Medical Forum / Diseases and Disorders / Prostate Cancer / August 2004
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justin mason - 23 Jul 2004 17:55 GMT AN ARTICLE FROM THIS ISSUE, 9-93 SHOWS A STUDY WHERE SURVIVAL FROM PC, WITH JUST WATCHFUL WAITING WAS >10 YEARS WITH NO TREATMENT, AND NO LOSS IN QUALITY OF LIFE, VS TREATMENT AND ALL IT'S ASSOCIATED PROBLEMS. MY ATTITUDE: SCREW THE URO'S, ALL THEY WANT IS THEIR MIGHTY $$$ FOR THEIR BMW AND MERCEDES, THEIR VACATION HOMES... WHAT A RACKET.. IF I HAD TO DO MY LIFE OVER AGAIN, I ENTER THE MEDICAL PROFESSION, WITH A SPECIALITY IN UROLOGY / AND OR CARDIOLOGY. THE $$$ RULES. TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!
Alan Meyer - 23 Jul 2004 19:00 GMT > AN ARTICLE FROM THIS ISSUE, 9-93 SHOWS A > STUDY WHERE SURVIVAL FROM PC, WITH JUST WATCHFUL WAITING WAS >10 YEARS WITH > NO TREATMENT, AND NO LOSS IN QUALITY OF LIFE, VS TREATMENT AND ALL IT'S > ASSOCIATED PROBLEMS. Justin,
Two questions arise: 1. What if you're young enough (70 or less) that you might hope to live more than 10 years? 2. What if you have a more aggressive form of cancer (high PSA or Gleason > 6) and won't live even 10 years?
> MY ATTITUDE: > SCREW THE URO'S, ALL THEY WANT IS THEIR [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > THE MEDICAL PROFESSION, WITH A SPECIALITY IN UROLOGY / AND OR CARDIOLOGY. > THE $$$ RULES. TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!! Unfortunately, there are some doctors like that. I've met some and members of my family have been the victims of some. But I truly believe that the majority of doctors really do want to do the right thing, and really do try.
If you or one of your family members have been diagnosed with PCa, and think that your doctor is one of the bad ones, please don't give up. Look for another doctor. There are good ones out there.
Alan
Larry Preuss - 23 Jul 2004 19:33 GMT > AN ARTICLE FROM THIS ISSUE, 9-93 SHOWS A > STUDY WHERE SURVIVAL FROM PC, WITH JUST WATCHFUL WAITING WAS >10 YEARS WITH [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > THE MEDICAL PROFESSION, WITH A SPECIALITY IN UROLOGY / AND OR CARDIOLOGY. > THE $$$ RULES. TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!! I believe your Caps Lock key is stuck. LP
Robert Austin - 23 Jul 2004 20:32 GMT Justin -
Sounds like you really have a burr under your saddle.
I'm not elated over having to use a pump now 100% of the time, but I'm still around to use it. With a Gleason 9 I probably would not be around long if I not had an RP, nor would I feel like using an erection if I had one.
I have lost friends to Pca and its a terrible way to die.
In some cases watchful waiting is the right way to go but a person would be wise to know just what they are up against before letting nature take its course.
Bob Austin
>AN ARTICLE FROM THIS ISSUE, 9-93 SHOWS A >STUDY WHERE SURVIVAL FROM PC, WITH JUST WATCHFUL WAITING WAS >10 YEARS WITH [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] >THE MEDICAL PROFESSION, WITH A SPECIALITY IN UROLOGY / AND OR CARDIOLOGY. >THE $$$ RULES. TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!! c palmer - 23 Jul 2004 22:21 GMT From: jam127@csufresno.edu (justin mason) -----------------
at first, i was trying to see where justin is coming from. he has a edu. addy. so, i figure he is either on staff or a student doing research work, or something along those lines.
AN ARTICLE FROM THIS ISSUE, 9-93 SHOWS A STUDY WHERE SURVIVAL FROM PC, WITH JUST WATCHFUL WAITING WAS >10 YEARS WITH NO TREATMENT, AND NO LOSS IN QUALITY OF LIFE, VS TREATMENT AND ALL IT'S ASSOCIATED PROBLEMS.
then, i factored in the reference of the article that is dated 11 years ago and making the claim that this information is solid and the absolute truth.
