nd.
We are planning on going to Chicago on Sunday to do some sightseeing for
a couple of days. ...Kind of keep our minds off things....since our
minds have been 'craming' the last couple of months.
We feel like we know each and everyone of you.....I (Lori) would get
home earlier from work on some days...and I would tell Bud...."David S
got his catheter out," "Curtis is meeting with Bob Dole,".....etc....It
is incredible how you can feel so close to a 'family' on the internet!!
We wish all of you the best!!
Thanks for listening....
Bud & Lori
David S. - 26 Aug 2003 11:14 GMT
Bud & Lori:
I think joining this group was the best thing I did after my diagnosis.
And yes, I know what you mean about the "family" feeling here. One side of
this that is not visible are the private email communications that take
place behind the scenes. I have made a lot of new friends and received a
lot of support because of this group.
Be sure to send a photo to Linda for the "Prostate Cancer Support" web
site.
Best of luck for a successful surgery and for a speedy recovery.
Thank you.
David S.
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Steve Kramer - 26 Aug 2003 23:25 GMT
Best of luck! I'll be praying for you... and Bud too, but he won't really
need it.

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PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46
Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c
RRP 12/15/2000
PSA .1 .1 .1 .3 .4 .8
EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47
PSA .3 .2 .2 .2 .3
Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48
HT 07/21/2003 @ 48
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c palmer - 27 Aug 2003 00:20 GMT
hi lori and bud - the stress before the surgery is the worse. during
and after the surgery isn't as bad, so if this helps, try to stay focus
and keep things in perspective. i know this is a tall order, but my
advice also includes that as time gets closer, and you get stressed out,
pick up that keyboard and type away. that's what we are here for.
now, for some good news. as you know we are all build different, but we
all are similar too.
you said bud's psa was 5.9, gleason 3+3, age 53. my psa was 6.35,
gleason 3+3, age 56 at the time and was totally gland contained, no
outside involvement and both nerves spared. i wish you the same
results.
~ curtis
knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional
Doug49 - 27 Aug 2003 15:08 GMT
Wishing you all the best on the 2nd. Enjoy the days before.
Doug G. (Toronto)
Dx 10/15/02 at age 49
PSA 1.26; Gleason 6; Stage T2b; RP 12/0402; PSA undectable since
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MH - 28 Aug 2003 01:14 GMT
Best of luck to you both, Bud & Lori!!!
PLease be sure to let us know how the surgery goes!
Wishing you capsule contained PCa and many years of undetectable PSAs!
MikeH
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bluth@cox.net - 30 Aug 2003 16:01 GMT
I am not a knowledgeable poster but I felt that I should share my
experience with anyone who might benefit. I am a 53 year old
physician who had a gleason 6 tumor which was removed just four weeks
ago. I had a robotic endoscopic prostatectomy and was back at work in
eight days. The catheter was removed in seven days. I was in the
hospital only overnight and was walking 1/2 mile daily right away.
I would advise anyone considering surgical treatment to strongly look
into the DaVinci robotic prostatectomy. There are only a few
experienced centers doing this procedure, but the bloodloss, the
rehabilitation and recuperation are unbelievably better than an open
prostatectomy. Believe me, I have been on both sides of the knife!
Please email me if I can be of further help.
Doctor B
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Joe \(Shaw\) - 30 Aug 2003 18:56 GMT
I recommend those thinking about this to take the time to view the webcast
of a laparoscopic RP (not the robotic version - though they describe it in
passing) at:
http://www.or-live.com/massgeneral/1100/
(Click on view archived webcast).
I would recommend this video to anyone who wants to understand what is
involved in removing a prostate REGARDLESS of the surgical approach they are
considering. The nerve sparing part of the procedure is particularly
informative. Turn off the sound if you think it is just an advertisement
for LRP - but then you will miss the anatomy lesson!
My surgery was LRP as performed in this video and my recovery experience was
the same as you describe.
Catheter out in 7 days, back to work in 12. Full continence in about 3
weeks or so.
Still, as someone here used to point out, "Your mileage may vary." Some
folks have more post-operative problems than others with all treatment
options.
JP
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Steve Kramer - 30 Aug 2003 19:59 GMT
Welcome to the NG, doc. Sorry about your luck.
We have a councilman here that just did DaVinci. He was back on the floor
voting in 7 days. Most people here don't even know he had PCa or an
operation.

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Steve Kramer
PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46
Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c
RRP 12/15/2000
PSA .1 .1 .1 .3 .4 .8
EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47
PSA .3 .2 .2 .2 .3
Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48
HT 07/21/2003 @ 48
> I am not a knowledgeable poster but I felt that I should share my
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> rehabilitation and recuperation are unbelievably better than an open
> prostatectomy. Believe me, I have been on both sides of the knife!