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Robert Burns - 16 Jun 2004 05:21 GMT
Hello
I'm 49 and went to the Dr for a physical.  He found my PSA was 9 up from 2.0
two years earlier.  I had the biopsy 2 weeks ago and the Urologist told me
that I have prostate cancer.  Gleason 3+3.  found in both sides of the
prostate.  His recommendation was radical prostectomy.  Man it was a shock.
Still, I'm relatively young and I have two kids to raise so I'll take
whatever course is needed to live a long time.  I'm healthy otherwise and
fit.  I race bicycles competitively with men 10 yrs younger.  If any of you
have any thoughts I'd love to hear 'em.  I'd especially like to hear of
successful nerve sparing surgeons in the LA area.  I have an apt in three
weeks to see a Urologist at City of Hope.  I'm keen on a second opinion.  I
also ordered Dr Walsh's book for a primer.

thanks

Bob
Cpflanagan3 - 16 Jun 2004 06:56 GMT
Bob:

I think that you've come to the right place...well, at least one of them.  I'm
57, and was diagnosed a month ago.  Since then, I've been doing a lot of
reading and web browsing.  The book my urologist gave me was way out-of-date,
so I bought Walsh's book and another by Blasko.  One seems to favor surgery,
the other seeds.  So, I was able to play one off the other, by reading their
biases, between the lines, and contrasting their approaches.

I also made additional Dr. appointments.  So far, I've seen two urologists, a
radiation oncologist, and a robotic surgeon (got him through a referral from
this group).

I also got some really good general info from the Prostate Cancer Research
Institute newsletters (available as ".pdf" files at "www.pcri.org").

I'm sure that some of the "older" members of this group will be able to steer
you onto even more good info.  I think that one of the keys to a successful
treatment is knowledge.  Although my treatment (laprascopic robotic RP) isn't
schedule until next month, I'm still looking.  When I go in, I will be sure
that I've done everything I can to insure that the treatment I've selected, is
the best one for me.  I'm the only one who can decide this.

It's kind of like jumping with one parachute...you want it packed right!

Chuck
Robert Burns - 18 Jun 2004 02:00 GMT
My God;
You guys are a god send.  I didn't know how scared I was, and still am.  But
I will overcome!!  thanks

Update part:

I am going to City of Hope on July 8 to see a Dr. Kolvachi I think it is...
Getting a second opinion.  Also gonna see a radiation oncologist.  But from
what I have gathered so far it seems that surgery is the right answer.  I
want this gone!  Anyway, I spoke with  the Urologist I saw first and he said
he'd done 200-300 of these procedures.  He's been in practice 30 yrs.  Seems
a small # to me.  Spoke of how we can do a nerve sparing procedure but I
wasn't clear how successful he'd been with men my age so I'm gonna keep
looking.

final note:
Have any of you figured out how/if to tell kids about this thing?  My boys
are 8 & 11.  My Mom died of lung cancer last year, it wsa very ugly.  I am
afraid to tell them that I have cancer because I know that I will survive
this but they will be very scared.  Any experience to share?

Bob
Al - 18 Jun 2004 02:53 GMT
<snip>

*final note:
*Have any of you figured out how/if to tell kids about this thing?  My
boys
*are 8 & 11.  My Mom died of lung cancer last year, it wsa very ugly.
I am
*afraid to tell them that I have cancer because I know that I will
survive
*this but they will be very scared.  Any experience to share?

Not with children, since my ex took off with my son and haven't been
seen in 10 yrs. now. But my family took it pretty well. That is my
parents, bro, and sisters. They didn't seem at all thrown off. I'm
guessing that they figured since I had a low back operation at age 40,
I'd waltz through this like before. I really don't know. It would
seem, however, that your boys just may take this pretty hard. Have you
talked to any of your family yet?

Al
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MH - 18 Jun 2004 03:16 GMT
Hi, Bob....

My kids are both grown... early 20s.... but I waited until I had a definite
plan of treatment lined up before I told them.  I wanted them to know that I
had researched and decided on what I thought was the best way to get rid of
the cancer!

Your kids will need to know, eventually.... but I think you will handle
telling them better when you have more information, yourself.   Just my
opinion...