ALL THEY WANT IS THEIR MIGHTY $$$ FOR THEIR BMW AND MERCEDES, THEIR VACATION HOMES... WHAT A RACKET..
afterwards, i factored in his views about the uro doctors and the lifestyle that a doctors MAY have. not all doctors live like that.
then i looked at the overall text of the message - all caps.
and then i put on my thinking cap. and i came up with the following thoughts.
first, if he was a student doing research, surely, he was have a lot more information that is more recent than what he quoted.
second, if he was on staff, he would usually be more open to thoughts and not closed minded because it is a place for learning and seeking new ideas.
MY ATTITUDE: SCREW THE URO'S,
third, the attitude. looks like something that someone looked at an article, saw that it didn't make any difference which way the treatment went, the uro doctor was going to be rich. maybe, like a liberial arts major that realized they should have been a doctor instead, because all they see is $$$ signs.
it was very obvious he thinks the medical field is a racket and wishes he was there by the last statement.
IF I HAD TO DO MY LIFE OVER AGAIN, I ENTER THE MEDICAL PROFESSION, WITH A SPECIALITY IN UROLOGY / AND OR CARDIOLOGY. THE $$$ RULES.
~ curtis
knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional "Many more men die with prostate cancer than of it. Growing old is invariably fatal. Prostate cancer is only sometimes so."
Outlivecancer - 24 Jul 2004 11:21 GMT Some guys have all the luck,my urologist was still paying off his everlasting horizon pool in Malibu with the dual water features. Plus you better believe he had one hell of a good flow......wouldn't buy a German car he went everywhere by converted minesweeper,120' of converted yacht with you guessed it,dual bilge pumps.LOL
justin mason - 24 Jul 2004 18:37 GMT Yes, this article is over 11 years old. But the fact still remains.... current treatment by any obvious standard of common sense reasoning is barbaric!!!!! Cut your prostate out, get impotent, use a pump, insert remove catheters...etc. Oh, forgot the lupron injections, make sure you lose all semblence of manhood, internal, as well as external. How do you feel after doing all the above, and your uro collects ongoing fees in the thousands, that you have a recurrence in 6 years, in 7 years. Sure they are not perfect, but research is not trying hard enough to understand the disease. A simple observation: if testosterone is such a contributing factor, why don't men under age of 40 acquire pc, with such high levels of testosterone in their blood levels? Probably because of the mitigating factor of DHT, which is the real culprit, and excess estrogen in our food supply.
> AN ARTICLE FROM THIS ISSUE, 9-93 SHOWS A > STUDY WHERE SURVIVAL FROM PC, WITH JUST WATCHFUL WAITING WAS >10 YEARS WITH [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > THE MEDICAL PROFESSION, WITH A SPECIALITY IN UROLOGY / AND OR CARDIOLOGY. > THE $$$ RULES. TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!! Outlivecancer - 25 Jul 2004 11:28 GMT Nice, have you had a loss? I prefer life Justin, or has the smog in Frez that backs up against the Sierras gone to your head. Use good science, slogans mean nothing.They say the Eskimos had no cancer before they ate canned food, does that give you a clue?Or does it mean they died too young for cancer? Study young man and direct your rage at the money that funds political HMO medicine and not the few healers left with the guts to practice medicine.
Robert Austin - 25 Jul 2004 14:47 GMT <Snip> Study young man and direct your rage at the money that funds political HMO medicine and not the few healers left with the guts to practice medicine. <Snip>
Hello All -
Unless I interpret the above snippet wrong, Justin is not the only person with a burr under his saddle. In both my personal life and professional life when I was in the medical equipment business, I have met a few doctors that were real bastards. I will repeat that, Real Bastards. Most of the rest of doctors that I have had dealings with are dedicated people. If you really mean that there are only a few of them, I feel sorry for you.
Unless we have close friends that are doctors we have no way to know how many of them take patient charts home with them at night to study, or how many calls they make to patients they are concerned about and how the phone rings, either from many sources connected with their work that are necessary. They also get calls from patients that are doing nothing but abusing the system because they can.
I don't know of many things that we can paint with such a broad brush and fairly represent the people we are putting down.
Bob Austin
>Nice, >have you had a loss? [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > Study young man and direct your rage at the money that funds political HMO >medicine and not the few healers left with the guts to practice medicine. C. Paul Williams, MD - 26 Jul 2004 14:14 GMT I have
> met a few doctors that were real bastards. I will repeat that, Real > Bastards. Most of the rest of doctors that I have had dealings with > are dedicated people. > To quote a very smart friend of mine, who is not a physician but also has daily interactions with them as a hospital administrator: "Generally, if someone is an a.shole before they go to medical school, they are still an a.shole when they get out." I would bet that the same holds true for every walk of life. CPW
Doug Taylor - 26 Jul 2004 17:03 GMT >To quote a very smart friend of mine, who is not a physician but also >has daily interactions with them as a hospital administrator: >"Generally, if someone is an a.shole before they go to medical school, >they are still an a.shole when they get out." I would bet that the >same holds true for every walk of life. True words. I should know; I'm a lawyer :-) --dt
Canada Bob - 27 Jul 2004 03:23 GMT Here's my thoughts on the topic...
After almost 40 years in Defence/Defense/Military Engineering with experience of many other trades, it seems to me that in almost all professions that,
5% of folks are outstanding in their abilities.
15% are worthy of their employment.
80% are carried by the above, ranging from those who are useless bastards who embarrass their profession to those who have such limited skills that logic would say they have taken the wrong walk through life.
This "Law" seems to fit all trades from window cleaners to Presidents or Prime Ministers. It just makes the chagrin worse when our lives may be held in the balance by those who would be better off walking a dog.
Thank God for places like this where we can learn from each other !
Canada Bob.
Steve Kramer - 27 Jul 2004 11:39 GMT My observations are somewhat similar. While at 49, I don't have the 40 years of congnitive observations of others, I believe me 28 years of such (assuming they started about 21) has had a much wider range of observation.
I agree with the 5% outstanding and 15% clearly discernable as making the second cut. However, I think there is a similar 5% and 15% at the other end.
5% are just useless bilge without any change, barring divine intervention, of ever amounting to anything but leaches on society. None of these get into most organizations or establishments orther than prehaps prisons.
15% are probably never going to amount to anything, though it would takes something less than a miracle for them to do so. I think some of these get into steet-entry labor and clerical jobs and are never much of anything after that. Some make it all their careers by the skin of their teeth (usually in civil service or some other governmentally-moderated systems).
The middle 60% just get along and do whatever they do and don't do whatever they can get along not doing.
However, with good management, their more positive natures are stoked and with the top 5% and 15% create a synergistic effect.
But, as stated, I don't think the lowest 5% get into these arenas and much of the lowest 15% do not survive here unless propped up. As to presidents and prime ministers, I think all had something that got them where they are, especially those that were elected as such. As compared to each other, there is a lowest 5% and a highest 5%, just as there is a middle 60%. But as compared to the general population, I think they are still among the top 20% going in.
 Signature Prostate Cancer Survivor (so far), not a doctor PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46 Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c RRP 12/15/2000 PSA .1 .1 .1 .27 .37 .75 EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47 PSA .34 .22 .15 .21 .32 Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48 HTbegins 07/21/2003 @ 48 PSA .07 .05 Lupron 7/03, 8/03, 12/03, 4/04 non illegitimi carborundum
> Here's my thoughts on the topic... > [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > > Canada Bob. Jim Rocks - 27 Jul 2004 16:47 GMT we have a saying in the construction industry. If one guy calls another an a.shole , it's a personality thing. If ten guys call him an a.shole then he is.
> My observations are somewhat similar. While at 49, I don't have the 40 > years of congnitive observations of others, I believe me 28 years of such [quoted text clipped - 50 lines] > > > > Canada Bob. Steve Kramer - 27 Jul 2004 22:33 GMT I wouldn't rate it with Plato or Soccretes or Confucious, but when talking small group dynamics, ten ought to be about right.
> we have a saying in the construction industry. If one guy calls another an > a.shole , it's a personality thing. If ten guys call him an a.shole then he [quoted text clipped - 58 lines] > > > > > > Canada Bob. SK - 07 Aug 2004 21:43 GMT >I wouldn't rate it with Plato or Soccretes or Confucious, but when talking >small group dynamics, ten ought to be about right. [quoted text clipped - 72 lines] >> > > >> > > Canada Bob. For the most part my experiences have been pretty good although all the doctors could have benefitted in a course in office management. The gals "out front" can make a good doctor bad and a bad doctor worse.