Take care.... good luck!

MikeH

> Have any of you figured out how/if to tell kids about this thing?  My boys
> are 8 & 11.  My Mom died of lung cancer last year, it wsa very ugly.  I am
> afraid to tell them that I have cancer because I know that I will survive
> this but they will be very scared.  Any experience to share?
Sandy - 18 Jun 2004 14:40 GMT
> > Have any of you figured out how/if to tell kids about this thing?  My boys
> > are 8 & 11.  My Mom died of lung cancer last year, it wsa very ugly.  I am
> > afraid to tell them that I have cancer because I know that I will survive
> > this but they will be very scared.  Any experience to share?

My now 60 year old husband was diagnosed with advanced prostate cancer
1 year ago.  We have an 8 year old daughter together (I am 43 years
old).  I also didn't quite know how to deal with telling our daughter.
She didn't even know the meaning of cancer prior to her daddy being
diagnosed.  There are lots of great books out there that deal with
this subject.  One book in particular that I recommend is called "When
a Parent has CA: A quide to caring for your children by Dr. Wendy
Schessel Harpham."  This doctor had 2 young children at the time she
herself was diagnosed with cancer.  She also includes a companion book
called "Becky and the Worry Cup" which is appropriate for children 3
to 13.  I read the companion book with my daughter and it was great
because it really brought everything down to her level and opened the
door for her to ask questions.

I think one of the biggest things I got out of the book is to be open
and honest with your children.  The fact that they recently saw a
loved one in your family die from cancer will only heighten their
fear.  I think it is very important that they hear from you that you
are not going to die and that you will be ok.  Remember, children have
very wild imaginations - they will think and worry that things are
much worse than they actually are so I think it is important to keep
that communication open with them.

All the best to you and your family,

Sandi
Lillian - 18 Jun 2004 21:45 GMT
> > > Have any of you figured out how/if to tell kids about this thing?  My boys
> > > are 8 & 11.  My Mom died of lung cancer last year, it wsa very ugly.  I am
> > > afraid to tell them that I have cancer because I know that I will survive
> > > this but they will be very scared.  Any experience to share?

My now 15 year old son saw his grandfather whom he was very close to
die of liver cancer.  It was very upsetting for him when his father
got prostate cancer.  Kids usually know when something is up in our
case the incompetent receptionist and the doctors office left a
message with him about his dad's biopsy.  Even though he is older than
your children, we needed to explain to him that all cancers are
different and that in his dad's case it was early with exceptional
odds that all would be ok.

Good luck to you.  This is a great place to hang out for help and
encouragement.
Lillian
Robert Burns - 19 Jun 2004 04:39 GMT
thanks to Lillian and Sandy and all of the rest of you.  I still don't know
how to talk to my kids but I will figure it out.

Bob
Steve Kramer - 19 Jun 2004 11:51 GMT
Bob, the hardest thing about this disease, IMHO, is telling those around
you.  First telling them that you got it (I can still remember my wife's
face) and then keeping them, lots of them, advised throughout the months and
the years, especially if it's a roller coaster like mine.

At 8 and 11, your sons are going to believe 100% of what you say, if you can
keep your wife and yourself composed.  I was just out of high school when my
parents told us about my dad and I still believed it when they said he would
be cured, and later when he said he was cured.  Of course that didn't last
long for me through his sevral relapses, but I make my point.

In this case, you have something going for you... the truth!  Since they are
still young, I think I'd start out with the process you've been through and
immediately put them at ease, e.g., "Kids, I have some news.  We thought it
was really bad news, but I now know it's not so bad.  And first of all, I
want you to know that I don't have anything like your grandma had."   (this
part was harder for me because I have exactly what my father had).  Then
make the various points:

There are hundreds of types of cancers and this is not lung cancer.
You have a slow growing and cureable cancer.
Your Gleason Score confirms that your cancer is not as aggressive as it
might have been.
Your PSA is single-digit.
You didn't give us a Stage, but I am assuming there is no cancer outside
your prostate.
When the doctor goes in and takes the prostate, the cancer goes with it.

That's it.  That's all they need to know for now.  Answer their questions.
But, I bet there won't be many.