Just as a test, I also try to call them on an off-time to see if they have an emergency number to call or, like some do, say: "if this and an emergency call 911".
Outlivecancer - 02 Aug 2004 03:05 GMT Robert you did get it wrong I was responding to Justins's misguided attitude, I like DR.s fine they are not the share happy financial killing machine responsible for the two tier medical system in our country,and yes a few have sold out to the hmos.Defensive medicine and medicine directed by insurance and drug co. profits is not about dr's, Bill Frist is a DR. is he your hero?
Steve Kramer - 25 Jul 2004 17:00 GMT Justin, what are your prostate cancer stats? When where you diagnosed? What was your PSA? Did you have any treatment? What are they now?
 Signature Prostate Cancer Survivor (so far), not a doctor PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46 Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c RRP 12/15/2000 PSA .1 .1 .1 .27 .37 .75 EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47 PSA .34 .22 .15 .21 .32 Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48 HTbegins 07/21/2003 @ 48 PSA .07 .05 Lupron 7/03, 8/03, 12/03, 4/04 non illegitimi carborundum
> Yes, this article is over 11 years old. But the fact still > remains.... current treatment by any obvious standard [quoted text clipped - 24 lines] > > THE MEDICAL PROFESSION, WITH A SPECIALITY IN UROLOGY / AND OR CARDIOLOGY. > > THE $$$ RULES. TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!! justin mason - 26 Jul 2004 03:44 GMT I am sorry to hear you were 46 when you had you're RP done. My psa is 2 and my age is 64. I am a educator in Ag Econ. Son, my educated stat background in research, gives me the conclusion, that if you hadn't done a damn thing to that walnut shaped gland above your perinium, at age 46 with a gleason 7, you will still be around at age 64, 18 years later, and you will not have to let everyone know about your "johnson's" erection in 2003. Your uro has no more knowledge than what you can acquire on your own, with some time and study, on the probabilites of survival from pc, given certain variables. And in the majority of cases, they are totally ignorant of relevant stats on survival, and studies done on that regard.
> Justin, what are your prostate cancer stats? When where you diagnosed? > What was your PSA? Did you have any treatment? What are they now? [quoted text clipped - 29 lines] > CARDIOLOGY. > > > THE $$$ RULES. TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!! Steve Kramer - 26 Jul 2004 11:18 GMT Ah, then the answer is, "I have no experience with prostate cancer." You might further expound, "I have no experience, knowledge, training, or education in prostate cancer."
My PSA was about 1 in 1998 and 16 in 2000. Were it not for treatment, it woudl be.... well, I'd be dead by now. My father's PCa at 42 took him at 50.
Now, let's talk about something you DO have experience with. Why does someone without PCa and without experience, knowlede, training, or education in PCa, barge into a PCa newgroup and spout off? I'm curious as to the mental motivation here.
 Signature Prostate Cancer Survivor (so far), not a doctor PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46 Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c RRP 12/15/2000 PSA .1 .1 .1 .27 .37 .75 EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47 PSA .34 .22 .15 .21 .32 Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48 HTbegins 07/21/2003 @ 48 PSA .07 .05 Lupron 7/03, 8/03, 12/03, 4/04 non illegitimi carborundum
> I am sorry to hear you were 46 when you had you're > RP done. [quoted text clipped - 47 lines] > > CARDIOLOGY. > > > > THE $$$ RULES. TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!! c palmer - 26 Jul 2004 12:47 GMT hi justin - as an retired educator myself, may i point out some hard core facts.
it is a fact that on average, it takes about 8 years for prostate cancer to develop and spread outside the prostate gland. it takes about 5 more years to grow and overcome the organs that support life to human body and the host will then die. so, on average, it takes about 13 years to die from prostate cancer. given the fact that the average age prostate cancer is found is 65 and given the fact that the average life expectancy of the male is 72, then it would be safe to say that prostate cancer, on average, would not kill you.
now, in the world of real, the factors left out were the aggressiveness of the prostate cancer as well as the fact that the younger a male is, the more testosterone, he has in his body.
now, i was 56 when they found my prostate cancer and i had a gleason of 6. i was told by my doctor that i would not see 70 if i did watchful waiting - plus my last 3 years of my life would be in pain and i had a good chance for a cure if i were to get treatment right away. should i take a chance on the advice of this 11 year article you quoted?