The most important part is display a confidence in what you are saying.  It
will go just fine.  Kids have a natural tendency to not consider the
realistic possibilities of life.

Signature

Prostate Cancer Survivor (so far), not a doctor
PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46
Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c
RRP 12/15/2000
PSA  .1  .1  .1  .27  .37  .75
EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47
PSA  .34 .22 .15 .21 .32
Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48
HTbegins 07/21/2003 @ 48
PSA  .07 .05
Lupron 7/03, 8/03, 12/03, 4/04

> My God;
> You guys are a god send.  I didn't know how scared I was, and still am.  But
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>
> Bob
Chuck McClellan - 19 Jun 2004 16:48 GMT
> Bob, the hardest thing about this disease, IMHO, is telling those around
> you.  First telling them that you got it (I can still remember my wife's
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>
> Steve,
For what it's worth when I told my sons about it I advised them that
there are about six ot seven types of cancer that can invade the
prostate and that i had adenocarcinoma which is the lowest of them all
on the aggression scale.  I was shooting off my mouth to diminish the
shock.  How was I supposed to know that I was somewhat accurate in my
statement.  The other thing I used came from my uroligist and it was
very significant to me in how I handled the news myself.  He said that
"you have A cancer" instead of "you have cancer".  Somehow this
'localized' the cancer in my mind and made it sound even more
controllable.  The latter way of stating it would imply it was running
rampnat through my whole body.  I mentioned this to the docotr once
and he just smiled.  It was a practiced and calculated statement he
used and I thanked him for it.  It helped my family and it helped me.

Chuck McClellan
> > My God;
> > You guys are a god send.  I didn't know how scared I was, and still am.
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> >
> > Bob
Robert Burns - 23 Jun 2004 04:59 GMT
Thanks guys
I will use the info you guys have provided to plan how to tell my boys.  I
may start sleeping again yet...
Bob
jhlms - 19 Jun 2004 22:19 GMT
Robert,
I can't speak to your present problem (8-10 yr. old kids)....mine are 19 &
21.  However, after mulling over your predicament, I reflected upon the days
when my li'l monsters were 8 &10.
Kids these days are so resilient, and much, much wiser than we were at their
age.  Not to say they are not naive, but they can tell when they're being
zoomed.  Be honest and straightforward.....but don't give them more
information than they can handle all at once. They will probably take in the
info, and then go play a video game.  BUT, expect one (or both) to ask
questions once they've had time to digest it.
Personal experience, Robert.  Ain't parenthood a bitch!!?????   LOL
jh
> My God;
> You guys are a god send.  I didn't know how scared I was, and still am.  But
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>
> Bob
MH - 16 Jun 2004 11:25 GMT
Hi, Bob.... Welcome to the club nobody wants to join.
I was 51 when diagnosed in Sept. of 02.  I had a laparoscopic radical
prostatectomy in Nov of that same year.  It was the right choice *for me*.
The main thing right now is to do what you are doing.... read, read, read...
and ask questions.  It's not the end of the world... there *is* life after
PCa!!  I still remember the gut-wrenching feeling I had when I was told I
had cancer, though.... not words anyone is really every prepared for.
Another good site for information is www.phoenix5.org .  Lots of great stuff
about anything prostate related!

Take a deep breath..... and just keep looking around.  A second opinion is
always good.... or a third!  Honestly, at 49, the scales are going to be
heavily tipped in favor of surgery.  Nerve sparing is a possibility.  There
are pros and cons to any type of treatment.  For info about LRP look at
www.krongrad-urology.com .
For seed implant therapy combined with radiation, look at www.rcog.com .

Take care, guy... and feel free to ask all the questions you want.

MikeH

> Hello
> I'm 49 and went to the Dr for a physical.  He found my PSA was 9 up from 2.0
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>
> Bob
Steve Kramer - 16 Jun 2004 11:49 GMT
Well, Bob, you certainly came to the right place.  Not only do we have some
of the more foremost prostate cancer patients in the world here, we have a
few avid cyclists.  I'm assuming their cycling experience is important to
you as well.

To begin with, you should get a second opinion, and maybe a third.  In your
case, being 49, surgery is considered the only viable solution.  But, there
is three types of prostate surgery, which you will read in Walsh, and one of
them is now very successfully performed in many places with a robot.  But,
possibly more importantly, you should be looking for the best prostate
surgeon you can get.  There is probably little difference between most
surgeons and yanking the prostate out, but there is a remarkable difference
in surgeons who can do so, get all the cancer, and still leave your nerves
for erections.

Selecting the treatment plan and surgeon is the hardest thing with this
cancer.  Once done, you can forget it.  The operation is easy for the
patient.  The recouperation is over before you know it, though the catheter
can be an infringement on personal liberties.  Becoming potent and continent
will try your patiences, but after a couple of years, you look back and
think, "that wasn't so bad."

Signature

Prostate Cancer Survivor (so far), not a doctor
PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46
Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c
RRP 12/15/2000
PSA  .1  .1  .1  .27  .37  .75
EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47
PSA  .34 .22 .15 .21 .32
Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48
HTbegins 07/21/2003 @ 48
PSA  .07 .05
Lupron 7/03, 8/03, 12/03, 4/04

> Hello
> I'm 49 and went to the Dr for a physical.  He found my PSA was 9 up from 2.0
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>
> Bob
Vernon - 16 Jun 2004 19:11 GMT
Steve

What is the relationship between age and treatment by surgery?

Vernon

> Well, Bob, you certainly came to the right place.  Not only do we have some
> of the more foremost prostate cancer patients in the world here, we have a
[quoted text clipped - 38 lines]
> >
> > Bob
Steve Kramer - 17 Jun 2004 00:14 GMT
Most people who get the cancer in their 40s have it so aggressively that
taking the prostate out is their only real choice.  Out of the numerous
people here who have checked in over the three years that I've been here,
only one under the age of 52 chose another option (albeit, apparently
successfully).  Your real decision years are, IMHO, about 55 to 70, where
everything is wide open.  After 70, you have to start worrying about whether
the body can take major surgery or if it is prudent.

I'm not a doctor and I don't intend to sound as matter-of-fact as I
apparently do sometimes.  And, of course, the ages are flexible to withing a
few years, but that's about the size of it.

Naturally, nuclear medicine, chemo-cocktails, robotic LRP, and other
advancements are going to just make a mess out of the decision-making in the
not to distant future.  Elderly persons can handle LRP better than RRP.
Cocktails or aggressive chemo treatments might better benefit younger
patients.  But, right now, that's my story and I'm sticking to it.

Signature

Prostate Cancer Survivor (so far), not a doctor
PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46
Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c
RRP 12/15/2000
PSA  .1  .1  .1  .27  .37  .75
EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47
PSA  .34 .22 .15 .21 .32
Erection 05/12/2003 @ 48
HTbegins 07/21/2003 @ 48
PSA  .07 .05
Lupron 7/03, 8/03, 12/03, 4/04

> Steve
>
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> > >
> > > Bob
jimhoney - 16 Jun 2004 13:09 GMT
Welcome Bob.

Dr. Walsh's book was my guide.  It answered pretty much all my questions.

I'm not a doctor, but you should plan on being around for your grandchildren
too.  You can see how favorable the chances are that you've caught this
disease in time by consulting the Partin Tables in that book or online at

http://urology.jhu.edu/prostate/partintables.php

Sorry I can't recommend a surgeon, I'm on the east coast.

jimhoney
standard RRP age 52, cured, no aftereffects
Ron Carter - 16 Jun 2004 14:57 GMT
I can only second what Chuck said, Bob.  Take some time to learn about
your options, and when you do decide on a treatment, be sure you pick
the most experienced, highly-qualified practitioner you can find.
Another thing--you should definitely get a second reading on your
biopsy slides.  The Gleason score is critical in determining which
options may or may not be best for you.

I wish you the best.  I was diagnosed back in January at age 62 with a
Gleason of 3+3, PSA of 4.6, and stage T1c.  Eventually, I decided on
seeds, although I do think surgery would have been just as effective.
For me, it was more a matter of deciding on which side effects I
wanted to risk and the fact that I found a radiation oncologist in
whom I had a great deal of confidence.