i wish to point out that my dad was in his mid 80's when they found his prostate cancer and he was a psa of 6 at the time, and he died FROM prostate cancer at age 92 by doing watchful waiting and by doing nothing and it killed him.
since you have a psa of 2 and age 64, chances are you will not die from prostate cancer.
i'm somewhat surprised that as an educator - you are exposed to a lot of fresh ideas and usually have an open mind to new thoughts, that you would come into a prostate cancer support newsgroup and quote an static article written 11 years ago as holding the truth is really stretching it considering how much advances have been made in the area of prostate cancer research since then.
it also brings into the facts that the grass is always greener on the other side and when one is on the other side of the fence, in your case - where you do not have prostate cancer, it is easier to hand out advice and tell us that the one person who can save our life "has no more knowledge than what you can acquire on your own, with some time and study, on the probabilities of survival from pc, given certain variables. And in the majority of cases, they are totally ignorant of relevant stats on survival, and studies done on that regard. " really pushes the envelop of being an informed person in higher education development.
i'll be sure to tell the next person that is dx'ed with prostate to read this 11 year document and "don't worry - be happy"
sorry, i don't buy it, but i'll also tell you that i've got a 66 yr brother that believes along similar lines as you do, because our dad had pca and his brother has pca and he doesn't bother to even get his psa checked, but everyone has the right to make their own mistakes.
~ curtis
knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional "Many more men die with prostate cancer than of it. Growing old is invariably fatal. Prostate cancer is only sometimes so."
Robert Austin - 26 Jul 2004 16:02 GMT Curtis and all my friends out there in radio land, keep those cards and letters coming. I was beginning to think that I was about the only person that this subject was bugging the .hit out of. It makes me feel good to know that I have company.
Here we are with Jesus coming any day now and argueing about Pca, why, with the rapture at hand and miracle healing available for anyone that has faith, why stand ye here idle ?
Now to be serious: Let's don't get sucked into these things so easily, the first thing we know, we will lose the closeness of our group over someone's idea that we don't agree with.
Some years back when CB radios were in their hayday there was a trucker that was hogging the channel while everyone else were polite and just let him talk. After a long time he paused long enough in his diatribe for someone to make the mistake of asking him in a nice way to be considerate of others that might want to use the channel.
His response was an apology that probably lasted at least ten minutes telling everyone that his mother had told him he talked too much and that he didn't know why he did this and that he was truly sorry and that he wouldn't do it again. Then he would repeat that apology over and over.
When he finally hushed the channel was completely silent. Everyone was afraid to say anything. So far as I know that channel is still silent.
Maybe there is a lesson in here somewhere, I don't know. It seems a Gleason 9 clouds my thinking when I've tried to educate myself and also read the posts that you friend out there contribute. Some of the information lately flies in the face of all the research of a lot of dedicated people.
Bob Austin
>hi justin - as an retired educator myself, may i point out some hard >core facts. [quoted text clipped - 57 lines] >"Many more men die with prostate cancer than of it. Growing old is >invariably fatal. Prostate cancer is only sometimes so." c palmer - 26 Jul 2004 20:55 GMT hi bob - loved the CB memories, i remember some of the truckers really got so commanding of the air waves and their opinions of the 4 wheelers.
i was in chicago traffic and i was putting up with the abuse of how bad these "flaky 4 wheelers" were driving. i finally had to said it, i picked up the mike and said, "at least, i don't have 18 training wheels"
well, that brough back a response, "what's your 20?"
now, if you think i was going to come back to that........well..........
:) ............i can't help myself. what can i say? i gave the 20 and description of an undercover police car about 1/4 a mile in front of me. it's was just it was interesting as to what happened.
~ curtis
knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional "Many more men die with prostate cancer than of it. Growing old is invariably fatal. Prostate cancer is only sometimes so."
Steve Kramer - 27 Jul 2004 02:11 GMT You're absolutely right, good buddy!
You got the Keystone... KALC9833... 10-10 on the side.