Ron Carter

> Hello
> I'm 49 and went to the Dr for a physical.  He found my PSA was 9 up from 2.0
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>
> Bob
Ed Faulk - 16 Jun 2004 16:48 GMT
Bob,

Welcome to the club. I had my surgery (radical, not laproscopic) five weeks
ago. I'm back at work, have 95% urinary control and am able to achieve
erections sufficient for penetration. In short, I'm nearly back to normal.

In the LA area I would recommend my urologist, Dr. Alan Weinberg. He was
trained by Dr. Walsh and does 100s of these procedures a month. I never had
a moment's pain following the surgery, and everything went according to plan
(except that I had positive margins -- but the Dr. still thinks he got all
the cancer).

Ed

> Hello
> I'm 49 and went to the Dr for a physical.  He found my PSA was 9 up from 2.0
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>
> Bob
pennskeCT - 16 Jun 2004 19:15 GMT
Bob-
i posted a comment to your biking question in the other newsgroup...Bill

> Hello
> I'm 49 and went to the Dr for a physical.  He found my PSA was 9 up from 2.0
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>
> Bob
tomrp - 16 Jun 2004 20:35 GMT
Hi Bob,

Glad you found this newsgroup, you'll get a lot of helpful advice
about everything you didn't really ever thought you'd be asking about.
I was 49 when I was diagnosed, Gleason 7 4+3, 5 of the 6 biopsy
samples had cancer. So I had my surgery September, 2002. I have always
been into cycling, though not competitevly, just commuting and club
rides, centuries, etc. I do get in a few miles every year,
7,000-10,000. After surgery I was back on the bike in 3 weeks. Make
sure you find a good surgeon that can do nerve sparing, I'm still
waiting for erectile function to return, may be a long wait, I had no
nerve sparing. It was decided that since my Gleason number was so high
that it best be all cut out.

Anyways, I'm sure you'll do great, being in good physical shape helps.
I was continent within 2 weeks of the catheter removal, I suspect
you'll make a complete and fast recovery.

Take care and ask a lot of questions,

Tom
Portland, Oregon

> Hello
> I'm 49 and went to the Dr for a physical.  He found my PSA was 9 up from 2.0
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>
> Bob
Glenn Enoch - 17 Jun 2004 00:01 GMT
I am 46 and was diagnosed in April.  It came as a bit of a shock,
despite having had prostate trouble of other kinds for years, and I
had a steep learning curve.  For a second opinion, I went to a
radiation oncologist.  I think it was important to look at both types
of treatment (or all three, considering seed implantation and external
radiation as separate options).

My diagnosing Urologist set up the appointment for me.  He said that
at this time, for someone with my numbers, radiation would be equally
effective as surgery in treating my cancer.  I never found anything to
prove him false.

I found an interesting paper, "Monotherapy for stage T1-T2 prostate
cancer: radical prostatectomy, external beam radiotherapy, or
permanent seed implantation."  It was in Radiotherapy and Oncology 71
(2004) 29-33.  It's easy to find on the web.

The article begins with: "Treatment of localized prostate cancer
remains controversial as a result of the lack of conclusive
well-controlled or randomized studies comparing outcomes..." and ends
with: "Treatment selection does not affect biochemical outcome.
Expected biochemical outcomes are generally excellent, regardless of
treatment choice from this patient population."

Eventually I decided on surgery, for a variety of reasons (you can
find my post on this, if you're curious).  However, it was important
to me that I looked at all sides of the question before making up my
mind.

The New York Times had an article on breast cancer yesterday.  This
quote, from Dr. Steven Katz of the University of Michigan med school,
really applied to my situation: "There are no right or wrong
decisions," Dr. Katz said. "There are just informed decisions."