 Signature Prostate Cancer Survivor (so far), not a doctor PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46 Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c RRP 12/15/2000 PSA .1 .1 .1 .27 .37 .75 EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47 PSA .34 .22 .15 .21 .32 Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48 HTbegins 07/21/2003 @ 48 PSA .07 .05 Lupron 7/03, 8/03, 12/03, 4/04 non illegitimi carborundum
> Curtis and all my friends out there in radio land, keep those cards > and letters coming. I was beginning to think that I was about the [quoted text clipped - 94 lines] > >"Many more men die with prostate cancer than of it. Growing old is > >invariably fatal. Prostate cancer is only sometimes so." Leonard Evens - 26 Jul 2004 15:24 GMT > I am sorry to hear you were 46 when you had you're > RP done. [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > to let everyone know about your "johnson's" erection in > 2003. As a mathematics professor with some knowledge of probability and statistics, I am curious as to just how you derived that conclusion. I've done several searches of the literature using Medline, and what I've discovered does not seem consistent with what you say. Just what do you think the probability of no metastasis in 18 years is for an untreated Gleason 7 cancer?
I have a personal interest in that question since I was diagnosed with a Gleason 7 tumor at age 67. I relied on my doctor---trying to be your own doctor is usually a big mistake---but the information I was able to accumulate suggested a rather significant chance of metastasis within 5-10 years if the cancer were untreated. I didn't know if the probability were greater than 50 percent, but it seemed to me it was certainly greater than 20 percent. We all differ in how risk aversive we are, but metastatic prostate cancer is not fun, so it makes sense to avoid it even if you have a better than even chance it won't happen. Everything I've seen since suggests that beyond 10 years, for a Gleason 7 tumor, the chances of the cancer progressing are even higher, and a sensible person would not want to risk it.
> Your uro has no more knowledge than what you > can acquire on your own, with some time and study, on > the probabilites of survival from pc, given certain variables. Again, I would be interested in seeing some references.
> And in the > majority of cases, they are totally > ignorant of relevant stats on survival, and studies done on > that regard. Doctors usually follow guidelines which are based on research by experts. The guidelines are established by those experts. The usual rule adopted by urologists for treating early prostate cancer is to do so if the patient has a life expectancy exceeding 10 years. There are certainly other experts out there who argue with the urologists about that, and the situation is not clear. The reason is that the guidelines are based on retrospective studies, and the critics will accept only randomized studies. So far there has only been one good randomized study done in Sweden, and that doesn't really answer the question. There is a large study being done in the US but the results won't be in for a while. Also, the US study only follows the patients for 12 years, which is certainly not long enough to answer questions about how to treat men in the 40s and 50s.
In any case, despite your qualifications in agricultural economics, I doubt if you are in a position to come to a firm conclusion about the current ongoing research. And suggesting that a random layman without any expertise can do better than his doctor at evaluating the evidence is nonsense.
>>Justin, what are your prostate cancer stats? When where you diagnosed? >>What was your PSA? Did you have any treatment? What are they now? [quoted text clipped - 40 lines] >> >>>>THE $$$ RULES. TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!! c palmer - 26 Jul 2004 20:56 GMT hi leonard - well said.
~ curtis
knowledge is power - growing old is mandatory - growing wise is optional "Many more men die with prostate cancer than of it. Growing old is invariably fatal. Prostate cancer is only sometimes so."
Canada Bob - 26 Jul 2004 15:06 GMT Hi Justin...
> Cut your prostate out, get impotent, use a pump, insert > remove catheters...etc. Oh, forgot the lupron injections, > make sure you lose all semblence of manhood, internal, > as well as external. I hear what you say, and I feel much the same way, it's a hell of a situation to be in. Maybe we can chat {outside the group if you wish} about HIFU and Cryo, I think that HIFU offers the lesser of all the evils and I wish that I could have had the treatment but I have a calcium build up in my prostate that would interfere with the efficacy of the ultrasound waves, so Plan B for me is now Cryo, but it looks like I will have to wait a further 10 weeks before I can get that treatment, sigh.
Drop me an e-mail anytime Justin, I hear what you say and I know where it's coming from.
One other comment though, most of us in this group are already in a lousy place to be, maybe we express ourselves in a manner that reflects the emotional stress that are now subjected to, but for the most part the "support" in here outweighs the less considerate comments.
I know that we can't and won't all agree on how we see the world or our condition and the treatment options that we go for, but the least we can do for folks in the same lousy situation that we are in is to be try to be understanding {relate to their stress} and be as considerate and compassionate as we can be, times are hard enough for us all.
Canada Bob.
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