Age 46
PSA: 1.4 (12/2000), 2.0 (7/2002), 10.3 (3/2/04), 6.0 (retest 3/18/04)
Biopsy 4/5/04 cancer in 10% of one core
Gleason 6 (3+3); clinical stage T1c
Bone Scan negative
RRP scheduled 7-27-04

> Hello
> I'm 49 and went to the Dr for a physical.  He found my PSA was 9 up from 2.0
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>
> Bob
kastons - 17 Jun 2004 00:17 GMT
Bob -

Welcome to the club nobody wants to be a member of.  If it makes you feel
any better, I'm 47 - was diangosed in March and am having RRP tomorrow at
Sloane Kettering in NYC.  This group has been very supportive.  My brother
(51) was also diagnosed and had his prostate removed 3 weeks ago.  His
comment to me was that he hopes I have as esay a time of it as he has.
Sure, there's going to be the anxiety and wondering.  Find a doctor that you
are comfortable with and go from there.  Everyne has told me that I'll be
fine - I'll be posting my progress to the group.  Good luck to you.

Sandy K.
Age 47 2/04 PSA 4.9
Biopsy 3/5/04 - 9 of 10 cores malignant
Gleason 3+3 = 6, T2b
RRP = 6/17/04

> Hello
> I'm 49 and went to the Dr for a physical.  He found my PSA was 9 up from 2.0
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>
> Bob
Al - 17 Jun 2004 00:25 GMT
*Hello
*I'm 49 and went to the Dr for a physical.  He found my PSA was 9 up
from 2.0
*two years earlier.  I had the biopsy 2 weeks ago and the Urologist
told me
*that I have prostate cancer.  Gleason 3+3.  found in both sides of
the
*prostate.  His recommendation was radical prostectomy.  Man it was a
shock.

<snip>

Greetings, you've come to the right place. I had RRP last yr., at age
42, was diagnosed at 41. I'm sure it's been said already...read up on
your procedure that you chose. I had nerve sparing and have been
thoroughly pleased. It's frightening as hell to learn of PCa, but once
the operation is completed, and they dissect a few lymph nodes, and
you hear them say they were negative, enjoy the knowledge that it's
out of your body. Have you had a bone scan yet?

Al

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Fernando - 17 Jun 2004 03:13 GMT
Hello Robert...

As always, you have received excellent inputs from all that have
answered..this group is just great.....I live in Corona...just 45 miles east
of LA and I work in Burbank.....I was 49 when Dx'd and had RP here in
Corona....my Doctor advised me that he was going to be very aggressive in
the RRP and that he was going to try to do partial Nerve sparring.......

Results have been great even with only one nerve bundle spared...My PSA was
5.2 and initial Gleason of 8 but later changed (after RRP) to 6.....I just
got my 5 year pot op PA and it is still <.1  I am active here in the Corona
area in helping newly diagnosed men...I would be more than happy to chat
with you and give you more info on my story....you can e-mail direct to
kp4dx@amsat.org

The best to you and yours,

Fernando

> Hello
> I'm 49 and went to the Dr for a physical.  He found my PSA was 9 up from 2.0
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>
> Bob
Outlivecancer - 17 Jun 2004 09:50 GMT
Hi Robert,
welcome to the club,
the replies have been right on and Walsh's
book is great for info, note the part about using DR'S familiar with the
treatment procedure and a facility that is used frequently.Make sure that your
insurence
covers it and also use the system to get the best treatment.I found that hiring
my own on staff DR.to be on call to my family and keep a 24/7 overview of the
surgeon and staff was helpful,as a doublecheck and that the other tests like
bone,liver,heart,lung we're helpful in making a recovery plan that has me in
better shape than before i.e. no smoking,low chol.,etc.A truly life changing
and challenging experience,unasked for
but not unanswered,I always like to think of how my grandkids will know me and
may they know you too,your grandkids that is.Take Care.
jhlms - 18 Jun 2004 02:39 GMT
Hi, Bob..........
Me?  52, diagnosed 12/03. Pre-op Gleason was 3+3=6.
Post-op Gleason was 3+4=7
Had Robotic LRP on 3/26/04, and was back to work 3 weeks after surgery.
Today, 100% continence, but only about 5% erectile function (HBP meds
resulting in ED prior to surgery).  There *IS* life after PCa.
You're young and in an area that can offer a plethora of resource in this
struggle.  Take advantage of the time available to you.  The diagnosis is
not a death knoll....only a warning flag that you must heed.

jh
> Hello
> I'm 49 and went to the Dr for a physical.  He found my PSA was 9 up from 2.0
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> Bob
 
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